4 Ways Men Want You to Show Them Love

What is female happiness

Every girl has her own understanding of happiness. But when the plan comes true, and fate turns out as desired, the woman feels happy. There are many desires and aspirations, so there is no exact recipe for female happiness.

Many are repelled by the fact that a woman’s mission is to create a family, give birth and raise children. Being married, you can experience the full happiness and joy of motherhood. However, many do not agree with this. Not all women want to get married, have children, or build a family nest.

There are different answers to the question of what is needed for female happiness:

a loved one is nearby;
good health for yourself and your loved ones;
healthy children;
successful career;
a cozy family nest;
money and a prosperous life;
support, attention, care of the husband;
regular sex and satisfaction in bed;
gifts, surprises;
strong and stable relationships;
the presence of love and mutual understanding;
career growth and financial independence;
the opportunity to live as you want, and not as you should;
absence of enemies, ill-wishers.

The list can be continued endlessly, but it is worth highlighting a few points: some women need inner peace to be happy, others need money, independence, financial freedom. The world is changing, and along with it, the desires of modern girls are changing.

What happy women look like

When a girl shines, smiles and walks with a confident gait, they say that she is happy. You can determine that a woman feels good next to a man by the following signs:

she wants to be close;
pressed to the chest;
tries to please and do something nice for a loved one;
in good spirits;
feels great, doesn’t get angry, doesn’t look for reasons to quarrel;
smiles and sings when no one is listening;
loves hugs and kisses, does not refuse sex, citing a difficult day and a headache;
talks about everything;
prepares your favorite dishes and serves tea with pleasure;
does not imitate orgasm, but enjoys sex;
supports her man, says compliments, nice words.

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A happy woman is happy with her life, so she quarrels less often, does not enter into conflict and does not get irritated over trifles. Inner harmony manifests itself in external beauty. The girl is attractive, seductive, mysterious, but inaccessible to other guys.

Portrait of an ideal companion: what kind of wife do men want, what kind of husband do women want?

Results – 2020. What kind of wife do men want, what kind of husband do women want? Analysis of 300 marriage agency profiles

We decided to publish a “portrait” of an ideal companion. We analyzed the requests and profiles of more than 300 girls who want to find a husband, and the wishes of more than 50 male clients. Everything was calculated, analyzed and conclusions were drawn. Enjoy!

The age of girls who are actively looking for a husband.

As you can see, 62% of girls who are actively looking for a husband, including those who contact the agency, are between the ages of 28 and 34.

Education for girls who are actively looking for a husband.

As can be seen from the graph, most of the girls have higher education.

Previous marriages

Qualities that girls want to see in their future husband.

It should be noted that no one indicates financial well-being in the questionnaire. But, probably, because the girls initially know that our clients are doing well financially. Or they are afraid to fall into the “number of greedy girls” who will be eliminated and will not get into the school and the list of brides. As for the remaining qualities, according to the conditions of the questionnaire, they can write THREE qualities that they would like to see. And therefore, for every second girl, intelligence, intelligence and education lead, and the other two have other of the listed qualities.

The saddest thing is when you see in a bunch of wishes, for example: intelligence, charm and a sense of humor. Or: Resourcefulness, humor and leadership. It seems that the girl wants to get unmarried, but to find a player in KVN. It’s a pity when a girl doesn’t consider kindness, reliability or honesty as mandatory qualities. The most striking thing is that in none of the 300 questionnaires was the quality found - Loyalty! In my opinion, loyalty, or rather its absence - infidelity, is a quality that nullifies all its other advantages. It's like multiplying by zero - you end up with zero. Because, even if he is smart, cheerful, charming and no matter how kind, but if he is unfaithful and has an uneven breath for every beauty, then what is the point in his other qualities? He automatically becomes unreliable, dishonest, and life with him is unlikely to be happy.

Girls, please, when choosing a partner, do it, remembering that you are choosing him for life, one from whom you can safely have children and build a family. If he initially has rotten ideas about life, you don’t have to think that he will change, that his attitude towards you or towards life will change. And, in no case, do not think that his money, his popularity, or his beauty (this happens!) can replace his normal human qualities. This is wrong!

Look for yourself, first of all, a PERSON with whom you will live your whole life and have children from him.

Qualities that girls are not ready to tolerate from their man, under any circumstances.

The leaders among the unacceptable qualities in a future spouse for women are lies, anger, and greed. Next, selfishness and irresponsibility, and then other qualities. Again, not a word about infidelity or betrayal, as well as about social status.

Now comes the fun part!

What do they want from men?

The desires of a girl in the status of a bride and a wife are significantly different. In the first case, you want a sea of attention, affection and tenderness, in the second - stability, confidence, support. At the same time, there are moments that are relevant for women in any status.

Emotional connection

Without emotions, relationships are meaningless. Girls who are sensitive by nature require constant nourishment. When the chosen one understands that she is needed and valued, she is ready to move mountains to make her partner happy. Emotional connection provides support in difficult and happy moments.

Admiration and compliments

Every girl wants to feel like she is the one and only. Compliments and admiration are needed for:

increasing self-esteem;
improving well-being;
attracting attention;
reminders of warm feelings;
achievement assessments;
normalization of the psycho-emotional background.

At the same time, you need to understand that women value “smart” compliments and sincere admiration. If the phrase is inappropriate or feels false, the effect will be the opposite.

Love and devotion

When a woman wants to marry a man, she thinks a lot before making an important decision. He hopes that the chosen one takes the union just as seriously. The main goal is to love and be loved. Only in this case can you achieve inner harmony and feel the signs of human happiness. Girls value loyalty and remain faithful to a guy.

Friendship and fun

There are no friendly relations between representatives of different sexes. Relationships are built on the fact that someone likes someone. Such a relationship either ends or turns into love. In most cases, a woman, making friends with a man, pursues selfish goals. You can go with a friend to have fun, pass the time, and get all kinds of help. The girl doesn’t mind having a friend nearby “in the wings.” You can cry to him, complain, and get practical advice from him.

Intimacy

Sex for a woman is a manifestation and proof of feelings. Intimate intimacy means new positive emotions, relaxation, peace of mind and inner balance. Regular sex life makes women healthy, balanced, and happy.

During sex, hormonal levels change. As a result, the woman’s mood improves and she experiences a surge of strength and performance. Intimacy is needed for psycho-emotional relief and maintaining normal hormonal levels. A caring husband or boyfriend always makes sure that his chosen one has pleasure during sex.

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Protection and support

Men want support, stability and confidence in the future. When this is not the case, the question arises: “Why do we need such a chosen one?”

Modern young people are slowly abdicating responsibility and “joining” strong women who can stand up for themselves and also support their lover morally, physically and financially. This scenario is also possible, but deep down, even a strong and independent woman expects protection and support from a man.

Top 12 qualities that men want to see in their future wife

What does it take to motivate a man to marry you? At a minimum, have the following 12 qualities: 1. Family-oriented.

And the point is not only that a woman wants to start her own family - the moment with children is not necessary, it depends on the man. The point is that she should value her family and value her man’s parents.

2. Kind heart.

This is a caring, loving woman who does little things for her man - just because she loves. Which radiates heat. And who is kind not only to her loved ones, but also to strangers.

3. Intellectually developed.

The ability to have an interesting conversation about topics with meaning is what helps create a real connection.

4. Understanding and sympathy.

Being compassionate, supportive and encouraging is an important part of building a successful relationship. Life is full of difficulties, especially for married couples. And sometimes a man needs a shoulder of support too.

5. Ambition.

In addition to supporting a man's goals and dreams, it is important to have your own ambitions. A mature woman has an idea of what she wants in life, and she goes after it, whether she's in a relationship or not.

6. Consistency.

A man doesn't want to fall in love with one woman, only to later realize that you were only pretending to be liked, but in reality you are completely different. He wants to understand what family life with you can be like.

7. Willingness to make an effort.

Men love to win a woman, but they also want to see your efforts. This should be demonstrated at a minimum by trying to look good, no matter how many years you have been together.

8. Same values.

It doesn't matter how attracted you are to someone or how well you get along if your values don't align. This concerns what you consider important in life, what you believe in, how you treat people and yourself.

9. Physical attractiveness.

You can't go anywhere without this. But everyone has their own taste and preferences. So there are no beauty standards. But without physical attraction it’s still nowhere.

10. Friendliness.

A man wants his woman to get along with his friends and to be able to find a common language with the person he wants to introduce her to. He doesn't want to worry about her throwing off at a family dinner at his parents' house or at a corporate event.

11. Sense of humor.

It lifts your spirits, creates memorable moments, and helps you overcome difficulties.

12. Love and expression of feelings.

Taking his hand, hugging him, just being physically close. Don't leave his side when he shows his feelings. This symbolizes connection.

Top 12 qualities that men want to see in their future wife