Secret desires of men in bed
Relationships are based on the ability of partners to guess desires
each other.
And sex is no exception. Your chosen one is a tireless lover, moreover, not without charm, a sense of humor, etc. But do you know what he wants in bed
?
The first desire is to see
Of course, we lovely ladies want to see it too. Moreover, we want to not just look, but admire our partner: slanted shoulders, a flat stomach, a hawk-like gaze, white teeth, long fingers, a strong-willed chin and - sheer nonsense! - Height is about two meters. But (and this is a distinctive feature of women) we are ready to forget about this trifle for the sake of a walk under the moon and a romantic conversation. And the man
always wants to see.
Our body, our reaction. So what's the difficulty? The difficulty is that for a man,
visual stimulation is much more important than gentle touches and kind words. Simply put, holding his gaze for a second on rounded hips covered in trousers, he mentally already treated their owner to a cocktail, stroked her knee under the table, hailed a taxi, opened the doors, took off his boots, undressed her and made sure that naked she was even more exciting. The whole novel flashed before his eyes in one second! Naturally, the gentleman is already burning with passion. And during this time the woman only managed to thank him for the lit cigarette. She didn't even remember sex. After all, she has a whole evening ahead of her so that, having heard enough erotic compliments, she will have time to get aroused just in time for the moment when they find themselves on the threshold of the bedroom.
Output: Male
believes that there is nothing more exciting than the sight of a woman inflamed with passion? Does he want to have sex in the light? Does he need a porn movie in reality? Let's not interfere with his wishes. Place your loved one in a comfortable chair, pour a glass of wine (or whatever he likes best), light candles and perform a strip dance. The conditions are the same as in strip clubs: he has the right to touch you only if you allow him. Before doing this, don’t be too lazy to attend courses where they teach belly dancing - they are now available in almost all fitness centers. This is also good for health: since ancient times it has been known that such dances have a very beneficial effect on a woman’s sexuality. As a result, you have time to get ready for sex, and he has time to enjoy the erotic spectacle.
The second desire is to follow instinct
Healthy man
constantly wants sex.
This is his biological need. Unlike us, the stronger half does not experience cyclical hormonal changes that help “reset” accumulated arousal if it could not be relieved in another way. Therefore, a man
needs sex like air. Otherwise, he is literally ready to climb the wall. Moreover, to drive him into a frenzy, you don’t need to wait years or months—a few days are quite enough (it is known that in the Middle Ages, monks killed their flesh around the clock, mercilessly scourging themselves). In short, when the issue of sex is so acute, there is no time for love.
Difficulty: The fact of the matter is that we ourselves bring our partners to a state where they are no longer interested in loving outpourings. After several days of abstinence, the need for sex is so strong that there is not enough patience for long-term caresses, there is no strength to wait until we are “ready”. Everything happens quickly: the woman doesn’t even have time to feel anything before it’s all over. She feels deceived, almost humiliated. Man
he is perplexed: is something wrong again?
There is only one way out: for sex to bring you only joy, you need to... do it more often. Firstly, a somewhat jaded loved one will be more patient and attentive. He will also need a long love foreplay in order to be properly aroused. Secondly, both of you will soon develop a kind of reflex to these pleasant activities. Are you used to eating three times a day? This means that, most likely, you will feel bad without dinner. It's the same with sex. But the most important thing is that it’s impossible to overdo it here: the more sex, the fewer calories!
The third desire is to take the initiative into your own hands.
It seems that this is not at all characteristic of male psychology. But the fact remains a fact. Happy men
they play on the stock exchange, stand for hours in traffic jams, and in the evening they want one thing - to relax. It’s not that they turned into amorphous creatures - they just became lethargic in sex.
Difficulty: Even feminists feel that the first intimate impulse should come from a man
, - it is he who takes full responsibility for sexual relations.
What if a man
is tired?
He doesn't mind having sex, but doesn't feel like
playing the temperamental macho man. “Let her do everything herself” - these are the thoughts hovering in his head. But the woman expects her partner to take the initiative. This can drag on for days, weeks, months...
Solution: take matters into your own hands! Maybe you will like the role of the queen so much that soon your partner will have to shake things up and carry out a “coup d’etat.” We hope the revolutionary fervor in your bedroom never fades.
Desire number four: to please a woman
At first glance, this desire absolutely contradicts everything said above. Nothing like this! When you are hungry, you pounce on any food. But as soon as you “kill the worm”, you want to add spices and sauces, taste not only hot food, but also a delicious dessert. So do men
. After they no longer have the problem of satisfying sexual hunger by any means, satisfying a “biological need,” the desire to please their partner automatically appears. To be fair, it is worth noting that these good intentions do not always resonate with women.
Difficulty: Men
Those who want to give their beloved maximum pleasure often have to feel their way, like a sapper in a minefield.
Of course, he knows that the sexuality of every woman needs to be “opened” with her own key. But, unfortunately, he cannot determine what is the difference between one and the other, “by eye” or telepathically. Therefore, he acts, focusing on what is pleasant to him, or on what previous partners liked. A woman firmly believes that a good lover will always understand how to give her true pleasure. When this does not happen, he is mentally or even out loudly rewarded with the epithets “clumsy”, “inconsiderate”, “selfish”. And if a man
goes to great lengths to find out her sexual preferences, the woman will most likely refuse to answer, saying that it’s too vulgar.
The solution suggests itself. Speak, shout, explain. Don't be afraid that your request will be shocking or unpleasant. After all, in our age of sexual education, it is difficult to surprise anyone with anything. Surely he has already practiced “something like that” or dreamed of trying it. In addition, since you are under the same blanket, he must now fulfill his maximum program - give you unearthly pleasure. After all, in bed
What he needs is not Zoya Kosmodemyanskaya, who will not reveal the secrets of her body even under pain of death, but a person who is extremely uninhibited.
The fifth desire is to be loved
Male potency
directly related to their emotional state. They also want warmth and constancy (even if they don’t always admit it to themselves and to you).
The complexity is not just one, but two at once. First: representatives of the stronger sex share sex and love. Of course, they want to find the one and only. But at the same time, they are sure that the more partners they had in their lives and the richer their sexual experience, the better they realized themselves as men
.
Second: for some reason we women think that men are
“thick-skinned” and they don’t need romance, tenderness and affection at all.
men
in all respects lose all interest in sex, realizing that they attract women not as individuals, but as sexual objects.
That is why lovers have higher potency than those whose feelings are not affected. Yes, sometimes we want a man
to become something like the latest model of steam iron, on which we can adjust the temperature level and steam power at our own discretion. And if this is impossible, then the entire male sex immediately receives the status of “lusty monkeys.”
The solution is ridiculously banal. Be very attentive and sensitive towards your partner! After all, femininity lies not only in seductive body shapes and impeccable taste in clothes and makeup, but also in the ability to give a loved one warmth and create an atmosphere of home comfort. It is known that emotional harmony will ultimately lead to harmony in bed
.
It seems that in this endeavor, both men
and women finally decided to unite.
Secret desires of men.
The fantasies that men have in their heads can not only surprise, but even amuse a little. Sexologists have identified a whole range of possible desires for men, which they try to carefully hide from others, but do not stop constantly thinking about it.
So, what do men want, what do they dream about, what do they dream about in their wildest fantasies:
They constantly want to get into bed with some celebrity. Even while making love to his wife, he can sometimes imagine that he is squeezing some popular diva in his arms. Sex, where the partner is a famous singer or actress, is the most popular fantasy that hides in his head.
Another fantasy of a man is when he makes love with two women at once. It doesn’t matter to him at all what age or build they are, what nationality or skin color they are - the most important thing is that there are two of them, and they pay attention only to him. Such a male fantasy as having group sex may also fall into this category.
It turns out that men don't like it at all when their partner starts screaming or moaning during sex. This confuses him somewhat, and in some cases may even cause a decline in sexual arousal. When a woman starts screaming and saying: “Pierce me! Don’t stop!”, it seems to the man that he will never be able to satisfy such an insatiable partner in his life. What we see on screen is completely unacceptable in real life.
Some men tend to dream about having sex in front of passers-by. In fact, all these dreams remain in the distant subconscious, because men are owners by nature, and they are unlikely to allow strangers to admire the body of their beloved.
There is an opinion that men are crazy about anal sex. In fact, this is also just a category of their wild imagination. Some men consider such sex to be quite a dirty activity, and even more so they would never offer their beloved woman to engage in this. There are some men who can refuse this even when their partner herself offers it to them. Perhaps they think that later the woman will also offer them to experience such sensations with the help of toys from a sex shop.
By the way, if we talk about sex toys, then men appear as lovers of a wide variety of accessories. For them, sex with a rubber doll will bring more pleasure than with a real partner, and they can also experience an orgasm from just the sight of sexy lingerie in an intimate store. But you shouldn’t think that all these tempters will be able to completely captivate a man’s consciousness; this is just a type of his fantasy.
No matter what wild fantasies come into a man’s head, there is no need to worry about this. It’s one thing to fantasize and quite another to live in real life.
Taste and color!5
It's time for the fairer sex to learn that men have a lascivious look. Watching porn is not a crime for them, and this does not mean that his other half is not interesting to him. Perhaps he noticed something interesting in films of this genre, but nothing more. All guys are different, some are brutal and rude by nature, while others are gentle romantics. Accordingly, they watch different porn.
In most cases, guys prefer porn with lesbians, sadomaso (rough and hard sex), porn with Asian women, group sex, anal and oral sex. Oddly enough, guys really like to watch porn with experienced women, but older men with young girls. The fact is that guys are not experienced in sex, so when watching porn they want to learn something new. But mature men are already tired of their peers with “floating” figures, and accordingly they are drawn to young beauties.
Group sex4
Many men enjoy scenes where women take the initiative. A video where one man tries to satisfy both women greatly excites men. On a psychological level, a guy watching such a scene imagines himself in the place of the main character, and considers himself the “master” of the girls. When alone, men's imagination works wonders, and they awaken to an incredible ability to fantasize. Don’t be surprised if, after watching such porn, your chosen one offers to try everything in real life. Scenes that reflect a certain vulnerability of the partners and the game of power allow you to enjoy the video to the fullest.
