Quite a banal situation. A guy meets a girl and they start a rather sweet and pleasant conversation. After a little time, the guy begins to realize that this girl may be the one he has been looking for for a long time. But before he has time to confess his feelings to her, he learns from her or from mutual friends that this girl has someone else and they are in a serious relationship. Of course, making a girl who already has a boyfriend fall in love with you is quite difficult.
However, as you know, if there is a desire, then nothing is impossible. You may be confused at first. Disappointment and sadness set in. However, this is no reason to despair. It’s only important to know how to make a girl fall in love with you if she has a boyfriend.
Many people give up the idea of winning a girl as soon as they find out that she is already in a relationship. However, you still don’t know the reasons why she is next to this particular guy. Perhaps it’s not a matter of great love, but of banal boredom. Maybe she just doesn’t want to be alone, but she hasn’t been able to find the love of her life yet, so she’s trying a relationship with this guy. He's certainly not a prince, but he's better than nothing.
That's exactly what she can think. It is in your power to show her that you are the same prince, and she no longer needs to waste precious time on that guy. There is also no need to be afraid of ruining relationships. Of course, the public, represented by your friends, may condemn this. But, firstly, you are fighting primarily for your happiness, and you are not at all obligated to think about the other guy. Secondly, if there are truly sincere feelings and love between them, then no matter how hard you try, a girl who loves her boyfriend will not leave for another.
That's all the tips that will help you find out how a girl who has a boyfriend will like you. Do not try to kiss a girl during this period. With the exception of, of course, the banal friendly kiss on the cheek, which has always existed. To begin with, your goal is to get her to break up with her boyfriend. By performing all these actions, you will ensure that the girl will eventually understand that she is much more interesting, comfortable and better with you than with that other guy. There is no need to put pressure on her and demand this separation from her. You will only make things worse.
How to propose to meet
So, let's assume you have achieved your first goal. Namely, the relationship between the girl and her boyfriend ended. Don't forget that, even though all her thoughts are mostly occupied with you, you are still in the status of her friend. Moreover, it is unlikely that she will decide to take the first step. Therefore, there is no need to stop there and you need to continue your actions.
But it happens that a girl may not break up with her boyfriend just because she has doubts and is not sure what you like. Therefore, she prefers to keep her boyfriend with her, so as not to be left with nothing, as they say. Therefore, you need to know how to ask a girl to date if she has a boyfriend. In other words, it's time to take action.
And here it is important to choose the right moment and offer to meet on time. And all because the girl must be mentally prepared for your proposal. In other words, she should know you well, trust you, understand that she can rely on you, and so on.
In general, if you did everything described above, then morally she is quite ready for your confession. In addition, girls have highly developed intuition and no matter how you hide your feelings deep down, she will always guess about it. It is best to say these words when you are alone and there is no one around you to interrupt or disturb you. You can also surprise her and give her a gift, then she will be even happier about it. The main thing is not to be afraid to open up your feelings to her.
If your chosen one is a military man, then get ready for the fact that you will not have a quiet life. A military man is a forced person, and at any moment you can get up and leave. Moreover, sometimes there is very little time to get ready, and you can arrive to a completely unprepared place. And you will be required to “set up camp” as soon as possible - to quickly create comfort and improve everyday life. Moreover, as you understand, you will have to do this alone, because your husband will rarely be at home. Training camps, exercises, combat missions, business trips, and so on - that's what he will be busy with. And, when he comes home tired, he will want his ardent wife to be waiting for him in a clean, comfortable house with a hearty dinner.
A military wife should be a wonderful housewife, a beauty, and a passionate lover. You will have to solve many everyday difficulties and be skilled in many things - from chopping wood (sometimes) to the ability to nail a shelf yourself. Simply because my husband is often not at home. You need to learn how to cook delicious dishes, sometimes from simple ingredients, who knows where fate will take you!
We must remember that the military are disciplined people, prone to order, so the house should always be clean. Everything should be in its place, and it doesn’t matter that he himself sometimes doesn’t know where these places are, since he is rarely at home. You must know!
Sometimes they can be harsh - said - cut off. But this is understandable; life in a men’s group has an impact. Therefore, if your husband has firmly decided on something, then so it will be.
Get ready for the fact that you will often have to change apartments, cities, your child’s school, and circle of acquaintances. Moreover, it may sometimes be difficult for you to find a job in your specialty, or just a job. You will have to get used to the fact that your children will probably get to know their dad from a photograph, and when they meet, they will be a little shy and shy while they are little. Yes, and raising children will be entirely on your shoulders.
There are also advantages. Firstly, you will have a courageous man with you who will always protect you when he is around.
Secondly, absences, waiting and separations intensify and fuel passion. You simply won’t have time to get bored and get bogged down in routine - what kind of boredom is there if you rarely see your husband, and therefore, when you meet, you try to get enough of each other!
Thirdly, the military is accustomed not only to command, but also to obey. And if in the service he can be a stern commander, then at home he may well be obedient and dutiful, placing all household management in your hands. You will only need the illusion that he is the head of the house, but in fact you will be the full-fledged mistress of your hearth.
Fourthly, military men are quite independent men. They know how to cook, clean, do their own apartment and car repairs, sew on a button and they can fix it too. And, I must say, during rest hours or days they enjoy doing household chores.
Hello! Talk to me please. I fell in love with an employee and my mind is blown. I need to somehow get through this without making sudden movements, because it seems that all the existing taboos are present in the situation.
First of all, I'm married. I'm almost 39. My husband is a little older. There is a beloved long-awaited child. We have been married for a long time. I wouldn't say happy. But in a normal, stable and calm way. There is mutual understanding, we have learned to work around sharp corners. We can say: we settled comfortably, taking into account each other’s characteristics. I've fallen in love before when I was married. The first time I almost ate myself alive for such “betrayal.” Then I realized that these feelings “aside” were the litmus test of our problems with my husband, and not my “depravity.” A couple of times I had both the opportunity and the desire to sleep with someone I fell in love with - but I couldn’t, I stopped on the brink. I suspect that such secret sex is not worth the problems that will inevitably arise due to the need to lie to a regular partner. I do not renounce and do not insist on such a point of view. But I'm afraid to move in this direction. Now I appreciate the opportunity to joke with my husband about my communication with another man (and my husband saw him, appreciated his appearance and my enthusiasm for communicating with him). My husband teases me, I answer in the same tone and am glad that for now I am able to mask the “scale of the disaster.” These jokes make me less serious. I think if I had sex on the side, I would lose the ability to joke about this topic.
Secondly, I fell in love with my subordinate. And now I’m like that centipede that wonders which foot to walk with. Am I too strict, am I too soft, am I too friendly, am I communicating too dryly? I’m trying to analyze my behavior and it’s stressful and deprives me of naturalness. In general, I’m not good at being a boss. I feel more comfortable working in a team and collaborating. So we cooperate. Two-person department. The work is interesting and exciting. We work almost seven days a week. With his arrival, I felt much better than before. He really, honestly helps me. Supports. It even consoles you in critical moments. And I am sincerely grateful to him. Only I would like to think that he is trying not because work is enthusiasm and hierarchy, but because I am so beautiful :) I want to like him, yeah. But it is important for me now to maintain sobriety of thought, so that against the backdrop of this euphoria I do not slip into connivance, in order to have the firmness to talk about mistakes and be demanding. On the other hand, I’m afraid to squeeze it. Because if I start tightening the screws diligently and demonstratively, I will lose his trust and the atmosphere of cooperation, which will affect the results of my work.
Thirdly, he is much younger than me. Hello, midlife crisis - falling in love with boys. Funny and sad. And strange. Because we communicate without feeling the difference in generations. Musical tastes, jokes, ideological issues - a lot is close and overlaps. I feel like I’m on an equal footing with him, there’s no condescending “oh, young people.” Moreover, sometimes he shows himself as an elder - caring and judicious. Nothing personal - basic good manners and masculine practicality, but it bothers me. In addition, he is quite attractive, if not handsome (and this is a very pleasant bonus to his human qualities). I stop myself from admiring it, although it brings obvious aesthetic pleasure. I don’t blush “with a suffocating wave, slightly touching my sleeves,” but the sweet sun spreads over my body. At the same time, it is sad to discover that outwardly we may well be mistaken for a mother and son. Sadness.
Here's the story. I feel bad now. I want madness, fairy tales and romance. And then there are obligations, one’s own tight knacks, and the bleak truth of life. I want to come to this boy, open up, tell it like it is, and be his favorite girl :) But you can’t. For many reasons. Hypothetically, of course, it is possible. But I’m not ready for the consequences (even though this whirlpool is unbearably attractive at times). And it’s scary to think how unprepared my potential interlocutors are. That’s why I’m telling you here and looking for support and help. And also a wise third-party look.
Marrying a billionaire is practically a utopia; there is too little chance for a simple girl from Russia to find a super-wealthy spouse, although this does not stop many representatives of the fairer sex from dreaming about it. Becoming the wife of an officer is also a dream of many girls and adult women.
However, you should know that relationships with a military man are fraught with many life difficulties. But if you still want to marry such a man, and you are not afraid of any difficulties, then go ahead and seek a marriage proposal from your loved one. So, how to marry an officer
?
Is this war? 5 tactics for correct behavior with your husband's ex-wife
If you are “lucky enough” to be with a person who has an unsuccessful marriage behind him, be prepared for the presence of his previous family in your life. The ex-couple of your chosen one - who is she to you and how to behave in such a situation?
1. Let them be just friends.
The divorce took place, but common children, friends, relatives are the links that will unite your husband and his ex throughout their lives. For the most part, men support their first family after a divorce. It’s good if your partner has already emotionally rebuilt and is ready to create a new relationship. Love and harmony with you will force him to completely immerse himself in your life together and limit contact with his ex-wife within reasonable limits. For him, she will remain just a friend, if, of course, they separated by mutual consent and there are no previous love feelings between them. Do not forbid your husband to sometimes contact his former family. This, firstly, will cause protest and discontent in him, but what’s even worse is that it can push the chosen one to return to the previous relationship.
2. Keep your ears open
Sometimes the first wife, by hook or by crook, strives to return her ex-husband. She turns his relatives and children against you, makes scandals over the phone, tries to prove her superiority, offends you with phrases like: “I am his first and only love,” in general, makes your life together unbearable. Provided that this does not pose any real threat, just learn to ignore such attacks. You shouldn’t judge your former but once beloved woman in front of him; it’s better to refrain from making any unflattering statements about her. If there is an option for a negative development of events, talk calmly with your partner, be sure to be armed with evidence, otherwise you risk earning distrust and aggravating a difficult situation.
3. Don't gossip about her
The choice of the first wife is not always approved by the husband's relatives. And from time to time situations arise when you become an unwitting listener to your mother-in-law’s stories about what kind of “witch”, etc. was her first daughter-in-law. Or a neighbor, meeting you on the staircase, wants to discuss interesting facts from the life of your husband’s “ex”. Under no circumstances should you actively participate in such conversations. After all, your husband is unlikely to like your desire to gossip about his previous relationships, and secondly, you have no right to talk about that woman, especially in such a tone.
4. Don't be jealous
Very often you will hear rumors and gossip that your husband was seen having a cup of coffee with his previous wife, they had a nice conversation and it’s clearly not all over between them. Remember! Until you see this for yourself, do nothing. No clarification of relations with her husband, much less scandals. For him, this will be an indicator of your distrust, and without confidence in him as a partner, your relationship will not last long.
5. Build relationships
It is also possible that she herself will initiate your communication. And this is not even bad, especially if she and your husband have children together. Try to make friends with his children and, if possible, with his first wife. Wise women can always turn from rivals into allies. And the experience of a newly made friend may even be useful to you in your relationship with your loved one.
And there is no need to get stuck in the past, everyone has their own. You have found true love, albeit with some baggage. This is not a reason to worry, it’s better to live and be happy. Use the acquired knowledge in your current relationships so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past.
Join a military school
This is a good way to find a guy officer. Don’t ask why a military school, because only future military personnel are trained in such an institution. Judging by the statistics, the wives of officers most often become women who also want to serve in the army (or are already serving there). The man himself understands that since you have chosen this path, you will understand him like no one else, and you will also know firsthand about the difficulties of an alliance with a military man
. So if you don’t find a husband at a military school, he can find you himself.
How to be a military wife? Easily!
Hello!
My name is Larisa. I grew up in a military family. Dad and grandfather were military men. Life has developed so that their social circle consists of my father’s colleagues and officers of their family. He taught at a military school, and they lived in a city where there were two military schools. After school, many of my classmates followed in the footsteps of their fathers and entered these schools. And naturally, my parents’ dream is for their only daughter to marry a military man. After all, it was believed that it was prestigious, a good salary, housing. I resisted for a long time. Well, I didn’t like this green uniform. And if it still sits ugly, then it’s generally a quiet horror: Vanka. I didn't even go to the dance. Moreover, I entered medical school, and there was a completely different contingent there. And so, on November 7, my mother and I went to the square to watch the fireworks, and there I saw HIM. Tall, I thought he was handsome then. After 2 years, they got married and left as part of their assignment. I just finished my first year of college. And our service began. My parents prepared me that an officer’s wife should be smart and know how to wait. My husband is at work. Works with personnel. And I waited. In the morning at 6 I left for the institute, returning with bags at 9 pm. We lived in a hostel. And my husband was in the service, or he could go to training for 3 days. It was very difficult. But there are moments that you want to remember. These are our little joys when we had a common family weekend. But there are also moments. which you don’t want to remember at all. They cross everything out. Over the years, the service became longer, the outfits, the preparations, the smell of alcohol. Living in a small gated town is very responsible. You are in full view. Everyone knows everything about each other. And especially if you sit on a bench for a couple of hours, you will find out everything in every detail. I’m not a fan of such gatherings, but somehow it worked out. She adored her husband, and he, too, treated her with feeling. But still, we failed. It turned out that we were transferred to another duty station. I'm closer to the institute. We spent less time on the road, lived in a rented apartment, made new friends, and had a daughter. And so our relationship began to deteriorate. My circle of friends are military wives. All with children, waiting for their husbands from the service. It’s just that their service is very responsible, that they may forget to come home, or they will bring them and unload them from the car like a sack of potatoes. And you must resuscitate him by morning, clean him to a shine and send him back to serve. So it’s not clear: how to be a military wife? Yes, service. I agree to wait, listen to the clatter of boots. But if this is a service. What if it's a binge? Why should we wait, worry? In those years that I remember, there were no cell phones, and not everyone had a landline phone. So I sat on the windowsill and waited. This is such a sad thing. But I still remember, because this is life. My opinion is that being a military wife is hard. I don’t want to talk about responsibility. Not everyone can cope with it. Only now the wives are waiting, and their husbands are letting them down.
Marriage agencies, internet
You can try your luck in one of the marriage agencies
your city.
Be sure to indicate that you are looking for an officer
. Well, you can register on dating sites in order to have another option at hand, so to speak, a backup. There are a lot of such resources on the Internet.
Show your potential spouse that you know how to run a household and understand what it’s like to be an officer’s wife. Seeing that you are not afraid of life’s difficulties and the long wait for your loved one to come home, he himself will offer you a serious relationship, and soon you will get married, becoming a real family.
If the sleeper sees in a dream that he must take part in some kind of military action, then most likely he will have a lot of trouble due to some kind of trouble. For single men, such a dream predicts that he will soon have to go to military exercises.
Seeing the military in a dream is a sign that your worries are in vain and you will be overcome by boredom.
Seeing an officer in a dream is a harbinger that you will be forced to do something unpleasant...
Seeing a general in a dream is a sign of patronage, if only he is disposed towards you. See interpretation: important person.
Seeing yourself in military uniform means there is a family scandal or trouble at work. For a patient, a dream that he has become a military man predicts imminent death. Seeing a military divorce is a sign of a waste of time and money.
Seeing a sentry at your post means that you will soon receive news that some influential people are interested in promoting your business. Watching military exercises portends success in business.
For a woman to find herself in a military camp in a dream is a harbinger of an imminent engagement to a civilian, and for a young man such a dream predicts a love affair with the wife of a man who is on military exercises.
Seeing military exercises in a dream means worries and squabbles; taking part in them yourself is a shame.
For a girl to dream that her lover is going into the army, it means that she will soon get married, but will be widowed early. For a young man, such a dream predicts a profitable business or a good job.
For patients, a dream about military conscription predicts an imminent death. For employees, such a dream predicts that they will have a lot of work, and for people in a dependent position, the dream predicts an imminent release from guardianship and the coming of a moment when they will become independent and will be able to act at their own discretion.
Interpretation of dreams from the Family Dream Book
Subscribe to the Dream Interpretation channel!
Subscribe to the Dream Interpretation channel!
