The main feature of the Cancer man is that he has an unusually delicate disposition, due to which such a person is quite emotional and incredibly sensitive, and in his majority prefers everything that is in some way connected with romance. Most likely, this feature is attributed to both the negative and positive qualities of the Cancer man, because along with such an extremely romantic and delicate disposition, representatives of the stronger sex are also considered very impressionable.
Cancer man - how to understand that he is in love from A to Z?
Relationships between a man and a woman may not always be sincere. A girl should especially be wary of not being taken advantage of. But you shouldn’t think about this all the time, since there are special signs that will tell you what this man’s intentions are. Despite all its closedness, this can be understood accurately and clearly. To do this, it is enough to study his behavior and observe. And if he can lie in his words, then his behavior will definitely tell the girl whether he has serious feelings towards her. So, if you have been wondering whether this man really loves you, study our article. It contains the most important points from male psychology, which will allow you to accurately determine a man’s feelings. You can also decide for yourself whether it is worth having a relationship with him based on these points. After all, if you know that a man has fallen in love with all his heart, then it will be easier for you to reveal your feelings. And even if you are still searching, this article will also be useful to you, since when you meet a man, you will be able to evaluate his behavior, having this knowledge. So, read and arm yourself so as not to make fatal mistakes.
How to understand that a Cancer man is in love with you if you are not dating yet!
1 - Humor!
If he is in love, it is quite difficult to guess about it, since he is too closed for this. But his good mood reveals his feelings in the best possible way. He is always on the rise, ready to do whatever is asked of him. And the best thing about his feelings is the sudden appearance of jokes in all seriousness. He willingly supports other people's jokes, is ready to rejoice at other people's jokes, since he suddenly awakens a sense of humor.
2 - His gestures!
This man is quite secretive, tries to be in the shadows, but when Cupid’s arrow touches his heart, then everything changes dramatically. He tries to always be in the field of view of the girl he likes. He will also try to stay as close to her as possible, which makes him sometimes annoying. He unknowingly violates his girlfriend's personal space by looming over her. It is also interesting that he can hover in his own world, but when she appears, he completely changes, trying to seem like the life of the party. But even with cheeky behavior, he tries not to make eye contact with his chosen one. If he experiences physical attraction to a girl, then his hands will always be at the waist, as he can’t wait to get to action. His pose is aimed at the girl - his toes are turned in her direction, his palms are open, and his gestures are simply uncontrollable. All these signs indicate that he is truly in love and wants to be closer to the object of his adoration.
3 - If he tells you everything!
This man is usually very private. He doesn't like to talk about himself, his family, or his affairs. But if he suddenly begins to open up, this is a good sign - he loves you, so he trusts you with the most intimate stories from his life. He can talk about his childhood, ridiculous incidents from his life. He will talk about his family in such a way that you can easily get to know them in the future. Also, this man begins to call you often to tell you about his achievements and affairs. All this speaks of his deep feelings and desire to be with you not only mentally, but also physically including you in his life.
4 - If he always listens to you!
This man is an introvert by nature, so most often he is interested in his emotions and thoughts, but if he listens to his girlfriend, and not only listens, but also hears, this indicates that he is seriously in love. He wants to know all the information about her, tries not to miss a single detail. He will not argue or express his opinion. Moreover, he approves of everything he says and plans to do. Of course, he may forget something he said, but don’t be upset, because he perceives information through the prism of his inner world, and this doesn’t mean anything.
5 - His touch!
When this man is in love, he may be too withdrawn, hardly speaking, but such a non-verbal sign as touching will tell a lot about his feelings. In particular, he likes to touch with his hands any objects that belong to his girlfriend. And if he does not see rejection on her part, he will move on to more active actions. In particular, in a conversation he will try to touch her with his hands, to be physically closer. At the same time, he will be secretive in such a way that it will be even more noticeable. It is this sign that speaks of his deep feelings for his chosen one.
6 - His look!
If this man is in love, he will always look into the eyes of his chosen one. He will try to catch her eye, despite his embarrassment. This behavior is especially evident in a large company, when he creates a special connection of views between himself and her. He admires her, tries to capture her image. And if the woman still flirts with him, he will feel more confident, and his gaze will begin to burn, burning all barriers between him and her. His gaze is always warm and speaking, you can read only warm feelings in it, which betrays him headlong.
A Cancer man in love - signs if you have been dating for a long time!
7 - Show you care!
This man will take care of his beloved and will try to behave like a gentleman with her. Initially he just wants to protect her, but then he starts to just care about her. If you have any suffering, he will try to solve this problem, make your life easier and more pleasant. To do this, he can use his strength, money, connections. When a girl is ill, he will take her to the best doctor, and if she needs money, he can happily offer it to her. His behavior is simply impeccable, but can be somewhat intrusive. However, he has an inner tact that will allow him to stop in time. If he calls and tries to meet with you every minute, it means that he is completely and completely in love. Even if he is very busy, he will always find time to meet with you. All these are good signs, speaking of deep and tender love, which he will speak about at the right moment.
8 - If he is ready to make sacrifices!
In love, this man changes radically. Now he doesn't withdraw into himself, but if his girlfriend appreciates him. If he does something despite himself, she should definitely appreciate it. However, not all assessments are given verbally. He can give up a lot, but you shouldn’t demand that he give up work or any serious hobbies. It is not good if he obeys her wishes unquestioningly, as this may indicate weak character. If he sacrifices going with friends to a bar or to a football match, then this is quite normal, you should accept it and praise it.
9 - Jealousy!
This man is not inclined to show aggression, even if his girlfriend is surrounded by numerous fans. He wants to protect her, but he understands that he cannot do this. Therefore, he will try to find out the advantages of other fans in order to change for the better. He is smart enough to do this, so he can become exclusive and the only one for her through his efforts. In addition, he understands that jealousy is a sign of weakness, so he will try to disguise his emotion. However, it is easy to notice that he is jealous - all you have to do is watch his face.
10 - If he wants to be with you all the time!
If you see that a man does more for you than for others, this may indicate his love. He will try to see you more often. To do this, he will allegedly arrange a business meeting and arrange random meetings in different places. All this is done specifically to learn more about you. It is important for him to know what her mood is, how you feel, what your plans are. He will call quite often just to see how you are doing. When you meet, he will adapt to your mood, tolerate all your shortcomings, and see only the good in you. If he is patient, attentive, caring, this speaks of his love. He will also try to protect you, please you, that is, always be there. Often his meetings are to the detriment of study, work and other matters, since at this stage the most important thing is simply to see the object of your adoration.
11 - If he invited you to live in his house!
For this man, personal and physical space is simply vital, so he is unlikely to invite a girl he just likes to live with him. He must have serious feelings for her. Only in this case will an invitation come from him to live together. Some of her habits may irritate him, so you should be more careful and give him the opportunity to be alone. Also, you can’t immediately storm his apartment with cleaning, laundry, and so on, since he may appreciate all this, but this is not so important in building relationships, so it’s better to start forming and strengthening relationships.
12 - Meet his friends!
Will he spend a lot of time with friends? This question can be answered in different ways. If he loves you, he will try to meet you, not them. And sometimes he will just sit with them, but with you too. An invitation to such a party is quite significant, as it means that he officially introduces you as his girlfriend. If he hides you from his friends, does not try to introduce you to colleagues and acquaintances he accidentally meets, this means that he is simply spending time with you.
13 - If he says We!
This man does not like to throw around promises and words, so not everyone will be lucky enough to hear the cherished phrase “I love you” from him. But you can still guess about his feelings: to do this, just listen to his conversations. If he uses “we” more often than “I,” this is a clear sign that he is planning a life together with you and wants to make the relationship stable. And during such conversations, he will radiate love and joy.
14 – Meet the parents!
If this reserved man decides to introduce you to his parents, this means that he has the most serious plans for you. He is ready to bear responsibility, to be a father and husband. He will carefully prepare his chosen one for the meeting with her mother, but this does not mean that his mother is strict, he just wants understanding and peace to be established between you from the first meeting. Meeting your family is an important step in your relationship.
Or maybe it's just a hobby?
It is difficult to understand what feelings a man has for a girl. Especially if the girl is young and inexperienced. But it often happens that even experienced ladies fall into the trap of womanizers. To prevent this from happening, you can use our recommendations. You can also simply pay attention to such moments as his speech, what he is talking about. Maybe he criticizes your appearance? Or maybe he's only interested in sex? Perhaps he constantly criticizes his friends who got married? If such conversations are held with you, then this indicates that he has some selfish goals towards you, but not love. Real feelings make a man change, he will never cause pain, take care of her comfort. You can also meet his friends and listen to what they are talking about. All this will create a holistic portrait of this man, his intentions and desires. Don’t flatter yourself with hopes that he will change for your sake if his behavior no longer reflects his feelings. Value yourself more than you would want to spend time on someone who is just with you for sex.
Part 2 of 4: Getting Organized
1 Try to always look neat. Cancers love order, which is why they are attracted to women who are also organized and neat. Any space that belongs to you should be clean, so make a little more effort, even if it seems very difficult to do so.
In other words, don't invite him over if your desk is littered with papers and your bathroom is littered with dirty laundry. There is no need to put labels on all things and put them on shelves and boxes - cleanliness and order will be enough.
2 Ask him to help you clean up. If you have a cluttered place somewhere, tell him about it before he finds out about it himself, and ask for help cleaning it up. This step will accomplish three things: it will make him feel needed, you will support his natural desire for order, and you will demonstrate to him your willingness to deal with chaos and desire to be more organized. 3 Avoid spontaneous actions. You can surprise him from time to time with some pleasant romantic surprises, but in general you should not blindside him with sudden proposals or demands to do something that he was not warned about. Cancers like orderliness in their lives, and this applies to both space and personal time.
