Hey, lei, don’t be sorry: why are all Aquarians unlucky in love?


If you ignore an Aquarius man

If you are the kind of woman
who lives by dreaming about the future, tries not to think about the past and does not attach much importance to the present, then the Aquarius man is perfect for you. Aquarius men do not live in the present. They always plan and love to dream about what the future holds. These men always strive to achieve something, and having achieved what they want, they immediately rush into the race for a new dream.

Aquarius men

They love to explore everything around and unravel the unknown. By nature they are very curious and thoughtful. You can always see a thoughtful, dreamy expression on their face, and this is because Aquarius’s head is busy thinking about some clues and secrets at this time.

A woman for an Aquarius

, like everything that surrounds him, is an interesting mystery that he wants to solve. He is capable of making any woman fall in love with him and knows it very well. These men have the ability to charm, but they themselves quickly forget about it. The Aquarius man loves when a woman likes him, but hates it when she wants to conquer or seduce him. He must constantly feel freedom and only then can he be with a woman for a long time.

Aquarius men

very charming and talented people. They confidently move up the career ladder; there are no limits to their capabilities. In life and in communication they are very open. Aquarius has many friends and is ready to listen carefully to each of them.

Achieve mutual love from an Aquarius man

and forcing him to marry is like trying to catch the wind and keep it. Of course, you understand that this is basically impossible. Are you going on a date with an Aquarius man? Take your time, first critically examine yourself from the outside. If you are well-groomed, erudite, intelligent and know how to beautifully express your thoughts, then you can try your luck. Make an appointment with an Aquarius man yourself; this does not confuse him, but rather, on the contrary, attracts him. In order to interest this man, you need to come up with something original and mysterious. For example, if there are new events going on in your city, then invite him to attend them together. You can also invite him to visit a racetrack or rally. Aquarius men love everything new.

During communication

try to shock the Aquarius man, ask him philosophical questions. However, we do not recommend asking him about his personal life and being interested in his ex-women. Talk with interest about abstract topics, but ignore his direct questions. Never tell him your secrets, as soon as you lose your mystery, you will become uninteresting to him. Let him always wonder what kind of woman you really are. To his questions about your life, smile mysteriously and talk about how he thinks about whether there is life on Mars.

Aquarius men

are not jealous, you should not try to win their heart by flirting with other men. By nature, these men are very freedom-loving and they perceive any attempt to make them jealous as possible pressure on their freedom. Aquarians need to be attracted by their demeanor, and not by the abundance of admirers.

Shock

These men can be identified by original clothes, extraordinary intelligence, non-standard behavior and the choice of a non-female profession. The more amazement, the better.

To achieve

mutual love of a man and force him to offer you his hand and heart, pretend that marriage does not interest you at all. Aquarius men are rarely lonely; they like to start new relationships all the time. However, deep down, these men are very lonely. They're just secretive compared to other men. Don’t try to redo or change anything in an Aquarius man, you need to accept him as he is. Even after you have had a big wedding and become his wife, don’t expect him to change over time. He will never change, it’s better to face your shortcomings and try not to notice them.

To hold

An Aquarius man needs to value his independence next to him. His wife, a housewife and a caring mother, is not his type. Emotional life with this man should not be monotonous. And if you are ready to give the Aquarius man freedom and not be jealous of him, become his good friend and do not dream of a lover, appreciate his sincerity and determination, then your marriage with him will be long and very successful.

Over the years you will begin to understand this man

and listen to his advice. His advice is always reasonable and balanced. An Aquarius man always finds the right words to support his wife in difficult times and gives strength to overcome difficulties. If you always try to remain an unsolved mystery for him, he will turn your life into a real fairy tale. Seducing these men requires more of your mind than your body.

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How to avoid breaking up with an Aquarius

Now that you know how Aquarius men break up, you can make every effort to keep him close:

  • do not take his coldness too seriously - this does not mean that he does not love you, it is just a character trait of a person;
  • give your man a lot of personal freedom and don’t expect him to fit into your life schedule;
  • Never let things get boring - routine and monotony are the main obstacles to love for this astrological sign.

Aquarius man

He will not behave the way other men usually behave in love. As for friendship, he will be a good friend and advisor. And love? He believes that any man can have a woman, but love is something big! And he is always waiting for this more.

When he feels like he might be hooked, he acts as if he doesn't like you at all. The reason is simple - he loves everyone, everyone is his friend. And if he says that he doesn’t love someone, then that means something. And what does this mean we are now exploring.

Aquarius does not want to reveal his true feelings, despite the fact that he loves to penetrate the souls of other people. His own reactions and motives are complex. He prefers to hide them for the pleasure of fooling you. He has many strange relationships, both in love and in friendship. And until you get married, you are another experiment for him, no matter how hard it is to admit.

But don't turn away, it can be obtained despite all his caution. But before you begin your trek against him, you need to understand his unique way of looking at people. It’s as if he invented fair rules for sports games and translates these rules into relationships between people.

His interests are very scattered. This is because his love is very impersonal. He sees a certain personality in every person, while other people spend their energy only on a certain circle of their acquaintances. For him, every person is interesting, even those he has not yet met.

Few Aquarians are selfish or petty. Even if he exhibits these qualities, a small hint is enough to make him fall into place. He simply cannot stand being told that he is not broad-minded enough. He responds to unusually broad ideals thanks to his strict moral principles, although one must understand that these are only his own principles, which may absolutely not correspond to the principles accepted in society.

His life is almost certainly full of changes, unexpected events, contradictions. However, he may have moments of complete calm. When he gets over the shock of allowing himself to become interested in a certain woman more than others, he can be a very attentive lover. The danger zone is located before this shock, because he is used to forgetting about his own problems for the sake of the interest of the majority, this attitude carries over to his love life. But you shouldn’t rely only on this.

He may well realize that he can give you all his love while there are other people who need him too. Then he can step back to prove to himself that he has not lost interest in other people. He constantly analyzes and will ask himself the question: “I wonder what she meant?” He won't rest until he finds the answer. If he feels that something is hidden from him, he will not sleep at night until he solves the riddle. There seems to be a possibility that he will always be disappointed by what he discovers. Therefore, try to ensure that this does not happen.

Complete break

The previous stage becomes transitional and does not last long. Soon a person realizes that there is nothing left to save and there is no point in suffering. The whole storm of emotions, still hidden inside, bursts out. But this will not lead to scandals or showdowns, conversations and conflicts.

Unexpectedly for the other person in the couple, Aquarius will simply start packing his things one day.

If you try to find out what is going on, you will only hear insulting comments and harsh irony in response. In fact, it will be very painful for him, but outwardly he will no longer show this to you, because now you are not a close person to him.

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Simple ways to understand that an Aquarius man or woman likes you


The stars give people a certain character, so you need to learn more about the zodiac sign of your chosen one, then he will become more open to you. For example, understanding that an Aquarius man likes the girl he is talking to is not the easiest task. But it becomes solvable if you get more information about the representatives of this sign and understand the peculiarities of their behavior.

Characteristics that influence Aquarius's attitude towards their partner

Aquarius loves lightness, so he doesn’t take girls seriously. He can date several young ladies, but at the same time he does not deceive them and does not talk about great love. But still, this sign also has positive sides.

Qualities that contribute to the development of relationships

Despite his easy-going attitude towards life and girls, Aquarius in love reconsiders his views and begins a beautiful courtship with the person he likes. And the girls melt, because men of this sign have many positive qualities:

  1. Cheerful. They do not allow routine and routine in relationships, making every day a holiday. Unpredictable and spontaneous, they love to improvise and surprise. You won’t be bored with them, but you shouldn’t let them get bored either, since Aquarians quickly fall into depression, from which it can be difficult to pull out.
  2. Sociable. They will easily find language not only with their peers, but also with your relatives, including the always grumpy granny. They perfectly smooth out rough edges, are able to maintain a dialogue thanks to their developed intellect, and sprinkle with sparkling humor. They will charm everyone without exception, so that parents, even if they are against the relationship, will give the go-ahead for the wedding.
  3. A wonderful husband and father. This is a real breadwinner who can perfectly provide for his family. At the same time, he pays a lot of attention and care to children, knows how to negotiate with them, and is engaged and interested in business.

Many women appreciate and love Aquarius for such qualities, so a man of this sign is rarely left alone, over time creating a strong and friendly family.

Weak sides

If we talk about the character flaws of Aquarius, then it is worth highlighting the following points:

  1. Quickly loses self-control and becomes depressed. After this, he worries and suffers for a very long time, and only a critical situation can bring him out of such a state.
  2. A constant feeling of loneliness, which is why the representative of the sign is always in search of new acquaintances.
  3. Touchy and vindictive. Never forgets insults.
  4. Doesn't know how to manage his own money wisely. He lends money easily and forgets, spends on unnecessary things.
  5. Hot-tempered and overly emotional, which does not suit everyone in family life.
  6. Loving. He has lovers throughout his life, but does not leave his wife, because he loves and appreciates him.

If you are ready to put up with such shortcomings, then living with Aquarius will be interesting and exciting, because he is a wonderful husband and loving father.

What shows being in love in Aquarius men

Aquarius is open and sociable, so it is quite difficult to determine true sympathy, because he shows signs of attention to many girls. You can understand that an Aquarius man is really in love by the following signs:

  • dressed to the nines, clean-shaven, careful about his appearance, although in ordinary life he is rather sloppy;
  • she is wildly jealous only at the very beginning of a relationship; in family life she trusts her partner;
  • does not lose sight of his beloved, follows her everywhere, protects her;
  • ready to drop everything and come to the rescue;
  • constantly jokes and makes you laugh.

From these signs you can understand that a man is in love and wants to win the favor of the woman he likes.

How does he behave when he's in love?

An Aquarius man in love behaves quite reverently and carefully towards his chosen one. In addition, he:

  • temporarily forgets about other women, completely turning his attention to the chosen one;
  • always looking for meetings and gets seriously upset if a girl refuses;
  • worries and fusses;
  • tries to find out the phone number by any means if the woman does not make contact;
  • retreats from his principles, is ready to change, give up bad habits.

This behavior of Aquarius will reveal his strong feelings for the girl. But it is worth remembering that a man will not show himself to a woman who is not free.

Who can become his wife

The Aquarius man is very sociable and active, judging by the characteristics of the sign, so finding out what kind of women he likes is problematic, because he maintains warm relationships with everyone. He has many friends and loves to spend time surrounded by them, does not get tired of people, on the contrary, he suffers greatly when alone. This, to a greater extent, determines his relationship with the girl: first she should be a friend and partner, and then a lover, wife, mother of an unborn child. If Aquarius understands that this is not just a loved one, but a friend, the man will begin a serious and long-term relationship.

In addition, a woman must behave as follows:

  • truly love a man;
  • do not limit freedom, giving the opportunity to communicate with people as much as necessary;
  • show care and attention without imposing your company;
  • be open and honest, as representatives of the sign do not tolerate lies and hypocrisy;
  • constantly praise and give compliments so that you feel needed and loved;
  • remain mysterious and mysterious throughout your life.

It is difficult for an Aquarius to please, but a man, having seen these qualities in a young lady, will be ready to create a strong and happy family.

Which means he only wants sex?

When Aquarius only expects sex from a girl and doesn’t really like her, he behaves a little differently. No, he is courteous, caring, helps as needed, even invites you on dates. Only small details can reveal his true intention. For example, he continues to communicate with other girls, whereas in a state of love he breaks off all contacts for the first time.

If he remains calm, does not look for constant meetings, does not show obvious initiative and is calm about advances from other men, then he is not hooked on you. The most you can hope for is just sex. When a man is in love with you, his behavior is the opposite.

Signs that a man has fallen out of love. How each zodiac sign will behave

Don’t even think about telling him, he does not tolerate control and will prove his point of view to you, even if it is not correct. Taurus are also very jealous. Taurus has a very difficult time leaving a relationship and tries to the last to look for other ways to solve the problem, negotiate, compromise, but when he realizes that the situation can no longer be corrected, in one minute he will pack his things and slam the door.

After the breakup, Taurus will disappear from your life without a trace; for him, the breakup is too serious a trauma and he will worry about it for a long time.

He approaches the issue of relationships rationally and never rushes headlong into the pool. Eloquent, prefers relationships without commitment and rarely falls in love.

To attract the attention of a Gemini, you need to look luxurious and be the center of attention; they love with their eyes.

In a relationship, be ready to take the initiative, he will be happy to support you, because he is easy-going and does not tolerate boredom.

What you should know about the manifestation of feelings of an Aquarius woman

Although both men and women may have the same zodiac sign, the stars still influence them differently. Therefore, representatives of the stronger and weaker sex behave differently in life and love.

If she likes a man

The Aquarius man loves sociable and active ladies, while Aquarius women prefer calm and intellectually developed men. Girls of this sign easily show sympathy, but rarely start long-term and serious relationships. If she spends time with a man, agrees to dates, she is happy and easy to be around, it means that she liked the gentleman, and she would not mind having an easy romance with him.

If she fell in love

Girls born under the sign of Aquarius fall in love extremely rarely. Usually love begins with a banal friendship, so they themselves do not immediately notice that the relationship has changed radically. It is not easy to understand that an Aquarius girl is in love, since there is practically no change in behavior, but this can be done by taking a closer look. So, she begins to carefully monitor her appearance, waits for calls and meetings, becomes more active and energetic, and blossoms in the company of a guy she likes.

Duality of character

What most surprises and amazes people around us is the combination of opposite qualities in one person. Aquarians manage to:

  • be sociable and insensitive at the same time, they love friendship more than their friends;
  • respect honesty, but they themselves often deceive or hide something;
  • show a broad outlook on the world and at the same time be picky in everyday life;
  • combine tactlessness and kind attitude towards others;
  • be practical and at the same time build illusions, be guided by ideals;
  • remain conservative, but strive for progress and development;


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  • defend democracy but cling to one's own freedom;
  • make grandiose plans, but live by inertia.

Also in relationships, Aquarius can show feelings and tenderness, love and affection one evening, and the next day, frightened by his emotions and affection, he will become cold, distant and stop communicating with you.

Aquarius man: what is he like when he loves

Men in love behave differently, although, of course, there are common characteristic actions and actions in their behavior. The stars have a different influence on each representative of the astrological galaxy, so we can affirmatively say that each lover has his own algorithm of actions, unique to him. Aquarians are no exception, and therefore they have their own behavior during the period of falling in love.

These are rather changeable representatives of the Zodiac circle; they often invent a feminine ideal for themselves and begin to “try it on” to their beloved. If the “suit” doesn’t fit, Aquarius boldly begins to remake his girlfriend to suit his ideals. Of course, not every girl will like this behavior.

Aquarius is a dreamer

An Aquarius in love often builds castles in the air, becomes a dreamer, and this negatively affects career growth. The following outcome is quite possible: under the influence of his beloved, an Aquarius man easily turns into a weakling who gradually puts an end to himself. He falls under her complete influence, begins to indulge all her desires and aspirations, gradually forgetting about his own ambitions.

This man will always put friendship above love, he will completely calmly replace love with friendship so masterfully that you won’t even blink an eye. You will expect tenderness and the development of more intimate relationships from him, but he has already forgotten about sexual attraction.

He will selflessly help a woman develop her career, despite the fact that he himself will be in a disadvantaged position. This is precisely his real weakness; in a state of love, Aquarius is very vulnerable. Sometimes partners, having taken everything they can from him, do not disdain betrayal, after which for a long time Aquarius cannot regain the trust of the female sex.

Aquarius is a romantic

An Aquarius man in love will give his girlfriend flowers and gifts, he will become attentive and gentle. His ability to believe in good things will inspire and support his beloved. He will never give up in difficult times and will always provide help. Interesting fact: women who are lovers of Aquarius somehow imperceptibly and effortlessly blossom and transform before our eyes. The reason lies in his amazing ability not to complain about a woman’s appearance and accept his girlfriends with all their shortcomings. From this trust, ladies grow in their own eyes and become irresistible.

Frozen heart

After several unsuccessful novels, Aquarius can turn into a real cynic, his heart gradually becomes overgrown with an icy crust that is not easy to melt. The more betrayals he experiences from the female sex, the stronger the ice in his heart. However, he is not the only one who will behave this way, after a series of failures in the love field.

But there is always a woman who can melt a block of ice. She just needs to try to be patient and persistent, to inspire him that life is beautiful and amazing. The ice will gradually melt, and hope for happiness will return. If she succeeds, then Aquarius will give her incredible care, attention, love and tenderness. Many ladies, having experienced the love of Aquarius, admit to themselves that it was a fabulous period in their lives, which they did not appreciate for some reason.

Aquarius men necessarily have the following qualities:

  • vulnerability and vulnerability;
  • sincerity and purity;
  • warmth and romance.

Conquest of Aquarius

It is easy to have an affair with an Aquarius; it is much more difficult to marry him. You must think through a plan of action and move towards your goal without retreating a step.

  • You will have to adapt to his manner of behavior with numerous friends, among whom may be the president of a large company and a homeless person from the next street.
  • You will have to trust him and in no way infringe on his freedom to move through life. He may hang out with friends without calling you.
  • Don't try to train him and change him, this is a waste of time and effort. It’s better to make a reservation in a friendly way, without a hint of aggression.
  • As soon as Aquarius feels a noose on his throat, he immediately retreats and can put an end to the relationship forever.
  • Don't try to manipulate this man. He is sincere and demands the same behavior from his partner. His family is sacred, do not insult his relatives, otherwise you will fall into the few category of enemies.

A girl vying for the heart of Aquarius must have such character traits as sincerity, sensuality and tenderness.

He likes inaccessible and smart girls with a deep inner world. He will unravel you gradually, experiencing real pleasure from this. Do not reveal yourself to him right away, leave some secrets to yourself, this will warm up his interest in you.

Show him your freedom and independence, he will appreciate it. Do not openly apply for a place next to him; you should not rush him. If Aquarius feels that you are a worthy contender, he himself will invite you to take a position nearby. There is no need to make declarations of love first, but you can reveal your feelings with hints.

Dress with taste, do not go overboard with makeup, he likes natural beauty. He hates vulgarity, so if you doubt your own presentation, contact a stylist.

An Aquarius man deserves attention to his own person, and an Aquarius in love doubly so. With skillful behavior, you can become the happiest woman in the world, since your partner knows a lot about the art of gender relations.

How to break up with an Aquarius

If you want to break up with a man, but want to do it peacefully, listen to the following tips:

  1. Tell your partner that you need to spend more time together, show more dissatisfaction. Men of this zodiac sign value their freedom and do not accept such demands.
  2. Prepare a list of reasons why you want to break up. This will attract a man's sense of logic.
  3. Tell your partner that you want to remain friends. Aquarians love to be friends with everyone, although for a while you'll probably be just another number in Aquarius's black book.

If you are planning to break up, you may suddenly find that Aquarius broke up with you first. These people have an uncanny ability to sense what is happening and will leave if they feel threatened or uncomfortable. Aquarians don't like scenes or emotional drama.

As you can see, relationships with an Aquarius man, like with any other man, require knowledge of the peculiarities of astrology. But this knowledge will help you either build strong relationships or leave on time and painlessly.

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