The purpose of the fair half of humanity
In the modern rhythm, many women have forgotten about their natural purpose. It seems that each of us is doing ordinary things that are familiar to everyone: building a career, doing housework, making plans with her husband for a joint summer vacation. But a moment comes when, in pursuit of equality, we begin to understand how much work, everyday life, and children exhaust us. But the problem is the lack of femininity, which needs to be developed. In this article I will try to cover this topic as much as possible. Implement techniques for its implementation in real life.
The basis of the basics is to accept yourself as a woman - a perfect creation.
After all, without awareness of your natural purpose, all exercises and techniques for developing sensuality will be a failure in advance.
What adds femininity?
The feeling of happiness and harmony in herself allows a woman to be calm and peaceful. This is a combination that attracts others. A woman who loves herself, knows how to give and receive love, creates an aura of comfort around herself. Such a lady knows how to compromise, adapt to her man and circumstances. Feels light and relaxed, allowing himself to be a source of inspiration for the stronger sex. She respects and loves men.
Femininity is the ability to come to the rescue and the ability to accept it from others. This is trust and ease of communication. This is friendliness and unobtrusive sexuality. This is inner well-being and a state of comfort.
Such a woman has a sense of humor, radiating positivity and good mood around her. She is polite and has self-respect. Takes care of himself, his body.
First steps
First you need to love yourself, your body, the image in the mirror. Try to emphasize the fact that you are a woman in the most accessible ways.
Dress yourself in beautiful dresses and favorite shoes as often as possible, and don’t go out without makeup or hair styling.
Reading these lines, you probably think that there is simply no time for such things as femininity and its improvement. The fact is that this state is inherent for a woman by nature, it just needs to be awakened.
Do not hurry
Try to learn to live without constant rush, enjoying the process of life itself.
Why it is very important not to rush!
Simply because when we do everything in a hurry, we begin to involuntarily develop masculine qualities, and this is completely contrary to the natural feminine nature. Let overcoming problems and obstacles remain with the strong half of humanity, and let us girls begin to learn to develop the feminine principle in ourselves. The main thing to remember is that at the behest of a magic wand this will not happen overnight.
This process is long and labor-intensive, but how exciting it will be depends directly on you.
Femininity and demeanor
To develop your femininity, you must understand that it must come from within. We can dress and behave as female nature dictates to us, but this is still not enough. Dress a man in exactly the same way, and from afar it will be noticeable that he is a man. Why? Because a man will not be able to completely copy a purely female behavior.
It should be recognized that, both in terms of psychology and in terms of culture, women, for the most part, have unique characteristics that differ from men. Understanding this difference will help you develop your feminine nature.
Try to emphasize those physical and emotional qualities that distinguish you from a man. Of course, this does not mean that you should dress provocatively or, on the contrary, be embarrassed and excessively shy all the time. Demonstrate your sensitivity, caring, and empathy. As a rule, femininity is associated with kindness, compassion and the desire to help others.
Every woman is capable of not only creating, but also destroying, and not only in the material sense. The negative mood of any representative of the fair sex is immediately transmitted to her husband and children. Inattentiveness and irritability can push them away. It is very important for any woman to be able to work through her negative emotions and manage them.
In any situation, behave naturally. There is nothing more beautiful and feminine than a woman who behaves confidently and calmly.
Leisure organization
To develop your femininity, do things that make you feel happy and at peace. Listen to pleasant music that lifts your spirits. Read or daydream in the park or in your own garden. Allow yourself to relax, enjoy a walk in the park, have a nice time with a cup of coffee, read a book or go to an exhibition.
To develop femininity, perfect a talent or hobby that has hitherto remained unclaimed due to lack of time. This could be photography, crafts, or even sports. Passion for any activity makes a woman interesting in the eyes of men and has a positive effect on her femininity. The main thing is that the hobby is not too “masculine”, such as, for example, bodybuilding or fishing.
Periodically arrange meetings with your friends in a cafe or in a cozy pastry shop. Give free rein to your positive feelings and emotions. It is women who are characterized by an easy and joyful perception of the surrounding reality - so try to enjoy every pleasant trifle!
Exercises to develop femininity
Every female representative has the inherent nature of perceiving the world through sensations and emotions. Therefore, it is very important for the fair half of humanity to develop these senses. This is facilitated by regularly performing the following exercises. By performing any simple gymnastics routine, each of you will discover the true woman within you and will be able to build strong, trusting relationships with yourself and the people around you.
It’s better to start revealing your femininity in the morning.
We are used to jumping out of bed when the alarm clock rings, rushing headlong around the apartment getting ready for work or school. You should start your morning with words of gratitude directed to the universe for the fact that you see the sun, breathe the air, live in this world.
Try to slowly get out of bed, go to the mirror, and smile wholeheartedly at your image in the mirror.
Don't skimp on compliments or words of admiration.
Love yourself, your appearance. She will respond with gratitude to this.
Then do morning exercises, which will wake up the muscles, joints, and disperse the blood.
Affirmations
The following exercises will follow affirmations for female self-improvement. Affirmations are the realization of the fruits of our imagination in real life. The power of our thoughts is enormous and cannot be underestimated. Each of us has probably noticed that if we really want something, if we live a dream, then it will miraculously come true. Therefore, it is most important to visualize the object of your desire with a feeling of joy and happiness. Same with femininity - the main thing
present yourself clearly and clearly as the most seductive, desirable woman in the world.
The main thing is to make this visualization detailed, thinking through every little detail, down to how you dress, what you do, how you speak, what gestures you convey emotions.
Exercises on affirmations are simply necessary to consolidate positive thinking in the mind, because we are what we think about, do not forget this.
Getting rid of negative thinking
The next exercise to develop the feminine principle is to get rid of negative thinking. A feminine person embodies calmness, tenderness, and caring.
“But what to do if your soul is filled with resentment, anger, and bitterness?”
, you might think. Of course, screaming and breaking dishes is not befitting a true lady, but keeping everything to yourself is not a way out. A very good option is to release all the accumulated negativity in the absence of the offender himself. An alternative is to place a pillow in front of you, mentally imagining that the offender is in front of you, and express everything that you think about him. You can even give free rein to your fists, kick her well, thereby step by step approaching a state of calm and tranquility. If at the moment of “communication with the pillow” tears roll up, do not hold them back, let your heart be freed from accumulated bitterness and remembered grievances. After completing this exercise, you will feel clear relief, liberation from negativity.
Feminine flower
Another good exercise to improve sensuality is a technique called “Feminine Flower”. An exercise that should be performed in complete solitude will help you discover your inner potential for developing your own inherent femininity. I think each of us has a favorite nook at home. Create a relaxing atmosphere in this place: turn on light music, light scented candles, and lie down on the floor. The body should be completely relaxed, thoughts freed from all unnecessary and negative things. You need to imagine that you are a beautiful little, fragile flower. This beautiful flower will be your femininity. Give him care and attention, because he needs it so much. Feel for yourself all its value and importance for yourself.
It is necessary to feel with every cell of the soul how this small flower begins to gradually sprout, penetrating the neck, chest, arms, gradually spreading throughout the body.
The whole body begins to fill with a mysterious light that breaks out, trying to illuminate the space around you with feminine energy and boundless love.
Dance in the development of the feminine
You can maintain femininity at the required level with the help of a variety of dances, including oriental ones.
Diagnostics of internal signals
Let's try to put things aside right now and do one effective exercise that won't take much time. Concentrate on your body, listen to the sensations, slowly inhaling and exhaling air through your stomach. Realize that the body will never deceive you, you just need to learn to understand it.
If you receive alarming signals during the exercise, then something is wrong with it.
Pleasure from the process
Reading these lines, you are probably wondering how to unlock your potential in dance? Of course, techniques in the art of dance take first place, but the fundamental role lies in the ability to enjoy the process. To be honest, it is very rare to meet a dancer who would not worry about how good he looks on the dance floor. There are few people who know how to dance as if they are alone in this world, without worrying about the opinions of others. It is this tightness that does not allow us to open up to our natural, energetic power during the dance process.
Remember that movements should not be perfectly honed or soullessly executed.
They should come from the heart with pleasure in everything that surrounds you at that moment: partner, music, atmosphere. Any dance will become delightful, unforgettable if you perform it not only with your body, but also with your soul, catching the pleasure of every movement of your body.
Dealing with tension
Remember, femininity is given to us by nature, we just need to give it the opportunity to manifest itself and break out in full. As long as tension reigns in our body, a constant struggle with the inner world, dance movements will never be able to become graceful and feminine. Therefore, if you ignore these points, then no teacher will be able to teach you how to dance well. Relaxation in everything, including dancing, is the first step towards achieving grace and attractiveness.
The next stage is to enjoy everything you do and with whom you communicate.
Just remember, each of you probably had moments in your life when you easily achieved the most unattainable things, but no great efforts were made. This rule works in any area of life
Books that will help develop femininity
When trying to develop their feminine side, many women don’t know where to start. Books about femininity will help not only awaken and develop, but also maintain this state in yourself thanks to the inspiration and motivation that is present in them.
- Clarissa Pinkola Estes "Runner with the Wolves"
- Helen Andelin "The Charm of Femininity"
- Olga Valyaeva “The Purpose of Being a Woman”
- Larisa Renard “Circle of Female Power. The energy of the elements and the secrets of seduction"
- Natalya Pokatilova “Born of a Woman”
- John Gray "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
- Linda Dillow "Do you like being my husband?"
- Barbara De Angelis "Time for Love" How to reveal femininity and awaken passion"
- Jamie Cat Callan "French Women Don't Sleep Alone"
- Anna Berest, Caroline de Maigret, Audrey Divan, Sophie Mas “How to feel like a Parisian, whoever you are”
Modern ways to activate energy
It's no secret that any man next to a gentle, sensual woman begins to demonstrate his masculine qualities to the maximum.
After all, the strong half of humanity is naturally designed to protect and protect their chosen one. I would like to invite you to consider the basic techniques for developing female sexuality and grace. In my life I had a wonderful opportunity to meet and communicate with one very interesting woman who fascinated me at first sight. She simply radiated crazy energy, which manifested itself in every movement, captivating everyone around her. The most interesting thing is that my friend was also amazed by the energy of this fascinating person. Then he admitted to me that thoughts about her haunted him for several days. To be honest, I was simply amazed how much the energy of the opposite sex can influence a man! After this incident, I seriously began studying that issue. I offer several really working techniques that I have tested in practice.
Inner manifestations of femininity
You can grow gorgeous hair, wear airy dresses, but be tough and categorical. You can meet a girl in jeans and combat boots and endlessly enjoy her natural femininity. How to develop these qualities in yourself? A woman's true femininity comes from her inner sense of self.
Firstly, it is sincerity. The ability to easily and simply give compliments and emphasize the merits of other people. Femininity is the absence of envy and hostility. This is the ability to present the most unpleasant truth gently and politely. Sincerity is also necessary towards yourself. Honesty in one's thoughts and actions is not available to every woman. But sincerity does not mean lack of tact. It is not always worth telling the truth; not everyone needs it. Sincerity is a living, emotional expression of feelings and thoughts. This is a combination of childish spontaneity, spontaneity and adult tact.
Secondly, this is self-esteem. Respect and love for yourself, your body, your needs. Awareness of oneself as an individual, and not an addition to a man. At the same time, flexibility of character, the ability to adapt to life circumstances. It is worthy to behave in the most unsightly situations, without provoking them. Self-esteem is directly related to self-confidence and a calm attitude towards external evaluative opinions. This is the inner integrity of character.
Thirdly, emotional inconsistency. This is by no means an instability of behavior when a woman is thrown from one emotion to another, from screams to hysterics, from tears to laughter. Excessive manifestations of temperament are always unpleasant and have a depressing effect on others. A slight degree of inconsistency attracts men. This is an amazing property of women, with their illogicality and emotionality, to attract sympathy to their side. Disarm with soft unpredictability, bewitch with gentle energy. Masculinity and femininity differ in that the first always acts within the given framework of social rules, and the second - contrary to them, captivating with natural spontaneity.
Techniques for developing femininity
Movement
Try to stay on the move as much as possible. Physical stagnation leads to energy clamps. Therefore, no matter how circumstances change, try to stay in an active state for as much time as possible.
Refusal of men's clothing
Give preference to feminine silhouettes in your wardrobe, wear less of such a masculine attribute as trousers. Make it possible for wind energy to touch your body freely without any restrictions. Do a little experiment. Give up your favorite jeans for a month. Observe your feelings at this time, you will understand how much trousers can limit the movement of energy flows.
Have an orgasm
Aim to have an orgasm with every sexual intercourse. If men lose energy during ovulation, women, on the contrary, accumulate energy, which gives us a visible advantage in this regard.
Chat with other women
Take time to connect with other women. After all, through emotional conversations, women's channels are also opened. The beautiful half of humanity simply needs to be given the opportunity to speak out.
Pamper yourself
Don't forget to pamper yourself, your loved one. Try to get real pleasure from eating your favorite food. Go shopping, touch the soft fabric of the dress you like. Try on the shoe model you like. Try to switch your brain impulses to the sensation of your body.
Get creative
Feminine energy has a creative nature, aimed at creation. To activate this energy channel, start drawing, writing poems or composing a cute song. Do everything that can relieve you of the burden of everyday life.
Hobbies
If you don’t have a hobby, be sure to invent one.
This could be anything from stamp collecting to tailoring. As long as you get real pleasure from it. In addition, people who have their own passions and hobbies are always more attractive to others (unlike those who do not have hobbies). Cooking courses, all kinds of trainings and seminars, believe me, will also do their job. Look at yourself. You may be significantly different from the woman you would like to see in the mirror every day. So change your hairstyle, wardrobe, makeup. Anything! If only it all had a different taste and created a new, romantic mood for you. When was the last time you read a book? You've probably already forgotten the name of your favorite author. It's time to remember. Reading develops, and you will be surprised at the results.
Remember that the main key to femininity is showing true interest in your own life. Self-love and a little feminine cunning will play their role, and you will never again hear statements about your unfemininity addressed to you. After all, you must admit that it is much more pleasant to receive enthusiastic compliments from men about your appearance and inner lightness than to be upset about your unattractiveness.
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Movements
Beauty and femininity lie in the elegance and grace of movements and gestures. It is possible, without having a model appearance, to have flexibility and a smooth gait. You should not allow yourself sudden, masculine movements. Do not wave your arms when walking and do not pace your steps. A light, dancing gait attracts attention.
The soft, smooth movements of the hands are mesmerizing. Unhurried gestures, calm turns of the head, combined with a smile, will attract hearts faster than harshness and impetuosity. And well-groomed hands and feet (with an unobtrusive manicure and pedicure) will add attractiveness.
Appearance
The symbol of femininity is long hair and dresses. You don't have to grow your braids or have elaborate hairstyles. But you should get rid of crew cuts and the like. If there is no inner femininity, such hairstyles will make you look like a man. Soft curls, frivolous curls or straight shoulder-length hair will add charm. You don't have to do your hair every day. But clean and healthy hair is a must.
Flowing dresses or formal skirts will emphasize the femininity of the figure and add mystery. Heels - even low ones - will introduce fragile instability into your gait and visually lengthen your legs.
You should not put too much makeup on your face or drench yourself in perfume. A slight understatement of the smell will make men come closer. It is better not to overuse cosmetics, but to prefer a healthy complexion and the radiance of a snow-white smile.
