Satisfying a man requires more than just touching or stroking his body. Complete sexual satisfaction of a man is rather an art, and in order for you to have harmony in your relationship, you need to learn it as soon as possible.
From our article, you will not only learn how to please your husband in bed without much experience, but you will also please your partner and get pleasure in return. And this can improve your relationship in the future.
It has always been important for men to achieve sexual satisfaction when they desire it most. While there are many ways for women to make sure their men are happy in bed, some of the steps below will help them do just that.
Love foreplay
Contrary to all theories, men, just like women, need foreplay before sex. Try the love game. One of the best and proven ways to sexually satisfy a man is to awaken his inner self.
Yes, there are men who like to immediately engage in sexual intercourse, but these are mostly young and inexperienced guys. Older men like a little foreplay in sex. And if you use it, you can be sure that your partner will have a correct and longer orgasm. Even for a follower of Islam. By the way, are you wondering how to please your husband in bed in the latter case? In Islam, nothing prevents you from using the following tips:
- Don't underestimate the importance of background music. When you fill a room with a soothing, romantic melody, it can have a magical effect on both of you.
- Use the language always and everywhere. When you caress your partner in a teasing manner, it will completely awaken his senses.
- Continue to caress him gently. Your partner will probably appreciate the fact that you can't keep your hands off him.
The most erogenous zones of men
And now, when your man is prepared and warmed up with intimate caresses of the whole body, you can move on to gentle, soft touches to the male genital organs. Massage of the erogenous zones, especially the genitals, when the scrotum, testicles and phallus are grasped in a single ring of fingers and pulled up to the lower abdomen, produces an indescribably stimulating effect on a man. And, of course, oral games with these areas of the body will bring your man to ecstasy! To enhance an erection, you can also caress the area between the scrotum and anus - a very erogenous zone for many men.
Massaging a man's erogenous zones will not only lead to him achieving true pleasure, but will also bring pleasure to you. After all, stimulation of a partner often leads to stimulation of one’s own erogenous zones. Therefore, Estet-portal wishes you great sex and true pleasure. And do not forget to protect yourself, unless, of course, you are planning to have children.
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Enjoy yourself
Who said sex can't be fun? There are many different positions for this. And in order to learn how to please a man, you need to be innovative and try to create fun in what you do. Not only will your partner be pleased with your efforts, but you will also enjoy some intimate moments.
Do you want to know how to please your husband when everything is wrong and make your games in bed more fun? Then read on:
- Try to find positions that are unusual for you. You don't know which ones will work and which ones won't, so experiment. There may be times when strange noises are heard during sex, which will add extra excitement to you and your partner.
- Start a small but healthy competition between you and your man. Maybe you can challenge each other for the time it takes to reach your orgasms. For example, whoever reaches orgasm first wins and receives a prize.
Oral pleasure
Oral sex is the best and guaranteed sexual pleasure for your man. One of the main factors influencing male satisfaction is oral sex. It can be used as foreplay in sex or as a separate sexual act.
So, how can you please your husband? In Islam or any other faith, nothing can stop you from following the following advice:
- You can focus on working on the entire penis, but it will be less sensitive than the pleasure your partner will get from stimulating just the head.
- When performing oral sex, be sure to use a lot of saliva. This will stimulate the penis in the right direction and it will be more sensual.
Unexpected pleasure
Do men get orgasms from unplanned sex? Of course, and what a one! In its strength, it can significantly exceed the pleasure that a partner experiences during “planned” sex. Seduce a guy while shopping together or while visiting relatives. By the way, many girls also like such experiments - especially if their partner has a high libido and is able to “get turned on half a turn.”
Stimulating the mind
One of the simplest and at the same time effective ways to satisfy a man is conversation. But this is not about a conversation, but rather about your monologue.
When you whisper something sensual into your partner's ear, he quickly becomes aroused and begins to act. It so happened that everyone thinks that only a woman “loves with her ears,” but in fact, in men this is an erogenous zone, albeit not as pronounced as in a woman, but still...
By the way, in an intimate monologue, as in sexual intercourse in general, it is necessary to take into account what sign the partner is a representative of. Here is a small example of how to please your Leo husband. Whisper to him:
Secret point
There are fewer erogenous zones on a man's body than on a woman's body. Ears, nipples, knees, fingers, genitals - that's probably all. It's no wonder that during foreplay girls don't know what else to pay attention to!
Did you know about the existence of a male secret point? This is a kind of analogue of the G zone in a woman, only it is located outside the body. During sex, feel the man's tubercle between the anus and scrotum - and then start stimulating him! This massage will give your partner an even more intense orgasm.
- It is best to start stimulation shortly before ejaculation. As you approach orgasm, the tubercle becomes more and more noticeable, so it will not be difficult for a girl to feel it.
- To make the massage more effective, choose a suitable position. Not all positions allow you to reach a man's secret spot.
Stay attractive
How to please your Capricorn husband? Like any other sign, he will appreciate the following in you first of all: when you are around this man, you always need to stay in shape. And the benefits of this will be noticeable not only to you, but also to your partner, since he will feel that you are able to satisfy him in bed.
If you remain attractive to your man, this will affect his self-confidence, which, in turn, will affect his performance of marital duty.
As you can see, it's a win-win situation for both of you. In general, attractiveness is your best chance to impress your partner. This is one of those methods that will definitely work for you. After all, no man likes it when his woman does not take care of herself, is unkempt, unkempt, overweight, etc. Sex with such a woman will most likely not be very desirable.
Sex life of a Pisces man
He will take the initiative in the bedroom and become impatient if he doesn't get a quick response. A man born under the sign of Pisces experiences irritation when he is prevented from fulfilling his desires. He will be offended if you suggest choosing a more suitable time or place for sex. If he is overcome by sexual desire, he should take possession of you immediately.He has a penchant for secret dates and relationships, and often has affairs with married women. For him there are no moral or legal restrictions; he prefers to deal with an experienced, insatiable partner.
He likes it when a woman slowly undresses him, showering him with compliments. He loves to have sex on a chair. The partner sits astride his hips facing him. This position is ideal for foreplay as the hands remain free and lovers can caress each other's sensitive areas. The Pisces man excels in the art of love games.
I've heard from several Pisces men that they love the "fire and ice" method. (Obviously, he responds to the contradictory nature of their natures.) A bowl of crushed ice, wrapped in a wet towel, is placed near the bed. At the first signs of orgasm, when passion is heated to the limit, the partner takes a cold towel, presses it to the man’s groin and holds it there until ejaculation is completed. The effect of cold on the male organ not only increases arousal, but also “freezes” the orgasm, thereby prolonging it.
Another favorite technique for those born under the sign of Pisces is the following: a man strokes a woman’s toes with his penis, and then ejaculates into her mouth. Toes are of particular interest to him. He tends to fetishize them and takes pleasure in caressing this part of the female body, sucking it - especially through nylon stockings. (Don't reject this pleasure without experiencing it!)
He strives to fulfill his erotic fantasies. Most of these dreams are associated with a domineering woman who makes excessive, unreasonable and even repulsive demands on her partner, which he unsuccessfully tries to satisfy.
The Pisces man loves to use this erotic technique: lying under a woman, he will suck one of her breasts and leave his saliva on it. Moving his mouth to the other breast, he begins to tease and caress the moistened first nipple. Saliva gives a woman the feeling that her partner is caressing both breasts with his mouth, and this will double the pleasure she experiences. The Pisces man finds satisfaction by pleasing a woman.
Sadists and masochists will find in him a partner who is ready to play any role at their request. He wants to please. If his lover wants him to wear her bra, panties and gloves, he will meet her halfway. If she wants him to pretend to be a child, he will wrap himself in a diaper. If it occurs to her to humiliate him, spank him or punish him in some other way, she will not encounter resistance. He will willingly kneel down, kiss her feet and follow her orders.
If his woman likes to be looked at during intercourse, he will agree to become a spectator and will encourage her and his partner at the climax. He can become the third participant in a short or long-term “triple alliance”, in which he will perform cannilingus, fellatio and homosexual acts.
He will allow himself to be given an enema and will endure discomfort during foreplay, sexual intimacy and after it. Pressure on the intestines enhances orgasmic release. One Pisces man had a partner with sadistic tendencies, who, after the usual act, brought him orally to a second orgasm and only after that allowed him to go to the toilet.
Pisces achieve a similar effect by drinking large amounts of water or beer before a love fight. The pressure of fluid on the bladder provides greater pleasure during orgasm. The Pisces man willingly endures pain combined with pleasure if it excites his partner.
Erotic fantasies push those born under this sign to unusual forms of masturbation using soft rubber dolls, with which you can do whatever you want, or “pumps” that allow their use in a moving car.
Upon achieving an erection, Pisces love to put a tight rubber ring on the base of the penis, which not only prolongs the erection, but also generates sweet pain during orgasm.
The Pisces man is the sex addict of the Zodiac. He develops an addiction to everything that brings pleasure and release. His favorite methods are those in which pleasure is combined with pain. Most Pisces men like it when their partner bites their ears and genitals, or scratches their skin with her nails.
Make his fantasies come true
Every man has his own sexual fantasies. Some may want to transform themselves into someone during sex, others may want to engage in role-playing games, and others just need to eat before sex.
How to get to these sexual fantasies and, for example, how to please your husband in food so that sex after that will be unforgettable?
Another difficulty lies in the fact that some men can easily initiate their woman into these secrets, while others are simply embarrassed to do so. This means that your task in this case is to find out all the ins and outs from your partner. You can, of course, find out your man's fantasies by asking him about it directly. But remember, you shouldn't judge him by what fantasies he has.
If you already have an idea about them, it’s time to try yourself as their performer. You will gradually notice that your chosen one is opening up. And over time, he will talk even more about what he likes in sex.
Examples in history
Honore de Balzac once said: “If I am deprived of my penis and 9 fingers, I can bring a woman to orgasm with what I have left.”
This corpulent man, according to the recollections of numerous mistresses, did not have impressive dignity, but did not experience a lack of sexual relationships. A man makes a woman sexy, not the other way around.
It's sad to realize, but according to Clark Duncan, the idol of millions Ben Affleck doesn't have "star" dignity either.
Spaniard Enrique Iglesias quite frankly admits that he has a small penis, and he intends to release small condoms in the future.
Many people have heard about Daniel Craig's penis-double; alas, James Bond turned out to be far from a sex symbol in real life.
Former lovers of Eshtan Kucher and Eminem, after breaking up, also gave unambiguous descriptions of the merits of these outstanding men. Whether this is true can only be guessed at.
But Daniel Radcliffe demonstrated his “small” dignity quite openly in the play Equus. They didn't love him any less after that.
All these famous men know how to live with a small penis: with humor and without embarrassment. In the end, this physical defect is given by nature, which means there is no need to be ashamed of it. You can't change the obvious, you just have to accept it. Despite their modest penis sizes, women want and will want these men because there is something more in them than their penis size, namely beauty, talent and charisma.
Avoid monotony
Sometimes it’s easy for a man to lose interest in sex, because everything about it turns out to be monotonous. By the way, such a fastidious zodiac sign as Scorpio is especially prone to this. What to do and how to please a Scorpio man in sex? First of all, you need to take control of the situation and do something that will catch him off guard. Here are some tips, but you can fantasize endlessly:
- Invite your man to take a bath with you. If you haven't done this before, this would be a great idea. This simple method can easily awaken his senses and give him pleasure like never before. He may end up asking you to have sex right after the bath or while in the bath.
- There are no rules to only have sex in the bedroom. Why don't you change your scenery? Why not sit down with your man on the floor, on an armchair or on the sofa? Have you ever tried to seduce your partner on the kitchen table?
- Perhaps your partner lost interest in sex because you always dressed the same, and he got tired of it? Chances are that he will appreciate your sex suit that you buy especially for him.
Sex and impotence
If a man experiences the first symptoms of developing impotence, this does not mean that he should not have sex. Even attempts at intimacy take place in the life of a man who suffers from sexual impotence. It is important to lead a full, regular sex life. If you cannot achieve arousal on your own, you can use special medications that can be purchased at pharmacy chains (Viagra, Levitra, Cialis). But this option should not be present all the time. After eliminating impotence, these drugs are not recommended for use.
You also need to remember that drugs are only a temporary solution to the problem. But they will not eliminate the main cause of erectile dysfunction. The effect after taking medications is short-term, after which blood circulation deteriorates again. Therefore, many experts recommend not to self-medicate, but to consult a doctor who will conduct appropriate examinations, accurately determine the cause and prescribe competent therapy.
It is important to take therapeutic measures to cure impotence when this problem is at an early stage of development. Because the use of sexual stimulants should not be constant. First you need to get rid of the cause that causes the development of sexual impotence. In parallel with this, it is important to lead a full sex life. If you can't have sex, it is recommended to use stimulants. But intimate intimacy must be carried out, since otherwise stagnation will develop, provoking a worsening of the condition.
In many cases, sexual impotence develops due to certain psychological factors. This may be an unsuccessful experience in previous intimacy, especially if the sexual partner reacted too violently, hinting to the man about his failure. You need to be careful with the manifestation of emotions and expressions, because if a man loses self-confidence, it will be very difficult for him to regain it. Potency directly depends on the psychological mood of a man. Therefore, during sex, you should encourage your partner, give him compliments, convince him of his irresistibility, and emphasize his advantages. This is very important to restore the old trust.
Tease him
Remember this important little thing - there is no need to be serious all the time, tease a man at every opportunity. If you want to please him, you need to play love games with him not only in the bedroom but everywhere. Sex is not something you can turn on or off. Good sex is those feelings that accumulate constantly throughout the day and spill out on each other in the evening.
Are you wondering how to please your husband in bed and is it possible to tease your man for this? Follow the tips below:
Confidence is the key to victory
Make a man feel confident, encourage all his actions. This is just as important as making sure you look attractive to him most of the time. Encourage your chosen one, this will make him feel confident. For example, you can tell him how talented, funny, or amazing he is.
Do you want to boost his self-confidence, but you don't know how? Here are some tips:
- Encourage him if he goes to an important meeting, interview or exam, praise him and tell him how special he is to you. This will make him feel that way, and he will probably repay you in kind, only in bed.
- Pamper him more often, cook him something tasty. Call him during the day, but don't push him.
After this, his feeling of love for you will only grow.
Add some rough edges to your sex
Sex doesn't always have to be romantic, loving, or sweet. Sex can be dirty and a little rough. And if you find that your man likes it, then why not give it a try.
Are you interested in knowing how to introduce roughness or add some specificity to your sex? Here are some simple tips:
Oral sex: how to please a guy
Why men love blowjobs so much is no secret:
- they are visual people - they are excited by the view from above of a sexy woman, open to depraved and forbidden actions;
- During oral sex, sensations are mixed: who is in charge and who is submissive. The man seems to have given the woman the control panel, but by holding her by the hair and shoulders, he can regulate the pace;
- caresses with the tongue are not like either the hands or the vagina - they are more gentle and soft, and the orgasm from these sensations is stronger and brighter;
- Guys have a reverent attitude towards their penis, therefore, when giving a blowjob, the girl also expresses love and admiration;
- During oral sex, a man fully concentrates on pleasure, he does not think about the girl, about her orgasm, about “not cumming.” It dissolves...
Secrets of an unforgettable blowjob:
- want him. Take the penis in your mouth, lick it, enjoy the growing erection. Without desire, don’t start. You shouldn't give a blowjob for show or marital duty;
- take your time, increase the pace gradually and don’t chase orgasm. Enjoy every step.
- push your penis deeper gradually. If you don’t want to do a deep blowjob, lick the head of the penis and the frenulum: these are the most sensitive parts;
- make massage movements with your hands: place them on the scrotum or buttocks;
- do not use teeth and nails. Will come in handy next time!
