How to make your husband earn money
There is still an opinion that the role of a man in a married couple is to ensure financial well-being. However, modern society has also forced a woman to take the path of a breadwinner and support her family on an equal basis with a man. But what to do if the husband refuses to work, and the following responsibilities fall on the fragile female shoulders: feeding the family and arranging everyday life? No person can be sure that he will not lose his job. In this case, it is worth distinguishing between two situations: firstly, when a man is looking for a job he likes, and, secondly, when the husband is not going to work for the good of the family.
There are the following reasons why the strong half of humanity does not want to look for work:
Alphonse man. If a man whom a woman is accustomed to consider as family, uses only the benefits bestowed by his wife, but is in no hurry to give anything in return, it’s worth thinking about! If you have any doubts about whether you are keeping a gigolo, it is recommended to pay attention to three factors. The first criterion by which a gigolo chooses a victim is the lady’s financial security. If we talk about the second sign of a typical gigolo, it is a categorical reluctance to spend money on a woman. The third indispensable characteristic of a gigolo is considered to be escaping from a lady who is having financial difficulties. In addition, if you force such a man to work, he will also run away. A real gigolo will never, under any circumstances, get a job.
An unrecognized genius. A man belonging to this group has absolutely no doubt about his own genius. He will always claim that there is little time left before he is recognized and, accordingly, before he makes huge earnings. The unrecognized genius is so passionate about himself and his hobby that he does not notice how his wife works for two.
Lazy man. Who, if not a lazy person, feels disgust at the thought of looking for a job? After all, exciting idleness looks so attractive. A lazy man will generously feed his wife with daily promises that he will get a permanent job. Often lazy husbands tend to build castles in the air.
Weak-willed man. Some representatives of the stronger half of humanity experience self-doubt. A man who is unsure of his own abilities needs constant support.
There is no vacancy in the specialty. Sometimes the lack of permanent work is explained by the lack of a corresponding vacancy. However, this does not exclude the possibility of finding at least temporary part-time work. In this case, the man’s desire plays a key role.
In order to solve this problem, a woman needs to do the following:
Find out the real reason that prevents your husband from finding a job.
If your husband feels insecure, then you should cheer him up. Help in finding a vacancy is allowed.
Ultimatum. For men who do not find work because of laziness, there is only one way out. It is necessary to set a strict condition: either get a job, or let him feed himself.
Visit to a psychologist. Probably, the reluctance to work is due to subconscious fear.
In any case, the woman must decide on her own whether to tolerate or part with a lazy husband.
How to make your husband develop?
One of the most frequently asked questions! And unfortunately, few people can answer it competently. Today we will look at this issue in more detail!
Let's first describe the situation: You go to trainings and developmental events, constantly watch videos and read posts on development, and your husband looks at you with caution and periodically makes jokes, such as “you were dragged into a sect...” and the like. At the same time, he himself does not show any such interest in anything and responds either rudely or indifferently to offers to join you.
Of course, you have a similar “puzzle” in your head - in order to achieve something in Life you need to constantly develop, but he lies in front of the TV or tinkers with the car and is not interested in anything else. With such a person you won’t become a millionaire and you won’t be able to travel 150 days a year...
