Close contact: why people in Russia don’t like to kiss and smile little

A man loves not only with his eyes, but also with his ears. Therefore, when you kiss your partner, accompany your caresses with sensual moans. A man is not just aroused by such sounds. At the same time, your lips tremble, further stimulating his erogenous zones.

Hint

Another way to drive a man crazy is to give him a kiss with dry lips, but not on the lips. Slowly, barely touching, run your lips over his face - forehead, temples, cheekbones.

The fact is that there are small, barely noticeable hairs on the face, which when touched gently create pleasant sensations.

Classics of the genre

Kissing on the lips can be tricky too. How to kiss a man to get him excited quickly? To do this, gently pinch his lower lip between your lips and slightly pull it towards you.

If at this time a man does the same with your upper lip, the desired effect will be achieved faster.

The palate is one of the most sensitive areas of the body. So next time you kiss, run your tongue across the roof of his mouth a few times.

Some men claim that this can arouse their desire.

Contrast kiss

Give your man contrasting kisses. To do this, pour cold water into one glass and some hot drink (coffee or tea) into the other. Take a small sip of the hot drink and touch the man’s wrist with your lips.

After giving a few “hot” kisses, take a sip of cold water and start kissing him again. Such contrasting caresses will make an even greater impression on a man if he is blindfolded.

His erogenous zones

Ears
Slowly move your lips around his ear, barely touching the edges of his ears. This will awaken his sensuality and receptivity. Then gently pinch your earlobe with your lips and pull it slightly towards you. This is necessary in order to activate the nerve endings inside the auricle. Don't forget that ears are one of a man's erogenous zones.
Neck
Another incredibly sensitive area. Many people consider a kiss on the neck to be an expression of a partner's frank desire. To excite a man, you need to kiss the sides of the neck: from the ears - down. At the same time, not only kisses are good, but also light pinching of the lips and biting.
Nipples
Are they an exclusively female erogenous zone? No. Male nipples are also very sensitive. You can caress them with either a tense tip of your tongue or a relaxed tongue. As surveys show, most men find such caresses a lot of pleasure.
Fingers
If you think that kissing hands does not excite him, then you are mistaken. Touch the tip of your tongue to the skin between his fingers and slowly move it to the tip of one of his fingers. Excitement will make a man tremble, since this area, like the ears, is very sensitive. Finally, gently squeeze the tip of his finger with your lips.

Secret "buttons"

Belly
On a man's body, in the area between the navel and the genitals, there is a very sensitive area. Pay special attention to her immediately before sex. A few gentle but quite passionate kisses in this area will turn him on in a matter of seconds. But do not rush to go lower - caress this particular place for several minutes.
Spine
If your man loves being massaged, then he will definitely like this unusual massage using the tongue. Have your man lie on his stomach. Approach him from behind and touch the back of his head with your lips. Then slowly kiss his spine, as well as the areas to his right and left, gradually moving lower and lower. If massage with hands relaxes, then massage with tongue, on the contrary, excites.
Legs
Women believe that men don't like foreplay. But this is again incorrect. Another way to drive a man crazy is to caress the skin of his legs from the knees to the hips. Squat down in front of the man and, with slow, gentle movements, run your tongue over the skin above the knees, gradually rising higher.
Knees
There are a lot of nerve endings in the knee area, which is why people are very often afraid of tickling in this place. The popliteal cavity is especially sensitive. Caress this area with the tip of your tongue, accompanying the kisses with deep and slow breathing.

In most cases, men do not take hints, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships. It is generally accepted that representatives of the stronger half of humanity need clarification. But what should a young lady who wants to kiss a guy do? Don't talk about it openly. Hence the need to use feminine tricks, which we will talk about today.

Method No. 1. Use the magical power of your eyes

A girl's eyes are a powerful weapon. With the right approach, they will win the heart of even the most sophisticated young man. Sometimes a gaze is enough instead of a thousand words and hints.
It is important to observe moderation in everything, otherwise the young man will consider you too intrusive and will be afraid. Avoid looking from under your brows, otherwise the guy will think that you are looking at him with contempt.
What to do in such a situation? Find a suitable time when you will be alone with your gentleman. Strangers or friends should not interfere with an important moment.
Talk to the boy, react to his jokes, smile sweetly and laugh. After a certain time, when mutual understanding and connection appear between you, sit in silence for a while, look at his lips.
Then look up to your eyes, and then back to your lips. Keep it up. Perhaps the young man will not understand the hint right away. Be persistent, but not annoying.
A good option would be to look from under lowered eyelashes during your conversation with him. Be flirtatious, but not provocative. Try to seem nice. The girl must be a mystery.

Method No. 2. Focus on your lips

It is known that lips are the instrument for kissing. Make sure that this part of the face is always in well-groomed condition. Guys divide girls into several types. One of the types is the person you want to kiss. Constantly. Be like that.
If it's hot outside, carry a moisturizing balm with you to prevent your lips from drying out. In windy and frosty weather, nourish your sponges with cream or hygienic lipstick.
It should be borne in mind that guys do not like girls with provocative makeup. Before kissing, do not paint your lips too brightly. It is better to use a colorless, non-sticky gloss. If possible, avoid makeup altogether.
To make a man want to kiss you, use some tricks. Touch your lips with your fingers while making your gaze thoughtful. Lightly bite your lower lip or lick it casually.
Don't forget about the guy's lips. Throughout the conversation, systematically look at them, then move your gaze to their eyes. The young man will understand your hints and want to kiss you.
Remember, when performing such manipulations you should look as natural as possible. For some ladies, biting and licking looks very vulgar. Practice in front of a mirror first.

Method number 3. Touch

There is an equally effective method to hint a guy for a kiss - tactile contact, or touching. Don’t be afraid to touch the young man, he won’t bite you and won’t jump away as if from fire.
Try to touch gently, finding the right reason. You can brush an invisible speck of dust from his shirt during a conversation or lightly tap him on the knee while telling a funny story.
Going to the cinema with your boyfriend? While watching the film, touch the young man’s palm with your hand. After watching, ask the guy to accompany you to the entrance under the pretext that it is not safe to go yourself.
As you walk towards your destination, you “accidentally” stumble. A polite guy will ask you to take his arm or support you. If he didn't do this, be bold and take his hand yourself.
Systematically reducing the distance will relieve you of awkwardness and set you up for a romantic wave. Touching the skin and hugging are considered especially effective.
You shouldn't be shy before hugging a guy goodbye and staying in that position for a few seconds. You don't have to go kiss him. It is enough to show the young man that you are not against the development of further relationships.

Method number 4. Shorten the distance

You don't have to hint at a kiss. You can create a situation where the guy himself will understand what to do. Get so close to the boy that he has no choice but to kiss you.
Another case - during the conversation, begin to quickly approach the young man. Get close to him so that your lips are 5 cm apart. Continue talking quietly.
It doesn't matter what kind of situation you plan for. Before the main actions, make sure that the guy has a reciprocal sympathy for you. Otherwise, you will seem frivolous and vulgar to him.

Friendly and family hugs

Such dreams may begin to infiltrate your nightly rest if you have children together or the relationship is not over, despite a divorce. Usually, many continue to hope that everything will soon be the same again if the other half realizes his guilt, even if everything is extremely clear.

Against the background of scandals, quarrels and various showdowns in a dream, sympathy for each other may again appear, and people for some time become husband and wife again.

The dream book writes that these dreams themselves show that the relationship will improve and simply become friendly, however, this may not happen right away. In some situations, modern books on dream interpretation write that you may unexpectedly be united by some affairs and problems, or that after a while you will make peace.

Often dreams in which your spouse begins to hug you like a relative and kiss you mean trouble that will unite you very unexpectedly.

For example, if there are any problems with common children or something unexpected happens. For example, a wife may be abandoned by her lover, whom she was counting on and with whom she was going to get back together to spite her husband.

Or she realizes that she does not need such a relationship at all and understands the value of her husband, unless, of course, respect for him is completely lost. Therefore, frequent friendly kisses and hugs predict reconciliation or distant prospects for you.

If the husband initiated the divorce and left for another woman, then why dream that he begins to show kindred feelings towards you?

The dream book writes that this man may realize his guilt and return to you, or he is bored, but has not yet decided on his final choice.

The dream book writes that very soon he will remember you and dream of meeting you. However, it may become very late.

In any case, friendly hugs and a dream of a benevolent husband predicts reconciliation, friendly relations, or the fact that you will be together again, however, the dream book does not write when exactly this can happen.

However, visions in which such dreams are repeated mean that you can meet again very soon and that the relationship is not over yet. Perhaps the spouse will remind you of himself again.

If he kissed you tenderly, timidly, beautifully and with great respect, this is a sign that he admits his guilt and mistake in front of you, but does not dare to take the first step himself. Although after such a dream, your husband may even ask you for forgiveness.

And if he tries to kiss you goodbye, then your relationship will definitely improve, or you will part forever, without regrets or tears. However, this will be an important life stage for both of you that cannot be avoided.

Method No. 5. Be bold and decisive

This radical method is suitable for a determined girl. Men like straightforward ladies who say what they want. It’s worth taking advantage of this and provoking the guy to kiss.
If I were you, you don’t have to resort to feminine tricks. Put the man in an awkward position, ask him directly if he likes you. In this case, the guy will not expect such a turn and will answer as honestly as possible due to hopelessness.
The man will understand that you have sympathy for him, and will decide for himself whether he needs to take more serious action. Perhaps the guy will not immediately decide to kiss, but the whole situation will make him think. If there is sympathy between you, everything will happen as planned.
You can cheat a little and argue in some situation. The reward should be a kiss; a similar game would be suitable for a similar purpose. In this case, the guy will not get away. You can, for example, play cards.
Remember that your goal is not to seduce a man, but to motivate him to take decisive action. The guy needs to understand that he likes you too. If he likes you, the result will not be long in coming. The guy will definitely take decisive action and kiss you.

Excess cosmetics.
It is worth understanding that excess makeup can hinder a guy’s determination. He may not kiss you just because you have bright lipstick or a lot of gloss on your lips. Not every man likes the taste of cosmetics. In this case, when going to a meeting or date, you should give preference to a colorless balm. The product will make your lips soft with a pleasant aroma.
Fresh breath.
It is worth remembering that no matter how thoroughly we clean our mouth in the morning, everything disappears by lunchtime. No one enjoys kissing someone who has bad breath. In this case, it is recommended to resort to the help of lollipops or chewing gum. Take advantage of the treat before meeting the desired man.
Assess compatibility.
If you come to the conclusion that the guy is not decisive and all responsibility for the kiss falls on you, think about whether it is even worth starting a relationship with a timid man. It is worth understanding that his timid character is unlikely to change; the man will be like this all his life. In rare cases, there are exceptions, but you shouldn't hope for a miracle.
A secluded place.
If the responsibility for the kiss still falls on you, or the guy is not very decisive, you need to create a secluded environment in which no one will disturb you. To do this, you should avoid public places, try to take a walk in the park, or give preference to the classic scenario. Hint your guy about a movie, get tickets to the last row of a romantic story. The situation will provoke decisive action. Touch the guy with your palm and watch the reaction.
Extraneous thoughts.
Inappropriate thoughts in the current situation can ruin the romantic moment, so you will have to direct yourself in a certain way. Don't worry about what the guy might be thinking right now or what you look like. With a mutual kiss, the man will have positive emotions only about you. If a guy is decisive, he will tell you how good you are.

Every girl, wanting to hint a kiss to a guy, should use the tools at hand. Use your eyes, look at the young man’s lips more often, reduce the distance. Learn common mistakes and don't make them.

Close contact: why people in Russia don’t like to kiss and smile little

On the eve of World Kissing Day, which is celebrated on July 6, the All-Russian Center for the Study of Public Opinion (VTsIOM) conducted an interesting survey among Russians. According to its results, it turned out that 52% of our fellow citizens like to kiss, 38% said that they do not like this activity, and 9% found it difficult to answer. At the same time, 49% of respondents often kiss when meeting relatives and friends, 42% rarely kiss. 7% of Russians never use a kiss as a greeting. More than 1,600 people aged 18 years and older took part in the survey. MIR 24 decided to find out why almost 40% of Russians don’t like to kiss, where stereotypes that kissing is harmful come from, and how a person’s tendency to touch depends on geography. A dislike for kisses should not be considered a deviation, says psychologist Olga Tvardovskaya.

“Of course, there is no need to consider this [love of kissing] as a norm - maybe as some kind of social thing when it is passed on from generation to generation. Everyone knows that in the Soviet Union “there was no sex,” and many mothers passed on to their children such a stereotype as “kissing is not healthy.” Very often it happens [seen] even in consultations that girls cannot open up as women. And they wanted to introduce sex education in school precisely because it is one of the most important things in human life,” says the psychologist.

It is curious that, according to the survey results, the answer “I don’t like kissing” was most often given by women (41%), while among men the same was only 35%. Thus, the stereotype that women are more likely to be affectionate towards their partner and friends can be safely criticized. This can be explained by the fact that there are different types of temperaments, and depending on individual inclinations, both men and women may have different attitudes towards touch, including such pleasant and important for the beginning of a romantic relationship as a kiss, notes Tvardovskaya.

“The fact is that there are tactile people and non-tactile people, they are just different types. Non-tactile people simply don't like to be touched; they maintain their distance, and they do not like being approached, being stroked, or being kissed. Just like the type of temperament, this can be overcome, but it cannot be completely removed,” says the psychologist.

In addition to the topic of kissing, the study also included questions about how people greet loved ones and colleagues. Most often, Russians greet their loved ones with words (56%), hugs (55%), a handshake (50%) and a smile (41%). When meeting colleagues, Russians most often greet colleagues with words (58%), a handshake (54%), a smile (31%), a nod (24%) and only 2% with a kiss. It is worth noting that in different countries, attitudes towards kissing vary depending on the national mentality. However, over time, society changes, and some traditions become universal - for example, in many countries a handshake is common when meeting. But there are also some nuances here, notes Olga Tvardovskaya.

“Of course, there are certain stereotypes of behavior: here it is accepted this way, somewhere it is accepted differently. For example, in the United Arab Emirates, Tunisia and other countries, men walk holding hands, but for our mentality this is somewhat unusual. But when people go to [psychological] trainings, they become closer, and there it becomes normal if people hug each other. This is simply overcoming certain stereotypes and generally accepted norms. If a person can go beyond these standards, then that’s great. Close contact is good,” says the psychologist.

The researchers also found that only 31% of Russians surveyed greeted people with a smile. Is the stereotype true that Russians are an unsmiling nation? Tvardovskaya assures: all these myths about acceptable and unacceptable behavior are deeply rooted in our consciousness, and, of course, it is important to remember where certain national characteristics come from. But you shouldn’t take them too seriously either.

“Sigmund Freud, in his essays on the theory of sexuality, wrote that among African women the back of the head has long been considered the sexiest part of the body. They smeared it with scented oils and when they showed the back of the man's head, he simply went crazy with lust. Do you understand that if we show the back of our head to someone, then this probably won’t happen? Of course, in all countries there are certain stereotypes, and there are people who are more inclined to conform to these stereotypes and those who are less inclined. The best thing, of course, is to learn to feel yourself, but this is a very long process,” notes the psychologist.

The widespread opinion that southerners are more impulsive, smile more often and speak loudly compared to northerners is not without rational grain, the doctor emphasizes. “There [in southern countries] there is more vitamin D, more sun, and, accordingly, people are more relaxed, so they are more inclined to smile, more inclined to have close contacts. And, for example, in northern Denmark people are not inclined to have close contacts: even many neighbors there do not know each other, and it is not customary for them to visit. It’s the same in Finland: Finns try not to come close to each other, keep their distance, and it is considered bad manners when a person approaches and somehow violates the personal space of another,” the expert concluded.

Video: how to make a guy kiss you first

Of course, no one will argue that kissing is an important part of sexual play. They can express the most different shades of ours. And they are just nice.

What is the meaning of kissing in different places?

Head
. Yes, in the place of the kiss, a person’s experiences are really expressed. For example, it is generally accepted that a kiss on the head has the meaning not of passion, but of patronage. This especially applies to a kiss on the forehead or top of the head. If we are talking about a man’s kiss, the meaning is most likely care and tenderness. There is usually no sexual connotation here. However, receiving such a kiss is still very pleasant, because it proves that someone is showing concern on their part.

As for the kiss on the temple, the meaning is not so obvious. There is no doubt that it also means tenderness and care. But usually such a kiss is considered sexier than a forehead kiss.

Back
. Considering the meanings of kisses on different parts of the body, you can see that kisses not on the head have a more pronounced sexual meaning. This can also be said about a kiss on the back, the meaning of which is passion, desire, delight. In general, kissing on the body is always an indecent hint. It is generally accepted that the back along the spine is an erogenous zone. Kisses in this place will evoke a reciprocal desire to be with your loved one.
Lips
. Oddly enough, but a kiss on the lips means that’s all.

Of course, you can kiss the lips in different ways. For example, if a man lightly bites his lips while kissing, this means that he wants to dominate the couple. But a kiss on the corner of the mouth has a different meaning. It means tenderness, the desire to be with your beloved, but also some uncertainty.

Eyes
. Psychologists believe that if a man kisses a woman with his eyes open, this means that he wants to control her, and can even be interpreted as mistrust or jealousy, especially if he also bites her. If he closes his eyes, he demonstrates trust, tenderness, and a desire to be together. Tenderness also means a kiss on the eyes. Such affection shows that there is interest in your partner.

In general, you should kiss the way you want. Scientists have already proven that kissing heals the body and prolongs life. And knowing their meanings, it will be possible to easily determine what feelings a person has for his partner.

An unlucky omen. Kneeling means humiliation. Knees are buckling - the stress of recent days will lead to an exacerbation of a chronic disease. Admiring your knees is a vain expectation of reciprocity; the attention of the opposite sex to you is empty. Sitting on someone's lap means you will be denied the support of an influential person. They sit on your lap - condemnation of people whose opinions are dear to you. Being wounded in the knee means a business partner will leave the business. Crawling on your knees means losing a source of regular income. Knees hurt - joy and happiness will be replaced by pain and disappointment. Dirty - your behavior will cause a family scandal.

Imagine getting up from your knees and putting leather guards on them.

Interpretation of dreams from the Dream Book of Simeon Prozorov

Sensitive points on a man's body

Ears are one of the erogenous zones. A man becomes very pleased when gentle words are whispered in his ear about what a girl wants to do with him and what to get from him. Men like vulgarity. This technique can lead to excitement. At this point, the foreplay will end and he will move on to decisive action. He will like light biting of the earlobe and kisses. Before doing this, you can run your tongue along the edge of your ear.

The area between the navel and pubis is a large area for caressing. By paying attention to this zone, a partner can turn a guy on in a few minutes, and he will expect more. You can tease a guy if you start kissing him along the iliac line from the pubis up and back. Kissing around the navel has a stimulating effect, there are quite a lot of nerve endings there.

Some guys have very sensitive thighs, especially the inner thighs. Men are quite teased if these places are gently bitten, kissed, or licked.

To increase the sensitivity of touch, the partner is offered to blindfold. It's very sexy when he wonders where he'll be kissed next. If a girl wants him to go crazy, she uses this technique.

About 30% of men admit that their erogenous zone is the neck. To excite with a kiss, time is devoted to the partner’s neck, the area around the face, and the Adam’s apple. Such touches will look innocent; under no circumstances should you use your tongue.

What do men like in sex?

Intimate areas

With oral sex, we tend to pay attention to the penis, forgetting about the testicles. Even if this is not the most attractive part of the body, it is very sensitive. Guys love it and go crazy when their partner caresses them in this area.

Even if a girl is not going to resort to oral sex, in order to please a man, you can touch the intimate area with the tip of your tongue and lips. Such a gesture of attention, and he will immediately want to move on to sex.

Of course, no one will argue that kissing is an important part of sexual play. They can express the most different shades of ours. And they are just nice.

What is the meaning of kissing in different places?

Head
. Yes, in the place of the kiss, a person’s experiences are really expressed. For example, it is generally accepted that a kiss on the head has the meaning not of passion, but of patronage. This especially applies to a kiss on the forehead or top of the head. If we are talking about a man’s kiss, the meaning is most likely care and tenderness. There is usually no sexual connotation here. However, receiving such a kiss is still very pleasant, because it proves that someone is showing concern on their part.

As for the kiss on the temple, the meaning is not so obvious. There is no doubt that it also means tenderness and care. But usually such a kiss is considered sexier than a forehead kiss.

Back
. Considering the meanings of kisses on different parts of the body, you can see that kisses not on the head have a more pronounced sexual meaning. This can also be said about a kiss on the back, the meaning of which is passion, desire, delight. In general, kissing on the body is always an indecent hint. It is generally accepted that the back along the spine is an erogenous zone. Kisses in this place will evoke a reciprocal desire to be with your loved one.
Lips
. Oddly enough, but a kiss on the lips means that’s all.

Eyes
. Psychologists believe that if a man kisses a woman with his eyes open, this means that he wants to control her, and can even be interpreted as mistrust or jealousy, especially if he also bites her. If he closes his eyes, he demonstrates trust, tenderness, and a desire to be together. Tenderness also means a kiss on the eyes. Such affection shows that there is interest in your partner.

Imagine getting up from your knees and putting leather guards on them.

Interpretation of dreams from the Dream Book of Simeon Prozorov

Dream Interpretation - Knees

Symbolizes stability.

If you dreamed of a wounded, bruised knee: regardless of whether it is yours or someone else’s, the dream warns you of possible failures. It seems that the business in which you are interested is threatening to end in failure. The dream advises you to be more careful and not take unnecessary risks.

Seeing someone kneeling, or kneeling yourself: a sign that you can achieve stability by accepting circumstances as they are. By submitting, you will find the desired stability.

Sitting on someone's lap: means that there is a person in your environment, by trusting whom you can gain confidence in your future.

For an unmarried woman, such a dream may indicate a happy marriage, in which she will feel “like behind a stone wall.”

Holding someone on your lap: symbolizes your care for someone.

Interpretation of dreams from

Some kisses are more arousing than others. Romantic kisses always make the heart beat faster. This happens because in fact such a kiss is more than a simple connection of the lips and tongues of the partners.

What is this energy that fills a romantic kiss? This is a connection of souls, a mystical, spiritual fusion that goes beyond physical reality. In order to believe in the existence of this force, it is not at all necessary to be a believer. You can simply start from the fact that the magic of relationships between people arises from chemical reactions that occur in the heart. No astrological or philosophical system can adequately explain this phenomenon. So, the secret to the romance of a pulse-quickening kiss lies in a special situation that allows people to connect on some spiritual level through gaze, conversation, dance or touch. Be sincere in your conversations with your girlfriend. Smile at her from across the room when you catch her eye.

Is a simple kiss really more romantic than a French kiss?

One hundred percent! In almost any situation, a simple kiss is much more romantic than a kiss using tongue. According to statistics, 46% of women complain that their partners’ kisses are not always romantic. “How can I make him kiss like in the movies?” - they ask themselves. The guy reading these lines should assume that his girlfriend thinks the same way. Of course, you shouldn’t ask her if this is really the case, but I absolutely guarantee that if you are romantic, she will appreciate it. She will really like kisses that are stupid, from your point of view, leading nowhere and not exciting.

In what situation is a kiss on the eyes possible?

Maximum romantic, a kiss on the eyes is great for a situation when your girlfriend is very upset about something or is crying. By kissing her eyes, you seem to dry her tears with a kiss. At the same time, you will avoid discussing a topic that is unpleasant for her and at the same time show sympathy.

In addition, a kiss on the eyes is suitable when you just want variety and tenderness.

Remember that this kiss expresses such romantic love that some may find it too “sweet.” If you see that your partner did not expect you to show so much tenderness and affection, end the kiss on the eyes with some rougher kiss, like a kiss-bite.

What kisses do women find most arousing?

Women like neck kisses 10 times more than men. It’s unclear why, but a kiss on the neck drives women crazy. If you don't kiss your girlfriend on the neck, you risk losing her. The statistics speak for themselves: more than 97% of women are aroused by a kiss on the neck.

What's the best way to kiss a girl on the neck?

The answer is in the remark of one girl: “When a guy hugs me from behind, when I feel his breath on my neck, when he bites or kisses me, it seems that I receive an electric discharge of a thousand volts!” This is exactly what is required of a guy. Remove the hair from her neck, gently bite or kiss her neck - and she will melt in your arms!

How else can you kiss her neck?

Start with a kiss on the lips, then after a few kisses, slide down and gently kiss the neck. Return to her lips. After a while, kiss her on the neck again, kiss her under the chin, on the side and behind. Observe her reaction - this is very important. If she looks bored, try some other kiss, but usually a kiss on the neck has a strong arousing effect on a woman.

How do women respond to neck kisses?

I'm getting wild!
It drives me crazy!
When he kisses my neck, my skin starts to crawl.
I love the feeling of teeth on my neck, light nipping, sucking movements - I love everything!
I go crazy when he kisses my neck. This turns me on very much.
When my boyfriend kisses my neck, I start shaking with pleasure. The same thing happens when he kisses my ear, but still the sensation is sharper from a kiss on my neck.

Do girls like kisses on the ear?

Oh yeah! If a guy neglects his girlfriend's ears, he misses a great chance to excite her with the simplest kiss. The fact is that girls love ear kisses 2 times more than guys. “When I asked my boyfriend to kiss my ear,” says one girl, “he looked at me like I was crazy. I told him that it gave me great pleasure, but since he didn’t like it himself, he decided that I couldn’t like it either. Although I actually really enjoy it. Should I tell him that this really turns me on (and it really does)? Well, guys, do you understand? Women not only love ear kisses more than men, but they also respond to them much faster and more intensely.

What's the best way to kiss a girl on the ear?

First, kiss the outside of your ear. Then - the lobe. If you want, you can even gently bite or suck on it. The most important thing to remember here is that when kissing the ear, you influence not only tactile, but also auditory stimuli. Despite your best efforts not to make any sounds, you will not be able to avoid them completely. But you can muffle them by softly whispering all sorts of love nonsense into her ear, for example: “My dear, you stepped on my foot!” No, I'm serious, no matter what you whisper to her at this moment (even a phrase like: “Honey, did you pay the rent?”), it will have an exciting effect on her. This all happens because the proximity of the sound source amplifies it and adds the sound of a whisper to it.

In addition, the warmth and softness of your lips will play an important role. At this stage, almost nothing will seem wrong, unless you start talking in your normal voice - it will seem too loud to her. Don't make any loud noise as this may damage her eardrums. Sighs like “Oh-oh-oh!”, or “Mmm-mm!”, or something like that are suitable here - she will like everything, all sorts of pleasant meaningless phrases that mean nothing but love.

What is a teasing kiss?

First of all, agree with your girlfriend that for one minute during the kiss she will not respond to you and will let you kiss her. Now kiss her with the most sensual kiss you can imagine. However, the rules of the game prohibit your girlfriend from responding to your kiss; she must purse her lips tightly and not open her mouth.

A sign of trust!

Why we started kissing is still a mystery. However, it is generally believed that a kiss used to be a sign of trust. By allowing another person to come so close to themselves, people showed that they were not afraid of him, that they trusted him completely.

Today they say that we still have not lost the habit of kissing, because we like this process, because it gives us pleasure.

It doesn't matter which answer is actually correct. People have been kissing for so many centuries that kissing has become an integral part of their culture, and peoples all over the world have taken and continue to take part in the development of the art of kissing.

The ABCs of kissing

The development of the kiss began around 3000 BC, when people, worshiping the gods, sent them kisses.

In ancient Rome, not only friends and family members, but also merchants and passers-by were kissed as a sign of greeting.

At the same time, practically no one knew anything about kissing in Egypt. It is believed that Queen Cleopatra, known for her numerous love victories, never kissed a man.

In the Middle Ages in Italy, a man who kissed a girl in public had to marry her.

The history of the origin of the custom of putting crosses to indicate kisses at the end of a letter is interesting. The people of the Middle Ages for the most part were illiterate, therefore, when signing an agreement, for example, on the sale and purchase of land or other goods, they simply put a cross in place of their name and kissed it as a sign of the sincerity of their intentions.

During the great plague in London in 1665, a ban was imposed on the greeting kiss, which was then popular in society. The fear of dying from a kiss from a neighbor or friend made popular signs of greeting such as curtseying, bowing, raising a hat, waving, etc.

In 1979, David Bowie invented the “lipograph” - an imprint of a person’s lips, which is his intimate autograph. In America, there was even an auction of lipographs of famous people. All proceeds, amounting to $16,000, went to the Children's Defense Fund. At this auction, one Mick Jagger lip print sold for $1,600.

Class differences in kissing!

In the Middle Ages, performing a greeting kiss depended not only on the relationships that existed between people, but also on class affiliation. The lower a person's status, the farther from his face he placed the kiss. Equals were kissed on the lips, people of slightly higher rank were kissed on the hand, people of even higher class were kissed on the knee, and those for whom you are just dust (primarily the clergy) had to kiss their feet or even the ground at their feet. This is where the line came from: “I’m ready to kiss the sand you walked on”...

A kiss that says: “Good luck and happiness”!

A wedding is never complete without a kiss. In fact, it is believed that if the bride does not cry when the groom kisses her for the first time during the wedding, their marriage will be unhappy.

A kiss - a wish for happiness and good luck - was born during another annual holiday - Christmas. The tradition of kissing under mistletoe dates back to the rites of the Druids, who believed that this plant had magical powers. But some people believe that kissing lottery tickets can also bring good luck. This has never helped me specifically.

Why does he kiss without tongue?

The relationship between a man and a woman is a purely intimate matter. But this was until recently. The current era dictates new rules of life and behavior of people. Now many people put their relationships on public display. And no one is embarrassed to kiss passionately in front of a large audience. Modern girls are much more advanced in matters of love than guys. This is where a lot of inconsistencies begin. Here is one of the quite popular ones - girls ask their girlfriends a question or surf the Internet in search of an answer to the question why her man doesn’t kiss with his tongue. It would seem that what’s wrong with that? As research on women's forums shows, this is the question that most worries the fairer sex. As it turned out, it is the tongue that betrays more passion in a kiss. The sensations are completely different. But your man doesn’t kiss and that’s all. Well, what can you do? The girl has a million ideas in her head, half of them are absolutely crazy, but that’s not what we’re talking about now. They immediately start looking for a solution to the problem. Why is that so? Or maybe he doesn't like it? Maybe I'm not a good kisser? etc

You can fiddle around in search of an answer for a long time. Because there can be many reasons for this case - from banal inability and timidity in such matters, to simple rejection of such kisses. Men, like women, are completely different, and what is normal for one is absolutely abnormal for another. in order to fully express your feelings, just a gentle kiss on the lips is enough, and some people need a hot kiss with the tongue to express themselves. Stereotypes about kissing with the tongue are dictated to us by modern cinema and the behavior of modern youth (who grew up on the same films and TV series). After all, in almost all modern films, couples kiss all the time almost 24 hours a day. Passionately and with tongue.

Also on the topic: Why does he kiss with his eyes open? Solution.

It’s just that in films, in order to show the actors’ performances as much as possible, I do everything as exaggerated as possible. But in real life, everything is completely different, so we begin to dig into the reasons why it is this way and not otherwise. In such a situation, you should either accept it and simply adapt to your partner or just talk about this topic frankly. Often your partner simply does not kiss you with tongue simply because you yourself do not make a counter step, never talk about what you would like to try or about what you like so much. Therefore, it is worth drawing the conclusion that you want something change, say without hesitation, that’s all. After all, if a person doesn’t know what you want from him, he won’t do it. In order to get something, you just need to take the first step. Well, what if you have a case where your partner is not experienced in such Kissing is just a matter of desire to learn and your skill. And then your bet has an excellent chance of becoming a guru of French tight kisses (after all, kissing with the tongue originates from France)

In the case where your partner is categorically opposed, just accept it and don’t look for a reason why. Perhaps with such kisses a person has unpleasant memories or an unpleasant experience that simply prevents him from crossing the forbidden line. In order to save your relationship, do not hurt your partner’s pride, and do not look for reason for scandals and swearing, just perceive him as he is, that’s all. After all, his love is not only hot kisses using the tongue, but also tenderness, care, affection. In search of the reasons for one thing, we often forget about many pleasant moments experiences with this person. And sometimes with one wrong word we cross out all this in an instant. Remember that this issue needs to be resolved delicately. Because a word is not a sparrow, and sometimes it hurts worse than a knife. Love and accept your other half as they are. Appreciate each other’s individuality