How often do we hear that appearance creates the strongest impression at the first meeting and that it is very, very difficult to correct it in the future. And this is true, because a new acquaintance evokes very strong emotions in us, is imprinted in our memory for a long time and subsequently serves as the leitmotif of all our relationships.
And what is appearance if not the style of clothing, the ability to present oneself and show one’s individuality, arouse the interest of the interlocutor, and, of course, instill in his soul the hope of a new meeting? Therefore, when going to a vital meeting with a potential chosen one, which decides the rest of her life, every woman asks the question: how to dress to please the man of her dreams?
What, where, for whom and why?
These are not questions from a fairy tale for Grandma Fedora, these are the questions you need to ask yourself when preparing for a date with a man. Standing in front of the mirror in a selected outfit, you need to ask yourself what you are wearing, where you can safely go in this outfit, and where it is better not to interfere, for whom are you dressed up like that and why do you need it?
Everything seems simple, but in my head, nevertheless, there is still confusion and confusion, so now we will deal with each question and the answer to it, separately and in detail.
Do men like long, floor-length skirts?
The survey was conducted among men aged 18 to 40 years. According to its results, the majority of those who voted against are in the 18-25 year old category. This is understandable: young, active people prefer purposeful, strong girls who are constantly on the move, and they associate a long skirt with outdated romance.
Stanislav, 23 years old: “There are skirts that look okay, but there are those that look terrible. I don’t know what this is connected with, probably it all depends on the figure. But I’m more against it than for it.”
Vasily, 22 years old: “Such skirts do not suit everyone, and in general I don’t like them. I would never approach a girl wearing a skirt like that on the street.”
Anton, 19 years old: “Absolutely not! When I see girls in such skirts, an association immediately arises with something old and out of date. Short or knee-length skirts are better.”
Older men, on the contrary, value femininity and fragility in girls, the impression of which is created by floor-length skirts.
Oleg, 30 years old: “I don’t know what about skirts, but I really like the girls in long skirts. They are so cute, defenseless, you want to immediately love and protect them. Probably, a long skirt gives them maximum femininity. Girls, wear floor-length skirts!”
Ivan, 26 years old: “I often see girls in long skirts on the street. The image is so romantic, tender, touching. I like. But it seems to me that not everyone can afford such a skirt. They are ideal for tall, slender girls and highlight their advantages, but, excuse me, plump girls and those who are short should not wear floor-length skirts.”
Sergei, 37 years old: “I consider those who wear long skirts to be decent, cultured, modest girls. The exception is those who wear these skirts to hide some defects. In general, I like girls in long skirts better than in short ones.”
As correctly noted, how many people, so many opinions. However, almost none of the respondents were left indifferent by the long, floor-length skirt. However, it's not just clothes that make men pay attention to us. Men like well-groomed, smart and modern girls who always know how to look attractive at any time of the day and regardless of the situation.
Peter, 25 years old: “Basically, I don’t care – long skirt, short, jeans, trousers... If a girl’s clothes suit her, then she is attractive, regardless of the length of the skirt. The main thing is that everything else matches – shoes, accessories. The girl’s figure, her face, her hair are important. If it’s clear that a girl takes care of herself, then everyone pays attention to her: women - to learn something for themselves or just to gossip, men - just automatically, of course, such a beauty is coming!”
What should you wear to a meeting to please a man?
What do men generally like about a woman? What do they pay attention to first and what do they remember for a long time? Of course, this is a female figure - chest, hips, waist. I'm sorry, what? Eyes? Ah...well, yes, of course, they try to look at them more often when you talk, and not stare at your chest incessantly. Therefore, we apply light makeup to the eyes, but we dress everything below them in an elegant and seductive outfit.
According to statistics, men love openness and tightness in women's clothing . Simply put, everything should be visible and in more detail, a tight short dress made of thin translucent material, with a deep neckline and no hint of underwear - this is the ideal for men.
But we are all modest girls and we won’t fall for such things, the price for meeting a man is too high, we want to keep our reputation pure. Therefore, we select our outfit very carefully, focusing on things that both you and him will like.
More on the topic: What to wear with a short dress
Where are you going to go in these clothes?
After all, there really is no stupider thing to do than to dress up in a long, tight and sexy evening dress for a trip to a pizzeria and long walks around the city. Have a clear idea of the place where you will meet a man, find out how other girls dress there; no one has canceled the informal dress code in public places.
Originality in clothing and attracting attention due to your extraordinary appearance is, of course, good, but are you sure that this will not scare away your man from communicating with you? Therefore, in order to please a man, do not strive for extravagance in your outfit, it scares them, honestly.
Who are you dressing for?
So we have come to the most important question, which is of decisive importance in the entire process of attracting a man. Let's honestly answer the question: “ Who are we dressing for?” “. Who do we want to please in our clothes - ourselves, women or men?
If only for yourself, then you need to sit at home in your favorite jeans and hoodie, and don’t forget about UGG boots, they are so comfortable and warm. In such an outfit, forget about the man of your dreams, he won’t notice you, because you already feel good, why also need a man in addition to such a comfortable contemplation of your own inner world?
...Moving on, who's next? Yeah, women... Dressing to please women when going to meet a man is, to say the least, unreasonable. What do we wear to impress a woman with our outfit? That's right, a very expensive, stylish and branded work by a famous designer.
It doesn’t matter that it’s not sexy or comfortable, the main thing is that it costs two of your salaries and has a small but telling label somewhere in the corner of your outfit.
After all, whoever needs it, and women are the ones who need it, will definitely read this sign of quality and die of envy for you. Well, or, at least, she will be torn apart by this very envy.
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An ordinary normal man will not appreciate your sacrifices for the sake of buying such an expensive outfit, perhaps he has no idea about the fashion designer who created it, because all designers and fashion designers are considered by normal men, and they are the ones we want to please, to be inappropriately sexually oriented. So what should you know about them and admire their creations? What do they understand about women and how a woman should dress to please a man? To a real man! Therefore, when planning your outfit, we clearly decide who it is for and who it should impress.
Why are you wearing this?
Also an interesting question. Why do we wear this or that thing, what purpose do we pursue with our appearance? If you just want to attract a man and draw his attention to yourself without further serious prospects in a relationship, then feel free to wear a provocative and revealing dress. No man will miss you. But if you want to please a man and charm him with your uniqueness and grace, then you should forget about provocative outfits for a long time.
So, after all, how to dress to please a man?
Remember one thing, you need to dress for a man in such a way that he understands that this was done only for him alone, and not for the entire restaurant or nightclub. Style in dress is encouraged, individuality is encouraged, but within reasonable limits.
What clothes do men like on women?
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What clothes do men like on women?
What clothes do men like on women?
Hello, friends! It seems to me that the topic “What clothes do men like on women” will be of interest to many women. The first who belong to those “I know everything, but for the sake of curiosity I’ll look,” the others who consider themselves to be “pioneers”: I don’t know, but I really want to know and learn how to attract the attention of men. Can clothes give you marriage?
What clothes do men like on women?
Of course, in reality, what gives a woman marriage is her happy state of mind and readiness for a relationship, and her appearance just complements her. However, people are greeted by their clothes. A lady's appearance is an invitation card to a game called relationships. With the help of our appearance, we tell the world how to behave with us and how not to. There is attire that is conducive to marriage and happy relationships. And there are clothes that help attract the attention of men, but cause absolutely unnecessary appeals.
When a woman decides to create a relationship, she creates in herself a special state of “girl of marriageable age,” and this happens regardless of age. It is this state of inner glow, the energy of sexuality that attracts the attention of men. Well-chosen items enhance and complement her inner mood and form a holistic image.
The reptilian brain, which controls a man's instincts, will respond to a woman who:
1. Bright lips . The lips are a projection of the uterus. Beautiful plump lips on an unconscious level tell a man that the woman is healthy and fertile. (But this does not mean that you need to wear red lipstick and evening makeup all the time).
2. Firm buttocks . It’s not for nothing that the buttocks are considered a sexual marker in a woman’s body. They preserve her sexual energy. Therefore, the more elastic and convex the buttocks, the more vital energy the lady has. (If your figure allows, a tight-fitting skirt or dress will enhance the woman’s sexy image).
3. Slender legs. It is also not for nothing that they are the object of adoration of men. Beautiful and slender legs are also a sign of a woman’s health and strength. (A skirt that is too short will indicate the young lady’s availability, so it is better to open your legs with a slit in a long skirt or in a skirt of moderate length).
4.Waist. A thin waist speaks of a lady’s femininity and sophistication. And men are attracted to women by those clothes that emphasize qualities that are directly opposite to those of men. (Therefore, a new look, with a full skirt and a thin waist, will make any figure feminine)
5. Hair . Clean, shiny hair indicates a woman’s healthy endocrine system. Their length also matters. It's rare that a man likes it when a woman has short hair. Because long hair is a powerful battery of feminine energy.
6. A thin ankle and thin wrist , as well as a long neck, are markers of femininity for a man. (To draw attention to these parts of the body, young ladies wear long earrings or bracelets).
7.Eyes. Thanks to a friendly and playful look, as well as a smile, a man receives permission to approach a woman. (Therefore, light makeup that emphasizes the length of the eyelashes and increases the size of the eyes enhances femininity).
WHAT ARE TABOO COLORS FOR A “GIRLS OF MARRIAGE”?
1.Black color. Any clothing that is black shows mourning in our culture. Unconsciously, we understand that black is the color of sadness, loss, loss, mourning, depression. People who choose only black in their clothes subconsciously want to hide themselves.
2. It is also generally accepted that the color black is associated with expertise, distance, and authority. Therefore, he is unlikely to be suitable for a date with a man. The exception is an evening black dress made of expensive fabrics. And then only if it suits your color type. You may object: “What about Coco Chanel’s little black dress?!” This is a classic!”
From the history of Coco Chanel's little black dress, it becomes known that she sewed it after the death of her beloved. In order to somehow survive the loss, Coco created a black dress for herself and wore it, thus experiencing the pain of loss. Black color helps hide emotions and also makes it easier to cope with them. Since Coco Chanel was already a trendsetter then, women began to imitate her and wear black dresses. So the black dress became the generally accepted standard of style.
WHAT COLOR OF CLOTHES ATTRACTS MEN?
All colors that enhance femininity.
Pastel colors - pink, peach, apricot. They enhance young femininity, emphasizing its tenderness and girlhood. Red and all shades of red - orange, terracotta, cherry. Enhances mature femininity. Milky or white color enhances conscious femininity. When choosing clothes with prints, you need to remember how old the girl is? Girlhood, for example, is characterized by floral prints, and mature age, by plain fabrics in deep shades.
CLOTHING LENGTH
It is generally accepted that a short dress or skirt is a sign of sexuality and attractiveness; such clothing instantly turns on and excites men. But we must remember that a man, led by his instincts, when he looks at a half-naked young lady, no longer has time to discern the personality in her... In fact, such clothing signals a sexual appeal and is not very suitable for a first date or for every day. But perhaps it will be suitable for a party, for a date with a man. The exception is an evening black dress made of expensive fabrics. Therefore, it is important to look sexy, but not vulgar, and wear a short skirt at the right place and time.
In the old days, girls wore a short skirt until their first period. After the girl became a girl, she began to wear a long skirt and red in her clothes, thereby declaring to the world her fertility. In ancient times they believed that a long skirt preserved feminine energy. This does not mean that now you need to constantly hide your legs under long skirts. Without fanaticism!
Attractiveness and sexuality are feminine energy. It is transmitted to others if a woman is dressed with taste. Majesty and charm are the main features of femininity. And femininity is a quality that gets you married. A successful man can determine in 40 seconds: this woman is only suitable for sex or she is created for starting a family. And her clothes also speak about this.
MEN'S CLOTHING
Women have been wearing trousers since the First World War. Most likely, the main motive was a feminist movement with a desire for independence from men. For a factory worker, pants are much more comfortable than a skirt. Wearing trousers was due to the need for safety. Jeans used to be exclusively work wear until they became a fashion item. According to scientists, a man considers a young lady in trousers to be his boyfriend. He doesn’t want to protect her, take care of her and provide care. He subconsciously does not consider her a woman at all. Because the energy of a woman wearing trousers is aligned according to the male type - the replenishment of the Earth’s energy stops. Pants cannot accept and accumulate it, unlike a skirt. There are rules for wearing trousers for women: they should not be too tight in the groin area - otherwise the vital energy in the lower abdomen will be blocked. One of the common causes of female diseases is stagnation of energy, which is also caused by wearing tight pants.
There is a risk of going into the other polarity - into a monastic uniform and wearing only long skirts. Vedic lecturers have tried in this direction. We must always remember that we are different, changes are important to us, including in clothes. This is our highlight. It is important to maintain balance. Sometimes you really want to strengthen your Animus (Inner Man) and wear a stylish pantsuit. To look stylish, it is better to turn to a professional image maker. Having a personal image maker, as well as a personal psychologist, has become a natural necessity for a modern lady. SOURCE
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Dress styles
Sheath dress
The familiar sheath dress has a simple yet winning style. This dress is quite narrow, medium length, without long sleeves, with a round neckline at the front and a closed back. This dress can highlight the waist and rounded shape of a lady. These dresses do not have deep necklines or mini lengths, so the sheath dress is suitable for evening outings and going to work. A girl with any shape can choose such a dress. The variety of fabrics and design options allows you to do this. Men find the sheath a very feminine, classic dress that will never go out of style.
A-line
An A-line silhouette can resemble a straight-cut dress. But the A-silhouette puts emphasis on a woman’s chest, becoming looser towards the bottom. Men in such dresses like the prominent chest, while the A-line always looks light and spring-like. The main advantage of this dress is that it suits women with a tummy and hips. The A-line dress does not hug problem areas, but is not shapeless either.
Greek dress
One of the most feminine dress options. There are many options for making such a dress: one shoulder, short, long, wraparound, evening, and so on. Greek dresses are made from light translucent fabric, highlight the silhouette and have slight asymmetry. In everyday life, such dresses are worn more often in the summer. For men, on a subconscious level, a woman in a Greek dress is associated with a goddess. It suits both young girls and adult women equally.
Sundress dress
A fitted sundress dress with buttons can have either thin or wide straps. This sundress can be used both for work and for summer holidays. Suits all women regardless of age. A sundress dress emphasizes a woman’s individuality, without being too revealing or vulgar.
Little black dress
Another classic option that is versatile and easy to implement. The simplest style of a little black dress is above the knees, a tight fit. This dress should highlight your figure and reveal your legs. Men associate black color with elegance and style, but a woman in such a dress cannot be accused of lack of taste.
