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Trousers and jeans

23. Classic blue jeans

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With trousers, things are a little more complicated. I won’t talk much about the quality of the material; what matters is how they fit on you and whether they make your legs look longer and slimmer. It is better to have only one classic straight trousers and a pair of jeans, but such that your legs are perfect in them. In place of trousers, there may also be fashionable culottes or pipe trousers.

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Accessories

33. Large bag

34. Shoulder bag

36. Belt for dresses

37. Trouser belt

Accessories can change your appearance and any item of clothing beyond recognition. You can put the strap on top of a cardigan or belt a tunic dress. A hat will not only protect from the sun, but will also add mystery and sophistication. There may also be a few bags, the main thing is that you can combine them with other things.

Every woman should have an evening bag in her wardrobe.

For example, the Furla Metropolis Cometa handbag in quilted velvet in pink, yellow and black. This model has unique details: a chain on the flap for adjusting the strap, passing through two small metal holes. The clasp of the bag has a matte gold finish that complements the comet pattern on the body of the bag.

A woman's basic wardrobe and the principle of minimalism

The weather does not yet allow completely removing demi-season items and leaving only summer ones, and for many, the hallway and wardrobe can no longer cope with such volumes. Washing also takes too long. Maybe this is a sign that it’s time to turn to minimalism in clothes too? Irina Sokovykh, with whom we have already gotten rid of unnecessary books, tells how to create a basic wardrobe for a woman and a man, depending on their lifestyle, and gives her list of clothes.

Decluttering your wardrobe is one of the most fun things to do. It is also the most difficult, because it is difficult for women (and what is there to hide, for many men) to part with their clothes.

Five years ago it was completely incomprehensible to me how you could throw away a sweater if it was almost new? And it doesn't matter that I don't wear it! What if one day you have a chance to wear it? As you understand, such cases occur extremely rarely, and if they do occur, it is very easy to replace one clothing with another.

I saved mountains of things “just in case,” and these mountains warmed my soul because they gave me a feeling of peace and security, because I was prepared for any changing conditions. For going to barbecues I had one pair of pants, for going into the forest - others, and if I suddenly decide to spend the night in a tent, then I also have a couple of outfits for this case.

Do you think it matters that the last time I lived in a tent was when I was in high school? And one more important question: can I spend the night in the same tent in my regular sweatpants?

I had several “going out” suits and 5-6 dresses for the same occasion, for each season! Skirts, blouses that I have never worn, but that would be suitable if I suddenly decided to work in an office with a strict dress code.

Aren't you having fun yet? Then let's move on. Scarves, scarves, hats, caps, hats and probably ten pairs of gloves: under a coat, under a jacket, under a fur coat, under a down jacket, under different colors of outfits and for different temperatures.

The bag is white because it’s summer, the bag is bright because it’s also summer, but I feel sorry for the white bag. The bag is denim, because I just love denim. Bags small, medium, large, with handles and shoulder straps, backpacks and clutches. A bag for rainy weather and cold weather, a bag made of patent leather and suede.

I have never refused anything: someone gives away an almost new thing - I’ll take it, it will come in handy; my grandmother offers a set of Soviet times - I’ll take it as a reminder of my childhood; used clothes for the child - all for the house!

My chest of drawers was bursting with “goods” that we did not use at all and which were periodically put into vacuum bags and sent to the mezzanine. Once a year, these mezzanines were dismantled, and among the mountains of unnecessary rubbish there were interesting specimens, which again began to lie in the apartment, but in prominent places.

I lived by the principle “always say “Yes!”,” and this principle is very good if you don’t apply it to inanimate objects.

Now I also say “yes” to almost all offers that come to me, but now these are not things, but people, meetings, trips, new projects and interesting contacts.

I loved showing my friends the contents of my closet, because there was so much stuff in there! Are you laughing? Now it’s funny to me too, but if you had told me then that I could unload my closet so that I could see the color of the floor and walls, I would have thought that you had simply gone crazy.

I didn’t even think about parting with my supplies, because with them I felt more confident and calm.

Now I understand that confidence comes when you do what you love, when you are appreciated for your work, when you are admired because you are doing something very important and necessary, but then I was fueled by confidence from owning a bunch of things that even didn't use it.

Women's clothing, my minimum

Next I will give an example of my wardrobe, but this is not a direct guide to action, but only a small hint and, I hope, motivation.

Jeans. I'm starting with these because they are, in fact, the items I wear most often. Lately I've switched to black skinny jeans because they go with absolutely everything. Versatility is the main secret of minimalist clothing.
White shirt. For me, this is a win-win for business meetings or television.
Denim shirt. A more casual option. It always looks stylish and neat.
Knitted suit with a skirt. Its beauty is that the skirt looks appropriate with any top and in any weather, excluding extreme heat. The top also goes with all the outfits I have.
Black and white turtlenecks. No comments here.
The leather black dress is my equivalent of the “little black dress.” It's comfortable, fits your figure well and is always appropriate, whether it's a meeting with a friend or an important business project.
For summer, I have short shorts, a few tank tops, one feminine dress, and two button-down dresses that resemble robes. I chose for myself those options in which I feel comfortable and confident.
Ripped cropped jeans are my off-season go-to look. Just pick up a couple of T-shirts and you can go for a walk, visit or go shopping with your child.
Outerwear for me is a coat and a leather jacket for autumn, a down jacket and a sheepskin coat for cold weather. In the off-season, I prefer to wear a denim jacket, which, by the way, is also suitable for cool summers.

That's probably all. If I buy something in addition to my basic wardrobe, it’s:

something that is comfortable to drive in;
something monochromatic;
calm, laconic or deep shades;
the best quality option available to me.

I try to avoid:

ultra-fashionable things (they go out of fashion very quickly. If I buy, it’s something not very expensive);
colorful and flashy colors (they don’t really suit me);
overly feminine things (I know that I won’t wear them anyway, because lace and ruffles are clearly not my thing).

The same clothes every day

In early August 2020, Julia wrote on Instagram that she was going to challenge herself by wearing the same dress for 100 days. Anticipating that her statement might provoke a variety of reactions, she highlighted some potential problems from the outset. To those who might find this unpleasant or even disgusting, she replied that clothes were constantly being washed. At the same time, she agreed that wearing the same dress for a hundred days is quite boring. She also planned to use an apron at work to avoid getting paint on her dress.

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Men's clothing

To my great amazement, I increasingly meet women whose husbands are reluctant to part with things, unlike mine, who would throw everything in the trash except his favorite baseball cap.

I'm wary of men who cling too much to their junk. Okay, women, they are by nature more sentimental and emotional, attached to many things because they evoke emotions in them. But men! The rational mind cannot help but understand the stupidity of accumulating rubbish.

If you have at least partially convinced your husband of the possibility of being happy with a minimum of clothing, then immediately get rid of worn-out and simply unpleasant accessories: frayed belts, peeling purses, unattractive ties, etc.

To begin with, buy one leather belt to replace all leatherette analogues. Leave some jeans, a couple of shirts (newer ones) or T-shirts depending on where he works.

Throw away tights with pulled knees, socks with holes and T-shirts that have already turned gray due to frequent washing. Down with stretched sweaters and shirts that don’t fit on the belly.

How many clothes do you need? Counting the washes

For myself, I have long decided on the required amount of clothing. There should be enough of it in my wardrobe so that I can do laundry no more than once a week, i.e. I should have enough clean clothes to last me a week. Same for my husband and daughter. This is the minimum threshold.

I consider the maximum amount of clothing that does not exceed on the day of washing:

one load of the car with white clothes;
one load of the car with colored items;
one load of the car with dark things.

If the dark clothes I've collected over the week don't fit into one wash cycle, I know it's time to declutter.

I won’t talk for long here. Shoes should be seasonally appropriate and neutral in color.

Colored and bright shoes are appropriate when you already have beige pumps. I am an opponent of a large number of shoes, but due to the fact that I am the “lucky” owner of non-standard feet, I still cannot eradicate the habit of immediately grabbing shoes that miraculously fit me. True, recently I have found a number of manufacturers whose shoes always or almost always suit me.

In any case, I only have two pairs of shoes per season. At the same time, I distinguish not 4 shoe seasons, but a little more, because there is a time in the year when it is already cold in shoes, but in light boots it is comfortable, and at the same time it is still hot in more serious boots. We women are such women!

With men's shoes, everything is simple for us - some boots are autumn, some are winter and a couple of summer options. Oh, and sneakers, where would we be without them?

How many clothes should there be? Reader comments

The mentioned article (“Wearing 33 things for 3 months: is it real or not?”) inspired many in my real and virtual environment to also take up such a strange task as counting clothes :) Yes, yes, now I regularly receive such feedback from friends and strangers: “I did the math too. And this is terrible! I didn’t know I had so much!” or math problems like “I have five fewer scarves than you, but four more pairs of shoes. But in general, I have a very similar wardrobe in terms of the number of things.” Of course, like any writer, I am very glad that the topic evoked a response from readers.

That article with calculations once again made me understand how different the people around me are and how differently they relate to their wardrobes. And all this made me think about the question: a lot and a little clothing - how much is that in reality?)) And how much clothing should there be in the wardrobe, if such a word as “should” is applicable here at all :)

So I get feedback: “Wow, how much you have, I have to buy more and more up to your quantity and even up to the number of things for Project 333!”

Or this: “And how do you live with such a small wardrobe. I only have 25 pairs of shoes,” another girl is perplexed.

One of my friends, having read my list, gave a verdict: “You’re a clothes maker. »

Another said that she would never have thought that I had such a small wardrobe))

Some gave advice, saying, “You should buy shoes and outerwear!” or “There aren’t enough paychecks!”

In general, all markers have different tastes and colors, as they say)

What is a basic wardrobe

Creating a basic wardrobe is a current modern trend, which consists of purchasing a small, universal set of clothes (mostly classic cut), harmonizing with each other and used to create absolutely any look.

The list and type of things selected for everyday use is individual, compiled in accordance with the style, lifestyle and preferences of the woman. All purchased clothing should easily harmonize with each other and be complemented by stylish, fashionable accessories.

According to the recommendations of stylists, about 75% of the modern wardrobe of a woman over 20-25 years old should consist of basic items and no more than 25%-30% should be fashionable designs from designers.

Style

There are two extremes that are unacceptable for older ladies - supermini or ankle-length dresses. It is more appropriate if the dress is knee-length or slightly higher. Maxi or midi styles also look good if you choose them to suit your figure.

The main rule when choosing a dress for a woman over 45 is that it should be respectable, not too youthful, but not too feminine. Therefore, you need to be careful with flirty models, as well as dresses with too deep necklines, especially at the waist.

Basic rules, mandatory elements

Basic items for a woman's wardrobe are most often selected in a timeless, classic style, easily combined with any fashion trends.

Rules taken into account when forming a stylistic base:

All items should be purchased only of good quality, since they are designed for more than 1-2 seasons. Preference should be given to classic cut models offered by various designers, made from fabrics of natural origin. Much attention must be paid to the quality of tailoring.
Elements of a new wardrobe should easily harmonize with each other. You should not choose T-shirts, dresses, jackets with bright decor, prints, or inscriptions. You should also refrain from jeans and sweaters decorated with zippers and beads.
Clothes are selected according to your body type. The main task of basic things is to hide flaws and highlight a woman’s advantages. A classic, not very tight cut is preferred. You should not choose trends that do not match your appearance.
The base is selected strictly in accordance with the field of activity and lifestyle. For a business woman, clothes made in the casual style are not suitable, and a student has no place to wear formal blouses and a trouser suit.
The wardrobe must be suitable for immediate use. You should not buy clothes for growth that do not correspond to your lifestyle and are put aside in case of “sudden weight loss”.

The article discusses the principles of selecting basic items for a woman’s wardrobe.

Before purchasing each new item, you need to clearly imagine what it can be combined with. Ideally, each new piece of clothing should help create at least 3 different looks.

What is the idea

Julia encourages everyone to stop and think before entering the buy, wear, rent and buy again race. She tries to explain to people that they should judge others not by what they wear, but by what they do. Its purpose is not to force other people to wear the same clothes for a hundred days, but to show that we don't actually need that much of it. First of all, you need to strive to be a good person, and not to look good.

Even though Julia has already completed her mission and now changes clothes every day, she has managed to significantly reduce the number of items in her wardrobe while keeping an eye on fashion. However, she is still spreading her message and encouraging others to try this new trend. For those who want to take part, use the hashtag #OneOutfit100Days.

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