Despite the fact that the development of technological progress greatly influences our daily lives, and we largely rely on various technologies, most of the usual traditional methods, as before, are much more effective. In particular, when the conversation turns to conceiving a child. Here everything depends only on ourselves, with a few exceptions.
Today we will talk about how to calculate the onset of pregnancy, how to plan the gender of the unborn baby, in what position you can quickly become pregnant and much more.
A little about ovulation
The time period when pregnancy is more likely is called the fertile period. Based on data from various medical studies, we can confidently say that the most favorable period for conception lasts no more than 6 days. These are three, maximum four, days before ovulation and the next three days after it.
The process of ovulation occurs monthly approximately in the middle of the current menstrual cycle. The exact day can be determined using the basal temperature measurement method. Immediately after the release of the egg, there is a slight jump in temperature of about 0.2-0.4 degrees.
You can also use a special test to determine ovulation. This method is somewhat more accurate than measuring temperature. Special components of the test react to an increase in the concentration of LH in the urine, and therefore, fertile days can be determined with a greater degree of probability.
The most suitable days
The most suitable period is conventionally considered to be the two days preceding ovulation, and the day of ovulation itself. But this does not mean at all that all other days should be excluded: pregnancy can occur at a completely unexpected time, when, it would seem, all the “correct” dates have already passed.
Therefore, by accurately calculating the day of ovulation, while abstaining from sex for several days, you can significantly increase the chance of pregnancy. Abstinence, but not more than 3 days, significantly improves sperm quality.
There is a very simple recommendation: in order not to miss the “correct” time, when the female body is most ready to conceive a child, you should have sex every other day, and preferably every day, starting from the sixth to the eighteenth day of the menstrual cycle. In this case, the first day of menstrual bleeding is taken as the first day.
We got a little acquainted with female physiology, and now let’s return to the main topic of conversation: in what position can you quickly become pregnant?
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On the Internet I found 40 signs for those who want to get pregnant:
Sign 1. In advance, before the desired pregnancy, buy a small baby item, for example, a hat, socks. This will help you “visualize your desire”; the more clearly you feel the baby’s presence, the faster he will appear.
Sign 2. Visit places of power that promote conception, where the energy flows of the earth connect, where there were many good people with good thoughts.
Sign 3. Try “grandmother’s signs”:
· grow ficus in the house;
· Place or hang several willow branches in your house.
Sign 4. Watch your words: 1. Do not use swear words; 2. Don’t say “I’ll never have a baby” or “I’m infertile.” Remember - the word is material.
Sign 5. Use folk recipes and herbs to treat infertility. Be sure to consult your doctor. Official medicine has long known about the benefits of herbal medicine. Your doctor will help you choose the right dosage and time of administration. Don't use the tabloids to self-medicate. Some recipes there are simply poisonous!
Sign 6. The desire for a baby can sometimes come true on its own at the most inopportune moment, when you “let him go.”
Sign 7. Receiving a string of pearls as a gift is a good sign of future pregnancy.
Sign 8. Relax with your husband in the south. Many couples “bring their babies” from the southern regions. For us, residents of a country where climatic conditions leave much to be desired, a visit to the warm seashore can replace years of unsuccessful infertility treatment.
Sign 9. One of the most famous harbingers of a future pregnancy is the adoption of a baby. The sign says: adopt someone else’s child and your own will appear.
Sign 10. Widespread among beliefs that promote conception are signs associated with various manipulations of a pregnant woman’s things, for example:
· try on clothes for a pregnant woman;
· drink from a pregnant woman’s glass;
· sit in the place of a pregnant woman;
· stroke the pregnant woman's belly.
Sign 11. Start attracting “gratitude” - kind, good wishes addressed to you. To do this, try to do good sincerely for free, and then soon an aura of gratitude will arise around you, which will help conception.
Sign 12. To quickly conceive, you can use the practice of Feng Shui and create a “wish card”, where the main role will be given to conception and your future baby. To do this, stick a photo of yourself (a photo of your family) with the baby in the center of a large sheet of paper. Along the edges you can depict, for example, yourself as a pregnant woman, guests greeting a happy mother from the maternity hospital, the baby’s first steps, and other attributes symbolizing family well-being. You can also make a “scroll of wishes”. To do this, keep a small notebook (preferably for the new moon), where you will write down your wish for the baby.
A few rules for keeping a scroll: a) let this notebook be your secret - don’t let anyone touch it; b) your desire should be formulated positively, for example, “I am not infertile” - incorrect formulation, correct - “with deep gratitude I accept my pregnancy from the Universe and the universe”; c) formulate a desire with gratitude to the Universe and then you will be heard.
Don't forget to thank the Universe after your wish comes true.
Sign 13. A sure sign of impending conception and a signal that the time for active action has come is the unexpectedly rapid growth of indoor plants in your home.
Sign 14. A very famous sign about a kitten. In order to get pregnant soon, adopt a stray kitten. In this case, the kitten should “nail” to you on its own - do not look for it on purpose.
Sign 15. Invest energy in your desire to conceive soon. This could be simply using the power of one’s own desire, the energy of prayers and appeals to saints who help with infertility (for example, Joachim and Anna, Perth and Fevronya, etc.). But remember that at this particular moment you should not become inflamed with several desires, otherwise you will not get anything.
Sign 16. Relax and force yourself not to think about the desired pregnancy for a while. Remember, if a desire turns into an obsessive state, then it will remain with you, but you must let it go in order to realize it. It often happens that couples who have been fighting for a baby for a long time give up and begin to simply live, and at that very moment pregnancy occurs.
Sign 17. Don't think about bad things. Not only will constant negative thoughts simply slow down the work of your reproductive system (after all, all its work is based on brain signals), but you will also create a negative program around yourself. Real, correct doctors treat, first of all, with words - by creating a positive attitude towards treatment in the patient; you can find various life-affirming slogans in such doctors’ offices.
Sign 18. Eat foods that contain the germs of new life - eggs, caviar, unrefined grains, nuts, seeds (everything from which new life appears). There are also tips for eating the genitals of various animals.
Sign 19. Try to draw up your conception horoscope with a professional astrologer. Let him determine the optimal conception date for you. Sign 20. Drink a cup of kumiss a day. In our latitudes it is very difficult to find this rare product, but if there is such an opportunity, then why not try?
Sign 21. Dreams of pregnancy. Pregnancy dreams of: fish (fishing), babies, eggs, gifts of jewelry, milk, baby clothes, etc. If you interpret these dreams, it becomes clear that they are all associated either with some pleasant acquisitions or with objects-symbols of new life (eggs, grains), or directly with the kids themselves.
Sign 22. For a successful conception, mentally turn to your most fertile relatives for help, even if they are no longer in this world (for example, to a grandmother with many children). Everyone knows that previously almost every family had 4-7 children, so anyone can easily find such a relative. This belief about the help of “Rod” comes from pagan times.
Sign 23. For a quick conception, do not forget to invite a pregnant girl to your wedding. As a bride on your wedding day, be sure to hold your baby on your lap. To avoid infertility, do not forget to tie a wedding ribbon to the fruit tree.
Sign 24. You can perform a magical ritual with a healer. Just remember that the ritual must be positive (herbs, sentences). Find a healer with a recommendation. It’s better if it’s a real village grandmother who works not for money, but for an idea. First of all, it will help you gain self-confidence and a positive attitude.
Sign 25. Start professing “extremely optimistic” views on life. Do not communicate with people who currently have more problems than you. We are not calling you to be spiritually callous, it’s just that for some time before conception you should focus only on yourself. Don’t sit on forums where it’s common to cry and hysteria about infertility, this will attract negativity.
Sign 26. Engage in self-hypnosis and meditation. Set up your body to work properly. Imagine yourself in a very pleasant place, for example, by the sea, feel the warm summer breeze, fresh, rich air... Talk to your body. Imagine your reproductive organs, ask them to work harmoniously, well. Fill yourself with vital energy...
All this is rather called the psychotherapeutic technique of self-hypnosis. You can purchase books on this topic written by professional doctors. (Yes, yes, you can use professional “medical” conspiracies to treat infertility).
Sign 27. Another very good “sign” for conception. Try to work less mentally while preparing for pregnancy. They have been writing and talking about this for a long time, for example, women who are fully engaged in business, as well as students during sessions, often experience malfunctions in the reproductive system (menstrual irregularities). If you are forced to overload yourself with work, then your brain, which is the “boss” of the entire reproductive system, will not understand that it is time for it to give signals about readiness for fertilization.
Sign 28. Place several branches of willow (willow) at home. It is known to be a very prolific tree that easily reproduces even from branches. Willow has a special vitality and is one of the first to leaf out in the spring. It has long been believed that this tree has protective properties. And willow branches blessed on Palm Sunday can be stored for a whole year. To get rid of infertility, you can eat three buds from fruit trees that have bloomed for the first time, or the first fruits of an apple, plum, or grape tree.
Sign 29. Here are several amulets and amulets against infertility. Charms: variegated carnation, wood of apple trees and other fruit trees. Stones: diamond, amethyst, emerald, malachite, topaz (read more about healing infertility with precious stones here). From symbolism - you can use figurines of the goddesses Venus and Aphrodite. If such a figurine is presented, then its owner will find a lover within a year; if there is a lover, then within a year she will become pregnant.
Sign 30. On the day of conception or waiting for the results of pregnancy tests, meeting babies is a sure sign of pregnancy.
Sign 31. You can get pregnant with the help of the moon. There are several ways, ranging from rituals, for example, looking at the full moon, to compiling an “almost scientific” lunar conception calendar. There are also rituals performed during the waxing moon. The fact that the Moon helps to get pregnant was known back in Ancient Greece and Rome, where women who wanted to get pregnant slept under the rays of moonlight.
Sign 32. You can go to a mud resort. It is known that mud contains hormone-like substances of natural origin, which often helps normalize hormonal levels and get pregnant.
Sign 33. Have sex for the purpose of conception at two in the morning. The sign is based on the fact that this is a time of hormonal peak.
Sign 34. Drink consecrated water before conception. Pray for a successful conception before sexual intercourse.
Sign 35. The acupuncture technique increases blood flow to the uterus, regulates and normalizes the level of hormones in the body. Chinese traditional medicine is just beginning to take root in our country.
Sign 36. Girls planning a pregnancy are not recommended to use cosmetics or wear extravagant, provocative clothes. All this includes a life program of “finding a new partner”, not a program of “motherhood”.
Sign 37. Those planning to conceive should not tell anyone about their intentions. Except, of course, the attending physician.
Sign 38. A couple experiencing problems with conception should also enter into a spiritual marriage. For example, get married in a church, go through other rituals corresponding to the religion of the spouses.
Sign 39. According to the Ancient Slavic tradition, on the first wedding night, the first to be laid on the newlyweds’ bed was a baby or a newborn doll.
Sign 40. Also, in Ancient Slavic practice for healing from infertility, a woman experiencing problems with conception was the first to take a newborn baby in her arms. There is no need to get hung up on these signs!
There is no need to despair, but these signs give us hope!
Good luck to you!!!
How to get pregnant: a little about positions...
Which position to choose to get pregnant? There is an opinion that in order to get pregnant, it is advisable to abandon certain sexual positions. Fortunately, this is not true. The fact is that male sperm have a special means of transportation that helps them travel such a difficult path from the cervix to the egg - small flagella. Therefore, there is absolutely no reason to worry. And the answer to your question: “In what position can you get pregnant?” - will sound like this: “Any.”
You can also ignore the opinion that after completion of sexual intercourse you should lie on your back for a while or raise your hips above the bed, for example, with a pillow. Why ignore? The fact is that seminal fluid contains millions of sperm, which, once in the vagina, rush to the uterus. They make this journey in a few minutes. And the time that you spend simply relaxing after the emotions you have experienced is quite enough for the required number of “live ones” to reach their intended destination. And the fact that some sperm does leak out should not worry you too much.
Romance on the sofa
You can also try sex in interesting places during pregnancy. This time, trade your favorite bed for a sofa. Lie on your back so that your tailbone is on the edge of the sofa. Spread your legs wider and place them on the floor. You can start with foreplay. Let him do cunnilingus, after which you will feel like a queen!
Then the man kneels in front of you and controls the process. More comfort will again be provided by pillows that can be placed under the buttocks (to, so to speak, equalize the levels and achieve the ideal angle).
In the later stages, the position will have to be adjusted, because lying on your back with a large belly is no longer comfortable. Try the option with a low soft chair and use pillows again (only this time placing them under your back or head).
What positions are needed to get pregnant?
It would seem that pregnancy is a simple and completely natural thing, and in order for your life to be filled with even greater happiness, you just need to love and perform a natural ritual intended by nature. Of course, sometimes this is exactly what happens, but, unfortunately, not always.
There are many reasons why a woman cannot conceive. That's not what we're talking about today. But in the absence of any contraindications, when both partners are absolutely healthy, what can interfere with pregnancy? It probably just takes a little push sometimes to get the desired process going.
And here an important role is played by the position of the bodies and the poses that are taken during love games. Once again, I will make a reservation that there can be many reasons, but there is a certain rule, the observance of which gives a great chance of successfully conceiving a child: the male seminal fluid should be as close as possible to the cervix.
What are the best positions to get pregnant? Those that meet these requirements, in particular the “missionary” position, the so-called “dogi style” and some others.
Probability of Getting Pregnant
So, a girl’s pregnancy occurs after the male sperm reaches the egg and fertilizes it. It takes 3 to 6 hours before the male cell reaches the female cell. The sperm remains active for 72 hours and can fertilize an egg during this time.
If sexual intercourse occurs without contraception, the likelihood of pregnancy is very high.
Therefore, it is imperative to protect yourself! This is rule number one and it is the most important. You can't make love without protection!
There is always a chance that a girl will become pregnant through unprotected contact
. This probability varies, and on some days it is very high, and on others it is lower. But playing fate based on the lucky/unlucky principle is not the best solution. It is much easier to protect yourself and be completely sure.
However, young couples, having read all sorts of nonsense on the Internet, do not pay enough attention to this. This is because there are a huge number of myths on this topic on the Internet. You need to know these myths to avoid getting into trouble. So, here are the main myths regarding unprotected sex:
Myth 1: A girl won't get pregnant if she pulls out before finishing.
Many young people think that a girl won’t get pregnant if the guy doesn’t cum inside her. This is one of the most evil myths that young boys tell each other. They say everything is fine, you can make love without any protection, the main thing is to get it out in time and not shoot inside. This myth is the reason for the appearance of a huge number of children :)
The guy thinks that if he doesn’t shoot inside, but gets it out, then everything will be fine... But the whole point is that before intimacy and during intimacy, the man’s body secretes a special lubricant
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This is determined by nature and we have no power to resist it. This lubricant always contains a small amount of sperm.
Although their number is small, it is all sufficient for fertilization.
It turns out that if you don’t protect yourself from the very beginning, sperm will still end up in the girl! They may well carry out fertilization, and then you will clutch your head and wonder: “How are you pregnant? I got it!” Do you need it? Always remember, a girl can get pregnant from the lubricant that your sexual organ secretes.
There is a very important rule: you need to start protecting yourself before genital contact.
. Put on the “French Hood” and go. This is written in all condom instructions. And it's not just like that!
Myth 2: You can put on a condom in the middle of sexual intercourse
You can often hear guys seriously believe that if you put on a condom in the middle of sexual intercourse, the girl will not get pregnant. They say you can get high at the beginning, and then put it on. This myth directly echoes the previous one and is a myth for the same reasons. During the process, the guy secretes lubricant and contains sperm.
It is because of these secretions that a condom must be put on strictly before contact of the genitals. Don't put it off until later for any reason.
Myth 3: If you don’t enter, then the girl won’t get pregnant.
Many couples are aware of the importance of contraception and the first two myths. But they think that it is completely acceptable to rub their unprotected genitals before intimacy and that it is safe. That is, if you don’t enter it, then everything is fine. Well, surface friction doesn't count.
This is also a misconception! Again because of those same lubricant secretions. If they get even to the top, they may well penetrate deeper. Just imagine: you smeared it on top without knowing it. And then, during intimacy, he pushed it all deeper...
Most guys associate conception with the moment of ejaculation. That is, they think that conception occurs only when you shoot inside. But this is a completely wrong idea! It is correct to think this way: conception can occur with any unprotected contact of the genitals!
It doesn't matter whether you enter or not. If the genitals are actively in contact without contraception, anything is possible!
Myth 4: Sex during your period is safe and will not lead to pregnancy.
It is not true. During your period, you have everything you need to conceive. True, on such days the risk of pregnancy is lower than on ordinary days. But this is not a reason not to use contraception! We're just talking about probabilities. Tell me, do you want to become a father? If you shook your head in horror and shouted “Nooo!”, then be sure to protect yourself.
Don't forget that sperm can live for 72 hours. So he may well wait a little for the egg and fertilize it in just 3 days!
In addition, during menstruation, a girl’s body is less resistant to infections. Unprotected contact can provoke some unpleasant disease.
Myth 5: If a girl is a virgin, then she cannot get pregnant the first time.
In general, complete nonsense, but nevertheless, many firmly believe in this and believe that there is no way a virgin can get pregnant. Believe me, it still can. If a girl hasn't had a man before you, it doesn't change anything. She was and remains a female individual. The natural mechanisms of conceiving a child have not changed in any way. If your reproductive cells get to her, they can easily make a child even for the very first time.
All these myths arise from the fact that unprotected sex does not lead to pregnancy every time. But if your friend actively proves to you that intimacy without protection is normal and always works for him, do not listen to him. Anything is possible: maybe your friend is just lucky, maybe he has health problems and his sperm are not very active, maybe his girlfriend has health problems, and so on. There are many options available. But you must always protect yourself! Don't be fooled by your friends' stories. In the end, if your girlfriend gets pregnant because of your stupidity, you will raise the child, not your friends!
Sexual intimacy between a man and a woman is the reason for their strongest mutual attraction. In addition, sex can give any person incomparable pleasure. However, sexual relations are also a way of conceiving offspring. And if pregnancy does not occur for a long time, sexologists often recommend that couples use certain positions. What are the best positions for conception, based on the anatomical features of the body and statistical data?
Many ordinary people believe that “getting pregnant is a simple matter.” However, this is not always the case. Almost 25% of couples cannot conceive a baby in the first three years of marriage. Often the cause of infertility lies in the health status of one of the partners, and serious treatment cannot be avoided. But sometimes trivial reasons that seem frivolous at first glance lead to infertility. Thus, 15% of women may not become pregnant for a long time due to smoking abuse, serious stress, and heavy physical activity. This also includes various disruptions in a couple’s sexual life, including due to an incorrectly chosen position during sexual intimacy.
Sex should be as enjoyable as possible for a woman, and the bedroom should be a place where discomfort or stress should not be present.
An important rule for achieving pregnancy as quickly as possible is regularity of sexual activity. This rule ensures stable hormonal levels in the female body.
Not only infrequent sexual intercourse is unfavorable for pregnancy, but also excessive close contacts and their disorder.
There are a number of rules, the observance of which helps sperm move deeper into the female body, facilitating the couple to have offspring. At the same time, the following are important for the couple:
- regularity of sex (at least 3 times a week);
- presence of a permanent partner;
- provide sexual contact at the time of ovulation itself or 4-5 days before its occurrence;
- prevent the leakage of seminal fluid from the vagina;
- A woman should not use any creams, lubricants or detergents in preparation for sex;
- use positions with maximum coincidence of body position with the position of the uterus (if any);
- provide an alkaline vaginal environment that is as beneficial as possible for sperm;
- achieving maximum contact at the time of sexual intercourse between partners.
The choice of position during intimacy is no less important for quick and effective conception.
Missionary pose
This love position was recommended as the best for conceiving a child by medical treatises of Ancient India. It says that a woman lying on her back and a man on top are in the most harmonious position. All organs are in complete harmony with each other, as are the bodies, and therefore the likelihood of conceiving is as high as possible.
But the “missionary” position is completely unsuitable for women with a curved uterus. Therefore, before getting upset about pregnancy not occurring, you should consult a gynecologist. It is possible that you have a naturally curved uterus, and this position is completely unsuitable for you.
To further increase the chance, a woman can be advised to pull her legs bent at the knees towards her stomach or throw them over her partner’s shoulders. This slightly modified position ensures maximum possible penetration and more complete contact between the male penis and the cervix.
Conception positions 2
The most suitable positions for conceiving a child are those that provide deep penetration. The woman’s pelvis is tilted or horizontal:
- Missionary position is a classic sex position. The man is on top of the woman, leaning on his elbows or hands. A woman can wrap her legs around his hips.
- The cat position is a variation of the missionary position in which the woman, lying on her back, moves one leg to the side and bends it at the knee. The man enters her from above. In this position, a rather interesting angle of insertion of the penis and stimulation of the clitoris is recorded.
- The open flower is considered a difficult pose, during which the woman presses her knees tightly to her chest. During the practice of this position, a woman and a man are able to feel the depth of penetration, so if painful sensations occur, it is better to change it to a calmer one.
- The general’s position is similar to the “open flower”, only the woman puts her legs on her husband’s shoulders, like shoulder straps.
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The missionary position, like the cat position, is not suitable for women with a pathology of the development of the genital organs, such as a bent uterus. In their case, knee-elbow positions should be used with an emphasis on lowering the shoulder girdle below hip level.
- The doggy position is considered one of the main poses when a woman stands on all fours, leaning on her elbows or hands, while her shoulders must be lowered slightly below her pelvis. The man enters the woman from behind and makes movements of arbitrary frequency, as the couple likes.
- Shall we dance? – one of the variants of the knee-elbow position, when the girl leans on her elbows and arches her back. The man enters from behind, and the woman plays along with him, making counter movements.
- Hugging is a position in a horizontal position when a woman rests her back on the man’s stomach. This position during and after sex speaks of the deep feelings of the couple.
Knee-elbow position or “Dogi style”
It has another name - “man behind.” The woman gets on all fours, leaning on her elbows and knees (hence the official name), the man is, accordingly, behind her.
This position is universal in the sense that it is suitable for any structure of the female internal genital organs. And if the “missionary” position does not bring the desired result for a woman with a curved uterus, then “dogi style” is simply an ideal option. This is due to some peculiarity of the location of the uterus in this position. It is anatomically located below the level of the vagina and the existing defect in the form of a bend does not at all prevent sperm from penetrating into the uterine cavity.
These were the two best positions to get pregnant.
The most favorable positions for conceiving a child
No matter how inventive future parents are and no matter what acrobatic abilities they possess, in such a matter as pregnancy planning, the classics are the most ideal option. Therefore, when choosing positions for conception, it is recommended to abandon those in which sperm can flow freely, because the more sperm remains inside, the higher the chance of getting pregnant.
Excellent positions that promote conception are those in which sperm, after ejaculation, can easily enter the uterus and continue on their way to the egg. If calm is not for you, and you constantly crave experiments, then to increase your chances, at least before ejaculation, return to the position in which the sperm can penetrate as deeply as possible and will not flow out freely after sexual intercourse.
Missionary position
The most successful positions for conception are, of course, horizontal. Many consider the missionary position to be the most effective among them. According to some data, it is in this position that the maximum volume of sperm is released, which immediately enters the cervix.
The missionary position is suitable for all couples who do not have physiological characteristics in the structure of the genital organs.
“Doggy style” (knee-elbow pose)
Most representatives of mammals conceive their offspring in this position. The logical conclusion follows from this that for us, the position in which a woman lies on her stomach or stands on her knees, with her pelvis slightly raised, and the man is behind her, is excellent for conception, because with it the depth of penetration increases significantly. The seminal fluid rushes directly to the cervix, and the woman's raised hips help prevent the ejaculate from leaking out. Note that many men choose this particular position, even without plans to conceive a child, since “doggy style” allows them to gain complete control over the woman they love, and therefore maximum pleasure.
"General"
The “general” pose got its name because of the position of the partners, in which the woman, bending her legs at the knees, places them on the man’s shoulders (as if on an officer’s “epaulettes”). This position allows you to obtain maximum depth of penetration and often improve the acuity of sensations. In addition, experts say that it is in the “general” position that both partners have the opportunity to get multiple orgasms. This is facilitated by a special position in which during intercourse a man acts on the G-spot and at the same time on the area of the lower abdomen, thereby “massaging” the uterus.
"Spoons"
In this position, the partners lie on their sides (the man is behind or facing each other), as close as possible. Hence the name. In this position, the man can control the pace and also stimulate the erogenous zones of his partner. In addition, in the “spoon” position he can get as close as possible to the cervix, which will allow sperm to linger longer in the vagina after ejaculation.
After making love, a woman is advised to remain in the same position for a while to increase the likelihood of fertilization.
Lying on your side
Also an excellent position for conception. Again, the main rule of conception is fulfilled here: male sperm is released as close as possible to the cervix.
We've looked at the almost ideal positions for conceiving a child, and now you know exactly what position to take to get pregnant.
Let us summarize our interesting and quite relevant conversation. So, in what position can you get pregnant quickly? If you read everything carefully, you noticed that in all of the listed positions, the woman’s hips are raised. Therefore, any pose that has this feature will be an ideal option. This is due to the fact that the path of sperm will be much shorter (due to deep penetration), and they will not have to overcome gravity. They will be able to calmly move towards their goal and your happiness.
Who are you planning?
It is almost certain that in order to have a boy, you need to have sex just before ovulation. Why?
Male sperm, of course, move very quickly, but their life cycle is short. In this connection, you should try to speed up the meeting of the egg and sperm. Therefore, remember that the ideal sexual position for conceiving a boy will be with maximum penetration. These are all slightly previously listed positions.
And one more nuance: Y-sperm cannot tolerate heat at all. They simply die when their body temperature rises. Therefore, visiting a bathhouse or sauna is strictly prohibited.
Female orgasm and the birth of a boy
An important role in conceiving a boy is played by the female orgasm. Of course, this should happen simultaneously with male ejaculation or a little earlier. The thing is that during orgasm, a woman’s vagina is capable of secreting a special secretion, the composition of which significantly prolongs the life of Y-sperm by changing the vaginal environment. From the usual alkaline it becomes acidic.
Now you know exactly which position to choose to get pregnant with a boy.
Of course, for many future parents it doesn’t matter who their child is. But a woman may have her own plans. So now let's talk about what are the best positions to get pregnant with a girl.
Which positions for conception are considered the best, let's talk about each separately
Since ancient times, the main way to conceive a child is through sexual intercourse. And we can say that many positions for conception are equally good and there is not a single sexual position in which it would be impossible to get pregnant.
But if planning a child is delayed and without obvious reasons, then many couples have a question: maybe they are doing something wrong and are there any positions that increase the chances of getting pregnant?
We will try to answer this question, and for this we need to remember our smaller brothers. As you know, most mammal species lack sexual diversity, but this does not in any way affect their ability to reproduce.
Therefore, the first position is knee-elbow or also called “doggy style”
This position for conception is optimal, as it ensures deep penetration and the ejaculate rushes directly to the cervix. The woman kneels or lies on her stomach with her pelvis raised, and the man is positioned behind her. This can also be said that the best position for conception is for those women who have a uterine bend or displacement. In order to achieve maximum effect, after intercourse it is recommended to lie on your stomach for 10 minutes.
The second position is missionary
This is a classic position with the partner on top and the partner lying on her back. And this position is good for conception, since the penis penetrates quite deeply and thereby increases the chances of getting pregnant. After having sex, you can take a position that has become popular called “birch”. And he stays in this position for several minutes.
Third position – lying on your side
This position is not as popular as the previous two, but there is a small problem. The chances of getting pregnant will increase if a woman has a deviation of the uterus to the right or left. Then this position will become the best position for conception. Also, after sex, a woman should remain in the same position for a while.
And let's also talk about other poses
When a woman is in a sitting position (“cowgirl”) during sexual intercourse, the chances of fertilization are reduced, which is due to the fact that in this position the seminal fluid is not able to linger and flows out of the vagina. But this does not mean that when planning a pregnancy it is necessary to have sex only in appropriate positions. Any couple chooses the best positions for themselves in order to give each other maximum pleasure.
Now you know which positions for conception are considered the best, and which ones increase the chances of getting pregnant, and what to choose is up to you and your partner to decide. More details: https://www.happy-giraffe.ru/community/1/forum/post/65516/
I want a daughter
Let's look at some of the nuances of planning a girl. The attempt should be made a couple of days before the expected ovulation, and during it and the next two days, completely abandon any sexual contact.
If you dream of a girl, then to achieve your dream, you should completely eliminate the poses discussed a little earlier. Let me remind you. These are the missionary pose, dogi style, and the side position. Penetration in such positions is maximum, but now we need the completely opposite effect.
Therefore, the optimal choice would be to stay in positions where a woman dominates. These are all variations of the “Cowgirl” position; in general, preference should be given to positions where the woman is on top or when both partners are standing. This increases the distance the sperm needs to travel to reach the egg.
The fact is that “female” or X-sperm are more tenacious when compared with “boy” Y-sperm. Therefore, without any rush, they will achieve their goal within the next 2-3 days. And in 9 months you will receive your long-awaited daughter. So we figured out which position is easier to get pregnant with a girl.
Spoons or on the side
The spooning position is considered one of the most comfortable during pregnancy. It does not involve much activity, so it is suitable for women in their last stages. The depth of penetration is not great, so you don’t have to worry about abdominal pain. For extra comfort, place a couple of pillows under your knees and make sure your partner isn't putting too much pressure on your stomach.
Sex on the side is comfortable not only on a physical, but also on an emotional level. Agree, it is very romantic when your loved one hugs you from behind. Another life hack for pregnant women: choose a position on your left side. Indeed, during pregnancy, the uterus can put pressure on the vena cava, which carries blood to the lower part of the body. Do you want it to be even more enjoyable? Hold the vibrator between your legs or ask him to use his fingers.
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Do you want a girl? Give up orgasm
In addition, a woman should give up her own pleasure, since you remember that orgasm makes the vaginal environment acidic, which prolongs the life of Y-sperm. But this is not at all included in our plans. Therefore, by refusing the logical conclusion of the act of love - orgasm, you prolong the life of slow X-sperm, which simply feel great in the natural alkaline environment of the vagina.
Now you know how to get pregnant with a boy, the positions that are most preferable. And with the future daughter, everything is also clear.
Positions for uterine flexion
Many gynecologists claim that conception, if a woman has physiological characteristics in the location of the uterus, is possible only in certain positions, which are selected depending on the side of the bend. may bend to the right, to the left , but more often to the back .
This feature suggests that the body of the uterus is not located on the correct axis relative to the vagina. Therefore, an incorrectly chosen position can not only complicate the process of conception, but even cause pain to the woman.
The best positions for conception with a tilted uterus:
1. With inflammation of the ovaries, the uterus is often turned in one direction or another. In this situation, you should choose a position lying on your side, and the woman should lie directly on the side where her uterus is turned.
2. If the uterus is in a normal position, it is recommended to place a pillow under the buttocks, raise your legs, and press your knees to your chest.
3. When the uterus is bent, the ideal position is knee-elbow (“doggy style”).
