The quality of female intuition
Intuition is a truly feminine quality. Women's intuition is much more developed than men's. And this is due to biological characteristics, which will be discussed a little later. But how often can you hear from women: “I don’t know what decision to make,” “I’m not sure of my choice.” Or even worse: “My intuition has let me down”, “I don’t trust my intuition”... Girls, intuition is an innate female gift! But, of course, if you are “cut off” from your own feelings, sensations, emotions, disconnected from the reactions of your body and live exclusively in your head, then the voice of intuition will be very weak for you.
But nature is designed in such a way that it is difficult for a woman to make decisions based solely on logic. The fact is that the female brain is biologically adapted to process different information simultaneously. The male brain is able to process only one layer of information. But high quality! A woman grasps the multidimensionality of the entire space that surrounds her and perceives with her brain all the signals from the world at the same time. It is almost impossible to logically analyze several areas at once and simultaneously make several well-calibrated decisions that are different in content. That is why nature invented a “superorgan” for women - intuition! But intuition can be developed to a high-quality state only by being in the female pole. And that's why.
The nature of a man is vector. “I see the goal, I believe in myself, I don’t notice any obstacles.” Since ancient times it has been the custom that man was created as a hunter. Therefore, his consciousness is, as it were, narrowly focused and aimed at processing information regarding one goal. He does not perceive all other goals at this moment (at the moment of movement towards his goal, at the moment of hunting). Because otherwise he won’t achieve his goal, he won’t kill the game, he won’t bring the mammoth home.
A man knows how to be extremely concentrated on an object. To do this, he needs to abstract from all other sources of information. And not only from sources, but also from the analysis of other information (by the way, this is precisely what is associated with the famous female whim called: “He began to pay little attention to me.” Of course, the game has already been caught! So the male brain switches to other tasks !). And this is where masculine nature comes into play. Through concentration and associated austerities, a man develops in himself a fiery spirit, the state of a Warrior. As soon as one goal is conquered, his gaze immediately turns to the future, to the next goal. This is how a man moves along the path of Achievement.
A woman is created in such a way as to read different layers of information simultaneously. Its nature is wave. It's like circles on water that diverge in different directions, spreading themselves around and at the same time collecting information around them. A developed woman is always in the present; she, like Water, remembers and retains information in herself in order to pass on to her offspring the experience of the past and its ancient legends.
Girls, remember yourself in a relaxed feminine state - for example, in the kitchen. You cook, talk on the phone with your friend, watch TV at the same time, and manage to kiss your husband and look at the child’s drawing that he shows you. At the same time, you can also knit, look on the Internet, view news or correspondence there, and apply cream or mask to your face. Any man would have gone crazy by now, but it’s okay for us! Because from time immemorial, a woman’s task was to preserve and raise offspring! And the offspring are like that: running, crawling, hooligan (you have to make sure that they don’t do anything in the cave and don’t run away from the cave), at the same time you have to make sure that the enemy doesn’t enter the cave, and at the same time you have to maintain the fireplace. At the same time, a woman is created for joy - that is, at the same time, she can admire flowers, inhale aromas, monitor the weather, the sky, the trees, and so on. This is exactly what she has intuition for! Logically analyzing and processing all these layers of information will make any computer smoke!
And the deeper a woman is to her true nature, the more acutely she develops the feeling: “I don’t know why, but we’re going there,” “I don’t know why, but it’s better to do it this way,” “I don’t know why, but I turned at the very moment when the child was reaching for a dangerous object”, “I don’t know why, but this contract can be signed, and this will only lead to trouble”, “I don’t know why, but I chose exactly the man who which has the potential to succeed." In general: “I thought so!”
Therefore, everything is simple when it comes to decision-making: turn off your head, listen to your feelings, move from a male to a female state, develop the Woman in yourself with the help of special practices, and your intuition will work flawlessly!
How to develop female intuition?
In ancient centuries, women whose intuition was especially developed were considered witches. Fortunately, now owners of a well-developed “sixth sense” do not have to fear for their lives. And, since the inquisitorial fire is a thing of the past, and avoiding mistakes, guided by what your inner voice tells you, is much easier than correcting them, the question of how to develop female intuition is very interesting from the point of view of practical application.
What is intuition? This concept was defined by Kant and Goethe, Descartes and Jung, Socrates and Spinoza. The term itself is translated from Latin as “look”. This is that inner view that allows you to make the right decisions at the level of feelings, but without knowledge of the world around you, this skill would not be of practical value. Knowledge allows you to “decipher” sensations, which, in turn, can manifest themselves in different ways. For some, the inner voice “works” in a dream, for others it gives signals through images or sudden insight into thoughts, some experience physical sensations of anxiety or joy.
It has been noticed that creative people are more likely to perform intuitive actions, and our right hemisphere is “responsible” for creativity. If you develop it, you can achieve a lot. In the question of how to develop female intuition, an important role is played by achieving balance in the work of the left and right hemispheres. How to do it? Using simple exercises: you need to perform familiar actions with your “non-working” hand.
Even more effective are techniques that allow you to use both hemispheres at the same time. Despite their simplicity, not everyone can do them right away. For example, try this exercise
: With the thumb and forefinger of your left hand, grab the tip of your nose, and with the same fingers of your right hand, grab the lobe of your left ear. Now release your ear and nose, clap your hands and immediately change the position of your hands, that is, touch your nose with your right hand, and grab your right earlobe with your left hand. As you master this exercise, speed up the pace.
Another technique that allows you to use both hemispheres is drawing with both hands at the same time.
. Take a piece of paper and a pencil in each hand. Draw a butterfly, an apple, a heart, in general, any symmetrical object. The nuance is that the lines need to be drawn synchronously with both hands in a mirror image. By the way, such exercises help not only to develop intuition, but also to relieve headaches, improve vision, relieve nervous stress and overexertion.
If you are seriously thinking about how to develop female intuition, then you cannot do without knowledge of sign language and facial expressions. Most women intuitively feel when the interlocutor is telling a lie or hiding something. This happens because we “see” dissonance between gestures, facial expressions and words. In such cases, we cannot always explain what is going wrong, but something worries us. And the discrepancy is alarming.
Intuition, although it goes hand in hand with knowledge, does not involve the process of comprehending information. If the decision was made as a result of many hours of thought, then we cannot talk about intuition. It is based on feelings, not reason, so men, most of whom are pragmatists, often do not listen to it.
It happens that a man doesn’t take our women’s warnings seriously either. When something happens, he tends to blame not himself, but the woman who “cooked.” According to the logic of men, the chain of events looks like this: a woman miraculously provokes trouble and warns about it herself, and he has no choice but to eliminate the consequences. In reality, everything happens differently: the woman feels that a certain event will happen, and warns the man against some action. He, of course, does not listen to her words, and what she feared happens. But if I had listened, everything could have been different!
It is important not only to awaken your inner voice. You need to learn to hear him, and even more importantly, learn to trust him. This is perhaps the most difficult thing.
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Women's intuition and the “block” to relationships
Many women are faced with the fact that they cannot “start” relationships with men. They seem to be beautiful, smart, and charming, but the relationship doesn’t work out. Let's talk about why this happens. Let's start by trying to outline this or that situation.
A woman finds out that she is interested in this or that man and begins to act, believing that with these very actions she will attract a potential partner, but, alas, it turns out quite the opposite, and the suitor who has just appeared on the horizon disappears as suddenly as he appeared.
How does a woman feel about this? It’s as if a block is triggered inside her, which is simply impossible to fight, and this same block prevents her from building a relationship with a man. This situation is familiar to many ladies. Because of this “block,” they consider themselves somehow inferior and “wrong.” In fact, a “block” is a necessary measure that is developed by our psyche to protect us from possible mistakes.
According to psychologists, this block is nothing more than natural intuition, which helps a woman choose a suitable partner not by trial and error, but purely intuitively, evaluating him subconsciously, unconsciously.
And this means that a woman will never be able to start a family? No, that's not true. The fact is that the “block” will not always appear. It appears only if the man is not suitable for the woman.
If a “prince” appears who can become the one and only in her life, then natural intuition will recede and will not interfere with the development of the relationship. A woman will not be able, and will not want, to scare off this very one, because on a subconscious level she will already understand that this is exactly the one she needs, and with whom she can live her whole life happily.
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Why do you need a "block"? This is a very important protective function of our psyche, which is a completely normal phenomenon present in most mentally healthy people. If natural intuition stops putting up such “blocks,” this will lead to the fact that a person will no longer be picky about choosing a partner and will be able to lead a promiscuous sex life, entering into an intimate relationship with the first person he comes across. If everyone lacked natural intuition, then our world would simply be mired in chaos.
A woman may think that this “block” is completely useless and, moreover, interferes with the normal development of interpersonal relationships, but this is not at all true. Remember that even if you are faced with such a problem, you will probably soon meet your destiny, and then certainly neither intuition nor anything else will interfere with you.
Listening to your intuition, and more importantly, your heart, is very important when choosing a partner. In the end, we only live once, and we would like to make mistakes as little as possible. In any case, the main thing is not to despair and not give up. Remember that all the most joyful, good and happy things are yet to come. You can still do it and you will achieve everything you want. Believe in your own strength and don’t lose your goals. A clearly defined goal is already half the success. If you firmly know what you want, then it is always possible to achieve it, but few can set the right goal.
Remember also that it is not so easy to push away a truly loving man, and if he doesn’t love you, is it worth killing yourself like that? Is the current situation worth your tears, your worries? Is it worth trying to build relationships with people you don’t have a soul for? Think about whether you even need to do something that you don’t want to do at all?
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Maybe you need to reconsider your life policy and try to live a little the way only you want? What if you like it... and your “block” will only help you with this?
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