Love and relationships Diversity in sexual life is an integral part of the life of partners. The classic missionary position can get boring, especially since men love to experiment and offer something new to their partner. Particularly popular among the stronger sex is the position when a man is behind a woman.
It is likely that for him this is not just some hint of animal, natural sex, but rather psychological domination over another person.
This article will discuss the main pros and cons of the man from behind position for both partners.
When a man is behind: for him
When a man hugs a woman from behind and enters her, this can be a plus for him in the following context:
- he can fully feel himself in the role of a male, completely mastering her the way he wants;
- if he doesn’t care to see his partner’s face, but wants to give free rein to his imagination. In this case, the lady is simply a way of his own satisfaction.
- a great opportunity for demonstrative dominance over your woman, a manifestation of strength
- can afford maximum deep penetration. In this case, the partner’s face will not be visible, so her emotions will definitely not be taken into account.
Don't forget about oral sex
- «69»
This position is good for mutual oral sex. Any of the partners can be either above or below; their location may depend on body weight and other body features. Simultaneous stimulation of the genital organs of both partners gives a very strong stimulating effect.
- Blow job
During a blowjob, a girl can be in a kneeling position in front of a standing partner. There is something about this position that makes men feel superior, which they definitely like.
For convenience, the man can sit on a chair, and the partner will also sit on her knees between his legs. Many men like it when women look at their faces during a blowjob. The partner should not forget about the existence of hands and actively use them. You can, for example, stimulate the penis or scrotum, as well as stroke the buttocks and thighs of your lover.
If the blowjob takes place in bed, then the partner can position herself in a knee-elbow position between the partner’s spread legs. Men love poses when a sexy arch of the back and a protruding butt are visible, this adds excitement to them.
When a man is behind: for her
Not all women like this kind of dominance from the male side. If, nevertheless, she is not against this, she will receive the following positive aspects:
- when the penis enters from behind, it is an excellent stimulator of the anterior wall of the vagina and that very G-spot, the caress of which is the height of bliss for the fair sex
- since the guy’s hands are freed up in this position, he can, without interrupting the main process, caress the breasts or clitoris of his lady
Recommendations from sexologists
Changing erotic positions is not done to achieve sexual variety. The reason for this is the search for the most convenient location. Achieving orgasm should not be the goal of sexual intercourse, and we should not forget about enjoying the process itself. Often the partner cannot say that this or that position not only does not bring satisfaction, but causes inconvenience and even pain. In this regard, the sexual position on the side from behind or facing each other is considered by sexologists to be the most comfortable and gentle. You should not try to copy the pose exactly; you need to choose the most suitable option for yourself according to your constitution and preferences.
Sex positions when a man is behind you, there are several varieties.
Like a dog
This is a classic option. The lady kneels and rests on her elbows, spreading her legs shoulder-width apart.
The partner inserts the penis into her from behind, also on his knees, and with his hands holding the woman by the hips and pulling her towards him. Thus, he regulates and himself sets the pace of sexual intercourse.
Bulldog style
The difference between this position and the previous one is that the partner closes her legs tightly and is no longer supported on her elbows, but on her palms. At the same time, the young man enters her, squeezing her hips with his legs.
Turtle
The woman closes her legs, presses them to her stomach and lies down on them, leaning on her chest and clasping her arms.
This is one of the most passive positions for a lady, where a man acts as if against her will.
Additional caresses are also not provided for her, since most of her body remains closed.
Basset Hound
With this option, it is necessary for the girl to lie on her stomach. In this case, she needs to bend her legs at the knees and spread them along her body. The partner, doing the same, is located behind and enters her.
Rear entrance
This option can be relevant immediately after the couple gets tired of standing on all fours and having sex doggy style.
The woman lies down on the bed, placing a pillow under her hips. The man arranges himself in this position on top and enters her.
jumping frog
In this situation, the partner is extremely unstable. She squats down with her feet more than shoulder-width apart.
She presses her palms into the floor between her legs. The partner stands behind her and inserts the penis. He needs to hold her very tightly.
Twister
A position that requires good physical fitness for both partners. She sits on all fours and lifts her hips up, and he lowers himself over them and, either squatting or rising, inserts his penis into her. This position delays the moment of orgasm.
Jockey
The lady lies down in bed on her stomach, with her legs together and a pillow under her hips. A representative of the stronger sex sits on top of her and fast and aggressive sex begins.
Waking up in the morning
The name reveals the essence of the pose. Both partners lie on their sides. The guy enters the girl, holding her close and caressing her breasts and clitoris.
He controls the pace of intercourse, but she can enhance their overall sensations by making circular movements with her pelvis.
seat
Most of the workers in this position are women. She sits on the penis with her back to her chosen one and begins to move up and down.
Sitting on my knees
The girl is in this position, with her back to her man. Being in the same position, they can make rhythmic movements and change the pace from slow to very fast.
With this position, deep penetration and stimulation of the G spot is possible.
Feet to hands
The lady lies on her stomach in bed so that her legs hang off her. The young man stands behind her and, holding her legs, begins to perform fictions.
As the girl approaches orgasm, she can ask him to move his hands to her hips to enhance the effect.
Sexual positions and character of men
Do you doubt what your new friend has, not a penis, just a character ? And what are his secret passions? You will have to watch him in love games: what he whispers in your ear, how he touches your breasts.
Finally, what position he prefers and how he behaves. He doesn’t even suspect that at this moment his entire essence is revealed to your attentive gaze, as if in an X-ray image. “Create a pose for yourself and have the character to withstand it,” said Daniil Kharms. "Sandwich maker"
Favorite position: classic, “missionary”: he is on top, you are below.
He loves to crush you with his entire mass when you are in a horizontal position on your back. In general, it turns out to be a typical “sandwich”, where between his body and the bed you are the “filling”. He may not even realize it himself, but he is excited that he is on top, which means he rules the roost. At the same time, he usually strives to bite your earlobe or bite your neck with a passionate kiss.
Diagnosis. If he is nimble like a rabbit, quickly gets pleasure and falls off, this means that he is terribly jealous, greedy and prone to receiving momentary pleasures and is generally a bad lover. He has frequent headaches, a sore lower back, he smokes a lot, is prone to binge drinking, his idols are coach Romantsev with a cigarette-pacifier and Jim Carrey.
If he moves slowly, sighs noisily and sweats a lot, and you no longer know where to go, if only it would end quickly, this is a problem specimen, unsure of himself. You won’t get from him the words that girls need so much, like: “I feel good with you, mouse” or cool: “baby, you’re cool.” He is not capable of feats and experiments.
“Male” Favorite position: doggy style or Roman horse. “Dog” or “horse” is you, of course. And he is a “male” or “tamer”.
You try to ride him, but he keeps trying to get behind you. Perhaps it whips you on the buttocks and pulls your hair every now and then.
Diagnosis.
If he “loves” strictly “back and forth”, with force, silently and sternly, like Suvorov, who decided to bomb the enemy at all costs - hold on! In front of you (or rather, behind you) is a dangerous person with a past. The thrill of “victory” is important to this type: the partner is thrown down on all fours. But at the same time, he can truly love his “doggy” with all his “dog” soul. To love so much that you can no longer escape from his love shackles alive.
Another fan of this pose : a romantic who loves variations on the theme of “rotating your hips,” moving them left and right, waving your arms like wings, and singing, say, “Ave Maria.” This one may turn out to be a curious character to talk to, but a coward, trembling at the thought of having to look a girl in the eyes if he finds himself face to face with her. He loves to do “this” very often, with different girls. A sort of collector of women's butts, which are “silent”, unlike the eyes and lips. It's easier. A romantic does not like difficulties and runs away from responsibility. He eats chocolate, drinks strong drinks, plays in the casino.
"Esthete"
Favorite pose: There may be several of them, but they are all from the realm of unimaginable balancing act with a bunch of different accompanying intricacies. That is, everything except traditional preferences.
During sexual contact, he begins to twist you into “knots”, tries to put you in the “lotus” position, stretches you into splits, and arranges existential sexual experiences.
Diagnosis. As a rule, this is an esthete who yearns for tantra, listens to alternative music, and often does not know what he wants in life. Yes, perhaps, only one thing - escape from boredom, traditions and soulfulness. Because he is incredibly self-centered, vain and ambitious. The center of his universe is himself. If you decide to stay with him, don’t expect care and attention and be ready to fulfill his whims, including sexual ones . The only advantage is incredible cleanliness.
“Tamer” Favorite pose: Cat in a tree.” That is, love is “in weight”: you are both standing, you are hanging on him, wrapping your legs around his waist.
He picks you up, “hangs” you on himself and begins to move with force. He does it furiously, screams like Tarzan (the real one, not the one who is the father of Natasha Koroleva’s child). She can do this in front of a large mirror to admire herself. Yes, yes, yourself first of all. And only then you, if you are beautifully built.
Diagnosis. Crazy narcissist. Most often, these people engage in bodybuilding, fitness, and tennis. And people with complexes become bodybuilders, being at first dissatisfied with themselves, then - too much in love with themselves due to bulging muscles. He is incredibly polygamous, cannot enjoy one or two girls, he definitely needs a dozen or two and certainly beauties. He will force you to decorate your apartment with his nude photographs, tell him a lot of compliments, and eat with him his protein food, which is necessary for bodybuilders. He listens to hard rock, Zemfira, does not drink alcohol and does not smoke. This is probably a plus. But from constant stress on the lower back, due to the fact that he prefers the “cat” position, the friend may have problems with the spine, he may suffer from constipation.
“Pretzel” Favorite position: on the side. He turns you over on your side, lies behind you, presses against you and “buries” himself in the curves of your body. It turns out to be a “pretzel” or a “ball”, whatever you like. Almost the same thing can happen if he turns you to face him. He enjoys the slow and deep penetration into you, hugs you tightly, whispers something.
Diagnosis. He was used to warm pies and soft homemade slippers, measured ri, so that orgasm would come on time, and everything in sexual contact would be predictable. Type - mama's boy or boring married man. Boring, like Karl Marx when he was working on Capital. If fate brings you together, you will be guaranteed a life “by the hour” with rare sex on the side.
"Universal"
Favorite position: Everything!
He is unique: impudent, like a hussar, and courteous, like an aristocrat; rude and gentle; cheeky and shy, unpredictable.
Diagnosis. This is the kind of man who is a universal lover. His main passion is giving pleasure to the woman he loves. He will satisfy her and will not forget about himself. What kind of pose is this is the tenth thing for him.
So if he loves you, he will make any sacrifice for you. True, it is unlikely to last long: there are so many objects of worship around.
Cowgirl
The man lies on his back with his legs stretched out. The girl sits on top and moves up and down, or squeezes the vaginal muscles. Guys' opinion: It turns you on when you see her breasts and belly in front of you. You can speed up your friend by holding her buttocks with your hands. Girls' opinion: The best option when you want to be the mistress of the situation. If a guy's penis is too big for you, you can simply lean forward slightly, resting your hands on the bed or his chest. This way you can completely control the depth of penetration.
Male leader
Before we talk about positions that give men true pleasure, we should dwell a little on their psychology. It is so conceived by nature that a man strives to be in charge, to lead the process. Therefore, in most cases, representatives of the stronger sex give preference to those positions that allow them to independently supervise.
But, as practice shows, if a woman takes the initiative into her own hands, then most men simply cannot resist and surrender to her caresses and guidance. Therefore, despite all the theories, do not be afraid to participate in the process and lead. Sometimes this kind of behavior turns the partner on even more.
As for sex positions, let's take a closer look at those options that give men more pleasure during sex, and consider those positions that men leave as a last resort.
