When you decide to shorten your hair
The idea that men don't notice changes in their partner's hairstyle has become a joke. Many believe that the guy, if his girlfriend disappeared, would not be able to even describe her appearance and help the police create a composite photo. Believe me, if you ever come home with a bob haircut or your hair suddenly turns green, your lover will definitely notice. True, this may take some time.
The colors of your clothes
All these stylish belts and handbags, coral shades and indigo color - a man is unlikely to be interested in fashion trends. But he always notices what exactly you are wearing, and has probably already learned to “diagnose” your mood depending on the style of the dress and the height of the heels.
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Any attentive man will notice this little detail. And this will be a reason for sincere bewilderment. Why not just admit it was funny? Yes, the joke is a little rude, but funny.
Your little quirks
Every person has their own “cockroaches”. And your boyfriend probably notices and remembers all your oddities. Are you too particular about cleanliness? Do books have to be arranged in alphabetical order? When you're sad, do you always put on an old, threadbare sweater and hide under the covers? A man knows about all this, because it helps him feel closer to you.
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Despite the fact that men are often devoid of sentimentality, they are always pleased if you remember some little things about their lives. For example, the fact that you know the name of his favorite movie will probably make a guy smile. And that story about his older brother shaming him at a family dinner when he was seven? Your man appreciates attention, don’t even doubt it.
What does it mean if a man, a guy looks intently into the eyes from afar: deciphering the look
Many women have developed intuition, so they feel the gaze of other people, especially men. Quite often, a man can look at a girl from afar and not take his eyes off.
Values:
- The guy is interested in you
- A man is in love with you
- He's trying to take a closer look at you
- This is your enemy, he is not particularly interested in you, and he is trying to understand the behavior
To clearly understand what a man wants, pay attention to the details:
- If the pupils are dilated, a man is interested in you. You can reciprocate if you are also interested in him.
- If a man studies you from afar, but after noticing that you are looking at him, he looks away, he is shy. A man does not dare to confess his feelings to you. He is interested in you as a woman. Therefore, if you don’t want to miss your chance, and you are really interested in a representative of the stronger sex, take the first step towards him.
- If you are in a large company, communicating, and a man is looking at you intently with an appraising gaze, then he is curious to get to know you.
What does it mean?
There really are a lot of options. The most unpleasant of them, perhaps, is a look full of hatred. Sometimes during a quarrel or as a result of an unseemly act by a girl, a guy can fall into a state of so-called quiet anger. At the same time, he may not utter a word, perhaps because it is difficult for him to find them in such a situation or he does not want to comment on it at all. Then he puts all his anger into his gaze. It is, of course, impossible to confuse it with the gaze of a lover, and the girl most likely understands the meaning of what is happening.
We’ll discuss what to do in such a situation a little later, now we’ll consider other options that explain the guy’s long, attentive gaze straight into the girl’s eyes, let’s try to read his thoughts. So, a man looks a girl in the eyes and thinks something like this:
- “I don’t even care what you say now, I just want to look at you without stopping. It seems like I could sit like this for an eternity, looking into your eyes and listening to your voice.”
- "Amazing girl. Such deep, sensible thoughts, how confidently and interestingly she speaks. And in the eyes one can read a sharp mind. Nice to talk".
- “Perhaps what we are talking about is not very interesting, but the girl herself is very interesting. I will be very attentive and sensitive, but I won’t let her escape from me anywhere.”
- “Now I’ll wait for the right moment, gather my courage and kiss her. I’ll kiss you straight away without any hints or delays, and that’s it.”
- “Did all this really happen to her? Maybe he's embellishing? Apparently she is sincere. Incredible, of course."
- “I wonder how serious our relationship can be? Do I want to be with her all the time or will I get tired after a couple of weeks?”
- “Should I confess to her now how I feel, or is it better to hide everything? At least some hint of reciprocity. She should have already understood everything by her eyes.”
- “I wonder if it will rain tomorrow or not? I should wash the car, but the weather is getting worse.”
With the exception of the last example, all the others indicate that the guy is very interested. Either by the girl herself, or by what she says. Of course, the above thoughts do not reflect the whole picture. There can be many options here. For example, a guy can sincerely empathize with what a girl is saying, and at the same time think about how and how to help her. He may try to catch her in a lie or simply look into her eyes, already knowing for sure that she is lying. There are plenty of options.
However, the girl does not always catch this long, piercing gaze on herself in the process of any narration. Sometimes the guy looks into her eyes, catching her gaze at every opportunity. Or, having caught him once, he looks so that she does not look away, as if she noticed him. What can he think about at this moment if he does it deliberately for a long time? And here are a few more examples of such thoughts in this case:
- “I like you, do you hear? Like you a lot. I let you know this with all my appearance. Well, at least smile so that I know if there’s any point in hoping.”
- “Do you feel how heavy and powerful my gaze is? It’s because I’m a brutal male, no doubt about it.”
- “No, I won’t approach her until she starts showing reciprocal signs of attention. I must be sure that I will not hear a refusal. I will pierce her with my gaze until she reacts. If she starts arrogantly expressing her dissatisfaction with my attention, I can always turn it around as if she misunderstood and is imagining too much about herself.”
- “You can feel the intelligence in these eyes; perhaps the girl is interesting not only in appearance. It will be necessary to check this guess when the opportunity arises. If I’m right, you can start a relationship, otherwise you’re tired of dummies.”
One way or another, only one thing can be said with confidence: if a guy looks a girl directly in the eyes for a long time/often, it means that he is at least not indifferent to her. This is especially true in cases where the gaze is not supported by any other action, even conversation.
The male gaze: how to tell by the eyes whether a man is in love or not
It is difficult for representatives of the stronger sex to admit their feelings, but you can understand that a man is in love by his eyes.
From our article you will learn how to determine his feelings for a woman just by looking at a man. Love is the strongest feeling that affects our thoughts and emotions. Our manners and behavior in the company of a loved one become slightly different than in his absence.
Oddly enough, representatives of the stronger sex are much more afraid to confess their love than women. But if you look into a man’s eyes, you will immediately understand that he is not indifferent to you. We will tell you about the main features of a look that betrays love.
Gaze
If a man is next to his beloved, he will look at her without stopping. It has been proven that a representative of the stronger sex can look at the object of his adoration from 20 to 45 seconds, continuously. If a man takes his eyes off a woman after 10-15 seconds, most likely he is simply interested in her. If a man stops looking at a woman after 5-10 seconds, it means he is indifferent to her.
It is worth noting that sometimes a man can look at his beloved for less than 5 seconds. But this happens if a woman starts looking at him. Men are afraid to talk about their feelings, but it is much worse for them if their beloved figures it out on her own. At least just by a loving look.
Lowers his eyes
There are timid men who find it emotionally difficult to look at the object of their love. They will not fix their gaze on their beloved, but rather, on the contrary, lower their eyes much more often in her presence. If a man feels his beloved’s gaze on him, he may look at someone present or simply begin to look around him.
In this case, we advise you to pay attention to how the man lowers his eyes after you look at him. If he does it slowly and keeps his gaze on you even after you have looked at him, then he does not have loving feelings for you. If a man suddenly looks away, this indicates that he is falling in love.
Looks into the eyes
More courageous men can look their beloved straight in the eyes, which often begins to confuse the women themselves, who begin to guess about their feelings. In most cases, a man begins to look into the eyes of his chosen one because he wants to hint to her that he is interested, but for some reason he cannot say this in words.
Pay attention to the man's pupils. If they expand when they look at you, then you can be sure that the man is in love with you. At the same time, he may occasionally lower his eyes down, and then again direct them to your face.
"Running" eyes
Quite often, men in love behave ridiculously in the company of their beloved. Some talk nonsense, others fiddle with buttons, ties or any other items of clothing, and still others' eyes begin to run. The fact is that when looking at his beloved, a man begins to get nervous and is afraid that any action will give him away. Of course, he understands that his eyes can reveal his secret, which is why he tries to look away at anything, but he cannot concentrate.
Psychologists have proven that when a person lies or tries to hide something, his gaze begins to dart from side to side. If you want to check whether a man is in love with you, you can jokingly ask him about it. If his eyes are calm, it means he doesn’t have any feelings for you. If, upon hearing your question, he begins to smile modestly, but at the same time does not know where to “hide” his gaze, it means that he wants to hide the truth from you, which is obvious.
"Warm" look
The look of a man in love can be angry or aggressive only if someone present is trying to flirt with his beloved. In other situations, a representative of the stronger sex looks at his chosen one with warmth.
What does it mean if a married man looks intently into the eyes of a girl or woman?
The psychology of married and single men is no different. Therefore, if you notice the attention of a man who is married, it means he has a certain interest in you. Perhaps he is interested in you as an interlocutor and not only. He saw a woman in you and he is interested in you, he wants to continue the relationship.
It all depends on your desires. If he doesn’t mind cheating on his wife, he will continue to look at you and provoke you. Perhaps the man will suggest the next date or directly say that he is interested in you. The last word is yours. You can agree to this type of relationship or not. Just remember that only 5% of men divorce their wives and go to their mistresses.
Accordingly, if you want to build a relationship with a man, start a family, then there is a very low probability that you will succeed. Because men are in no hurry to leave their wives and abandon their family.
Fear of intimacy
Women, like men, can be afraid of intimacy and close relationships because they will become vulnerable.
You will have to open up to another person. Appear as who you really are.
Intimacy is the moment when masks are removed, when there are no illusions left.
Our partner sooner or later learns about our psychological problems, fears, experiences, desires and goals.
The worst thing for a person who is afraid of intimacy is that the other will recognize him and reject him.
And the next fear smoothly follows from this.
Waiting for a prince or a perfect man
Our past experiences leave a big imprint on us. This may be the experience of being in the parental family.
Later it is the experience of personal relationships. And this experience may not have been the most rosy.
Then a person who has experienced something unpleasant or seen an imperfect parent creates in his head an image of what his future partner should be like.
And this image is so ideal that it does not exist in nature. In any case, most ordinary earthly men definitely do not correspond to him.
And if they don’t match, then they, these ordinary imperfect men, do not come into the woman’s field of vision.
Literally. She just doesn't see them.
