This story perfectly explains why a man needs a woman, and vice versa: what a woman needs from a man in a relationship. It was told at one time by Ray Bradbury in his book “The Martian Chronicles”. Remember there: the dude was left alone on Mars by accident. And he was looking for someone to spend his life with on this desolate planet. I found it and what became of it.
It is important to understand that Ray Bradbury is a child of American society. And, of course, he wrote specifically for the Americans, for the sake of their glorious democracy. And, of course, this story existed, but it was presented from a certain angle. And now I want to really tell you how the whole thing happened.
And let's start our story with one very piquant fact, from which modern Americans would be simply shocked.
How the ruble became the national currency in America
It happened in the distant, or maybe not very distant future. The funny thing was that by that time there had been communism on earth for a long time. The solar planet was developed very normally this way. And there were already a lot of people on Mars: Russians, of course, to hell, and there were Americans and that’s it. The whole world has become one such real family.
The ideology is not at all greedy, which is now being diligently instilled - the so-called Western values. Namely, communism in its best form, normal, so that to each according to his abilities and all that. It was this approach to social order that naturally began to be applied then.
Humanity, with the help of advanced scientific achievements, was then able to overcome its mental illnesses. And people, inspired by success, did incredible things for us, their ancestors. How our grandfathers and great-grandfathers defeated the Nazis during the Great Patriotic War, and then raised a huge country from the ruins.
So the population of the Earth dealt with their mental vices, which remained in the mind due to the laws of evolution. And then people were able to build a fair world for every person. Remember what every boy wanted to become in the Soviet Union? And as a result of this evolution of humanity, the horizons of the unknown began to expand rapidly. And, of course, Mars was one of the first to be inhabited.
Shaggy geologist Zhora
There was this geologist Zhora, well, Egor in our opinion - a Russian man, in short. This Zhora, he simply loved his job, like almost all other people of that time. Now we associate work with hard labor, but then, in the future, everything was completely different.
People then learned to really listen to themselves, their hearts. And they began to work where they wanted, and not where they needed to earn money. Of course, when a person works according to his calling, he is inspired, inspired and lives a very happy, fulfilling life.
And our Zhora was a geologist, because minerals are always needed. And even more so when space is being fully developed. The entire solar system was already populated, and the first expedition flew to Centauri. The period of such youth of humanity, of new humanity.
Why does a successful woman need a man?
I remember once reading an article where one man popularly explained why accomplished men over forty do not need a permanent relationship. They say there is enough money to have someone to do the housework: cook, wash, iron, clean the house, etc. You can always find someone to go out with, and there will be more than one option.
If we talk about the benefits of regular sex in a permanent relationship, then, firstly, for a mature man this issue is not so relevant, and secondly, if you are successful, then having sex is not a problem at all.
In addition, a mature man, in addition to work itself, has a lot of hobbies and various activities: hunting, basketball (football, volleyball, etc.), sauna with friends, traveling, fishing, etc. And no time limit! No one burdens you with the fact that you owe something to someone: arrive on time, don’t forget to give a gift, stop somewhere “along the way,” think, take care, etc.
And in the comments, people tried to convince them that it was good that their soulmate was nearby, that the person had not met true love, and that was why he was trying to decompose his existence into components.
For the last few days I’ve been thinking too... And I can’t find any reasons... Why does a successful woman need a man?
Let's immediately discard the arguments “from time immemorial” and “naturally laid down.” Let's talk here and now about the present tense, okay?
So... Living together. Honestly? For a man, living together only burdens him. It is not the man who is burdened, but he who is burdened by himself. Moreover, scattered socks are generally a trifle. Isn’t it what a man’s mother usually has in him? You must be looked after. And I, being an independent, separate person, can’t understand why I’m so happy. Why would I be happy to ensure that an adult like myself is clean, well-fed and well-groomed? He won’t keep an eye on mine, right? If I have a need to take care of someone, then children and animals more than compensate for this need. So caring for another adult is only on the terms: you - for me, I - for you.
I will say more, at the sweet age of forty, the need arises for you to be taken care of. I’m already close to inviting a housekeeper to cook and clean for myself, rather than aggravate my existence with obligatory breakfasts, lunches and dinners with the advent of a serious relationship. So come to me or me to you - only in order to make my life easier, and not to hang yourself on me.
Next point. It is generally accepted that a man must provide where and what the family lives on. What if you dealt with it yourself? And, in general, do you continue to cope normally? There is an apartment. I made the repairs. Even worries about: “who will nail the nail and hang the mirror?”, “who will connect the washing machine?”, “oh, there’s no one to assemble the furniture!” It turns out that they are quite successfully solved by specially trained people. And yes, now I don’t know any work that can’t be done for money.
I remember my ex-husband pointed out to me that he had done a great job by organizing a technical inspection for me and repairing the car. Without any favors, repairs are done for money at a service station and for money they organize a technical inspection.
You say, what about support? We swam, we know. The man is weak, not psychologically stable - he strives to jump off. Women are more reliable for support. Visit at the hospital. Lend money.
Smoke a beer in the evening. Talk over cards in a cafe. Heart-to-heart conversations are generally better to do with women. Well, you get the idea.
Oh yes, important! Sex. The same situation as for men. No problem. Moreover, the options range from 22 years to... Well, it’s a matter of taste. Having a serious relationship seems to promise regularity and quality, but in practice it is far from a guarantee. For men, the same things happen as for women: “tired”, “trouble at work”, “no time for that”, “well, if you stir me up” (this is generally fu-fu-fu!). Another disadvantage of habitual sex is that when a man examines a woman’s body, he becomes even more primitive (a man, in the sense) than he actually is: he pressed this button, stroked it here. The entire prelude is five minutes, the act itself is three. So I beg to differ: the new guys are trying! )))
What follows is not so important, but interesting. I watch the series, I watch TNT, I watch Comedy Club. And I think... Happiness. It’s fortunate that no one grabs the remote control and starts searching for news on all TV channels. It’s fortunate that no one tells me that only stupid women watch TV shows. I’m lucky that no one bothers me at all in the evening. I'm happy that I can pour myself a glass of wine. Or a glass of cognac. And no one will say reproachfully: “Aren’t you getting drunk?” I’m happy that I can drink coffee at 11 pm and not listen to: “Can you sleep later?” I’m happy that I can decide for myself whether I can sleep or not. I’m happy that I can watch 16 episodes of the series I like in one day, and no one gives me shit about it.
I am happy that I do what I want, work the way I want. No one looks over my shoulder when I write and comments: “What a mess!” or “You’re texting guys again!” Nobody says about my clients: “What kind of suckers come to you?” And of course, only I myself determine what kind of makeup suits me, what I should wear, what color I should dye my hair and, in general, how long my hair should be.
In general, I'm satisfied. I'm happy with what I have. I love. For this I have a little boy and a big girl. Mom, sister, my godchildren. My dear friends.
There is a lot that you still want. Thai boxing, Osho's dynamic meditations, salsa, tango, travel, exotic cuisines of the world, the same jewelry, cinema and works of art, complex authors and new books, grooming, English and Chinese, and... Be yourself, helping people.
Well, give me at least one reason - why does a successful woman need a man?
Author: pticavpolete.com
Russian maybe: all the pros and cons
And Zhora, like every person inspired by his work, had one peculiarity: he devoted himself to his work without reserve. And he didn’t care, like every real Russian man, he didn’t care about all sorts of little things, without which an American or a German wouldn’t leave home, as they say.
Russians are thundering their prowess to the whole world. And in this regard, we are worthy descendants, we continue the traditions of our ancestors. Here is a serious mountain river, there are all sorts of whirlpools, dashing rapids. And that means a brigade is walking along it - descending on a large inflatable boat. Everyone is wearing helmets. Well, it’s clear that wearing helmets means you want to return home.
But here is the same river, the same mountains, and a similar boat, and not a single helmet on the heads of these guys. These are our Russians coming down. The locals say that the Russians always take off their helmets, and then they have to be caught - that’s hemorrhoids. That’s why they simply don’t issue helmets to Russians anymore.
We Russians tend to have this attitude towards life; we even have a string bag. It is made of ropes and consists exclusively of holes. Why is it called a string bag - maybe you’ll be able to carry food in it home and nothing will fall out. It was very popular in the USSR.
And this same Russian perhaps played one fatal joke on Zhora. The trick was that the communication on his transport did not work. Everyone had been flying for a long time, of course there were wheeled vehicles, but only in museums - people went there and were amazed.
Working conditions for a geologist on Mars
And Zhora had such a convenient contraption with all the equipment necessary for work and life. It was very comfortable to work; it could not be compared with the working life of geologists of our days. It was possible to climb into the farthest part of Mars and calmly have a blast there: with comfort and a normal meal.
Of course, there was a huge shortage of girls when you were heading off somewhere on an expedition. But work is work, and then you can break away. Zhora was a young guy, he was only thirty - at that time he was not even a young man, but a young man.
Because people began to live 1500-1700 years and 30 years is nothing at all. It was a sucker, you might say. At what age were people considered adults then? Somewhere after 40 years, and established after 50. Nevertheless, in youth there is a lot of strength and, of course, no one chained teenagers like our Zhora to the house.
Everyone was given the opportunity to have a blast and bring a lot of adventure and drive into their lives. They came up with important areas of activity so that a person could open up himself and benefit others. And it worked very well in the future: the system was, of course, awesome.
In short, Zhora’s connection did not work, but he has everything necessary for life and work, the transport is fully operational, the range is unlimited. In addition, our hero had already worked as this geologist for several years and since he loved this activity very much, by that time he already knew Mars like the back of his hand.
So he thinks: what for I need this connection, why waste a lot of time and wait until this equipment is changed, and what if something serious went wrong there... But frankly speaking, he couldn’t sit still, because he dreamed of an idea and his hands were itching to test it. Well, in short, he flew to that place...
Why do we need men and males in general?
Among domestic animals, where a person regulates the sex ratio, he keeps 1 bull for 40-50 cows, 1 rooster for 10-12 hens, and everything goes fine - both with the birth of calves and with the production of eggs.
It would seem that nothing could be simpler - the girl turns 18, she has a child of her own accord, naturally, a girl, she gives birth to him and there are no worries with unrequited love, family problems, non-payment of alimony, etc. (though poets are deprived of a piece of bread and novelists).
But it's not that simple. Vegetative reproduction in nature occurs mainly in the plant world, in fairly simple organisms (although they also strive for sexual reproduction, a striking example is all flowering plants).
The main reason for this is that as the body becomes more complex, genetic failures begin to play an increasingly important role. As long as a few genes are needed to describe an organism, errors in them do not play a significant role - a few units of emerging monsters are destroyed by natural selection.
But the more complex the organism, the more genes are needed to describe it and the higher the likelihood that an error will creep into some gene and, in the end, a limit will come when no natural selection can save it - complete monsters will be born. So nature came up with a brilliant solution. When creating a new organism, a double set of information about it is used - one from the father, the other from the mother, and there is some kind of mechanism that allows you to select the correct genes. The situation is similar to a production one. Let's say that at a factory a worker was instructed to make some part, but there are no new drawings for this part and he was given two old, worn-out drawings. Now, if some place is erased on the first drawing, you can look at it on the second, and thus the order will be successfully completed.
Similarly, in living nature: if a breakdown occurs in the maternal gene, the information necessary to create the organism will be read from the paternal gene and a completely healthy organism will be born. True, a faulty gene will be hidden in this organism, and hence the ban on consanguineous marriages follows.
Let's say one of the parents has a damaged gene. This will not affect the parent itself in any way - the correct information will be read from the second gene. This unfortunate fact will not affect their children in any way - how the organ described in the damaged gene should be structured is described in equal detail in the working gene of the second parent. Moreover, only half of the children of these parents will receive the faulty gene.
Now suppose that a brother and sister, both of whom have the damaged gene, conceive a child. With a probability of 1 in 4, he will have two damaged genes and the birth of a freak will become inevitable.
Genes, firstly, are divided into recessive and dominant, and secondly, they are packaged into larger units - chromosomes. The dominance of a gene means that, first of all, genetic information during the development of a new organism will be read from it. For example, in a person, the gene for brown eyes is dominant to the gene for gray eyes, and there are three possible combinations of genes in which a brown-eyed child is born, and only one (both father's and mother's genes describe gray eyes) in which a gray-eyed offspring is born.
However, nature does not fully implement the principle of gene pairing. If in a female human body all 23 pairs of chromosomes are identical, then in a male human the 23rd pair is made up of two different chromosomes - XY. We can say that the basic person is a woman, and a man is a certain variant of a person necessary to ensure the mechanism of sexual reproduction.
The presence of an unpaired chromosome negatively affects men's health. Genetics count several hundred specifically male diseases and deviations caused by this circumstance. Of these, the two most prominent problems are hemophilia and homosexuality.
Hemophilia is a blood clotting disorder in which even a small wound threatens the patient’s life because bleeding from it does not stop. Only men get it, but it is transmitted through women.
The thing is that the mechanism for producing the protein that ensures blood clotting is described only in the X chromosome. And since men have only one, and if the gene responsible for this protein is damaged, then this protein will not exist, the blood of such a man will not clot. Perhaps the most famous hemophiliac in Russia is the only son of the last Russian emperor.
For women, everything is much more reliable: a gene in one X chromosome is damaged - they have a second one with the same gene at their service, and everything will be fine with blood clotting. In order for a woman to develop hemophilia, it is necessary that two damaged genes occur in her body, and such cases are extremely rare - about 1 in 10 million, and only in the daughters of hemophiliacs.
Nevertheless, a woman with one damaged blood clotting gene, although she will not get sick herself, will pass on this damaged gene to half of her descendants. For daughters, nothing bad will happen, the paired paternal gene will save them, but for sons, problems with hemophilia will become inevitable.
Another well-known problem caused by problems with genes is homosexuality. This time the dog is buried in a purely male Y-chromosome, made up of dominant genes and describing everything in which the male body differs from the female. Among other things, somewhere in a man’s subconscious there is a program of male behavior written down, which states that a young woman, for example, such as is depicted on advertising posters, is the most beautiful of all that is in this world, one should strive for her, it’s nice be near her, etc.
When the French say that women don’t understand anything about female beauty, they themselves have no idea how close they are to the truth. In their quest to win the hearts of men, women are mainly guided by trial and error, usually trying to emphasize natural feminine features with the help of cosmetics and tight clothing. The main task of a fashion designer who dresses a young woman is to ensure that, when dressed, she looks naked.
Even if women had green skin and a trunk instead of a nose, this would still be considered a model and standard of beauty, and those men who did not agree with this would disappear in the next generation.
But if the gene that ensures that this entire program is recorded in the male subconscious turns out to be damaged, then, in full accordance with the general principle of sexual reproduction, the necessary information will be read from the corresponding section of the X chromosome. But there is a model of female behavior written down there - a man is a support and protector in life, the father of future children, and a woman should strive for him.
It is not surprising that a man with such a malfunction in his sexual behavior program will strive for members of his own sex, and we will call him a homosexual.
It's a different matter for women. The presence of two X chromosomes guarantees the correct program of sexual behavior, even if there is some error in one of them. It follows that there are no lesbians in nature. Even if in one organism there are two X chromosomes with damaged genes that describe sexual behavior, then such a woman will be equally indifferent to both men and women. She still does not have a Y chromosome, where love for women is recorded.
There is no doubt that, along with “true” homosexuals, there is also an approximately equal number of “lesbians”, a number of “fake” male homosexuals - the same victims of the desire to stand out. It’s not for nothing that when the stupidity wears off a little with age, all these “lesbians” calmly get married and have children.
Tags: homosexuality, men, woman, sex education, genetics, man, people, organism, gender
Not a joke find - how lucky!
Absolutely nothing foreshadowed what would happen very soon...
Zhora noticed one pebble in that place. Well, this pebble told him a lot, it turned out to be an unusual pebble. Remember in Avatar they had islands floating in the air. There was a mineral there that was anti-gravitational. And this pebble told him that there might be deposits of such a mineral nearby.
Zhora, inspired by this find, got to work. I drilled wells and took soil samples. He got so fired up that he didn’t eat and didn’t sleep at all for several days. In the end he found what he was looking for. I found the same substance!
I found this mineral and passed out. His body, of course, was strong, but still 7 days without sleep took its toll. Well, in short, he just went and fell asleep. He slept for quite some time. Then I woke up with shaking hands - I wanted to eat like out of a cannon. I ate my fill and went back to sleep cuddling the soil samples.
Then, finally, he got some sleep, put the find in order, recorded everything properly, shaved, washed and hurried home, beaming. After all, this mineral opened a new era in space exploration by mankind - no joke find!
Meanwhile, in a distant galaxy
At one time there was one such asshole confederation around the star Markab. There are about 6 or 7 habitable planets spinning around that star. And the local aborigines live under a single central government in a police-type society: everyone walks in formation.
And they watched the earthlings very closely. While there was still such an opportunity, they tried in every possible way to change the course of the history of our planet in their favor. They sent their envoys here and are trying to get our planet under their hands.
The planet is rich in very minerals, especially gold. It is highly valued in galactic trade. Well, their hands were itching. Who would give up extra material wealth? So they occupied the Earth for a long time and persistently: they organized wars, famines - they showed in every possible way that without the power of Markab we would be a complete ass.
However, the earthlings managed to cope with themselves: they figured out the structure of their minds. And gradually there was more and more intelligence. As a result, human beings were able to overcome the blackness that came from those sent specialists. They identified them all, and then there were already hundreds of thousands of them on Earth.
In the end, the aliens from that same star system were forced to go home. These were such trained personnel, a kind of special forces, pumped up peppers. But they did not want to work on themselves, although they could, in the end, really become honest people.
No one stopped them from revealing their talents and abilities. But somehow they were unable to restructure their brains in a peaceful way. Although there were, of course, isolated cases when these devils really came to their senses and even later became outstanding Earthlings.
So these devils went away and the Earth began to develop by leaps and bounds. They mastered the solar system: they populated Mars and Venus, the satellites of Jupiter and everything else. The moon has turned into a huge transport hub. The first expedition flew to distant Centauri.
Passions are heating up
And these peppers on Markab, with each of our successes in Space, became more and more worried that we would one day kick their ass. Just like they did in 1945. Let's kick ass and teach you how to live like a human being. And then where will all their elite and managers go? Of course they didn't want to leave the stage.
By the way, ours before this Markaba were absolutely fine with the lamp. Well, if someone wants to live under a torch, then live for yourself. But we like it better with electricity. Well, our star brothers have not yet matured to communism, but oh well - everyone has their own speed of development, their own path.
Of course, they tried to help, just as their older brothers in mind did for the Earthlings in their time. A lot of work has been done to get us out of our ass. Our brothers worked selflessly, a large number of them helped us. And some of them managed to reach many hearts: Buddha, Jesus...
But in order to specifically attack Markab and subjugate him to his power - here, excuse me, I have enough to do. As history has shown, the evolutionary path, unlike the revolution, is both more economical and faster.
But evil radishes judge by themselves. They were terribly afraid of the mighty earthlings. They were very attracted by natural resources. And such tempting power, power over yet another star system, eclipsed the remnants of the minds of their rulers.
And, like Napoleon and then Hitler in their time, they carefully prepared and unleashed all their forces on Earth.
What suppresses masculinity
The explanation is hidden in upbringing. Mothers endowed with power, at every opportunity, suppress in the boy all the best that is inherent in him by nature. A man’s energy is willful, powerful, not submissive, freedom-loving and active. But mothers prefer to raise an obedient, devoted person, incapable of resistance, who is constantly under vigilant control. Such an attitude deprives him of independence and masculinity. With such total control, can a boy be himself?
First, masculine qualities are suppressed by mothers, then by wives. In an effort to meet a strong and purposeful man, a woman has a fear of male power. She is afraid that over time she will lose his attention and care. Not believing in sincere love, devotion and fidelity.
Therefore, she is often not ready to interact with a person who is capable of showing true feelings. Internal attitudes force lovely ladies to keep their chosen one under constant control, destroying trusting relationships.
Why women are afraid of male power
Every woman experiences inner uncertainty. Especially if she was raised by an overbearing mother who controlled and reproached her for her mistakes. Family relationships do not always run smoothly, without conflicts and turmoil. If a girl grew up without love and affection, then children's complexes manifest themselves in adulthood.
In a man she wants to find what she lacked in childhood, namely love, tenderness and understanding. Sometimes, without realizing that it is impossible to get everything from one person at once. In addition, the internal fear of male energy does not allow her to accept it fully. Paradoxically, male strength now does not evoke delight, admiration and respect among lovely ladies, but on the contrary instills anxiety and fear. Unconscious fear provokes women to deprive a man of his power. The only question is – why? The answer is extremely simple, to gain power and control over it. And we must pay tribute, women have undoubtedly succeeded in this; looking at modern “heroes”, sometimes you want to cry, they are so infantile and helpless.
Women's emancipation changed their outlook on life, and there was a clear substitution of social roles. But the problem lies not in the fact that women have become self-sufficient; it manifests itself much deeper in interpersonal relationships.
Women have lost the most important thing - the ability for unconditional love; they can no longer love a man simply for his spiritual qualities.
They are convinced that the partner must be stronger than herself, otherwise she does not see a real man in him.
Internal conflict literally tears a woman apart. She longs with all her soul to feel male power, but at the same time she is afraid and rejects it. Of course, many people disagree with this point of view.
Die yourself, but save your comrade
This news simply stunned the whole of Mars, raised the ears of Venus and all the other planets of the solar system. The battle had begun and no one wanted to sit on the sidelines. The principle “My house is on the edge - I don’t know anything” was simply unacceptable to anyone at that time.
Everyone rushed, flew on high-speed cruisers, on passenger liners and on any trough - whatever they could use to get to Earth: to fight for their Motherland.
And our Zhora was just sleeping off at that time. The connection did not work, he slept soundly. And when he returned, everything had already been done, you know, in every possible way. There is no one, he is left alone! Completely alone!
And he had no idea what was happening on Earth. I watched the news and his hair just stood on end. This guy is young and hot. Of course, he began to look for an opportunity to fly away and protect his home. But nothing happened. Everything that could reach the Earth has already flown away.
All of you are tired of saving your homeland, and here you and your mineral are left out of business. For some time he was simply in a frozen state. But life continues in a young body.
And Zhora gradually came to the idea that someday this war would end. And victory will be ours. How many times have these Krauts and others been killed, and here are some shitheads living according to concepts from the Stone Age.
How he met her
This gave him strength, and he began to search. Maybe someone suddenly remained just like him by chance on this planet. The search was, frankly speaking, not easy. By that time, Mars was already specifically populated.
It still had the status of a colony, it had not yet become a self-sufficient planet, but there were a ton of people there. A lot of domes, a lot of tunnels, communications - a huge number of people already lived there. And he assessed that it was simply impossible, according to the laws of probability theory, to remain here alone.
Probability theory is generally such a funny mathematical discipline. The blonde is asked: what is the probability that you will meet a dinosaur on the street. She answers this: 50% to 50%: either I will meet or I will not meet J
So he searched and searched and searched. Whether it’s long or short, Zhora’s search was once crowned with success and he met her. It was a very joyful event, of course, for both. She threw herself on his neck and his head began to spin with happiness.
It was already late in the evening, he got tired of the road, had a snack, listened to her joyful chirping as much as he could, and simply passed out. He fell asleep smiling from ear to ear, I must say. And he woke up from very pleasant sensations in his groin. It was simply awesome, and when the case, after prolonged torture, came to the end, the pleasure went off scale.
This girl seemed to be a great master when it came to lovemaking and, what was very important for Zhora, it definitely gave her great pleasure. She liked to turn him on, she knew how to prolong the pleasure and she did it all the time.
All the delights of family life or why a man needs a woman
She wasn't beautiful and she wasn't even pretty either. Overweight, you know, there is a type of woman that thin men like. And she was somehow strange, some kind of incomprehensible eccentric in everything, with the exception of sex.
Still, she was a young girl who turned out to be one hell of a pleasure to spend time with. They had such a honeymoon, when they greedily, frantically, enjoyed each other to the fullest. She got pregnant during this time.
Her mother once told her that for the health of the unborn child, it is still not worth having sex during pregnancy. And our heroine took this advice very clearly. At the same time, my mother said another thing, that men have a great need for sex. Because of this structure of male physiology, one cannot deprive him of this. It was very unusual that she always did these things clearly.
That is, Zhora, he continued to wake up from amazingly pleasant sensations. And sometimes this happened not only in the morning, but at other times of the day too. Therefore, as for this intimate side of married life, it continued during pregnancy too. In those days this thing was called “Mouth Aerobics”, if my memory serves me correctly.
After the usual number of months, Zhora had a child: a son was born - this was a great joy for them. At the same time, sometimes you really don’t want to look at reality, even if it stares into your eyes. But until the last minute you try to push it away. And Zhora, of course, in the depths of his consciousness, was aware that not everything was so smooth with his beloved.
But the funny thing is that there are already three of them. Man, he is still an amazing creation of nature: in addition to the fact that he is intelligent, he can also reproduce without any technical devices. And I must say that they had a lot of children.
What does a woman need from a man in a relationship?
There was such a cool moment there. Somehow, even before the birth of his first child, he was looking at photographs of his little girl, Lena, her name was Helen. She was from Virginia, America. And so he looked at the photos and saw a completely awesome girl, and asked: who is this? She replied that it was her sister who flew away with everyone else.
And now their fifth child was born. They walked quite tightly. And their house had already become so lively, noisy, cheerful. And at one fine moment he noticed that his Lenka’s figure had changed.
She stopped being so fat, she became such an awesome beauty - this is objective. Such that it’s impossible to take your eyes off: well-read and educated and a waist, wow, hold me seven! Suddenly he saw that it was just a real sex bomb.
By that time, he was already accustomed to avoiding topics that showed her abnormality. But he was so struck by the change in Lenka’s appearance that he unexpectedly asked her about that photograph of her sister: who is this?
And she tells him as if nothing had happened: yes, it’s me. He couldn't believe his ears. After all, all this time he had already gotten used to the fact that he was living with a person not of this world. And I saw the only way out was that the children would grow up intelligent and have someone to have a heart-to-heart talk with.
And she tells him: Zhor, well, you understand, they left then, but I woke up and there was no one. And she simply went crazy, unable to bear the loneliness - the shock was too strong. I started eating and I got sick.
But your love, your devotion, care, children - I suddenly saw all this around me recently and realized that I had returned. This is the shocking revelation he heard.
Why do women need men?
Yes, women have indeed become much more independent, there are no barriers to development, all rights are equal to men, but is this good? The active development of masculine qualities in women has led to the fact that the weaker sex, which once served as inspiration for the exploits of men, is no longer such; ladies have lost their main weapon - femininity. Men are atrophying; they no longer need to strive to earn money and provide for their beloved and children. Seeing the strength of women, the stronger sex does not hesitate to leave their once lovers with children in their arms, without doubting that she will cope just fine without him. You can see the pattern that strong families are formed only if a woman shows weakness, shows her man that she cannot cope without him and he is the main support in her life. What did nature plan when it created man and woman?
The primary task of a man in a woman’s life is to ensure her safety and financial security. No matter how much the stronger sex grumbles that most ladies are mercantile, alas, nature did so and this is normal, of course, everything is within reason. But the woman, in turn, also gives the man protection, only the protection of the rear, the hearth. While he is on the “hunt,” his lady maintains a “nest” of comfort and prosperity, into which, upon returning after a hard day, he can relax and not think about everyday problems. A man and a woman are a tandem, a mechanism that, with the right approach, works smoothly and very efficiently. No matter how paradoxical it may sound, it is much easier for a couple to achieve success together than separately, which can be explained quite simply - by delegating powers.
Women are naturally weak creatures, more emotional. It is useless to argue with this, because this feature is explained by hormones, which cannot be controlled intentionally. It is much easier for psychologically stable men to make the right decisions based on logic than for women who can do or say something in a fit of emotion and then change their mind. Therefore, it is better to shift all important decisions to a man and admit that he is the best in this matter. And no matter how women rush forward, you cannot go against nature. Therefore, among successful world-famous businessmen, almost all are men.
Next to a man, a woman can reveal her true nature, become weak, tender and defenseless, and completely trust him. You can become a muse that inspires your loved one and, together with him, reap the fruits of teamwork. Men are simply necessary in the lives of women, without them there is no way and this is a fact. But a man can become real only next to a real woman. Therefore, if you want to attract a serious and worthy man, first work on yourself and become feminine, weak and gentle.
