What happened?
A woman named Alice considered Katya her best friend. She often came to visit them with her husband, and three years ago she unexpectedly gave birth to a child. When asked who the father is, Katya refused to answer and said that it didn’t matter. Alice decided not to touch the sore subject anymore.
The child was growing up and Alice could not get rid of the thought that her friend’s child was very similar to her own husband. With each passing month, this similarity became more and more obvious. For three years the woman speculated, and at one point Alice realized that she could no longer remain silent. She invited Katya to visit and expressed her concerns to her friend and husband with a proposal to do a paternity test. They began to resist, but Alice threatened that she would simply pack her things and leave if there was no test. Katya cried and assured that she could never deceive her friend, but the woman was adamant.
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My daughter-in-law gave birth to children from her lover, and I was left to blame for it
I accidentally found out that my son's wife was cheating on him. I saw her and a man leaving the restaurant. They hugged and kissed before they got into the taxi.
Nastya, my daughter-in-law, and I had a fairly smooth relationship. As soon as she married my son, she and I sat down and talked like 2 smart women, discussing the boundaries of what was permitted.
As a result, during the 6 years of her marriage to my son, she and I did not have a single quarrel. But we couldn’t be called friends either: extreme politeness, mutual respect for the opinions of the opposite side and absolute non-interference in each other’s affairs.
And everything would be fine: she walks, and let her walk - the son himself chose her like this. But the man with whom his daughter-in-law was making out has a birthmark on his face. Same as my granddaughter's.
I decided to talk directly to Nastya. There could be many options: a birthmark is a stupid coincidence; or maybe the son knew that he was raising someone else’s child, but they didn’t tell me about it for obvious reasons; Maybe they actually adopted a girl, and then her biological father showed up and fell in love with his daughter’s adoptive mother. Trying not to think about the bad, I invited Nastya to visit.
- Nastya, I saw you with a man. Your daughter looks a lot like him. Does my son know? — I decided not to drag my feet, but to ask directly.
Nastya burst into tears. She begged not to say anything to her husband, she repented that she had made a mistake. She promised that she would leave her lover and give birth to his child for my son.
Unpleasantly surprised by my daughter-in-law’s frankness, I promised to remain silent. I didn’t know how to look my son in the eyes. He loved his wife and daughter more than life itself; I would not dare to destroy his illusion of happiness.
A couple of months after the events described above, a satisfied son and his family came to visit me. The reason for the visit was Nastya’s pregnancy.
— It’s already the fourth month. I feel in my gut that there will be a son. So get ready, mother, you will become a grandmother for the second time!
I smiled, but the thought was beating in my head: the fourth month. After all, she had a lover then. Who knows whose child Nastya is expecting? Taking a moment when my son was busy with my daughter, I quietly asked Nastya:
-Whose child is this?
She pushed me away and started screaming:
- How dare you accuse me of such a thing? You will also say that I didn’t get my daughter from my husband!
The son warily asked what happened.
“Your mother has suffered a brain infection!” He says I’ve taken care of the children on the side! Let's get out of here, I won't stay here a minute longer!
My son looked at me reproachfully:
- I didn’t expect this from you.
They didn't come to me anymore. My son sent me a photo of his newborn grandson, with the same birthmark as his sister.
When the born boy was six months old, my son came to me with things and said that Nastya had left him. Nastya’s lover divorced his wife, beckoned her to him with his finger, and Nastya ran, taking the children with her.
I would be glad that my son got rid of the burden of other people’s children. But I was left to blame for everything: my daughter-in-law set me up in the end and told my son that I was aware of her partying.
In the apartment in which I live, a quarter belongs to my son - from my late husband. My own child is poisoning my life: since the divorce, he has been drinking continuously and constantly grinning.
Every day he drags impudent girls into the house who have the audacity to call me mom in the morning. Here one stayed with him for a whole week, he decided to introduce us:
- Alice, this wonderful woman is my mother. If you decide to cuckold me, she will be happy to help you.
I tried to explain to my son. that all the troubles with his ex-wife were his own fault: he married her himself, chose her himself, and blindly did not notice her infidelities. What right did I have to destroy my son’s family? Maybe he wasn’t against her partying, how did I know?
Or maybe the son really is right? Should I have told him right away about Nastya’s lover? It’s not a fact that he would believe me and not his wife.
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Is it that simple?
In the end, Katya agreed to the test, but immediately said that their friendship was over. By the way, the test turned out to be negative. Alice's husband is not the father of her friend's child. As soon as the woman found out the truth, she became very ashamed of her doubts and was very worried that she had lost her friend because of her own suspiciousness. But this is not the worst thing. Alice's husband also packed up his things and moved to another place for a while. Now the woman cannot understand whether she did the right thing. But Alice felt that she had no other choice. Otherwise, she would have to torment herself with doubts all her life. Alice was confident that her husband would understand her fears, given her past experiences with her ex-boyfriends cheating on her. But this did not happen.
“I gave birth to twins from a friend’s husband”
“We live with my husband in the village, we have adult daughters,” writes 56-year-old Inna from the Khmelnitsky region. - They have higher education. Each one has a good job. But they cannot find family happiness. Their classmates started families, gave birth to children, and mine are still doing it themselves.
The letters are commented on by Kyiv bioenergetics specialist Miroslav Oliynyk. She scans the passport photos of Irina and Tatyana, blondes with blue eyes, with her palm.
- Get ready for the wedding. The eldest daughter will be wooed next year. The youngest will get married in a year. You will also enjoy grandchildren soon. Pay attention to your back. Make an appointment with a chiropractor. Get more rest.
“My husband bought a metal detector,” says 48-year-old Inna Vladimirovna from the Kiev region in a letter. — After work he does excavations. I found several old coins and dug up an old iron in the field. And in May I came across a treasure. I dug a chest under the forest. At first I was happy. But after this discovery he began to go bald. Has problems with potency. His son-in-law took him to his grandmother. She says that the chest is to blame for everything. Can't break the spell."
— It’s not the chest that’s to blame for problems with potency. You need to undergo a medical examination. Treatment will take a month. You will be pleased with the result. Hair loss is unlikely to be helped. In men it is hereditary. My father-in-law also began to go bald early. This autumn will be rich in finds. Let him trust his inner instinct.
“I lived in a civil marriage with Mikhail for four years,” says 34-year-old Irina from the Kiev region in a letter. “He was afraid of marriage, I wanted a family and children.” After every quarrel, he ran away to spend the night with his mother. Last year in March we separated. After that, my friend’s husband started writing to me. We met behind her back. I don't know what came over me. I still regret it. A few months later I became pregnant. Although I was diagnosed with infertility. I still can’t believe that I became a mother. She gave birth to twins in May. I do not maintain a relationship with the father of my children. I rarely see my friend. She doesn't know anything. Her husband also has no idea about paternity. Am I doing the right thing by keeping everything a secret? Now my friend is pregnant.”
The bioenergeticist takes out a photo of a blonde in an embroidered shirt from the envelope. Lights a candle. He scans the picture with his palm and closes his eyes.
— Conscience does not allow you to live in peace. But the truth will be irrelevant now. A friend may not be able to bear such news and give birth prematurely. And your situation will not improve from this. The husband will remain with his wife, and will deny the affair with you. Marry a former classmate. Don't turn down a date. He knows about children and is ready to become a father for them. Although your future mother-in-law will be against your marriage, he will not give up the idea of marrying you.
“Ever since a portrait of a woman appeared in our house, we have stopped living peacefully,” writes 55-year-old Olga Vasilyevna from the Zhitomir region. — In June, a relative from Poland visited us. We celebrated my anniversary. She gave me a painting. On it is a woman with pearl beads. After that there is no peace in the house. Husband quarrels with son. He is with his sister. I don't find a common language with my father. I feel like something unclean has taken up residence among us. The painting was taken to the basement. There was less quarreling. What can I do with her so that her relatives stop fighting?”
— The canvas carries negative energy. Pearls symbolize tears. Don't think about giving it to someone else. With this person you will beat pots forever. A friend who brought a painting from abroad bought it at a fair and did not suspect anything wrong. It is better to give such an item to a museum or donate to an auction. Several generations under one roof find it difficult to get along. But the greatest conflict is between children. The son and daughter will stop quarreling when they separate.
“I fell in love with a married man,” writes Vinnytsia resident Inna, 32 years old . — We met at work. We started dating in March. He has a small son and his wife is on maternity leave. I tried to leave him. But after a few days I am again drawn like a magnet to him. He promises that when his son grows up, he will leave the family. But I'm not ready to wait that long. In August I found out that I was pregnant. He's desperate. She screams that it’s all my fault because I ruined our plans.”
The bioenergetics specialist takes a photo out of the envelope. It shows a blonde in a blue beret hugging a bearded man in a denim jacket. Signed on the back: “March 2019.”
- He won’t leave his wife, but he will ask you to have an abortion. Whatever you promise, do not agree to persuasion. Save the child you carry under your heart. Otherwise, this could be your first and last pregnancy. Abortion will have disastrous consequences. Your wife knows about your office romance. He will do everything to ensure that Nazar stays. You will prove his paternity in court. He will pay child support regularly, but will not take part in raising the child. You will soon meet a man who will replace your son’s father and become your beloved soul mate.
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What to do in such a situation?
Alice shared her story on social networks with the question of what to do next? Many people asked the woman if she was sure that the test results were not falsified. To which Alice replied that she even went to the medical center herself to monitor the whole process. The only thing that confused Alice was that Katya herself insisted on conducting the test in this particular center. Therefore, there is a possibility that Katya had the opportunity to agree in advance. But Alice can no longer ask her ex-friend, because Katya immediately broke off all relations.
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My husband filed for divorce because I couldn't bear him a child.
After our wedding, my husband and I decided not to have children until we achieved success in our careers. Time has passed and now the beloved is begging to give birth to an heir. I'm ready to take this step, but it doesn't work out. My husband began to say that I specifically did not want to have children and filed for divorce. How to prove to your beloved man that this is not so?
Married life can be free
I met my husband after graduating from college at a friend’s birthday party. After talking with each other, we realized that we had a lot in common and started dating. An hour later my boyfriend asked me to marry him. Our closest people came to the wedding - we didn’t want to take money from our parents and organized a celebration for as long as we had enough money. After the honeymoon, my beloved and I decided that we would not rush to have children. We wanted to live for ourselves, realize our careers and acquire at least some property.
While most of my acquaintances and friends were getting married and having children, my husband and I lived a free life. On weekdays we worked like hell at work until late to save money for our own housing. We spent every weekend with friends, vacationed abroad, bought what we wanted and did not deny ourselves anything.
4 years of married life flew by in such a rhythm. The husband started talking about children. But I was still not ready for such responsibility, especially since a good promotion awaited me at work.
He wants children, but I don't
I told my husband more than once that I was about to be promoted. "Wait a bit. I've been working towards this for so long and finally my time has come. Pregnancy and a child will only ruin everything,” I argued to my beloved. And he told me that he wants children, that we have already lived for ourselves. According to him, we need to think about the future and procreation. The husband simply begged to give birth to a son or daughter. He gave me various mother's magazines about raising children, and watched family films in front of me, in which there were small children. I gave up and agreed to have children.
Time passed, but no matter how hard we tried to conceive a child, the pregnancy tests were negative. This story continued for about six months. After another “zero” test, my husband freaked out and said that it was all my fault. He began to reproach me that if we had come to our senses earlier, we could have already been babysitting the kids. And now you have to do “this” thing even when you don’t want to.
Spouse's suspicions lead to divorce
Soon my husband began to suspect me that I specifically did not want to get pregnant. He even talked to me about it a couple of times. I didn’t hide it and admitted to him that there had been cases before when I had to take birth control pills. But now everything is different and I want children. To some extent, I want to give birth to a baby so that my loved one will finally leave me behind and understand that I am not deceiving him. I have already reached the limit with his suspicions and unsubstantiated accusations.
The last time my husband started talking about pregnancy, I lost my temper. I felt offended that now he sees me only as the future mother of his children, and not as a woman. I told my beloved everything and stupidly blurted out that I was taking pills on purpose so as not to get pregnant. Although in reality this did not happen. My husband just brought me to the boiling point, and I lost my temper. I understood that nothing good would come from this. But my soul felt lighter and I sighed.
My husband looked at me and shouted: “I knew it. You only needed a career and money, but didn’t care about me and my family. Why then did you get married at all if you weren’t going to give birth? I've had enough. I'm leaving". He ran out of the apartment and slammed the door. It seemed to me that my beloved would now cool down, get mad and come back. It will take him a day, maximum two, to understand how wrong he is. But more than five days passed, and the husband never showed up. I started to get seriously worried and called him, but he didn’t pick up.
There won't be a happy ending?
On the sixth day I received a call from an unknown number. A gruff male voice introduced himself as my husband's lawyer and stated that he had filed for divorce. He added that I needed to come to his office in a couple of days to appear with his client and get acquainted with the documents.
I don’t remember how those two days flew by. Tomorrow I have to go to a lawyer, and I don’t know what I’ll tell my husband there. His obsession with procreation destroyed our marriage. In fact, I also want children, but for some reason I still haven’t been able to get pregnant. Maybe the problem is in me or in my husband’s health, who knows (at one time I drank more than one package of birth control pills). As adults, we should have calmly figured everything out, and not gather dust and run straight away to get a divorce. Is this what people who love each other do? I hope that tomorrow I can convince my husband to change his mind and try everything again. It would be a shame to destroy a family because of such nonsense.
