Prohibited topics of conversation
Resist the temptation to discuss your past relationships. These are unlikely to be positive memories, and there is no place for negativity on a first date. Believe me, a man is not interested in what you had with your ex and why you broke up. Moreover, the guy may interpret your words in his own way, and you will never see him again.
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How to impress a guy
There are only a few days left until the most grandiose event of February and the main holiday of All Lovers. In this regard, Love Radio offers to prepare for our event and choose a unique image for yourself. Especially for you, we have prepared a review of the most striking female images of the star participants of the Big Love Show 2013.
Brave Polina Gagarina
Last year, Polina Gagarina appeared at the main celebration of love in a bright and seductive red corset dress with a neckline and a revealing cutout at the hem. The performer's hair was tied up to highlight the singer's long, slender neck. Of course, this look of the star could not leave the men in the audience indifferent.
Big Love Show 2013. Moscow. Polina Gagarina
Seductive Anna Sedokova
The former member of the Via Gra group loves to attract attention with revealing outfits. Anna's seductive dress at the Big Love Show 2013 was no exception. At the event, Sedokova appeared in a long dark dress with a deep neckline, which perfectly emphasized her figure.
Big Love Show 2013. Moscow. Anna Sedokova
Tender Yulia Savicheva
But Yulia Savicheva rarely appears in public in revealing outfits. The girl prefers to demonstrate her femininity with elegant and modest dresses. Last year, at the Big Love Show, the singer appeared in a closed pale yellow outfit with transparent sleeves. This image is undoubtedly perfect for a girl with such sincere and lyrical lyrics.
Big Love Show 2013. Moscow. Yulia Savicheva
Bright singer Elka
Singer Elka, like Yulia Savicheva, prefers more modest outfits. You are unlikely to find deep necklines and racy cutouts in a girl’s wardrobe. For example, last year the singer appeared at the main celebration of love in a long and bright silver dress, which, at the same time, perfectly demonstrated all the curves of the star’s figure.
Big Love Show 2013. Moscow. Christmas tree
Daring Anna Pletneva
Vintage group member Anna Pletneva surprises fans with every look. However, the singer’s concert outfits are usually very open and sexy. For last year's Big Love Show, Pletneva chose a leather suit with a deep neckline. The star's belly was covered only by a net, so all spectators could thoroughly enjoy the beauty and slenderness of the performer.
Big Love Show 2013. Moscow. Vintage group. Anna Pletneva
Which look will you choose for the Big Love Show 2014? Remember one thing, it doesn’t matter whether you become a sweet shy girl or a daring seductress, the main thing is that you feel comfortable in this image
Questions
Ask questions that are aimed at developing dialogue, rather than ones that lead to “yes” or “no” answers. Tell him about your studies, work, things you like to do in your free time. If he made a joke, laugh, even if the joke was so-so. Understand that he is trying to show you his sense of humor, but he is also worried, so he may “miss the mark.” And remember, for a first date there is nothing worse than even a short awkward silence.
- Why doesn't he call and how to deal with it?
Be honest with yourself
I saw quite a few girls who personified the second or third portraits, did not want to change a single thing about themselves, snapped at the girls from the first portrait and constantly complained that men did not pay attention.
But the way out of this situation is so obvious! There is no need for any Asian techniques, any esoteric knowledge - nothing like that. You just need to imagine yourself as a man and evaluate yourself through his eyes.
Spiteful critics may say: “Well, then you end up with stacks of identical girls!”
This is all nonsense!
People are very different. And even if every girl in this world begins to take care of her appearance and begins to look attractive, we will still look different. Beautiful, but in different ways. (Unless, of course, we start sculpting identical faces from plastic surgeons or try to fit ourselves into one fashion trend).
And even if we all begin to monitor our gestures and facial expressions, get rid of loud voices and the smell of sweat, this will not take away our individual knowledge, skills, talents, sense of humor and everything else that makes up our personalities. But smells, facial expressions, gestures, habits, “habits” are completely, completely external, this is a coating that can be turned into glaze, and individuality will not go away because of this.
Am I right, am I right or am I right?) For those who agree - article How to increase your attractiveness.
Source: book4girls.ru
A smile always makes an impression
A smile is a symbol of a person happy with life.
A smile seems to say that you are not afraid of anything, you feel like a fish in water, it comes from you.
Smiling people radiate from within and make you feel good about yourself.
Stop shrinking
A confident person will never slouch or hunch over.
He will also never drag his feet.
Try to straighten your shoulders, stand up straight and smile.
You will immediately see how the world will change and sparkle with colors.
Let the other person look away, not you
Confident and impressive person
never hides anything.
He does not hide his eyes, but calmly withstands any glance from his opponent.
By looking your opponent in the eyes, you convince him of the sincerity of your intentions.
Calmness is the best friend of a good impression
90% of people often jerk their legs during an important conversation.
They may also swing their arms too vigorously. All these gestures distract from uncertainty, but do not make the best impression on the interlocutor.
Any person from such gestures will immediately guess that the interlocutor is nervous and may begin to feel nervous himself.
In such a situation, you certainly won’t be able to make an impression!
Always be open
Arms crossed on the chest signal that a person is closed, or that the topic of conversation may be unpleasant.
When going through an interview or communicating with a client, you should not take a similar pose.
It will not bring any benefit, but it can push the person away from you.
Stop fussing
The majority of people try to twirl something in their hands during a conversation, constantly straighten their hair or grab their face.
All these gestures signal a person's insecurity.
Therefore, during any important conversation, it would be better to take control of your hands.
You can not?
Pick up the folder!
This little trick will help you look more serious and confident.
For girls!
To impress a guy
- be versatile!!!
A person who is constantly developing, keeps up with the times, goes to various trainings and seminars, learns to cook deliciously (in order to surprise others with different delicacies every day), or takes vocal lessons - will ALWAYS have an interest in his personality!
And finally, I want to offer a useful video,
where only 5 tips are given on how you can make a good impression on people!
In conclusion, I would like to tell you that it is simply impossible to please absolutely everyone.
However, in some situations we simply need to impress our interlocutor.
It is in such situations that you tune in to the positive, smile, and the scales will definitely tip in your favor.
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A little different... How to make a good first impression
to hook a man?
I don’t want to start this article with banalities like “the first impression is important”, “you’re greeted by your clothes, but you’re seen off by your mind”, “there will be no second chance to make a first impression”, etc. - you’ve already heard all this a hundred thousand times.
The problem is not that someone does not know that they are meeting people “by their clothes,” but that many do not want to admit it.
Also, often similar postulates regarding the first impression are perceived by a certain category of girls with internal aggression: it shouldn’t be this way, it’s unfair! “After all, I’m so smart and you can talk to me about anything, but everyone is attracted by her pretty face...” - and, accordingly, every guy who only falls for a beautiful wrapper automatically joins the ranks of the goats.
It is generally accepted that in order to make a good first impression, you must stand out in some way, have some kind of zest, something “crazy.” But today you can safely play on the fact that girls who look great and behave with dignity and appropriateness when communicating with a man are not so easy to meet.
And this alone may well become your highlight, because a man will already be surprised by this: “Wow, beautiful, elegant, pleasant to talk to, with a sense of humor and not strange - but it happens? We need to talk again and check.”
By the way, I’m not saying at all that if you don’t do all this, then it’s impossible to meet a good man. But I say that this greatly increases the chances.
Do you want to know how to behave correctly on a first date? You will find very clear and specific advice in the master class “The Ideal Date with a Man: What to Do and Say?” from Pavel Rakov.
Dear girls, if you have anything to add or want to correct something in my table, write in the comments!
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As you know, the first impression is the impression that a person makes on us from the first seconds of the first meeting. In particular, psychologists say that it is formed within the first seven seconds from the moment of meeting. Some of them spend even less time on this: only 2 seconds. Further, they believe, the opinion may change, but only to a small extent.
But don’t go to a psychologist here either: we all know that when we meet a new person, we almost understand at first glance whether we like him or not. It’s just that we can’t determine with an accuracy of up to a second how much time it took us.
We meet new people every day. And we don’t just collide, but whether we want it or not, we have to communicate with them: in the same transport, in various service sectors, etc. We evaluate, we are evaluated, and how we behave depends on what is done to us ourselves in a given situation, whether we will maintain further relations with a new person - whether he will become our colleague or friend, or whether we will prefer to bypass him on the tenth road. Even love at first sight, which is talked about so much, is based on the same first impression.
One can argue for a long time how correct the first impression is. After all, it also happens that a person we don’t like at first sight eventually becomes our best friend. And the one we were delighted with at first will greatly disappoint us in the future. And we will once again be convinced of the correctness of the statement: “First impressions are deceiving.”
And let's remember what our favorite classic wrote:
“When people assure me that first impressions never deceive them, I just shrug my shoulders. In my opinion, such people are not very insightful or overly arrogant. As for me, the longer I know a person, the more mysterious he seems. And just about my oldest friends, I can say that I know absolutely nothing about them.”
It is curious that another popular writer - our contemporary, born exactly 100 years later than Maugham - stated the opposite:
“In reality, people are not that complicated, and the first impression someone makes on us is usually correct.”
And yet, there are few people who would not want to make a favorable first impression. And one of the cases when this is very important for us is an interview with an employer. Especially if we want to get our dream job.
"You don't get a second chance to make a first impression."
How to learn wide movements
Let's return to the importance of “breadth of movement” in our business. How do we usually identify successful people? They are the masters of life, they have a special energy, they are always the center of attention.
Self-confidence generates confidence in movements and is clearly visible through postures and gestures. Arms crossed over your chest, slouching, pursed or tightly clenched fingers - all this indicates that you are tense and something is preventing you from liberating. Hands in pockets speak of a woman’s disinterest, her indifference to what is happening, and in general this is a male gesture.
A man will look at a woman in this position and consider it as “don’t come near me,” “I’m not ready to communicate.” This position means that the woman is not broadcasting a trophy to him - a reward that a man can receive if he begins the conquest. Modern men do not want to take this barrier. They will pass by until they smell the “prize.”
Learn to gesture correctly and magnetically. Very often you look at a woman, and it seems that her hands are in her way. The right hand moves and the left hangs, or the hands move without coordinating with the movements of the legs - the rhythm is different.
To overcome this disadvantage, you need to practice plasticity - feel every cell of your body, develop symmetry of movement and plasticity. Go to dances, dance studios will teach you how to move beautifully. Watch yourself, your hands, your posture.
By “wide” movements I primarily mean radius and freedom of movement. Imagine yourself in an 18th century dress - wide, fluffy, luxurious. Allow your arms to open as if preparing for a hug with your man. To feel the width of your arms, you can wear a wide, flowing silk skirt and hold the hem in your hands or carry a hoop with your hands at waist level.
Of course, you don't need to walk with your arms wide apart in life, but this exercise will help you “tear off” or “unstick” your arms from your body and feel a little more free position. There is such a thing as “muscle memory” - the body itself remembers how comfortable it is, and over time you will not have to put effort into being graceful.
Make your teeth
Back in 2007, researchers found that people are very interested in other people's teeth. That is, if a person maintains hygiene, is decently dressed and does not have a parrot sitting on his shoulder, the next thing that interests us about him is the quality and quantity of his teeth. True, this thesis applies only to representatives of the opposite sex. Because teeth are one of the main identifiers of a person’s health and genetic baggage, which you are interested in when meeting a new acquaintance, even if you already have three wives. Oh, four. Oh, no, still three.
Change your hairstyles
Experiment with hairstyles in your free time. Men love it when a woman changes. When dressing up in a dress with an open neck, let your hair down: leave it straight or make it curls.
Watch the smell of your hair - a pleasant smell will impress the guy and remain in his memory.
Hair should always be soft and neat.
