Is there responsibility for adultery in marriage, what to do and what does the law indicate?

You could write a whole book about marital affairs, because psychologists have been studying this aspect in depth for several decades. Now we can speak with confidence about all sorts of factors and signs that indicate vicious relationships.

In order for the suspicions that arise not to torment you, it is necessary to study the section on the topic “how to identify betrayal based on proven signs”, of which there are more than enough collected in order to affirm their significance. This information will help determine your suspicions and bring the deceiver to clean water, because for any man, female infidelity is a terrible test.

General signs

The girls learned to hide deception well, sometimes reaching the level of mastery. They will go to great lengths to avoid punishment and fool their betrothed.

If the wife changed her behavior, her behavior will definitely change! First of all, pay attention to this point. It is the most significant, since they talk about changes in her personal life, which, most likely, are not related to you.
An unreasonable change in mood may indicate that there are disagreements with her new partner or vice versa.
Lately you have been feeling that your intimate relationship has failed. Of course, this is not 100% infidelity, because we can’t always think about sex, but if this has become a pattern, it’s worth thinking about.
Your spouse has lost respect for you, begins to point out your shortcomings, does not respect your choices, does not make concessions, and also compares you with others. Not only is it unpleasant, but it also means something.
Lost interest in you. If earlier she was jealous, nagged, started quarrels and showdowns because of gatherings with friends and returning home late, now she doesn’t care, perhaps she’s even happy about it, since now she has a lot of time for a new object of passion and for herself.
Frequent delays at work indicate that they are not at all due to “blockages” at work. Frequent “reports” indicate that time is spent with a lover. It’s not difficult to check this; just offer to pick her up from work or come without warning.
You can test your wife's devotion by who drives her home. A stranger or colleague will not become a free taxi driver out of pure intentions.
Signs of your wife's betrayal are hidden in your underwear. You've probably noticed the new lace lingerie. Of course, there is nothing wrong with buying it, but if she puts it on before leaving, and not for your sake, most likely, the guesses are not groundless.
Frequent sleepovers “at a friend’s” can be an excellent cover for meeting a man.
From time to time you find different gifts, some of them expensive? Surely the wife secretly receives them and brings them home. Do you know exactly what you bought for her and would she be able to afford them, given the family budget?
You can also draw conclusions based on your periods. That is, they can be a reason for refusal. Notice how often this reason is stated. Perhaps she will give herself away when several times a month, one reason will be that she does not want to sleep with you.
Some “manic” spouses, due to their jealousy, determine when the wife has gone “to the left” in the vagina. For example, when immediately after arriving home, the spouse rushes to the shower and locks herself in there. Maybe she is washing away the traces and smell of another.

How to find out cheating using your phone? Most likely, the phone is increasingly hidden from your view, you have limited access to it, more and more often she puts it on silent mode or even turns it off. Take the opportunity to check your correspondence and incoming calls.
How to determine your wife's infidelity by appearance? Has she started spending a huge amount of time near the mirror? A radical change in image? Repainted a new color? All of these signs could mean something is wrong.
How to recognize infidelity by the body and make sure that your inner feeling does not let you down? It's quite unpleasant to realize that your significant other is no longer honest with you. It has been proven that the stronger sex perceives this fact no less painfully than representatives of the weaker sex. One of the most reliable facts of betrayal is her alienation. The feeling that warm hugs no longer attract the girl, she no longer needs them. Although it used to calm her down, it brought you both closer. There is already a different person in front of you. Next, let's look at facial expressions. The fair half of humanity has about 45 muscles located on their faces; without even realizing it, they show true emotions. When the conversation is about love, and a mask of sarcasm is painted on the face, and the eyes are narrowed, this is an obvious deception. Signals such as a long gaze should be alarming, because this manifestation means hatred. If your loved one’s gait changes, it means you have been “cuckolded.” You will definitely notice the changes, because she will move around the city with her head held high and an independent look. The above facts indicate that the physiological signs of female infidelity are obvious.

However, there is no need to panic and arrange a debriefing! Only massive coincidences over a certain period can be a reason for action. One or more coincidences may be a real coincidence. Approach the matter consciously and analyze what is happening.

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Cheating is not a pleasant event: not everyone can find out that their other half is unfaithful and somehow cope with this news. Therefore, many people deliberately do not notice their partner’s infidelity: a defensive reaction called psychological denial is activated, which allows them to turn a blind eye for a long time even to obvious signs of infidelity.

Nevertheless, not everyone wants to remain ignorant: there are also those who prefer the bitter truth to sweet lies. But if only everything were so simple! Desire alone, unfortunately, is not enough to reveal betrayal. Don't despair: even the most experienced cheater or cheater can be caught. Here are signs that will help you do this.

Signs of a cheating husband

Cheating, unfortunately, is mostly the prerogative of men rather than women. According to statistics, about seventy percent of the stronger sex admit that they have cheated on their significant other, but among women the percentage is much lower - female infidelity is observed from fifteen to twenty percent.

Experienced men know how to hide their own infidelities well, but even those who are encrypted no worse than a foreign spy can be identified. Here are the signs of a cheating husband that will definitely help you catch your significant other in infidelity, if it occurs.

Passwords on your computer and phone . If your man until recently threw his phone or laptop anywhere, without particularly caring about protecting personal information, and now he has suddenly password-protected all his devices, be wary. As a rule, this is the first sign of betrayal. It is possible, of course, that he was entrusted with a super-secret project at work, or that he himself is working on something that no one should know about, but nevertheless this is unlikely. Most likely, your man is simply hiding correspondence with another woman.

Drastically changed work schedule . A sharply changed work schedule (yes, all these “I have a meeting” and “I’ll be late”) can also be a sign of infidelity. There are a great variety of work schedules, and they rarely coincide - even if people work at the same enterprise.

In addition, even if the schedules coincide, a man may simply need time for his mistress. The easiest way is to blame your pleasant meetings with another lady on work - a wife or regular partner is unlikely to believe that her husband was stuck in a traffic jam for three hours straight, unable to move. As a rule, delays at work are more readily believed, and, moreover, they are perceived more favorably: what a workaholic and breadwinner, they say, all for the family!

Signs of an unfaithful wife

Women tend to cheat more subtly than men. If representatives of the stronger sex can still make a mistake and give themselves away, the lady most likely will not allow herself to make such a mistake. Nevertheless, even women who perfectly hide the fact of infidelity can be detected: here are the signs that will help you with this.

Changed mood and behavior . Ladies who are great at hiding correspondence with a new man most often give themselves away with a changed mood and emotions: it can be much more difficult for them to cope with them. A sudden change in behavior (for example, a change in mood due to a received SMS) should alert you. If your wife suddenly begins to rejoice for no reason or to take extra care of herself, these changes are unlikely to be for you.

New habits and words . New habits and words in a lady's vocabulary can also be a sign of infidelity. The fact is that when communicating with a new person, we willy-nilly pick up new words that he uses, repeat them ourselves and sometimes don’t even notice it. If a woman is not used to controlling her every word, this point can also easily give her away: the word, as you know, is not a sparrow.

As you can see, it’s not difficult to catch even a skilled womanizer or an experienced lady cheating if you notice certain signs in time. As a rule, even those who have cheated for the first time and know perfectly well how to deceive their partner cannot hide them.

However, something else needs to be done with the knowledge gained: by reacting incorrectly to your spouse’s betrayal, you can harm both yourself and your partner. Our article will help you cope with the difficult burden of knowledge: we have previously talked about how to survive betrayal.

Tell us what you think about this: what other ways do you think betrayal can be recognized?

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18.01.2019 07:02

Folk wisdom and advice for men

Since ancient times, folk signs have been considered a reliable source by which one can look into the future or decipher certain actions and events. In married life there are also enough situations for which there are answers from ancestors. For example, they say that if your spouse starts mentioning a certain man, a neighbor, an acquaintance, and even more so praising him, comparing you with him, this means that you have ceased to suit her, and enough complaints have accumulated. And you shouldn’t think that the affair is with him. No, this is just a “bell” for the spouse to reconsider the relationship. Otherwise, a lover will actually appear later.

Don't understand what's going on between you? Analyze her mood. Thoughtfulness, withdrawal into herself and sudden changes in emotional terms indicate changes in her personal life.

A sufficient number of existing methods will help determine how honest your other half is with you; only by carefully observing her can you be sure of possible deception. Only after the balance of arguments outweighs simple suspicions can you present them and begin a serious conversation. You should not throw suspicions around ahead of time, because not every person will be able to forgive false accusations and humiliating mistrust in their own address.

First of all, analyze your own behavior. Surely you yourself have more than once given reason to doubt your loyalty and love. Sometimes we push people close to us to make a terrible mistake with our attitude. Unreasonable jealousy and prohibitions cause pain, and lack of attention and care leads to consequences when a person, on a subconscious level, looks for missing feelings and emotions “on the side.”

Have there been times when you refused to help or support your loved one when she needed it? No wonder she ends up accepting it from someone else. Then her fault is no more than yours.

But when it comes to calculated betrayal, you shouldn’t hesitate and blame yourself.

Don't try to reason with the person or try to rekindle the relationship. Gather your thoughts and categorically declare separation and divorce. Walk away proudly and try to be alone for a while. Think about how you plan to live further, whether you need to forgive.

When there are children together, the situation becomes more complicated. Under no circumstances should you cross them out of your life or try to make them a bargaining chip, because they are not to blame for anything. They still need both parents, they still love them just the same. Try to spend your free time with them, without discussing the current situation, and without insulting their mother. They are unlikely to understand this, and it will not add honor to you.

Eliminate the option of “revenge” with similar actions. This will definitely not heal the soul, but it may make the situation worse. And also “drowning grief” with alcohol is a dubious method. Nothing will come of this except destruction.

As for your emotional state, try to behave like the stronger sex. There should be no humiliation, no scandals, no requests to return. Only worthy behavior can cause remorse in a partner and make her regret what she has done. Whatever choice you make regarding your family, stay on the right level.

XanaX

(Male, 15 years old, Benzodiazepine)

01.06.2017 14:20

Indeed, due to the large amount of lubricant, this may seem like it. This is fine. How old is he?

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01.06.2017 19:13

He is 35 years old. And he claims that he knows everything!!!

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So, out of boredom, I decided to write this text, maybe someone will find it useful.

How to determine a woman’s infidelity:

- Smell

- Change in skin color - behavioral changes

Now in more detail, what to smell and where to watch

If your significant other works and stays late after work...

-When she comes home, pay attention to her appearance, is her hair in order, is there a crease in her tights or stockings, are there any extra threads or fluff on her clothes (she’s wearing a green blouse, and there’s a black thread on her back or fluff from a down jacket she’s not wearing) your significant other, but it is quite possible that her lover is wearing it) -Look at the skin on your face, many women experience irritation from male stubble, which happens during passionate kisses with a lover. -Also, each person has an individual smell of both body and perfume, pay attention to whether there is someone else’s scent of perfume or the smell of a lover’s sweaty body on the other half.

-Pay attention to what your significant other will do immediately after coming home (if he runs to the shower, there is reason to think about it)

-Go into the shower with her, offering to rub her back =) and at this time look at her body, if there are any redness, bites or bruises on the chest, hips, pubis (often lovers in a fit of passion forget about strength and can strongly squeeze the chest, thighs, woman's hands)

"Smells of Sex"

-The smell of betrayal. During passionate sexual intercourse, a specific “smell of sex” is released - Condoms also have their own smell of lubricant and even strawberries if with a flavoring =) sniff... - If you had sex without a condom and your woman was “poured” into it, then this smell cannot be confused with anything =) -If you have sex without a condom but your lover didn’t cum inside your lady, then the smell is still present, because you know how your woman smells and how her genitals smell. -The option is that your woman came after a 12-hour working day, and she smells of freshness and freshly sprayed perfume. She hides a foreign smell or went to the shower after sex with her lover (Dead people don’t sweat, and after a working day even women, oddly enough, should have the smell of sweat, if it’s not there and smells like shower gel and other things, then she went take a shower somewhere... =)

Behavior:

It’s already difficult to advise something specific, you yourself should know what your woman usually does and you will immediately notice that she is doing something unusual =)

I hope that my post will not be missed and it will be useful =)

Loving people, when getting married, hope that their relationship will forever remain honest, pure, and that there will be no third person in it. Men, like women, are vulnerable in matters of fidelity, but often, tormented by doubts and suspicions, they do not know how to reliably find out whether their wife is cheating on them, and at the same time not destroy the love union. In this article we will try to answer the following questions:

how to find out with 100% accuracy whether your wife is cheating?
What are the main signs of betrayal?
How to detect cheating?
What to do if cheating has already happened?

First of all, you need to figure out why doubts about your wife’s fidelity crept in right now. What prompted your suspicions? There are rare cases when a woman looks away if everything is in order in the family. And therefore, in order to understand whether there could be betrayal, it is necessary to look at the relationship detachedly and objectively.

If there are legal risks: what should you really be wary of?

If the spouse acted dishonestly on a personal level, then most likely the dilemma - to divide equally or take advantage - will be resolved in favor of personal interests. In any case, this should not be surprising. Let's take a closer look at the consequences of the risks that we previously identified.

If savings are made in the form of cash

In the event of a sudden “disappearance” of savings, it is almost impossible to prove that they were there before. That is, if paper money or other liquid property is stored at home, at work, somewhere else, even in a bank (in a cell without an inventory of the contents), in order to hide the value from the division, it is enough to move the value to another place inaccessible to you. It is extremely difficult to prove anything in court in this case.

If personal property is incorrectly registered

During the honeymoon period, it seems stupid to enter into a prenuptial agreement in connection with the purchase of an apartment, car, etc., even if it was purchased with inherited, gifted money, or pre-marital savings. But by virtue of legal norms, such property is not jointly acquired and is not subject to division, that is, it remains with the spouse.

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But not many people know that, due to the requirements of Russian family law, the fact of purchase with personal money needs to be proven, and if for one reason or another it cannot be proven, the other spouse denies it, it is considered that this thing belongs to joint property. In essence, we are talking about the legal presumption of community of marital property.

If you look at the judicial practice on disputes between former spouses, you will see that almost every third case is on this topic. That is, after a breakdown in personal relationships, citizens easily resort to abuse and try to profit from their ex-spouse.

The family has fallen apart, but expenses are still shared?

Next, you should keep in mind that until the husband and wife divorce, all income is considered common, and expenses of common money occur by mutual agreement.

This can be easily abused. For example, in one of the cases we conducted, the husband bought an apartment for his own, but granddaughter from another marriage. Subsequently there was a divorce. The wife challenged the transaction, but the court rejected the claim, since, until the contrary is proven, it is assumed that the transaction was made by mutual desire. But it is practically impossible to prove the absence of consent.

The following situation is not uncommon in judicial practice. One ex-spouse demands a division of property, and the other tries to prove that the actual divorce took place many years ago and at the time of the purchase there was no joint budget. Courts make decisions by accepting or rejecting evidence from each side.

Possible reasons

There could be a lot of reasons:

Lack of interest. Beloved, having become a wife, ceased to excite. It’s not interesting, like before, what she does and says. The everydayness of the beloved's appearance dulls the senses. But if a woman does not see admiration in her husband’s eyes, then she can go looking for adventure on the side.
Sex, or rather the lack of it , is the main reason for cheating, both in men and women. Often, after five years of marriage, sexual attraction to each other becomes dull, but sexual instincts do not disappear. If there has been no sexual release for the last few weeks, and your woman is satisfied with this, then you should think about it.
Revenge . If a man has an affair, then you shouldn’t be surprised, but some wives will not throw a tantrum, scandal and break dishes, but will quietly and quietly follow their husband’s example. Women who have been married for a long time often do this. A high percentage are wives over 40 years old.
Control. Sometimes jealous people themselves push a woman to cheat. Total surveillance, claims and accusations of mythical treason push a woman to think that at least the accusations will be deserved.
Tell me who is your friend? If your wife’s friends take marriage and fidelity lightly and constantly broadcast it or talk about various passionate romances and fun adventures, then this is a call. Even if the wife is not cheating now, but encourages similar behavior from her friends, then perhaps this is normal for her. And it’s difficult to resist temptation, especially when your friends know how to exaggerate and embellish.

Indirect signs of betrayal

Men can be inattentive to the external changes of their halves, but by changes one can determine the betrayal of his wife. There are about 15 points.

The first sign: the wife has her head in the clouds. A thoughtful, dreamy look, a wandering smile, moist eyes. Sometimes he laughs, sometimes he cries, without explaining the reasons for the surging emotions.
The woman began to carefully monitor her appearance. New hairstyle, always wearing makeup, signed up for a fitness center, beautiful underwear.
Previously, the wife would throw the phone in a visible place without thinking, but now she won’t let it out of her hands , social network passwords have been changed, secrets have appeared - a serious reason to think about it. Now she doesn’t chat with her friend on the phone in front of you, but retreats to the bathroom and answers phone conversations in monosyllables. Even worse, the wife decided to sometimes stay overnight with a friend or sister. At the right moment, neither your friend nor your wife can be reached by phone, and only after some time does the wife call back from her mobile phone.
My beloved began to stay late at work more often, meet with friends outside the home, and social hobbies appeared , although previously my wife loved to spend time with her family. He reacts negatively to the offer to meet him from work.
Sexual behavior has changed . Having fallen in love with another man, a woman often tries to distance herself from marital obligations. There are a lot of reasons why sex will definitely happen tomorrow, but not now: the woman is tired, has a headache, is upset about something, etc. Sex itself is changing, a woman is not leading in bed as before.
Criticality and irritability appeared . The wife nags her husband over trifles, makes a bunch of complaints, does not thank him for the good, but notices the bad.
Indifference . A woman doesn’t care when a man returns home, his well-being, how things are going at work, she no longer cares whether a man pays attention to other women.
Admiration for others . A mysterious colleague, friend, friend’s husband appears in the conversation, who turns out to be smart, olfactory, and hardworking. At the same time, the wife clarifies every time that she has only friendly, friendly relations with this man and she is not attracted to him as a man. This does not mean that the wife is already cheating, but you should still be wary.

How can I understand my husband's reaction to my betrayal?

Health to everyone!

She got married for the first time at the age of 18 and loved her husband madly. A year later, a daughter was born. And four years later, a misfortune happened - the husband died in an accident. We lived together in my mother-in-law’s apartment, but I initially didn’t have a good relationship with her, and after the funeral she completely showed me the door, not directly, however, but created such unbearable conditions that my daughter and I were forced to move out of her.

We moved to another city to live with our sister, she has a big house, she gave us shelter and said that there was enough space for everyone. Even though she and her husband are wealthy people, I didn’t want to sit on her neck and went to work. For many years I didn’t even think about arranging my personal life - I worked, made a career, raised my daughter.

Five years ago I met a man much older than myself, he surrounded my daughter and me with care, attention and love. We moved in with him, our daughter lived either with us or with her sister in a neighboring area - the school and friends were closer there. A year later we got married. I won’t say that I didn’t love him, I loved him and still love him, I’m grateful to him for everything he does for my daughter and me. But I don’t feel the same crazy passion for him as I did for my first husband, I don’t get satisfaction in bed with him, although initially everything was fine.

Six months ago, a new work colleague hit on me - I knew that he was a womanizer, although he himself was married, he had two daughters and would never leave his family. But he somehow reminded me of my first husband - in appearance, habits, and manners. In general, by that time our relationship with my husband had begun to decline - not a crisis, of course, but it had turned into a routine, especially in sex, and I could not resist the temptation. I myself was not aware of what I was doing, I didn’t give a damn about all moral principles. In sex, he was inferior to my first husband in many ways, but the current one was far from him. I didn’t love my lover, but I wanted him madly, I wanted him, and the feelings that I felt for him were passion, lust. No obligations, no responsibility, no brainwashing.

It was as if I had a second wind, I changed my image, and began to take better care of myself. The husband, poor fellow, thought that all this was for his sake. The relationship with my husband improved from this and went uphill. I also had more than enough affection and attention for him. My daughter told me: “Mom, you seem to have blossomed.” Yes, that’s right, I was happy, literally enjoying life - a loving, caring husband, a passionate and tireless lover, a wonderful daughter, what more do you need from life?

But, as you know, everything comes to an end sooner or later. Happiness blinded me so much that I lost caution. My sister had my daughter, my husband left for the dacha in the morning, I refused, citing poor health, and invited him home. To my husband's apartment. Everything was like in a joke: my husband came in and caught us right in the act, we didn’t even have time to get dressed. I expected anything - but he looked at me gloomily and left, slamming the door.

It was like I woke up. Like a person who, while drunk, does something shameless, and then regrets it the next morning. I immediately threw out my lover, told him not to call again, everything had gone too far and that was all. And I understood that my husband would never forgive me, I myself would not forgive this. She realized that she had lost a good husband because of her stupidity, and nothing could be fixed. Resigned to this thought, she began, crying, to collect her things and her daughter. I wrote a note where I repent and ask for forgiveness for everything, and also thank you for everything he did for us, that I left the keys to the apartment in the mailbox, that I would file for divorce myself. She took off her wedding ring and put it on a note, called a taxi and went to her sister with her things.

I was already ready for a new life when my husband arrived three days later. With a basket of flowers, I brought a ring, an engagement ring and another new one. He cried and said that he was ready to forgive me and never remember me, but asked me to come back and not leave him, since he couldn’t live without me. He put the ring on my finger and said that, one way or another, I was his wife for now. I was simply amazed. How can this even happen after the abomination I caused him! She said that I’ll think about it and I’m not ready now, but he can stay with me here at my sister’s. I would be glad to return to him, but this is all going too well.

Please advise what should I do? He said that he wouldn’t go anywhere without me, and if necessary, he would lie on the doorstep. I don’t know how much I love him, but I respect him, that’s for sure. Totally confused.

Physiology

There are not enough indirect signs to accuse a wife of cheating. Therefore, you need to pay attention to physiological signs. So, how can you tell by looking at your body whether there has been cheating?

The girl was once again late at work. When your wife comes home, look at her appearance : disheveled hair, tights with arrows, rumpled clothes, swollen lips - signs of infidelity.
It's worth looking at the face . Women experience irritation after touching male stubble. If there were kisses with another man, then it will be noticeable.
When in close contact with her lover, a woman absorbs his scents . Men's eau de toilette, body odor, if they are strangers, are noticeable. If there was sex, then the woman has a specific smell: this is the smell of lubricant and sperm. But even if the wife doesn’t smell like anything, as if she just got out of the shower, it’s strange. How to check without giving away unusual interest? Meet your wife at the door, hug, kiss, inhale the aroma of skin, hair, body.
If your wife came home and took a shower, offer your help : rub her back. After sex, there will be redness and bites on the body, especially in the chest, thighs, and arms.

Evidence of betrayal

But there are ways that allow you to be sure of a girl’s infidelity with 100% accuracy. How to make sure your wife is cheating?

Can you tell cheating by looking at your underpants? Yes. There is a special set of infidelity: within 72 hours after possible infidelity, you need to take your wife’s underwear and take it to the laboratory.

Fact: after sex, a woman’s genitals secrete fluid containing elements of sperm for another three days.

A polygraph or lie detector will dot the i’s . If doubts persist, but there is no evidence, you should contact a printer. We advise you to resort to this method if you have lost sleep and peace. There is hardly a woman alive in this world who would not be offended by the offer to take a lie test. After this, divorce may occur and not because of infidelity.
Detective agency . Organizing surveillance of an unfaithful wife in the 21st century is easier than ever. There would be money.
View correspondence on a social network, view phone calls, listen to telephone conversations, buy a special bug and put it in your bag, spy on your wife yourself. Spying is unpleasant, and even if you find nothing, the seeds of mistrust have been sown and you will now be constantly browsing, listening, and spying.
It's strange, but sometimes a simple method works better than a complex one. Try just asking directly and see the reaction. Perhaps the wife has been waiting for a difficult conversation for a long time, or maybe she even feels guilty, and an unexpected question will force her to confess.

Treason proven

Before convicting your wife of cheating, you should talk frankly with yourself: are you ready to separate, are you ready for a divorce, to divide your property. Isn’t it your fault that your wife has lost interest in you and started looking elsewhere? Do you love her even after the betrayal or now you can’t live with her under the same roof? How serious was her affair? How to understand the wife's action? What to do now?

First, sit down and talk. Find out how important these relationships outside the family are for her. Then it all depends on how you feel: if pain and resentment overpower your former feelings for your loved one, then you need to separate. Because constant reproaches will still not allow you to return sincere love relationships.

It may turn out that the wife herself wants to go to her lover. And you also need to be prepared for this. For some, this blow may be worse than betrayal. But if you decide to stay together and continue to build family relationships, you will have to make serious efforts to restore trust and understanding. You may need the help of a psychologist. But in any case, a lot will have to change in marriage. This is a difficult, traumatic situation for everyone. The choice is yours.

First steps: audit

Take a fresh look and evaluate property aspects. As the experience of our lawyers in family disputes testifies, during marriage, spouses do not think about how to properly buy and register property. Very often there is a skew when almost everything is recorded for only one.

Option - valuable property, for example, money, jewelry in the hands of only one of the spouses. Another frequent controversial situation is that the rights to personal property are incorrectly secured and, as a result, the other spouse may claim it. A mirror situation - family property is registered in the name of relatives.

Life presents many legal uncertainties. A more detailed audit of your property and the factors to be wary of should be done by a family law attorney. If the above occurs, you are at particular risk.