At all times, men have been tormented by a very intimate and very delicate question: “How to live with a small penis?” It would seem that the size of the genital organ is not the absence of an arm or leg, but for some reason it is precisely this “flaw” that often turns out to be the most painful topic for a man. What to do with this “small” problem, how to live and how to learn to accept yourself is described below.
Size matters?
Sexual life has always been of great importance, but it’s another matter that they didn’t talk about it before. Today we are more open to dialogue. There is a lot of information, it is accessible and varied. The average age at which people become sexually active is 16 years. Nowadays you rarely see newlyweds who had 1 or 2 partners before marriage; more and more often this figure varies from 10 or more. This gives women the opportunity to compare, and young people have become more liberated and open to experimentation.
It has become easier for men to find a companion or just a girl for one night. However, this does not solve the issue of “small dignity”. How to live with a small penis, build relationships, and does it even matter?
Before discussing this topic, it is worth understanding the statistics and medical terminology.
Statistics
In medicine, there is the concept of “micropenis” - this is a physical deviation that occurs in only 2% of men and is an underdeveloped sexual organ that reaches only 2.5 cm in length when erect. In such cases, intimate life is practically impossible and the situation requires medical intervention.
A small penis size is not that common in the world. Statistics were collected from 100 countries of the world, according to its data, representatives of African countries have the most impressive sizes (on average 18 cm), then representatives of Latin America (about 16 cm), Russia and Ukraine occupy the golden mean in the ranking. The average penis size of our compatriots is 13 cm. Americans have a centimeter lower, and the countries of the Caucasus and the Middle East (Japan, Indonesia and China) have the most modest “dimensions”. Their figure does not even reach 10 cm.
Based on these statistics, what is the normal penis size? A member of 9 cm is considered normal; if the length of the penis is below this figure, then it can be called small.
Examples in history
Honore de Balzac once said: “If I am deprived of my penis and 9 fingers, I can bring a woman to orgasm with what I have left.”
This corpulent man, according to the recollections of numerous mistresses, did not have impressive dignity, but did not experience a lack of sexual relationships. A man makes a woman sexy, not the other way around.
It's sad to realize, but according to Clark Duncan, the idol of millions Ben Affleck doesn't have "star" dignity either.
Spaniard Enrique Iglesias quite frankly admits that he has a small penis, and he intends to release small condoms in the future.
Many people have heard about Daniel Craig's penis-double; alas, James Bond turned out to be far from a sex symbol in real life.
Former lovers of Eshtan Kucher and Eminem, after breaking up, also gave unambiguous descriptions of the merits of these outstanding men. Whether this is true can only be guessed at.
But Daniel Radcliffe demonstrated his “small” dignity quite openly in the play Equus. They didn't love him any less after that.
All these famous men know how to live with a small penis: with humor and without embarrassment. In the end, this physical defect is given by nature, which means there is no need to be ashamed of it. You can't change the obvious, you just have to accept it. Despite their modest penis sizes, women want and will want these men because there is something more in them than their penis size, namely beauty, talent and charisma.
Penis enlargement
Today, the only way to really increase penis size is through surgery. This is a rather complicated operation in which the muscles that “hold” the penis are cut. The muscles are transferred lower. That is, the position of the penis changes, but its length increases by only 3-4 cm.
As for all kinds of ointments and creams, all of these, unfortunately, are myths. Not a single ointment has ever increased anything in anyone.
Pills won't solve the problem either. The maximum you can achieve with their help is body disorders.
Penis enlargement can be accomplished using special devices that are placed on the penis. By mechanical action they pull it out a few centimeters. The inconvenience is that such a device must be worn daily for 9-12 hours for several months. This “mask” only affects the length; the thickness of the penis will not increase.
Only a vacuum pump can increase the thickness, for about 10-12 hours, but you need to be very careful with it! This simple technique often causes vascular ruptures and deformation of the penis.
Limitations that exist in sex if a man has a large penis
When a young man has a truly huge penis, lovers have to resort to various tricks in sex in order to reduce the girl’s unpleasant and sometimes painful sensations to a minimum. Some couples may use various restrictive rings, while others, instead of such rings, use a fist placed at the base of the penis. Still others simply regulate the depth of penetration on their own, while fighting the wild desire to plant as deep as possible.
In any case, both partners suffer from such manipulations. In addition, there are a number of restrictions in sex when a guy has a large penis.
Avoid deep penetration
Deep penetration is like a taboo in sex when your partner has a huge penis. This limitation is due to the fact that the average depth of a girl’s vagina (according to a report from the British Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology) is 9.7 centimeters; with age, this figure can vary up to 17.7 centimeters.
This means that if the partner has great “dignity”, deep penetration with frequent frictional movements can harm the sensitive and delicate female organ - the uterus, or rather the ligaments of the uterus. The danger and consequences lie in the fact that after a couple of weeks the uterine ligaments cease to perform their direct duty - holding the uterus. As a result, it shifts from its axis, and this already entails the threat of reproductive dysfunction.
Avoid anal sex
It’s worth noting right away that you don’t always need to avoid anal sex with a large penis. If a guy has a long but thin penis, sex in the ass is allowed and generally does not have any side effects. However, if the penis, albeit of short length, is very thick, anal sex is taboo.
This ban can be explained very simply. The muscles and tissues of the anal sphincter are quite weak and are easily damaged by “mechanical” (unnatural) intervention. This in turn leads to micro-cracks and injuries to the delicate tissues of the anal sphincter. There are also frequent cases of prolapse of internal hemorrhoids.
Does your girlfriend like anal sex?
Not really
Use special rings that limit the depth of penetration
Using a restrictor ring for sex (not to be confused with an erection ring) is almost the only correct solution to the problem (if you experience one, of course) of a large penis during sex.
This device can be purchased at any sex shop in your city. This device is a silicone ring, similar in appearance to a donut, which is threaded through the shaft of the penis and rests against the pubis. The width of such a ring is completely different: 2, 4, or 6 centimeters. Selected individually for each man.
Female physiology
Men with modest dignity, but rich ambitions, often ask the question: “How to please a woman with a small penis?” It’s worth starting by dispelling the myth that a woman needs a large penis to achieve orgasm. Women have two main sources of pleasure: vaginal and clitoral orgasms. Clitoral is achieved more easily, through the experienced influence of hands, tongue and fingers. With vaginal it is more difficult. A woman’s erogenous zones are located at a depth of only 5-7 cm. You can go further into the vagina even with a penis of 30 cm, this will not affect the orgasm in any way. So you can satisfy a woman with a 5 cm penis, but what comes with your dignity is another matter.
Vaginal orgasm is a delicate thing; in women, it depends 80% on the psychology, sensation and touch of a man. Everything is used: appearance, smell, strong hands, imagination, and the most powerful attribute - love. If a woman loves a man, she can come from the touch of his fingertips on her neck.
The most popular sex positions if a man has great dignity
Since a large penis can cause a number of inconveniences for a girl during fusion, there are the most suitable positions, the purpose of which is to minimize such sensations.
Positions for clitoral stimulation
The clitoris is the most sensitive and most importantly accessible erogenous zone in a woman, so its stimulation during sex will give her additional colorful emotions during intercourse. Which in turn can lead to a squirting orgasm.
Side position . A woman in this position should lie on the bed, on her side, and slightly raise her upper leg. The man positions himself behind the girl and simply enters her. The guy should caress the clitoris with his free hand.
Squatting cowgirl . Here all actions fall on the feminine shoulders of the fairer sex. The man should lie on his back, while the girl squats down on top of his penis. With one hand she holds on to her partner for balance, while with the other she caresses her clitoris.
Missionary position - girl on top. To perform this position, a guy just needs to lie on his back and let the girl lie on top of him (facing him) so that her thighs and stomachs are in close contact. In this position, stimulation of the clitoris occurs naturally (by friction) from forward movements.
Positions for shallow penetration
If your sexual partner begins to complain of pain during sex, saying that the penis penetrates too deeply and hits the uterus, you should pay attention to the following positions for penetration on the “bump floor”:
Girl on top . The guy lies down on the bed on his back, the girl sits on top of his penis and begins the process of intercourse with up and down movements. In this position, the girl herself regulates the depth of penetration of the male penis.
Doggy style on the stomach with legs together . The girl lies on her stomach and brings her legs together. The guy must position himself behind her and, slightly spreading the woman’s loins, enter her. In this position, the partner’s penis will enter approximately 2/3 of the entire length.
Balleroon . This is a kind of standing pose. The girl stands with her back to the wall and leans against it. The guy comes up to face the lady and clasps her waist with one hand, and lifts her leg with the other.
For sex on the table
Passion can strike even in the most unusual place. Therefore, in the Kama Sutra there are several good positions for having sex on a table:
Classic . The most popular sex position is on the table. The girl sits on the table and spreads her legs, leaning back slightly. The guy comes up to face his mistress and stands between her already spread legs.
On the edge of the table . The woman simply sits on the edge of the table so that it is convenient for the man to approach her, after which he simply inserts his penis into the vagina.
Dogi style on the table . The woman takes a doggy style position on the table, arching her back so that her butt is in weight. The man, as in the classic version of this position, attaches himself to his partner from behind and begins the process of copulation.
For sex on the sofa and bed
The bed and sofa are the most common places for sex, which means there will be a wide variety of positions:
Sex cowgirl on the couch . The man sits on the sofa and leans against its back, and the girl sits on top. In this position it is convenient to kiss and caress your partner.
Tachanka . The guy sits on the edge of the bed. The girl sits down on him, but only with her back, after which she leans down and leans on the floor with her hands. If a girl is having a hard time, you can put a pillow under her head.
Cowgirl on the armrest of the sofa . The girl sits on the armrest of the sofa with her legs spread. The lover positions himself behind her and slowly enters her. It is the girl who makes further movements, thereby not only adjusting the depth of penetration, but also stimulating her clitoris.
Blowjob - deep throat
What is sex without a blowjob? If you are the owner of a large penis, then you should definitely try a blowjob position called deep throat.
To perform this pose, the girl lies on her back on the edge of the bed so that her head hangs slightly off it. In this way, a “straight corridor” is formed between the beauty’s mouth and her throat. Next, the guy places his dick on her face.
In this position, the guy must exercise some caution. After all, a girl can simply suffocate from lack of air.
Male psychology
Based on the above, a man should think not about how to enlarge his penis, but how to get closer to his chosen one spiritually.
How do men with small penises live? If a woman loves them, believe me, they live the best life. After all, it is much easier to please each other when you trust your partner, and he trusts you.
According to statistics, about 45% of men are concerned about their dignity, and of these, only 10% are concerned about their family life. Maybe we should switch to spirituality rather than physiology? It is very doubtful that a self-sufficient, charismatic, successful man in life will spend evenings alone just because of the small size of his dignity.
How to compensate for size?
How to live with a small penis? What should a man do who does not have a permanent partner, lover or wife? How to give a woman pleasure with a small penis? Everything is very simple. Women are attracted, first of all, by the image that a man creates by seducing her. This should be a confident man, well dressed, with good manners, good perfume and fluent speech.
Owners of artificially created charm can count on the attention of the girl they like. The passion that arises between lovers sometimes turns on much more than the impressive size of the penis. Women are built a little differently. They see the picture as a whole and fantasize more deeply and extensively than a man. This is worth taking advantage of, because a woman is aroused by touches, conversations, hugs, languid glances... Of course, experience does not appear immediately, but the main thing is not to give up.
What positions are not recommended for sex due to penis size?
There are several sex positions that couples in which the man has a large penis should avoid.
Stairway to Heaven . Another variation of the “dogi style” pose, the only difference is that all the action takes place on the steps of the stairs. The higher the girl is from her partner, the deeper he can go.
Jack of spades . The woman lies on her back, after which the guy lies on her with his stomach in the opposite direction from the partner’s head and moves down. It turns out something like the “69” pose. This position is undesirable with a large penis due to the fact that the penis in this position will tightly rest against the lower wall of the vagina, creating painful sensations.
However, it is worth making a small remark. You should avoid such positions only if your girlfriend has a small, not deep, or even miniature vagina.
What does a woman need to know when a guy has a big penis?
Conclusion
A man is not made up of just his penis. An adequate woman wants to see in a representative of the stronger sex a man who commits actions, can support and give confidence in the future. This is much more important than size, which in family life does not matter at all.
To answer the question of how to live with a small penis, you must first find something more significant in yourself than the size of the penis, and accept yourself not only from a physical point of view, but above all from a spiritual point of view. The purpose of life is not to possess a hundred women, but to enjoy in every sense only one.
The benefits of sex with a man with a large penis
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Despite the above-described disadvantages and limitations in sex with a large penis, it still has a couple of worthy advantages:
- Satisfying women with large vaginas. Women who have a deep vagina by nature, or from repeated births, enjoy sex much less often than others. This is where guys with a large and thick unit come to their aid. Such a penis will immediately reach all the nerve endings of the vagina and will not dangle in it like in a bottomless barrel.
- Autofellatio. Self-sucking is not exactly an advantage, or rather an advantage, but not for all guys, but only for those who don’t mind satisfying themselves with the help of oral sex.
- Appearance. A large penis often has an aesthetic appearance, and with such a unit it is easier to pick up girls on the beach or in the pool. After all, it stands out from the swimming trunks quite well.
- Using positions. You can use positions that are not suitable for those with a small or medium penis.
