A wife should support her husband
Men do not tend to show their feelings and talk about them. When your loved one faces problems at work, you should not ask him for an expensive purchase. And if he is not very successful with everyday problems: plumbing, nails, etc., then there is no need to “nag.” An ideal wife is a wise woman who knows how to find the right approach in a given situation.
Yulia needs urgent rehabilitation
The next day, August 11, Yulia became very ill. An ambulance was called, she was taken with a suspicion of a stroke, first to the intensive care unit of the Pruzhany regional hospital, then transferred to the Brest regional hospital. Yulia spent almost 3 weeks in intensive care, only two days ago she was transferred to the neurosurgical department. Her left arm and left leg are paralyzed.
Yulia Sakharchuk is 32 years old and has a family of four children. The eldest son is 15 years old, the youngest daughter is 3. Anatoly took a vacation from work, he had to watch the children and go to his wife in Brest. I just went back to work on Tuesday. He says that there was no time to file a complaint against the actions of the police. Today he is going to enter into an agreement with a lawyer so that the lawyer will demand all medical reports and certificates about his wife’s condition.
A Coordination Council has been created in Pruzhany to help the victims. He supports the Sakharchuk family both financially and morally.
“Yulia is now in the Brest regional hospital. She needs rehabilitation, but because of the coronavirus, rehabilitation is carried out only for walking patients, and Yulia is bedridden. We contact medical centers, looking for someone who can help a woman get back on her feet. She has four children,” says Anna Baran, chairman of the Coordination Council.
Mystery
The well-known expression that a woman is a mystery is always relevant. Therefore, those who think that a husband should love his wife in any way are mistaken: with unwashed hair, in stretched leggings and a worn-out robe. These things are easily controlled and should never be allowed to be present in family relationships. Neatness and grooming are an important factor in a healthy relationship.
Pruzhany police do not comment
Svoboda contacted the deputy head of the internal affairs department of the Pruzhany district executive committee for ideological work and personnel support, Lieutenant Colonel Yuri Nemirovich, with a question about what caused the harsh detentions on August 10 in Pruzhany and why the security department officers were in riot police uniform that evening. Yuri Anatolyevich reported that “citizens Anatoly and Yulia Sakharchuk were not detained by the police on August 10. There were no complaints from them about their state of health. Everything else is without comment.”
As for other questions, including the use of riot police uniforms by security department employees, I advised you to contact them in writing.
The wife cannot hide anything - she tells her husband in every detail how she is cheating on him
His wife Renata herself told him how she started flirting with her colleagues and slept with her boss.
Renat is a reserve officer who served in law enforcement. After five years of service, he resigned and found a civilian job. He also hired his wife Ada into the same company, which he later regretted.
Ada doesn't know how to hide anything. A few months later, in a new place, she began to tell Renat how she was flirting with her colleagues. She hinted that she wanted to try having sex with other men. Moreover, before the wedding, she already had a very rich experience of communicating with men. Even before the wedding, they agreed that if she cheated, they would immediately divorce. Renat reminded about the agreement. Ada apologized.
However, the husband soon realized that his wife had started one affair, then another. Ada dated married men, went to bars, drank and danced with them. And then she reported everything to her husband, noting that her companions were much wealthier than Renat. She swore that “nothing like that” happened and that she would not go anywhere else with anyone.
Then my wife accidentally met the general director at work, whom she had never seen before. At first, he almost fined her for being late, but limited himself to calling her to his office. There they “found a common language,” as Ada later told Renat.
The husband had known for a long time that the head of the company was a womanizer. Despite having a wife and three children, he slept with almost all department heads, secretaries and assistants. Rumor has it that he kept a camera in his office to take photographs of naked women and film sex. Then the boss exchanged shots with the deputy. Renat warned his wife about this, but she didn’t care.
Soon Ada began to casually wonder how he would react to her next purely hypothetical betrayal. Then she laid out the whole truth. One day Ada came to see the general director during lunch break. They started talking about pornography. He suggested taking nude photographs. She agreed. Having become aroused during a photo shoot, they slept together. Renat could not believe that his wife was attracted to an old, bald, fat and disgusting man. Moreover, she described to her husband in great detail how she tumbled with him for two hours.
Renat is confused. He is very hurt and upset. I want to file for divorce and tell my wife to go to hell, but it’s a shame to part with my child. His wife won't give him up. She once again vowed that she would never sleep with anyone again. She asked Renat not to leave her.
And then she told her husband that she had forgiven herself. They say that now the whole problem is with him, because he does not want to sort out his feelings, forgive and move on. Ada again began to talk about being invited to restaurants. Renat is tired of constant humiliation and lies. He cannot leave because of the child, but he is also disgusted to stay.
She strives with all her might to be the perfect housewife.
In this way, the girl tries not only to distract the attention of her husband, but also to earn the favor of her partner. All she needs is for her husband to see how good she is. She can give up her favorite activities just to become an exemplary housewife.
And some girls become submissive spouses and stop making comments to their husbands. This is where everything becomes clear, especially if the changes are very sudden. The husband should be wary; most likely, he already has a rival.
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What to do if a husband loves his ex-wife
There should be no reason for a husband to talk about his ex-woman often. Isolated cases don’t count, because she was part of his life. The man you love should never make you feel like he would rather be with her than with you. It should develop your present relationship and not get stuck in the past. If a man is free from his past, his priorities will be real family and family happiness. You need to understand that for a number of reasons your husband may communicate with his ex-wife, for example, about teaching and raising children. This is natural as long as the boundaries of what is permitted are not violated.
Bad spouse according to zodiac sign
According to the astrological horoscope, a rating of wives was compiled according to their ability to create home comfort. And this is what happened as a result. The anti-primacy sign in this list is Scorpio. It is the woman who was born under the sign of Scorpio who is the worst wife in the zodiac. So, here is the entire list of signs from worst to best:
- Scorpio - 12th place. A very beautiful and incredibly attractive Scorpio woman is also smart and quick-witted. But in order to become a good wife, she has neither the desire nor the ability. She has a complex character, and the man will have to serve this demanding woman all his life, essentially falling into lifelong slavery to her.
- Pisces - 11th place. Also a selfish sign. They are attractive and can be affectionate, but only if it suits their mood. There is no benefit from such a wife in family life, but men become dependent on Pisces wives, which is not so easy to get rid of, even considering the fact that they are bad housewives.
- Leo - 10th place. This woman pays more attention to her decoration and external improvement, loves expensive things, beautiful cars, luxury restaurants, rich furnishings, and if a man is unable to give her all this, the lioness will gnaw at him without pity until she gets her way.
- Sagittarius - 9th place. The sign is very independent and headstrong. She values freedom very much and prefers to manage her own time. She can be a good housewife if she so desires. It is impossible to achieve anything from her through coercion; only peace and partnership, joint fulfillment of family responsibilities can save family relationships.
- Gemini - 8th place. A very dangerous sign, attentive and perspicacious. It is impossible to hide anything from such a wife; she always knows better than her husband what he is like. How she will use this knowledge is another matter. And this is the husband’s problem, how to keep his wife within the framework of family relationships.
- Aries - 7th place. A very confident woman who considers herself a gift from heaven to her husband. She firmly believes in this and will resist a different opinion for a long time until she completely subordinates her husband to her views on life. But he might benefit from it.
- Libra - 6th place. A written beauty, an excellent cook, a skilled lover, in general, the dream of any man, but only when it is desirable for her. At other times, a boring and scandalous woman, also hysterical and unrestrained. These are the extremes that tightly bind a husband’s hands and feet.
- Virgo - 5th place. This is a wonderful ally and friend, an interesting companion who respects and supports the interests of her husband. However, in this case, the leader in the family will still be the wife according to the formula “we consulted, and I decided.”
- Taurus - 4th place. This is a very purposeful person who, having set a goal, does not encounter obstacles on her way to it. She always achieves what she wants, but her methods are not always adequate. Making loud scandals by breaking dishes is their style of behavior, but it can easily make a successful man out of a husband.
- Capricorn - 3rd place. When choosing a partner, the Capricorn wife is guided by her own benefit. She needs an ideal husband because she considers herself an ideal woman. She tends to exalt her life partner, so as not to reduce his level of ideality. But if he allows himself not to live up to this image, woe to him.
- Aquarius - 2nd place. A simple and eternally young laugher, gentle and cheerful, pleasant to talk to, a good housewife, capable of making any man happy. But it’s very difficult to convince her to get married.
- Cancer - 1st place. For this woman, family always comes first. She is smart and beautiful, agile and caring, she runs the house perfectly and will do anything for the happiness of her family. Just make sure that the husband does not neglect his family responsibilities, otherwise a fair punishment will follow.
Why put your husband above yourself?
Many people forget an important rule on which a truly strong marriage rests.
“If there was a strong and reasonable man in my life, I would listen to him!” - I hear this phrase from married and single women; they are absolutely convinced that there are men who are obeyed and who are not obeyed.
Of course, there are men with a very strong Sun or Mars in the horoscope, and their influence is so enormous that it is simply impossible not to obey them. But in our age there are not many people with a strong Sun, believe me.
Of course, a woman can wait for such a man to appear in her life, and a man can wait for a woman who will be obedient. But it’s easier to start with yourself and create conditions in which you do not depend on the appearance of special people (strong men) in your life, but those around you become like that next to you.
After all, in reality, obedience is a voluntary choice of every woman!
What does female obedience give?
Many men gained status, respect from colleagues, financial growth - when the wife began to do one simple (but at the same time very difficult thing) - obey!
Not servilely, not blindly, without hostility and hatred, but calmly with ease and trust. This is one of the important rules on which really strong marriages rest.
Obedience is the strongest way men can show respect and love.
When I got married and my husband’s friends came to visit us, I always listened to what he said and did it. If he said, “Yulia, go make us some tea,” I went and did it; if he said, “We don’t need anything now,” I understood that I needed to leave them for a man’s conversation and calmly left. Over time, I noticed that my husband’s authority grew in the eyes of his friends, they began to listen to him more and respect him even more. I saw something similar in the lives of many clients, as soon as they began to obey with a calm heart - miracles were not long in coming.
If a man listens to his wife, his self-confidence and sense of strength grows. Colleagues begin to respect him.
Many women ask, “How can I help my husband climb the career ladder?” - the answer is simple: “Listen to him.” This is very important for a man.
Recently, one of my husband's friends got married. He always had an independent and strong character. My husband asked him, “How did you choose your wife? By beauty? and he will answer “By character traits, she is obedient, neat, calm.”
“What if I don’t have the right man to obey...?”
Women complain about men's lack of will and irresponsibility, but they themselves do not leave them space to develop these qualities. Usually, after two or three mistakes of a man, a woman gives up on him, as if he is incapable of making decisions, and harnesses herself. But a man needs experience, he needs mistakes! In childhood, most boys are not allowed to make mistakes by their mothers, who take care of them in every possible way, laying down the “straw”, and then their wives take over the baton. You need to be conscious and stop protecting a man from mistakes, only then will he be able to grow up and become reasonable, will be able to take responsibility and not run away from it. This skill comes with experience, not from birth. A woman is born with a full set of qualities and her task is to preserve them, while a man creates himself with experience, tries, takes risks. Give your husband a chance to make mistakes, gain experience - and then he will be the epitome of masculine qualities.
There is an old saying, remember it and let your husbands become strong and wise:
“The source of our wisdom is our experience.
The source of our experience is our stupidity."
With what feeling should you obey your husband?
Some women literally “look into the mouth” of a man (usually it’s not even her husband), they are ready to fulfill his every whim, and this happens in a mood of servility, they are trying to earn love, to be good in the eyes of a man - this is a failed scenario. There will never be respect for such a woman and despotism rather than responsibility will progress in the man. And her self-esteem will fall, discontent will increase day by day.
You need to obey wisely, in the frame of mind of a worthy lady. Obedience is not slavery, not humiliation, no one forces you to do this, it is an absolutely voluntary choice of every woman! You need to understand that it is your choice to obey your husband and improve your relationship.
Before you begin the practice of obedience, pray, meditate on the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
Think about it, are you ready to obey God?
Are you ready to trust him?
If yes, then ask to be given special vision that will help you see God’s providence and God’s message in your husband’s behavior and speech.
After all, God speaks to us through people.
And imagine that you, in the person of your husband, will obey God himself, are you ready?
Obedience Practice
The practice of obedience is especially important for those women who have many masculine traits, who lead a masculine lifestyle and whose personal life is unsettled, and who come across weak men.
When we begin to obey, we fulfill female dharma (purpose) and contribute to the growth of masculine qualities in our beloved representatives of the stronger sex.
For the sake of experiment, listen to men for 10 days. For married people, this applies to husbands, fathers and sons; for unmarried people, this applies to everyone. If your husband says to do something, drop everything and do what he says without excuses: “Just a minute...”, “I’ll finish this now...”, “Wait...”.
It will be difficult at first, so prepare yourself in the morning for obedience and for possible difficulties.
At first, husbands begin to act strangely with happiness and say the strangest things! And, of course, there will be jokes: “Why have you suddenly become so good?” The main thing is to endure it calmly and gently. You can say:
“Yes, I just now began to understand how stupid I was when I didn’t listen to you. You were right in many ways."
If you don’t like what your husband says at all, then you can say: “I don’t really like it, but since you said it, I’ll do it” - thus he is responsible for all the consequences. In a couple of days, miracles will begin to happen.
Unmarried people need to obey their dad, employees, boss - this will be your training for 10 days.
Be sure to keep track of the feelings that arise during your practice; a desire to control everything, to decide everything yourself, or irritation that they are not doing things your way may emerge. At this moment, remember that this is not just a man in front of you - he is a messenger of God, who helps you follow your feminine destiny and improve yourself. Remember that God speaks to us through every person!
When a woman begins to obey her husband and do what he says, then after some time the husband, feeling love and respect in this, begins to fulfill the woman’s desire, he becomes reasonable, responsible, strong.
While still in Russia, my husband didn’t plan our trip to Asia very carefully; he said, “If we plan everything down to the smallest detail, it won’t be interesting!” I have done the main things - we will improvise on the spot.” At first I was very tense, for me as a woman it is very important to know everything in advance, what will happen - where we will go - where we will stay, because I am with a small child, but then I thought “For my husband this is a great chance to improve his masculine qualities, to become even more caring, responsible, strong. And even though we may have to endure some inconvenience, there will be such a man next to me!” I trusted. I have been living in Asia for two weeks now, we had several moves and, OF COURSE, there were difficulties, there were problems, there were overlaps - but my husband is transforming day after day, takes responsibility for everything, solves all problems, and in the best possible way it works out for him when I’m calm. For me, this trip was a huge lesson in trusting a man. Here, in another country unfamiliar to me, my husband is the only person I can rely on, and this does not make it difficult for him at all; on the contrary, it seems his gaze has become even more purposeful, and his shoulders are wider.
And I want to share this with you! Try to obey your men - dad, husband, son. Open up space for them to develop, let them fall, make mistakes, get scrapes and bruises from life - this will toughen them, make them stronger, more courageous, they will begin to respect themselves as husbands and men! And your union will become a place of growth and strength for them, and you can finally relax and stop putting everything on your shoulders and pulling it on yourself. This is a powerful practice that heals marriage and femininity!
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Her mood is constantly changing
An affair on the side is, in any case, some kind of experiences, emotions and a whirlpool of impressions. The lady will try with all her might to hide all this from her chosen one.
The girl will begin to experience an incredible desire to rush into the pool of love, but this can be very difficult to do. A young man may suspect that something is wrong when his beloved constantly rushes from one extreme to another. Such behavior almost always indicates that the girl is having an affair.
Husband's salary in wife's wallet
The category of bad men also includes those wives who force them to give their entire salary, citing the fact that they have a common budget. However, only the wife can freely spend this budget, while the husband, if he takes money from the common wallet, is obliged to explain what he is going to spend it on and prove the necessity of these expenses. This also includes men being obliged to visit their mother-in-law, as well as providing her with all kinds of help, regardless of his desires and capabilities. However, when the question concerns helping the husband’s parents, the wife’s ardor in this matter instantly fades away and she does not at all strive to do what she aimed her husband to do in relation to his parents.
She can constantly praise her husband, even without a significant reason.
Every beautiful lady knows well that in order to win a man over to her side, it is enough to praise him. This is the best remedy. However, it happens that a girl tries too hard and goes too far.
Some people may get the impression that the girl is trying to make her chosen one God before everyone else. A suspicion may immediately creep in that this is being done only to divert attention from the girl’s infidelity. She is simply trying to persuade her husband to stop him from suspecting anything.
