Tell them that going to kindergarten is a lot of fun
Talk to your child and tell him that kindergarten is the best thing in his life. You may have a fascinating story about your time at this child care facility. Tell your little one that the time will come and you will need to say goodbye to kindergarten.
It is also worth explaining to your child that you would also be happy to go to kindergarten now. However, due to your age and responsibilities, unfortunately, you cannot do this. Let the child feel lucky.
A child is bullied in kindergarten
Advice from lawyers:
1. Where to go if a child is offended by a teacher in kindergarten.
1.1. First of all, contact the head of the kindergarten, if the prosecutor’s office does not help. In general, as practice shows, it is better to transfer the child to another kindergarten.
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2. If a child is offended by teachers or nannies in kindergarten, where can one complain?
2.1. First, to the head of the kindergarten, then to the education department and the prosecutor's office to verify these facts. Good luck to you and all the best.
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3. Where to turn When a child is bullied in kindergarten.
3.1. Hello. To the education department of the local administration.
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4. There are 2 twins in the nursery group who do not allow classes to be taught. They chew shoes and damage property. I am a member of the parent committee, my daughter is bullied, she comes home from kindergarten with bruises and hematomas, she says that the boy, one of the twins, is constantly pushing. How to get rid of these children.
4.1. Hello. I believe that if these twins behave this way not only towards your child, then other parents can write a collective appeal regarding this fact addressed to the head of the kindergarten, with a request to contact the guardianship authorities, and then let the head decide what to do next do. Or you can also contact the guardianship authorities in writing yourself. Here you can see a violation of the rights of the child. For example, in the Family Code of the Russian Federation there is the following article: Article 56. The child’s right to protection 3. Officials of organizations and other citizens who become aware of a threat to the life or health of a child, a violation of his rights and legitimate interests, are obliged to report this to the authority guardianship and trusteeship at the actual location of the child. Upon receipt of such information, the guardianship and trusteeship authority is obliged to take the necessary measures to protect the rights and legitimate interests of the child. And here’s another thing, Article 63 of the Family Code of the Russian Federation: 1. Parents have the right and obligation to raise their children. Parents are responsible for the upbringing and development of their children. They are obliged to take care of the health, physical, mental, spiritual and moral development of their children.
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5. If in kindergarten a parent attacked me with obscenities and fists. I wanted to beat you up. The teacher stood between us. Where can I go and write an application? And she attacked because her daughter fights and hurts children. I invited her to talk about it. She attacked immediately.
5.1. You need to contact the police.
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6. The manager bullied my child in kindergarten. The child stood in the corner during his nap. How can you be punished after 8 years?
6.1. Hello. What kind of harm was caused to health?
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7. What to do if a child is bullied in kindergarten? One of the children in the group bullies the others. Constantly hits or bites someone. There are a lot of complaints from parents. Parents cannot or do not want to influence him. The manager says that she cannot remove him from the group despite the complaints. And for some reason, this child is 1.5 years older than the others. What to do?
7.1. Good afternoon, please contact the education department. You can tell the manager this.
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8. Conflict in kindergarten with parents, they constantly scold me in front of the children, then other children in the group offend my child, saying that you are bad because your mother is being scolded. What should I do? I would like to contact the education department in our area.
8.1. You have the right to contact the education department.
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9. The child is a hooligan, offends other children, and does not obey the teacher. Should a psychologist in a kindergarten talk to him for free?
9.1. Hello! If the child's behavior needs correction. Of course, a full-time preschool psychologist is obliged to work with this child as part of her job duties.
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10. They don’t take my child to kindergarten for the whole day, they say take him to get used to it, water every day for three hours for three weeks they say you have a difficult child, he doesn’t hear us, he offends the children, something like this and I have to work, my wife has two at home children, and the kindergarten is located in a neighboring village, we have no problems with transport, and my vacation is ending.
10.1. Good day to you. In this case, you need to follow the rules of the kindergarten, since you have such a child. I wish you good luck in resolving your issue.
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11. My child goes to kindergarten and got into a fight somewhere and offended someone. Mommies come up and ask me questions even though I’m at work at the time. Recently, another one came up, although my child did not harm her, and began to threaten me that they would take my child away from me and that I did not need him. What to do in this situation? Who is responsible for the child when he is in kindergarten? And how can I write a statement that I am being threatened? Thank you in advance.
11.1. Good afternoon, dear Lyudmila Write a statement to the police about threats with a copy to the head and district. Good luck to you and your loved ones!
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12. In kindergarten, while walking, my son was pushed from behind by an aggressive boy (who had been offending everyone in the group for two years, a group with delayed psychological development) - as a result, my son suffered a closed fracture of the humerus. Sadik asks me to sign papers stating that the accident took place in my presence. I really have no complaints about the teacher, although I understand that she bears responsibility. But even that aggressive child is uncontrollable. What should I do as a mother?
12.1. Under no circumstances sign anything! Otherwise, all the blame will be placed on you. Although while the child is in the kindergarten, the kindergarten management and teachers are fully responsible for him. This is the garden's problem - what to do. They have specialists working in the kindergarten. There is a medical psychologist. Let them sort it out.
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13. I would like to talk to you. We have a boy in kindergarten. Who offends all the children in the group every day. He hits, pushes, pinches. Doesn't respond to teachers! Mom says what will I do with him. Adult parents and teachers do not influence him in any way, either at home or in the garden. My child came home yesterday with a sprained ankle. This boy pushed. In what form should we write a collective complaint? A child is studying with a psychologist in the garden. But this doesn't help, he doesn't listen to anyone.
13.1. Good afternoon Collectively demand the exclusion of the child from the kindergarten, that is, write a complaint from all parents to three authorities: to the kindergarten addressed to the director, to the city Education Department and to the regional Ministry of Education. Write constantly.
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13.2. 1. write a complaint in free form 2. go to court and seek compensation for moral damages for causing physical suffering to the child - from the school and the parents of this boy - they will leave the kindergarten themselves.
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14. I am a citizen of Uzbekistan, my child goes to kindergarten, the teacher began to offend him, push him, hit him, there is some kind of law for this. Please advise.
14.1. Good afternoon File a complaint with the prosecutor's office. The complaint is written in any form (in your own words), submitted by mail or delivered in person.
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14.2. Hello, Alisher. You have the right to file a complaint about the teacher’s unlawful actions to the head, or to the Department of Education of your city, or to the prosecutor’s office.
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14.3. Hello, please write a complaint to the head of the kindergarten. Let him figure it out. You can write to the prosecutor's office if there is evidence of your accusations. Thank you for visiting our website. Always happy to help! Good luck to you.
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15. My daughter-in-law fraudulently took her granddaughter to her homeland, to Kazakhstan, supposedly on vacation, and leaves the child with her sick grandmother. She goes to work herself, she hasn’t quit here. The child is enrolled in kindergarten. Not divorced, they hurt the child. The grandmother hit her in the face and allegedly bit her granddaughter on the leg. Then the daughter-in-law’s eldest daughter hit a soft spot. We have the right to see our granddaughter. What should we do, thank you.
15.1. So where is the daughter-in-law? Contact the court to deprive her of parental rights.
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15.2. Of course you have the right. Urgently file a claim in court regarding the procedure for communicating with your grandson - Article 67 of the RF IC.
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15.3. You can apply to the court to determine the order of your meetings with the child. You are a grandmother, you have every right. And it is completely wrong to deprive a child of communication with his closest relatives. Good luck to you.
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16. My child was bullied in a kindergarten group. I asked the head to transfer my child to another group. The manager said that she could transfer him, but temporarily for a month, to see how he was received there. While staying in the new group for 3.5 hours, my son became ill for health reasons and I took him out of kindergarten. He no longer attended the daycare center (1.5 months), and today I was informed that he was permanently assigned to a new group. Is this legal? What should I do to return him back to his original group?
16.1. You asked for a translation and it was translated, the actions are legal.
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17. How to correctly write a collective complaint to a kindergarten about a child...? A child comes to kindergarten and every day he offends the girls and grabs them by the hair, and the girls don’t want to go to kindergarten; when they see him, he doesn’t interfere with the boys.
17.1. Such statements are written in any form.
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18. One of the mothers in the kindergarten is going to write a statement to the head of my child saying that my child beats her daughter every day. And ALL parents will also sign, because... He also hurts their children. But neither the teacher nor other parents ever complained to me. She threatens to beat my son. What should I do? Can we be expelled from kindergarten?
18.1. No one will exclude your child. Talk to your parents and your principal. Extinguish the conflict.
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19. In the junior group of the kindergarten there is a child who is a year older than the other children and has an unbalanced psyche. The child is very aggressive and constantly offends children. To all complaints from parents about transferring the child either to another kindergarten, where other children have the same problems, or to a group older in age. Maybe he will behave differently with his peers. But nothing is resolved. What should I do?
19.1. Hello. File a complaint with the Department of the Ministry of Education.
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20. The child has been going to kindergarten for 5 months, during this time we have been constantly sick, for the last 2 weeks he has not wanted to go to kindergarten, he says he is being bullied, a week ago he started pooping in his pants, we went to a psychologist and said that the kindergarten has an influence, but because the child is 3.4 he cannot confirm from his words, the child showed how the teacher beats another child, and much more. What should I do? Thank you.
20.1. Hello. Contact the director of the kindergarten. If she does not take action, contact the prosecutor's office, they will take prosecutorial response measures.
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My child in kindergarten has been offended more than once by another child, the teachers do nothing. What to do in this situation?
Good afternoon. How to write a letter to the head of the education department,
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Why is a child afraid of children?
The reason for this situation could be anything. Think, maybe someone hurt your baby? This doesn't have to happen in the garden. Perhaps the baby’s toy was taken away from her on the playground or she was pushed. These could be not only peers, but also older children.
Also often the child is afraid of other people's children. This occurs because the baby grows up alone. At the age of 2-3 years he feels like the center of the universe. Everything should revolve around him. The baby does not yet understand and does not accept other children as independent individuals. The child thinks that everyone should take care of him.
Sometimes a child is afraid of other children due to various pathologies of the nervous system. However, in this case, additional symptoms of the problem appear.
