Good afternoon, dear ladies. The man of my dreams - calculation examples in our material. We do not undertake to derive a formula for love. Even the great Count Cagliostro made a mistake here. We have outlined a guide to action for you. Take notes!
You just walked in, I instantly recognized you. She was all stupefied, glowed and said in her thoughts - here he is...
This is not poetic hyperbole at all. A great connoisseur of women, Alexander Sergeevich Pushkin, obviously knew this interesting scientific fact: any girl, meeting a man, determines in the first sixty seconds whether he is fit to be the father of her future children.
Not everyone, however, experiences such serious somatic disorders as Tatyana Larina, but, in principle, they rarely make mistakes.
But as soon as the express analysis is completed, a critical mind is involved in the assessment of the chosen one, checking against many strict parameters: age, height, weight, social status, how he is dressed, whether he can easily order a bouquet and present flowers.
A competent jury is involved in the evaluation - mother, girlfriends, work colleagues, grannies at the entrance.
You wait with bated breath for the verdict. “The overall score is five points out of ten possible,” announces the chairman of the jury in the person of her best friend. - Next".
And happiness was so possible!
Let's take a closer look!
By the age of fourteen, you know exactly what your chosen one should look like.
The Prince Charming phenotype consists, in varying proportions, of your father's traits, your favorite literary character, the traits of the actor you fell in love with as a teenager, and vague images of your first erotic dreams.
Having discovered such a subject in the crowd, you will involuntarily turn around to see if he has turned around, to see if you have turned around.
And, most likely, he will also slow down. Do you know why? He will painfully remember where he could have seen you. There’s no way he’ll remember, but it was no earlier than this morning, in his own mirror.
Partners in ideal couples are subtly, and sometimes noticeably, similar to each other. For example, Marina Alexandrova and Alexander Domogarov. Jane Fonda and Ted Turner. Cameron Diaz and Justin Timberlake.
True, this is not always the key to family happiness, but what a stormy romance it turns out to be! It doesn’t matter that he has blue eyes, a wide face and square shoulders, and you are small, dark-haired and green-eyed.
Look at Lilia Podkopaeva and her other half. There seems to be nothing in common, but they are so similar! Kindred of souls, sympathy of hearts!
Warning, trap: if the subject is remarkably similar to Sir Rochester from your favorite childhood series, Jane Eyre, the likelihood that he will be as romantic, gentle and devoted to his beloved is negligible.
It is likely that he will have something in common with the actor Timothy Dalton, who played the role of Rochester, but you don’t feel any sentimentality about this retired James Bond?
It is interesting that men who regularly change wives always marry photocopies of their first wife. Marlon Brando, for example, always chose “island girls,” and Donald Trump’s wives can only be distinguished by their serial number. Love, you know, is one for life. Only objects change.
Nature has programmed us so that beautiful people seem more suitable candidates for starting a family than ugly ones. Children stare at beautiful faces with the same delight with which they watch the flight of a strange butterfly.
But a caring mother will explain to her grown-up daughter: a handsome boy is a bad boy. But this gray, nondescript specimen is just what you need, daughter. And he won’t hang around with women, and you won’t be afraid of any girlfriends with such a husband.
And a caring mother would be wrong, since harmony of features and proportionality of proportions are a guarantee of genetic health and high reproductive activity.
Handsome men and beauties are the result of thousands of years of selection, the golden fund of humanity. Therefore, if you are irresistibly attracted to Mr. Universe, do not give up your chance, even if the competition is great.
In the end, it is competition that is the engine of evolution, and if your children inherit its beauty and your vital energy, then you are an ideal couple.
Laboratory work
Get hold of a photograph of the applicant. Overlay on the photograph with a dotted line the image of Leonardo da Vinci’s “Vitruvian Man”, the same one who is inscribed in a circle with splayed limbs. This is an example of ideal proportions.
If the coincidence is one hundred percent and this discovery leaves you stunned and on fire, move on to the next step. If the match is one hundred percent, but it seems to you that ideal beauty is boring and there is no fire in it, move on to the next applicant.
If the match is fifty percent, but you think that the “Vitruvian Man” is just a lopsided freak compared to your chosen one, take decisive action.
Solution two.
Chapter 1 Preparations. Soil preparation
Who is the man of your dreams?
When I talk about the man of your dreams, believe me, I don’t mean the ideal man - he doesn’t exist, and, moreover, no one would want to be next to him anyway: relationships reflect our spiritual life, and you would have to work hard for improving your soul in a relationship with an ideal man - and the worst thing is that in the end, against his background, you would seem terrible to yourself, which would make all the efforts made lose all meaning! We're definitely not looking for the perfect man here - I hope you breathe a sigh of relief.
The very expression “dream man” came to my mind when I realized that all the men I dated, without a single exception, made me unhappy. I recently realized that my deepest desire is to be happy in my relationship, and not maintain it just to avoid being alone. For me, being happy means feeling calm and comfortable, being loved for who I am, and not being worried, irritated or confused - which is so common in low-quality relationships.
When I voiced my need in the form of an affirmation (more on this later), I always used the words “relationship” or “partner”, without much expectation or specificity. And then it dawned on me - if I want to be happy, then I need to attract into my life “someone who will make me happy”; this wording was later shortened to "dream man". I began to associate this name with wonderful sensations - and this is exactly
reflects the essence of the manifestation process, which will be discussed further.
So, as you can see, a “dream man” is just a man with whom you feel good. Subsequently, you can choose a different “title” for him, but for now, while reading these words, think about those warm, exciting feelings that you would like to experience with “that” man.
Manifestation of relationships
Recently I decided to make another attempt to attract worthy relationships into my life. I was alone for almost six months and felt a strong need to meet someone with whom I could start a relationship that I would want to stay in
. I started doing some manifestation rituals, and almost immediately something interesting happened: just as I began to make room in my life for a man (more on this later), I was suddenly shocked by the distinct feeling that my ex-lover was still energetically present in my home. – even in my bed!
This confused me because I was sure that everything was over with him, but this feeling made me think - am I doing the right thing by not allowing him into my life? Despite the fact that we had very strong feelings, every time we met, it was like riding a roller coaster - the emotions were vivid, but fleeting. Reasonably, I didn't want him back in my life, but I was still emotionally attached to him and doubted myself.
I had a terrible suspicion that somehow he knew about this, because I kept running into him, and every time this happened, he would casually offer me another ride on the roller coaster. This time I firmly decided not to give in to provocations, because I knew how it would all end. And then suddenly, out of nowhere, another man asked me out on a date, and very persistently - but the fact was that this man was in many ways similar to my ex, and just a couple of weeks later I was faced with the same problem in relationship with a completely different person - I continued to attract the same thing into my life!
The principles of manifestation worked, but something was wrong - this is not what I asked for
.
Luckily I didn't sleep with this new guy so it was easier for me to move on; however, this situation made me wonder: How can I change the quality of relationships I attract into my life? So far everything was too familiar and predictable. “How can I get rid of this obsessive plot in order to attract a worthy person into my life?”
– I thought.
And so, my prayers were answered - on the same
The day I realized there was nothing new in my new relationship, I came across a book about manifestation called Your Life Is Awaiting You. I read it cover to cover in two days, unable to put it down - finally the missing piece of the puzzle was found, and it dawned on me what I had been doing wrong all this time! I learned something important about the manifestation process and what made me attract the same things.
This is a good example of manifestation in action: see how easily I was able to attract a new man, and then a vital source of information that became an aid in my quest. I realized what was going on in my life, and because of this, it was much easier for me to break up with this new “unsuitable” guy than it would have been before, and believe me, not because I didn’t like him that much... on the contrary! I'm convinced that all the effort I've put in up until this point has given me the determination to say, "No, thank you." I didn't really want to bring another "Mr. Bad Guy" into my life. It also meant that I was ready to receive the missing information about the manifestation process.
So, as you can imagine, I'm not writing this book to brag about how easy it all is (although I'm sure for some it is); I am writing this because all this has been incredibly difficult for me, and I hope that my personal experience and research will be useful to you in studying this interesting topic. I fell into many traps, hit my head on a brick wall many times, and blindly wandered into dead end after dead end (as you may have guessed, I am a very stubborn person). It is my sincere hope that I can offer you a user-friendly and understandable study guide to help you on your path to love.
The manifestation of relationships is sometimes not easy because, by their nature, relationships tend to penetrate into the deepest and most hidden corners of our soul. I became convinced that attracting the man of my dreams into my life is not
the same as materializing a parking space or a beautiful new dress;
If it were easy, I would have been married for many years! Yes, the basic principles are the same, but the insidious reasons that block the process of manifestation of a love relationship are much more complex and deeper than in the case of a parking space. While for some people attracting wonderful relationships into their lives is just as easy, for most of us—especially those who have suffered heartbreak—it takes much more time and effort to get what we want and truly deserve
in love.
This book details the process of attracting the man of your dreams, and more importantly, it also explores all the potential pitfalls in the process of manifesting what you want in love.
– which significantly increases your chances of success. I do not give you any guarantees and do not promise quick results - only the opportunity to develop as a person and enjoy the process of attracting into your life the love you dream of.
Law of Attraction
Before diving into the process of attracting the man of your dreams, it is important to note a few basic principles of manifestation, and first we will look at the “Law of Attraction”. If you would like to explore the topic of manifestation in more detail, the appendix lists some good books to read.
What is manifestation?
Manifestation is a term that describes the process of “attracting” or “pulling” something into your life. You could call it “creation,” but these are still slightly different processes: creation implies that you do something yourself - build a house, bake a pie, or write a song. When you attract something into life, you are asking for something to simply “appear” in it. Manifestation is a magical phenomenon, evoking Aladdin's magic lamp, requiring a more indirect approach and a large amount of trust in the Universe.
The whole difference between creation and manifestation actually lies in the approach: in order to materialize something, you first need to recognize that you are a co-author of the Universe; as co-creators, we can create both with our own hands (action) and with the effort of our consciousness (intention). Manifestation is when we call something into existence consciously
intention. If you want to paint a picture, you not only have to sit down and imagine what it will look like in reality, you also have to pick up a brush; however, you can actually materialize another person's painting without lifting a finger.
You've probably heard that "when you're not looking for a relationship, it just appears." It is worth saying that this is true - in the sense that you do not need to force a relationship to appear in life, you do not need to “go out hunting”. In general, when you try
start a relationship, you will most likely get the opposite effect.
When it comes to manifesting relationships, it is important to clearly understand which actions
are useful for the cause, and which will repel the very thing you are striving for.
So, manifestation requires different actions
, rather than creation - here we are talking about inviting something into your life.
And here’s the thing: we all the time attract anything into our lives through our thoughts, and we engage in manifestation regardless of whether we are aware of it or not, and therefore, whether the result suits us or not. We attract everything good and bad into our lives ourselves
- according to the universal Law of Attraction.
Simply put, if you think positively, you will attract corresponding objects and phenomena into your life, and vice versa - negative thoughts will attract negativity. This is why “positive thinking” is considered an essential skill for achieving success in life. If you plunge into the abyss of “negative thinking,” this will lead to negative manifestations - attracting unwanted people, events, illnesses, accidents, etc.
You are a co-author of your life, whether you like it or not. You are free to accept this fact and learn to create, together with the Universe, the life you want. You are a wizard, and your consciousness is a magic wand that makes wishes come true, so it is better to learn how to use it than to become a victim of your own magical tool.
I'm intentionally emphasizing the concept of co-creation: you don't have to believe in God, fairies, or genies to manifest the relationship you want, but you do need to recognize that the Universe is in your favor and will work on your behalf. To attract positive things into your life, you need to
to be able to let go of the situation and get rid of fear, and trust in the Universe is an absolutely indispensable condition.
If you have difficulty letting go, then this condition becomes even more important; To mitigate the feeling of risk, you can always choose to trust the process of positive manifestation itself
or the Law of Attraction.
Eventually you will reach a stage where you will entrust your desires to something that will create and then give you what you asked for, and what to call this something: magic, the Universe, the Law of Attraction, the higher intelligence, the Creator, the Source or God - it doesn't really matter. But you need to consciously cultivate trust in this power in order to be able to effectively transform negative phenomena in your life into positive ones.
Mastering the skill of conscious manifestation requires spiritual development; This is especially true for those who, until recently, were victims of their ability to manifest and believed that life dealt them blow after blow. This is a deep misconception - the Creator always gives you what you ask for, although not always in the form and at the time that you consider appropriate. You need to learn how to ask for exactly what you need - and this requires trust.
♥ Twelve Principles of the Law of Attraction
1. The law of attraction operates on the energetic
level.
2. Everything is some form of energy, including your own body. Your thoughts, and especially the emotions associated with them
, are also a type of energy.
3. Energy vibrates at different levels and frequencies; positive – at higher levels, negative – at lower ones.
4. Energy is always attracted to other energy vibrating at the same frequency; like attracts like – positive energy attracts positive energy, and negative energy attracts negative energy.
5. The thoughts that visit you most often, as well as the emotions associated with them
, sooner or later will be embodied in physical reality: you are continuously participating in the creation of your own reality through the thoughts and
emotions associated with them
.
6. If your thoughts and emotions
are positive in nature, you automatically attract positive phenomena into your life.
7. Thoughts to which strong emotions are attached are a source of extremely powerful energy vibrations.
and will attract into your life what vibrates at the same level.
8. Our role in the creation of our lives is to broadcast mental/emotional energy, and the Universe responds to these broadcasts, materializing for us what we “asked for” at one or another frequency of energetic vibrations: if we ask for something positive By broadcasting positive vibrations, we receive positive manifestations in return.
9. When the Universe sends us something, we can choose to accept it or not.
10. A negative reaction to undesirable phenomena will not help eliminate them, but, on the contrary, will strengthen their position in our lives or attract even more similar phenomena, because in this case we broadcast more negativity to the Universe, as if asking them to send us even more troubles.
11. A conscious person is able to transform negative “unwillings” into positive “wants”
and broadcast them back to the Universe, thereby changing the quality of manifestation.
12. You can change your life with positive thoughts/emotions, as long as you don't get too attached to a specific outcome.
. Such attachment arises from fear, fear is a negative emotion, and any negativity will attract more and more negative manifestations. Thus, keeping an open mind about what the Universe will bring into our lives is absolutely necessary to obtain the desired results.
If you had any doubts about the absolute importance of positive thinking, then I hope that the above principles have finally convinced you. Positive thinking does not mean trying to put a good face on a bad game or the ability to “cope” with all the adversity that “evil fate” has brought upon you; this means the ability to see what has been accomplished with our
participating in negative manifestations in a more positive light and responding to them
with positive emotions
more positivity
in place of the negative . When you obsess over something unpleasant, you only attract more of the same or worse into your life.
This all sounds quite simple, and in fact it is, but this does not mean that putting this knowledge into practice is easy, especially when it comes to love and sexual relationships. We'll look at the manifestation process in more detail later, but for now, I encourage you to copy the 12 principles and post the list in a visible place so you can read it every day.
Even if you're already familiar with these principles, the list will serve as a good reminder of what to do when things aren't going your way.
The main deterrent
I mentioned earlier that I discovered information that was previously preventing me from attracting the relationships I wanted into my life, and now I am ready to share this information with you.
As we have already found out, we are all constantly engaged in manifestation, and the energy vibrating at certain frequencies that we broadcast into the Universe returns to us in the form of embodied manifestations. We also touched on the topic of mental energy and the emotions that enhance this energy. This information is essential to mastering the skills of conscious manifestation, because nothing prevents us from attracting what we want into our lives like negative emotions.
.
One guaranteed way to scare away the things we want in life is to focus on what we don't want or the negative emotions associated with that "not wanting." As you will see, sometimes we do this even when we think we are clearly communicating our needs to the Universe.
Knowing what you don't want is absolutely necessary; but this does not mean that you should not even pay attention to what you do not want - negative emotions will not be slow to give you a clear signal that you have lost your way. When things or events that we do not want appear in life, we tend to experience anger, irritation, discomfort, fear and disappointment; it is completely natural and even quite useful! By noticing the emergence of a negative feeling towards something “undesirable”, you can turn it around and understand what you really want. Unfortunately, this is not always possible, as the following story serves as an example.
At a friendly party, a woman meets a man, he invites her to meet sometime and takes her phone number. He calls her and they make an appointment at a bar. She arrives for a date ten minutes late, but the man is not at the bar. She sits down and decides that he must be stuck in traffic. A couple of minutes later she checks her phone - no messages. “It’s okay,” she thinks, “he’ll be here in a couple of minutes.”
About five more minutes pass, and the woman begins to feel awkward, sitting at the bar without ordering anything to drink, because she decided to wait for her boyfriend and let him treat her. She checks her phone again - silence. Now she’s starting to get angry: “Why doesn’t he at least call and say that he’s late?” Then she checks her diary - maybe she got the place or time wrong? She tries to reassure herself: “It’s only been ten minutes, don’t be paranoid, he could come here at any moment!” But the anger is growing; She’s furious at being kept waiting: “What if he doesn’t show up? What will I look like? How much longer should I wait? Maybe I should call him?” Now her anger and worry are obvious: “What a mess!” - she grumbles.
A few minutes later, still not sure she has the moral right to be so angry, she decides to order something to drink to keep herself occupied. She hesitates for a few more minutes, and at the very moment when she orders herself a drink, he appears, smiling widely, kisses her on the cheek, sits down next to her and says: “Just in time! A pint of beer please!”
She sighs with relief - at least he didn't "dump her" - and smiles back at him. He catches her off guard and she ends up paying for his beer. She is disappointed - she expected that he would want to treat her, and besides, he was late. He smiles, clearly thinking that everything is fine. She glances at the clock behind the counter - he is more than twenty minutes late. “Okay,” she consoles herself, handing him the beer, “maybe he just didn’t notice.”
For some people, punctuality is not a big deal, and for some women, buying a man a drink is completely acceptable. Perhaps someone will think that there is nothing special in this story - what is wrong with paying for a man at his request, despite the fact that he was twenty minutes late. However, for the heroine of this story, all this is definitely not what she would like. How do we know? But already on her first date with this guy, she was overwhelmed with negative emotions: because of the way he behaved, she felt strong anger, anxiety and self-doubt. When something makes you feel negative, that something is not what you want.
The heroine's anger at her boyfriend's lateness indicates that she does not need a man who cannot be relied upon. And her disappointment at the moment when he asked her to pay for the drink means that she is not interested in a man who is not ready to pay for himself and for the lady. If you turn this situation around, it becomes obvious through this woman's emotions that what she really wants is to find a reliable, attentive man who demonstrates these qualities by showing up on time, buying her drinks and generally trying to make her feel comfortable and comfortable. calmly.
There are several ways to respond to this situation, but ultimately the fact remains that this man is unlikely to be able to make her happy, and if she continues to date him, she is doomed to experience negative emotions on a regular basis. Our heroine could use this experience to better understand what she wants in order to attract something different into her life next time. However, here's what actually happened.
When the glasses are empty, the man offers to “repeat” at his own expense. Feeling much calmer compared to her recent strong emotions, she agrees. They start an interesting conversation about films that they both like, and the woman is quite happy - they have something in common, and it’s really interesting to be with him. As the evening ends, he walks her to the bus stop and tells her he'll call her sometime during the week. She heads home believing the date was a success and wondering if he will kiss her next time.
The next day, her friend calls her to ask how the date went. “I really like him! He was a little late and I had to pay for the first drink, but everything went great and he said he'd call! I think he likes me... and we like the same movies."
Friday comes, and he hasn't made himself known since they met on Sunday. He said he would call “sometime this week.” What does it mean? On the weekend? She cleared Saturday evening (just in case), but friends invited her to spend that evening with them, and she had to buy a ticket. She doesn't know what to do - go with friends or stay home and watch a movie if he doesn't call? Why didn't he call? He said “sometime during the week”, and now it’s the weekend! And she begins to feel angry again - this guy seems to be poorly mannered: “You don’t have to date me, it would just be nice to know whether he’s going to do it or not!”
The weekend comes and goes (friends manage to persuade her to buy a ticket: “You can always see each other at another time”). On Tuesday, at seven thirty in the evening, she receives a message: “What are your plans? Maybe a glass? - "Class! - she thinks. “This guy sure knows how to piss me off!” She is immediately overcome with indignation. “Now he wants me to drop everything and go have a drink with him! Rrrrr..."
She could have decided to meet him, despite her anger - after all, she really enjoyed being with him; she might even have a good time. But we already understand that this person will never make her happy, because when she is with him, she broadcasts negative vibrations
.
Would you be surprised to know that she constantly
attracts men like these? And that she, as a rule, continues to date them until her anger takes over, and then in despair she abandons them and licks her wounds for a long time?
What she doesn't understand is that by accepting what she doesn't want
and more
of what she doesn’t need
into her life This happens because with men who behave this way, she constantly experiences negative emotions, and all subsequent manifestations occur at the same low vibrations. When her patience comes to an end (because another guy “dumps” her too often), she angrily curses her unhappy female fate. And in a fit of this rage, she tells the world that she doesn’t need
a selfish pig, she needs a “
considerate
man”!
And at this moment she finally realizes her need, which she has largely sublimated all this time. This in itself is a remarkable discovery; what is not so remarkable is that she projects her awareness onto the world in a state of anger, that is, experiencing a negative emotion. And, as you may have guessed, negative emotions are a strong magnet for negative manifestations. If you remain in a negative emotional state, formulating your need, then the energy vibration will remain negative and will attract everything accordingly.
, even if you are fully confident that you are asking the Universe for what
you really want
.
Basic principles
1. Taking what you don't need
, you lower the frequency of your energetic vibrations.
2. And by telling the Universe what you need.
When you are in a negative emotional state, you only attract
more
of what you
don’t need
.
The thing is that your anger (or other negative emotion) is actually associated with something that you don’t want
, - you feel angry because you
don’t need
another unreliable man.
Therefore, as you can see, if you express your wish
in anger, then you are actually transmitting your
“unwillingness”
. And how many times have most of us spent time bemoaning yet another terrible date that didn't go the way we expected?
The same is true for other, less obvious emotions that are associated with our desires, but in fact are classified as “undesirable.”
things for us. Here is a list of some of the insidious experiences that actually hinder our desires:
• sadness and mourning;
• anxiety, excitement;
• yearning;
• demandingness.
In short, all of the above emotions arise from the belief that in order to feel better
, you need something specific, and this
“I want”
is actually a veiled
“I don’t want”
: you
don’t want
to feel bad, so
you want
something that will relieve you of unpleasant experiences.
To get what you really want, you must free your desire from any negative emotional vibrations.
This is why the manifestation of a wonderful relationship can play a cruel joke on many of us: it is so easy to succumb to negative emotions due to loneliness, problems in relationships, with men, in sex, in communication... or because of all of this combined! And the situation is further aggravated by the fact that often these experiences are suppressed and generally pushed out of consciousness. Our emotions can also confuse us, or even contradict each other. However, we need to be sure of one thing - that our emotions do not interfere with our actions and are not embodied in our relationships. Negative emotions are the biggest obstacle to achieving your desires, at least until you learn to benefit from them - and this is what my book is dedicated to.
The man of my dreams - Let's sniff
Do you know what the most erotic human organ is called? But no! It is called "vomeronasal". This very “vomeronasal organ” is capable of responding to tiny organic molecules, pheromones, emitted by the skin of the candidate for princes.
Pheromones inform the public about the readiness of their carrier for sex. This doesn't mean you have to constantly wiggle your nose like Nicole Kidman in The Witch - pheromones have virtually no odor.
When the potential object is within arm's reach, your most erotic organ will transmit the information where it is needed, that is, to the hypothalamus.
And the hypothalamus will give instructions for action - collapse languidly into his arms, passionately throw him onto the lawn, or proceed to the next object.
And you thought it was all about his whiskey-colored eyes?
About ten percent of men have special pheromones in their sweat that make them unusually attractive to women. “It smells like sex,” Carrie Bradshaw told her friends about her new acquisition in a purring voice.
The smell of sex, for all its sensuality and romance, has the most physiological origin - it is produced by the adrenal glands and is called “androsterone”.
Sweat with a high content of androsterone permeates the skin and hair of the lucky person and is caught even by girls with chronic sinusitis.
Obviously, every man of my dreams deep down hopes that he is one of this “hot ten”, otherwise how else to explain the disdain for deodorants and antiperspirants characteristic of such a strong and odorous sex.
A person receives ninety percent of information through vision and only ten percent through the remaining “sensors”: ears, tongue, fingertips, nose and vestibular apparatus. That is, only two percent remains for the sense of smell.
Considering that the nose is a vestigial relic of the past, nature is slowly curtailing its activities. Today we have about forty percent left, no more, of the olfactory capabilities that we originally possessed.
But just recently, our hairy ancestors received by smell all the information necessary for mating rituals: age, breeding status, health status, fertility, gastronomic preferences.
Now, from this entire set, we are able to determine, by sniffing well, only gastronomic preferences, and even then not always.
For example, the applicant’s love for Mediterranean cuisine, rich in onions and garlic, is easily determined. We can also calculate tribal status, and even then very indirectly.
So, the leader’s son smells like a limited edition eau de toilette from Issey Miyaki and Churchill cigars. And the hereditary plumber is a product of yeast fermentation.
• Laboratory work
Steal his shirt under a plausible pretext. For example, generously undertake to quietly sew back a button that you tore off. Sniffing the object directly does not provide an objective picture due to many distracting factors.
Lightly sniff the shirt. Only without fanaticism - frequent active snooping is practiced by yogis and pursues a completely different goal. If you perceive the smell as unpleasant or even repulsive, move on to another candidate.
If the smell seems neutral or exciting, move on to the next step. If the smell of the shirt makes your knees weak and butterflies flutter in your stomach, move on to tactile exploration of the original source.
It is unknown whether you can live happily ever after and die on the same day, but your sex should be excellent.
Solution three.
The man of my dreams - Kissing
The first kiss in recognizing Prince Charming is such an important event that I would recommend recording it in a special diary.
During the first kiss, you must determine: the acidity of saliva, the condition of the teeth, the presence of gastritis, analyze the compatibility of your bacteria, find out how the hormonal system of the applicant functions, and take many more macro- and microbiological parameters.
It would be logical, in principle, to begin any acquaintance with an attractive man with a lingering kiss. This would immediately remove many interpersonal problems.
Romeo and Juliet, for example, switched to this compatibility test at the very first meeting, taking advantage of the fact that Father Capulet was saving on candles. And what? Literally three minutes later, Juliet received a biological blessing from her body to marry this sweet, unfamiliar young man.
True, it turned out to be more difficult to come to an agreement with Father Capulet, which is why the whole story came out. But the love worked to the death, and impressionable Shakespeare scholars weep over it to this day. This is what proper selection means!
An excellent example of a methodologically competent first kiss is demonstrated in the film “Hitch’s Methods of Seduction.” A funny guy, whom Hitch teaches the art of pleasing women, kisses the girl of his dreams, Allegra, for the first time.
Both take a position strictly opposite each other, stretch their lips into a tube and carefully touch with these proboscis. A second pause. The characters' brains are feverishly processing the information received. There is contact!
The lovers carefully embrace, the audience breathes a sigh of relief. Hollywood producers are generally experts in this matter - every year they release an average of 2,500 scenes with kisses. Watch and learn.
Interesting fact: if during a kiss one of the partners closes his eyes all the time, it is possible that he is myopic. The eye of a nearsighted person is designed like a microscope - it cannot see anything in the distance, but up close it is capable of much.
In particular, consider all your spots, comedones, nevi, genmangiomas, as well as layers of powder and blush. No, it’s better to close your eyes and not be distracted.
People with normal vision see only fuzzy lines and roundness, without nuances, and usually kiss with their eyes wide open. But now you know that he wears contact lenses.
Determining a person’s personal qualities by the technique of his kiss is described in “A Thousand and One Nights.” Currently, it has been improved and supplemented by the series “First Kisses”.
It is believed that quick, dry, intermittent contacts of lips are characteristic of intuitive introverts, and prolonged and slobbering ones are characteristic of sensory extroverts. Aggressive and assertive kisses speak of the kisser’s inferiority complex, since they compensate for his lack of confidence in his own sexual attractiveness.
But slow, enveloping kisses, on the contrary, are evidence of your hero’s stormy personal life. He is confident in himself, and there is no hurry for him, your claw is already stuck anyway. However, physiology does not have sufficient empirical data to make final conclusions on this complex issue.
• Laboratory work
Send the candidate a signal that you are ready for a kiss. You can read about how this is done in men's magazines.
Main methods:
- slowly stroke the stem of the glass;
- swing the shoe, pointing it at the object of interest;
- thoughtfully trace the outline of your lips with your finger;
- and a particularly good technique is to demonstratively irrigate the oral cavity with a breath freshener. Do a series of kisses.
Better in several approaches. Don't forget to alternate kisses with breathing exercises to avoid asphyxia. If you enjoyed kissing him and think it would be nice to continue in a more suitable environment, move on to the next step.
If after the first kiss you politely shook hands and ran to spit, move on to the next candidate. If you can't remember any sensations because you fainted with happiness, move on to the marriage ceremony.
Solution four.
Acknowledgments
I'd like to thank all the amazing women who were part of the How to Meet the Man of Your Dreams group: Sarah, Chris, Alison, Andrea, Emma, Sam, Tracey, Katherine and Anna - thank you for believing in this book for so long before a publisher appeared on the horizon! Thank you for trusting the process and sharing your experience with me. I dedicate this book to you and all the strong women who have inspired and supported me on my personal journey.
Thanks to V for introducing her to Carolyn, and to Carolyn for suggesting she work with O Books... And thanks to John for saying yes!
Thank you Mum, Vi, Alison and Emma for your compassion and support.
Finally, I would like to thank all the men I have dated and loved, especially Howard, Regis, Matt and James - thanks to you, I was able to heal my wounds and learn to love myself. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have written this book...
The man of my dreams - Playing games
I have a good friend, brought up on the romantic ballads of French trouvères, who dreams of an immaculate bride, the first wedding night and the solemn act of defloration of the newlywed.
He is ready to fulfill all the obligations “in health and in sickness, in richer and in poorer” given at the altar, and deeply respects the commandment “thou shalt not commit adultery.” He's damn handsome, healthy and rich.
But at thirty-five he is still single. It’s not that there are no virgins in the country who are convinced that there can be no sex before marriage.
Although this is also a problem. My suspicious friend does not worry that his young wife may not suit him in bed, and then he will have to live with it until the final phrase: “And they died on the same day.”
From an anatomical point of view, representatives of different sexes are almost always compatible. Nature, interested in mixing genetic material, took care of this carefully. And size, as you know, does not matter.
The main thing is that your dear friend does not moonlight as a eunuch in a Middle Eastern harem or a soloist in a Vatican choir; otherwise, you can always find a common language.
It’s not so important whether he quotes the Kama Sutra in the original language (the translators, as it recently turned out, screwed up something big there) and whether he can find the G-spot using the blind ten-finger method. Performance technique is important in classical ballet, but in sex, amateurism is valued much higher than professionalism.
You can put up with his inevitable post-coital cigar, which makes your nose itch. With the habit of falling asleep immediately after ejaculation, instead of finally having a heart-to-heart talk. Even heroic snoring, which makes the chandeliers ring, is not a reason to consider that you are incompatible in bed.
But if under his pillow there is “Venus in Fur” or the poems of the Marquis de Sade, read to the holes, the further development of events may turn out to be much more interesting than you planned when trying on a pink negligee trimmed with swan's down.
Barbie with a whip and handcuffs is a violation of the unity of style. You cannot harness the Horse and the Trembling Hind to the same cart. People are known to almost always play games.
And the most interesting of them do not take place on the Internet, and certainly not on the football field, but in bed. The ideal couple consists of play partners: Gray Wolf and Little Red Riding Hood, Beauty and the Beast, Humbert and Lolita, Mr. Butler and Miss O'Hara. All you have to do is find a game that would be fun for both of you to play.
• Laboratory work
Go to the “Everything for Adults” store together. Go to different ends of the sales floor, making an appointment at the cash register, and select accessories for the hundredth anniversary night. Having met at the appointed place, compare the contents of the baskets.
If the purpose of the objects in his basket is unknown to you, but their appearance intrigues and excites the imagination, perhaps tonight you will finally find out everything about your man that you wanted to know, but were afraid to ask.
The main thing is that there is nothing in your basket that he sees for the first time. Otherwise, he may have a natural question: how do you know about all these things?
If his basket contains three packs of condoms, and yours is full of all sorts of funny gadgets and toys, then you have come across a chaste and shy specimen.
You can adjust this in the evening. If his basket is mostly XXX movies and funny magazines, while yours is mostly lingerie and perfume, you need to have a serious conversation about your relationship.
Maybe they have already exhausted themselves? If the contents of your baskets are the same, you are on your way to the title of “ideal couple.”
Introduction
A man must find a good woman, and when he finds her, he must win her love. He must then earn her respect and then gain her trust. And then he needs to continue to do all this throughout their entire life together... A real man is one who managed to win the love of a good woman, earn her respect and maintain her trust. Until you achieve this, you are not a man.
From the book "Shantaram" by Gregory David Roberts (excerpt from a real conversation between two men)
Have you ever dreamed of something more?
in love? Will you pass up the chance to have a serious relationship only if the right person is found? If your answer is yes, then this book is for you.
Perhaps you were always ready to accept Mr. “one night stand” because the ability to “pick up” any man pleases your vanity? Or perhaps you have been alone for a long time and no longer hope to meet a decent man? Well, everything can be changed! If you often feel this way, this book will help you find optimism and provide you with everything you need to attract truly serious relationships into your life.
What if you are already in a relationship? Perhaps you think your relationship could use a little tweaking... or maybe you need some help figuring out who's your "charmed dream man" or Mr. "No, thank you"? Although this book is primarily aimed at single women, if you are in the early stages of a relationship or perhaps contemplating ending it, you will also find plenty of advice to help you make your decision. You will learn to accurately assess the quality of your relationships and understand what you need to do for yourself while working on your relationship with your man.
Whether you're Miss "Oh my god, I can't believe why is this happening to me again?" or just Miss “just looking”, if you are a woman who is truly interested in a wonderful relationship with a loving man, then you have got the right book in your hands.
The purpose of this book is to teach you how to attract into your life what you really want in love.
The man of my dreams - To help those who doubt
The movement of bodies in the sky determines events on Earth. This axiom is five thousand years old. Order a professional astrologer to calculate your horoscopes. You will need the exact time and place of birth of the applicant.
And your data, of course. Just don’t kill yourself: “Oh, he’s an Aries, and I’m a Virgo - we’ll never be happy!”
All signs are compatible with each other, if there is a desire. The astrologer will also tell you how to build relationships correctly so that the stars will favor you.
The probability of hitting the bull's eye is fifty percent or higher. Amateur activity is not appropriate here, even if you have read all of Linda Goodman's books. Some universities take nine years to become an astrologer.
The science of socionics claims that all people belong to certain types, a total of sixteen. And this type remains unchanged throughout life. Each type can exist harmoniously only in pairs with a representative of another type, which is called a “dual.”
There is an International Institute of Socionics in Kyiv, which will probably not refuse to help a poor girl.
A socionic professional will determine your own psychotype and determine what your ideal partner will be. Moreover, in all anatomical details - physique, eye color, voice modulation, etc.
All you have to do is arm yourself with this description and use it on the ground. If you can handle it, read the book “The Dual Nature of Man” by the founder of socionics Aushra Augusinavichiute.
Numerology is based on the fact that the number of your name or the name of your chosen one carries certain information. And each number has a certain vibration. Some vibrations reinforce each other, some, on the contrary, cancel each other.
Dates of birth and the digital code encrypted in the name of the place where each of you was born are also significant. Phone number, passport and in general all the numbers that you regularly encounter. In general, solid metaphysics.
A digital system by which one can determine the characteristics of a person’s personality was developed by Pythagoras, a completely respected person. So you can read either the works of the great Greek or the fascinating book by Vladimir Polyakov “Astro-esoteric healing and cardinal astropsychology” (just don’t take it to the beach) and start doing the calculations.
