Sexologists and psychologists, studying problems in family life, have come to the conclusion that couples who do not practice oral sex are more susceptible to conflicts and disagreements than partners who are ready to appreciate all the delights of sex. Oddly enough, even living in the 21st century, when it has become common to talk about sex, the process is not considered “dirty” or forbidden, but on the contrary, an excellent opportunity to get pleasure and a positive charge, the problem of oral sex in a couple remains quite scarce. Excellent techniques, interesting techniques, as well as a variety of poses and available objects will help you surprise your man, bringing him to the peak of pleasure.
What we need to know about blowjob
Why do guys like this type of caresses so much? In my entire sexual life, I met only one man who did not like blowjobs, and he had good reasons for this; nature was too generous to him, and it was simply impossible to give a proper blowjob. In all other cases, as soon as the conversation turned to oral sex, the men’s gazes began to dreamily rush into the distance, and their members took a stable position, calling them to kneel down and open their mouths slightly.
As soon as the conversation turns to oral sex, men's gazes dreamily rush into the distance
Most men really like a proper blowjob (especially if it is done well and with imagination), but besides this, there are other reasons to treat this type of caresses with great tenderness. First of all, aesthetic pleasure. When a beautiful girl removes her hair, kneels down in front of a man, licks her lips and presses them against an elastic, hot penis, it’s really beautiful and very exciting.
Another aspect is the deep archetypal subtext. It would seem that pleasing a man with your mouth is submission, but I think every girl who feels how to properly suck a penis remembers this feeling of power over a man, because literally with one movement of a sharp and skillful tongue we can make a guy moan.
After all, literally with one movement of a sharp and skillful tongue we can make a guy moan
Secret sides of blowjob or facts you didn't know about
They started talking about sex, but, alas, not all women want to give a blowjob. According to statistics, only half of the fair half of humanity gets pleasure and loves to bring this pleasure to their man with the help of their oral skills. It’s even worse: 20% of women agree to a blowjob at the request of their partner, 18% do not like this process and try in every possible way to avoid it, and 10% of girls are categorically inclined, considering this caresses their humiliation. At the same time, 73% of the stronger sex prefer the former between blowjob and traditional sex.
Note to men! Blowjob is a great way of manipulation and ladies, as it turns out, know about it. Among the women surveyed, 90% of them admitted that at least once in their life they resorted to oral sex with their partner for selfish purposes, for example, to get that coveted ring or a new dress.
Spit or swallow? The question is almost as important as Shakespeare’s “to be or not to be?” Statistics also answer this question: only 18% of women swallow sperm, the rest prefer to spit it out for various reasons. For some, the taste is simply not pleasant, for others, sperm in the mouth causes a gag reflex, for others it is a psychological barrier, etc.
How about a “royal blowjob”? Only 15% of women have the technique of swallowing or deep, guttural blowjob, but it’s never too late to learn; we’ll talk about several subtleties of this technique a little further. By the way, 60% of men do not consider an accidental blowjob to be cheating on their beloved.
Blowjob on the first date? Of course, the opinions of men and women here differed. 76% of men were not averse to receiving such pleasure, but 23% of girls were ready to give them such pleasure. Oral sex in a public toilet, locker room, elevator, car and other extreme places is most often practiced in England, the USA and Italy. A little more than 20% of women do it regularly.
Are there any men who don’t like fellatio on their penis? Oddly enough, yes, about 10% of the stronger sex belongs to this category. The reason may lie in different things, perhaps the partner is embarrassed, others do not accept cunnilingus, so they refuse a blowjob, fearing that she will ask for mutual caresses, or there are simply ladies who are completely unfamiliar with blowjob techniques.
The basis of proper blowjob
Naturally, both you and your partner should want this. Of course, games with coercion and irrationality are very attractive, but today we are talking about something else. What makes up a proper blow job? Let's list:
- Mutual desire
- Suitable conditions
- Blowjob technique
- Involvement in the process
What is meant by desire? Both of you should want to have oral sex, you should feel aroused, but an erection in a man is completely optional. In the end, as soon as you run your gentle tongue over the penis and squeeze the head with your lips, it will become elastic, and with every movement you will feel how it gets stronger and stronger.
Suitable conditions may vary, the main thing is that both you and your man feel comfortable. Some people think that the perfect blowjob is only possible in your own bedroom, but I don’t see anything wrong with fooling around in an elevator or even in a car. If you want to give a guy a proper blowjob outside of your bedroom, make sure you have wet wipes on hand; sucking a clean dick is much more pleasant.
I’ll talk about the blowjob technique in more detail later, but for now let’s try to figure out what involvement in the process is. Imagine that you are massaging your beloved man’s penis with your tongue and relaxing your throat so that he can go even deeper, while your man is playing Angry Birds. Not much fun, right? In the same way, a man does not want to see that you are bored with blowing. Maintain your enthusiasm, enjoy the process, the taste and smell of a hot, excited penis, your power over it and, of course, the pleasure that you give the guy with your actions.
Opportunity to tune in or relax7
Much less frequently, but still there are cases when a man cannot start classic sex without first “warming up”. In order to be fully aroused, he needs active stimulation of the penis not only with his hand, but also with his mouth. At such moments, the partner relaxes, fatigue, fear, stress and other factors that impede erection go far into the background. And the man gains confidence in his abilities.
Also, a blowjob is an excellent option for a little rest in the middle of sexual intercourse. Or between position changes. Or closer to the end. Each couple decides for themselves which of the possible options they like best.
Based on the above, it becomes clear why men love oral sex.
What position is most comfortable?
If you are thinking about how to give a blowjob correctly, then most likely you are also interested in the position. How to properly perform oral sex and enjoy it?
- The simplest position is when the man stands and the girl kneels in front of him. In this position it is very easy to control the depth of insertion, and the rhythm is well felt - you just need to sway and work diligently with your tongue.
- The man lies on his back, and the girl settles between his legs - you will have to turn around a little to find the position in which it will be comfortable for you to suck.
- The classic position 69 needs some comment? If you don’t know how to perform oral sex correctly, or are afraid of not being able to cope, or have doubts, this is the best position. In this position, the partner enjoys not only the caresses given to him, but also his own, which he gives to his partner. Accordingly, any flaws will be completely invisible.
Of course, you can position yourself perpendicular to the man, or even stand on the bridge and give a blowjob just like that, but all this has virtually no effect on the quality and technique of the blowjob, so such tricks are best left for home videos and hot photo shoots.
Blow job. Basic techniques.
It's no secret that not a single sexual act today takes place without oral sex. Oral stimulation is of great importance in the intimate life of every person. Both men and women prefer to receive it, as well as give it. Oral sex, at some points, has ceased to even be an addition to traditional sex; it has become a full-fledged, independent sexual act. Below we will try to understand one of the areas of oral caresses such as blowjob . After all, in order to give a man an unforgettable experience, every girl must know the basics and techniques of blowjob, as well as understand in which area of the penis the most sensitive erogenous points are concentrated.
What is blowjob in sex?
In general, blowjob involves stimulating the partner’s hollow penis using the lips, tongue and oral cavity. As mentioned above, blowjob can be both foreplay and an independent act. For a man, it plays a huge role in a man’s sex life, helps him get a good release and is extremely relaxing. It can be divided into two main types: irrumation and fellatio . Irrumation involves active movements of a man, reminiscent of thrusts during vaginal sex, the girl’s mouth in this case performs the function of the vagina, and the partner’s head remains static. Fellatio, on the contrary, allows a man to relax and take the position of an observer, in this case, all responsibility lies with the woman and, just this type, requires certain skills and a small theoretical basis.
For a man, a blowjob is, first of all, an anti-stress remedy, and it goes without saying how it improves activity and performance. During a blowjob, a man receives pleasure incomparable to other types of sex. Stimulation of the penis occurs through the tongue and lips; a girl is able to precisely examine the penis and find the most significant zones for a man and focus her attention on them. Definitely, a blowjob given by an inexperienced partner will give a man a good mood, and if you prepare and show off your knowledge and technique, the orgasm will be simply at the highest level with powerful ejaculation, mild convulsions and a short-term loss of speech for the man.
Of course, there are representatives of the fairer sex who disdain this type of oral sex, and this is wrong.
Firstly : it helps a woman to become well aroused, because such a connection with a man cannot take place without the release of natural lubrication.
Secondly : this allows you to relax and completely trust each other, which in turn will remove unnecessary embarrassment and complexes from the couple.
Thirdly : a blowjob will allow a woman to study her partner with maximum accuracy and understand his preferences.
Fourth : do not forget about sperm, which, in some way, has beneficial properties, containing mineral components that are beneficial for the female body.
Accordingly, all of the above can only happen if hygiene is observed and is beneficial only in healthy couples!
But in order for a man to have, after oral sex, not only a good mood, but also pleasure with complete satisfaction, the girl needs to know several basic nuances and basic techniques:
- The main part of the erogenous points is concentrated in the head of the penis, but this does not mean at all that there is no need to stimulate the shaft. Men love not just stimulation of the shaft, but stimulation right down to the very base of the penis. Therefore, you should not focus your attention only on the head.
- From point number one it follows that the depth of immersion of the penis into the oral cavity also plays an important role. Thus, complete stimulation occurs from head to base and this is called “throat blowjob” and it is also one of the most popular, productive and difficult to perform. Requires certain skills and training.
- The pace at which stimulation occurs plays an important role in achieving the goal. A man needs intensity. You should start foreplay with gentle and leisurely caresses, and gradually speed up the process, increasing excitement, which will immediately lead to orgasm. The most important thing is to observe your partner’s reactions and adjust the intensity of movements to suit them.
- Experiments also have their meaning, a feather, ice or gentle tickling, all these attributes can increase arousal. And what a variety of positions when performing a blowjob...
- Important! The penis is a very delicate organ with very thin skin, so girls should pay close attention to the accuracy of execution. Sudden, awkward movements, teething and the like, can cause pain instead of the expected pleasure.
- Under no circumstances should a girl show her disgust to her partner during a blowjob; this will be a strong insult and can develop an unnecessary complex in a man. Therefore, if there are internal contradictions, then you need to either get rid of them or not start at all, but it is better to discuss all the unpleasant moments “on the shore” and try to solve the problem together.
- The testicles are also a sensitive area; they can be massaged with your hands, caressed with your lips and tongue, but this should be done very delicately and gently!
What is throat blowjob?
The most complex and, as a result, the most high-quality technique is the throat blowjob technique, also called deep. This is the highest degree of skill, as it carries enormous pleasure, ending with the strongest orgasm for a man. This technique is also complicated in that it literally involves penetration of the penis into the partner’s throat, which entails a gag reflex that must be overcome. To a certain extent, the gag reflex is just a psychological barrier that you just need to cope with. It is also important to learn how to properly relax your throat and breathe. When inserted into the mouth, the penis, having reached the throat, will rest against it and will not go further, no matter how hard the partner tries to push it, the girl at this moment needs to relax her throat, as if trying to swallow and at the same time, it is important, breathe deeply through her nose, trying not to pay attention to the vomiting spasm that was trying to form. Here you need to catch this feeling once or twice, when the penis is already in the throat and understand that there is nothing terrible, everything is fine, breathe through your nose and then train your skills, each time allowing your partner to engage in oral sex more intensely and more deeply sex. At the same time, you need to remember about your teeth, trying to cover them with your lips so as not to injure them. Realistically shaped dildos are perfect for training; they come in a huge range of different sizes and shapes, so that every girl can choose the right option for herself. For more enjoyable workouts, you can use a dildo with edible water-based lubricant, which are also available in different volumes and different flavors.
Don't train on a banana!!! If a piece of banana breaks off and gets stuck in your throat, you can experience a very uncomfortable sensation that can end in disaster. Don't skimp on your health!!!
It is also necessary to choose the right comfortable position. For example, the most basic one is when a man stands and a girl sits, either on her knees in front of him or on her haunches, the main thing is to adjust the height so that the oral cavity and throat line up approximately in one line, then the penis can easily penetrate, and the girl, in this position, it will be easy to control the intensity of movements and depth. If we are talking about irrumation, then this is, of course, lying on the bed on your back, with your head slightly hanging down from the bed, but this is for more experienced couples who have learned to feel each other, and the girl knows how to control her throat without fear of the gag reflex.
What is contrast blowjob?
This type of blowjob involves alternating hot and cold and is based on the effect of temperature difference. It occurs in two stages, which are repeated sequentially one after another. The first stage: the girl drinks a warm drink, tea or coffee and immediately takes the penis in her mouth and makes several movements, then the second stage: a sharp change in temperature, from hot to cold, for this purpose ice or ice cream is used and the same is done, and so on for several repetitions.
Do not use boiling water to avoid getting burned; the skin of the penis is very thin and delicate and can simply react to a warm drink; there is no need to try to make it scalding hot. If you change the temperature from maximally hot to very cold, it will have a bad effect on your tooth enamel and microcracks may appear.
What is vacuum blowjob?
This is no less popular than throat blowjob. Vacuum blowjob can bring a man to orgasm in the shortest possible time. Its essence is simple: sucking movements are made, tightly clasped lips deeper and deeper and so on until there is a slide from the testicles to the head. In this case, the air in the mouth will be expelled through the nose, and new air will not enter there; a suction effect will be created, which in turn will create an additional rush of blood to the head of the penis. This is reminiscent of a vacuum pump, only in the case of a vacuum blowjob, the overexcited shaft and head of the penis, with increased blood circulation, receive stimulation from the lips from forward movements. This allows a man to cum as quickly as possible and get strong sensations that are incomparable to anything else. For girls, you need to understand that the finale will definitely be in the mouth and do not interfere with this in any way, so as not to knock the man out of the right mood and not to stop the approaching orgasm. After the sperm fills the oral cavity, you should not stop, but it is better to slow down the pace and continue more gently and smoothly. Additional manual stimulation is possible in the area of the base and testicles.
What is a velvet blowjob?
By and large, it resembles the most delicate vaginal sex. The partner's teeth are covered with her lips and she makes forward movements. The easiest to perform and the most basic version of blowjob. For those who want to start, it is very suitable. It’s better to start with kissing and licking, gradually moving on to moving your lips along the shaft of the penis.
How to persuade a girl to give a blowjob?
The most common option is a frank conversation, and the most effective is to start doing oral sex first, give her an unforgettable cunnilingus!
Where to begin
Do not forget that blowjob is not simple kissing, but real sex (albeit oral), which means that everything should happen the same way. Start with leisurely caresses, excite your man and play with him. Do you like striptease? Why not dance! Do you love long foreplay? Press yourself against his fly with all your hot and sweet spots in turn, so that he feels how hot you are and how much you want to touch his penis, and only when you understand that it is very difficult for both you and your man to restrain yourself, proceed to climax.
To give the perfect blowjob, you need plenty of lube
To give a perfect blowjob, you will need enough lubrication; this can be your own lubricant (when aroused, the head of the penis is moistened), your saliva, or special lubricant from the nearest pharmacy. Moisten the penis well, I prefer to do this with my tongue and fingers, but each girl has her own style and then, looking into the eyes, focus on the penis. Cover the head with your lips, run your tongue from the base to the frenulum and try to lick the balls thoroughly (by the way, some people like it when a girl’s tongue reaches the most secluded places after the scrotum).
Remember a few simple rules:
- The teeth should be tightly covered with the lips
- The tongue should alternately be tense, extended and relaxed.
- You should either move your whole body or just shake your head, preferably without stopping the movement
The described blowjob technique is the simplest, here it is suggested to act according to inspiration, but what to do if inspiration is the problem?
Ice cream technique
Take his penis in your hand, squeeze it slightly at the base and press it to your lips while still closed, then taste the frenulum, and run your entire tongue from the base to the penis several times, pulling in the head at the last stage. Suck it gently, like a melted popsicle, or even lick it with pressure, the main thing is not to stop. By the way, you can help yourself with your hand, do not forget to stimulate his friend at the very base, and I also advise you to lick your fingers and caress his testicles and anus.
Cat blowjob technique
Have you seen how cats drink milk? Proper blowjob in this technique involves constant back-and-forth movements (yes, like during sex back and forth) with your mouth and tongue, starting from your boyfriend’s crotch and ending with the head of his erect penis. If you don't have puritanical views (I hope I've already dispelled them?), start caressing the anus with your tongue and slowly move towards the frenulum, without changing the pace and ensuring maximum contact of the tongue with its sweetest places.
Blowjob technique Change of scenery
In fact, technically it could be any kind of blowjob, the main role here is played by the scenery, the environment. Bring a touch of passion into your relationship; variety excites the blood and enhances any sensations, including pleasant ones. So, how to properly suck a guy with a fantasy:
- Do it in an unexpected place, suddenly - ask him to cook you breakfast and while he is busy with coffee and scrambled eggs, give him some pleasure in the car in the parking lot or in the office
- Give a man the right blowjob when it is important for him to keep his face - for example, when he is having an important conversation on the phone or Skype
- Give an unexpected and correct blowjob to a man aggressively, as if you are raping him with your mouth - you are guaranteed a lot of unexpected impressions
Unusual blowjob technique with voice acting
Perhaps every girl has tried to moan during a blowjob. The perfect blowjob implies pleasure for both participants, but I don’t mean just ordinary moaning. Use sound as an instrument; the light vibrations created by the air passing through your vocal cords are felt well by the member. Try inhaling and exhaling noisily when you give the perfect blowjob with voice acting, try moaning very loudly, and if your guy is loyal to experiments, you can try singing or laughing a little while your throat is tightly wrapped around his dick. Both of you will experience new experiences, and it will be much easier to bring a man to orgasm with your mouth.
How to suck properly with a vacuum effect
Many men like it when a woman gives a proper vacuum blowjob, but there is a common mistake: a woman tries to take the entire penis into her mouth, which is almost impossible to do with this blowjob technique. Therefore, you should not attempt the impossible, create a vacuum with your mouth and pull the penis into your mouth approximately to the middle, it should barely touch the tonsils, and then start moving in the opposite direction, carefully pulling it out of your mouth, but without reducing the feeling of the vacuum. As a result, in addition to stimulation by the tongue, palate and lips, tension will also affect the penis. Continue this way, gradually speeding up and putting your mouth on his penis faster and faster, your man will moan with pleasure and will soon experience an orgasm.
No unnecessary worries2
During normal sex, a man may be bothered by many questions. Is his dick big enough? Does sexual intercourse last too long? Will he be able to satisfy his partner? As a result, the man cannot fully relax. Another thing is a blowjob. After all, now he doesn’t need to bother his head with unnecessary questions and can just calmly enjoy himself. And the orgasm will come at the time when it is needed. And no one will be upset if this happens very quickly.
Eastern practices
There are various oriental practices, lessons on how to do blowjobs correctly, and self-instruction books by oriental authors will tell you in full. I will just mention a few of the most popular techniques and tell you how to properly perform oral sex with an oriental flavor.
Butterfly wings are a popular blowjob technique; its essence lies in the fact that there is a special place on the penis approximately two or three fingers away from the head; Eastern treatises call this place the crown of the penis. Stimulate it with light taps of your tongue and swirl your mouth as you pass this area, and your man will flutter just like the wings of butterflies.
Fire and Ice is an interesting blowjob technique. Many girls are interested in how to properly give a guy a blowjob with an ice cube, but I am of the opinion that not everyone likes ice, so try to understand how to give the perfect blowjob with a slight chill and heat. So, you'll need something to warm you up and something to cool you down.
You can take regular tea or coffee as a warming agent, or you can experiment with strong alcohol. Here you just put a little liquid in your mouth and start a blowjob, do it the way you like, but try to warm up the entire penis and even a little testicles, try running your warm tongue over the perineum so you will also involve the prostate in the process. And then you need to put something cooling in your mouth, such as a drop of peppermint mouthwash or extra mints (those that soothe your throat when you have a cold). The man will feel a slight burning sensation, and then at the same time heat and cold, the high menthol content will give a slight anesthetic effect (you can use this for the throat blowjob technique), and this is where you need to be on guard, as soon as you are sure that the menthol has worked, make an effort and do The end of the blowjob is simply enchanting!
The throat blowjob technique using oriental oils also deserves attention. Oils help to warm up the penis, and also relax the throat and ensure a more comfortable sliding of the penis in the larynx. By the way, this deep blowjob technique involves slow movements.
The benefits and harms of oral sex4
Any intimacy is a potential threat if certain rules are not followed. But it is also capable of delivering more pleasure than classic sex.
The benefit of oral intimacy is that the psychological barrier is removed. Partners express trust in each other by engaging in this type of pleasure. For men, oral sex is more useful for spiritual harmony, for women it is more beneficial for health. Calories are burned here, which is a major plus for those who are overweight. If the partner is healthy and has not consumed alcohol, fatty or salty foods for a week, then his sperm is simply a godsend for beauties.
The fact is that ejaculate is considered the best mask for the skin. It is not recommended to use it in its pure form, as the product is too concentrated; it is better to mix it with moisturizer or egg white. Internal sperm is also useful. It contains a lot of useful microelements and vitamins. In addition, sperm strengthens the gums. Another benefit is that it is impossible to get pregnant during oral sex. A major plus for those who do not want an unwanted pregnancy.
Harm in oral sex can only be from a medical point of view, when one of the partners has life-threatening diseases, such as HIV, AIDS, syphilis, herpes and others. No harm was identified in other aspects. Here you don’t even need to brush your teeth first, it’s enough to prevent your gums from bleeding. Having studied all the oral sex courses, everyone can surprise their partner with their skills.
Read more information about sex courses in our article.
Deep Throat
I’m more than sure that more than half of the girls started reading this text to learn how to do a deep blowjob correctly. Several decades have passed since Linda Lovelace brought this technique to the big screen, but some still wonder how to do a throat blowjob correctly, what is important for it, and how it is actually done physiologically.
Men have an almost subconscious desire to shove their hard penis deeper into us
Why do you need to be able to do this? In fact, a proper blowjob is not necessarily deep, but men have an almost subconscious desire to shove their hard penis deeper into us, and in most cases it doesn’t matter to them which hole it goes into. A proper blowjob called deep throat is beautiful and men like it, and I’ll also tell you a secret that this type of caresses is not available to many women, and a girl who has mastered it is a rarity. Therefore, at the very least, it’s worth trying to understand how to do a throat blowjob correctly, what if you’re that rare person who finds it easy and enjoyable?
How to do deep blowjob correctly:
- Control your gag reflex
- Don't forget to breathe
- Relax your throat as much as possible
- Move as much as possible with your body, rather than bending your neck (if your partner has a large penis, then bending your neck is very uncomfortable)
The gag reflex is pure physiology; our body believes that large objects caught in the throat threaten your life, and reflexively tries to get rid of it. Means what? That's right, you need to get used to the fact that an object lodged in the throat is safe and pleasant. Train, train and train, there is no other way. Explain to your boyfriend that you are trying to learn how to give a blowjob correctly, lessons will be provided to you. However, if the guy is very persistent, and you have a hard time learning, buy a dildo, preferably a realistic one, and let it match the size of your regular partner’s penis (or slightly exceed it). And then get used to holding the penis as deep as possible in your mouth, and periodically inserting it into the throat. It will be great if your workouts are associated with physiological pleasure for you, try sucking this thing when you caress yourself with your fingers or a vibrator, put it deeper in your mouth when your boyfriend gives you cunnilingus. Over time, you will overcome the gag reflex and will be able to take really big dicks into your tender throat.
Breathing is an important component of throat blowjob. Guys, admit it, you like it when your dick prevents us from breathing? However, it is important not to overdo it here. How to do a deep blowjob correctly and remember to breathe? Catch the rhythm and breathe through your nose and mouth at the same time, after a couple of frictions you will understand at what moment you need to take in air and when you can exhale.
A relaxed throat in the first stages is very important; if you tense up, you risk saying goodbye to this blowjob technique forever. The fact is that if at the very beginning of your experiments with deep blowjob you get sharply negative sensations - fear of suffocation, severe pain, serious injuries - then during the next attempts your neck will treacherously shrink. You shouldn’t let it come to this, ask your partner to treat you with care, and be less nervous yourself; after all, it’s just an excited penis, shouldn’t you know how to deal with it?
The correct posture will also help you relax.
Many manuals recommend lying on the bed and hanging your head so that your mouth, throat and larynx form one line. Oh yeah!
Only all these manuals completely do not take into account the fact that the girl remains completely in a passive position and cannot control the depth of entry, speed, or angle of entry of the penis. At first, this position should be practiced only if you are sure that with the brightest sensations, your partner will not lose his head and will not fuck you hard in the throat. Experts (yes, I think it’s logical to listen to girls who practice deep throat every day) recommend how to properly do a throat blowjob on your knees, with a straight back, slightly raising your chin and moving your jaw forward.
And of course, don’t forget about the impression.
How to do a throat blowjob correctly? Sexy, hot and passionately different and not worth taking on this business
Feel free to involve your hands in the process. You shouldn’t turn a blow job into an act of masturbation for your partner, but there’s no need to completely exclude your hands; evolution has spent too much time making our hands so dexterous and skillful. Caress the man while his shaft drills into your throat, stroke his hips and belly, dig your claws into the buttocks when he goes too deep, twist his balls (gently) or even get your finger to his butt in general, be active, few people want to fuck a weak-willed woman in the mouth doll.
Try different techniques
In the era of the absence of the Internet, only a few knew about different techniques of oral sex. A standard blowjob without any frills is in most cases all that men could hope for. But today it is not difficult to find the information you need.
Deep Throat
A favorite technique in the porn industry. It gives pleasure to a man not only because during the process of deep insertion, most of the skin of the phallus comes into contact with the oral cavity and, accordingly, a greater number of nerve endings are involved. This is also a psychological technique - the deeper the penis goes into the throat, the more power the man experiences over the woman.
The technique, although it seems complicated, is actually quite accessible to master:
- Be prepared for the fact that it won't work out the first time. The natural gag reflex, when a foreign body touches the back wall of the throat, has not been canceled. Therefore, it is important not only to prepare physically, but also to be psychologically prepared for the fact that at first it will not be very pleasant.
- Ask the man to do everything slowly or control the depth of insertion yourself using your hands. When the penis begins to penetrate deeper than usual, slowly exhale the air, as if making a long “ahhh” sound. This will help you get rid of ligament spasms and open your throat as much as possible.
- Be sure to use lubricant. Naturally, it must be an edible product, preferably with some kind of smell and taste. Lubrication will make it easier for the penis to enter the throat, remove excess dryness, and reduce the likelihood of irritation or damage to the mucous membrane.
- Build up the pace gradually. Each time, try to ensure that the penis penetrates the throat at least a few millimeters deeper than the last time. There is an easy way to suppress the gag reflex - sharply throw your head back and take a deep breath.
During the process, make sure that the mouth and larynx form a single line - do not tilt your head to the side, back, forward, so that there are no obstacles to the insertion of the penis.
Down up
The simplest technique is when a woman makes back-and-forth movements from the head of the penis to its base and back. But there are also secrets here:
- Watch your tongue. It is advisable that it rests against the head, especially when orgasm approaches. There are a large number of nerve endings located here, so you need to provide support for this area.
- Stretching. In this case, you need to clasp the base with your hand, the head with your lips and move your lips and hands towards each other, and then in the opposite direction. With this technique, a man can quickly achieve orgasm.
- Shoulder to shoulder technique. Grab the penis as deep as you can, and then swing your head from side to side so that each time the head rests on the opposite cheek.
- Vacuum. By sucking the penis so that it is in a vacuum, you will give the man unforgettable pleasure. But do not overdo it - too much compression can lead to pain and weakening of the erection.
Don't forget about saliva - swallow it, but not very often. If your mouth is dry, discomfort may occur. The solution will be an edible lubricant that moisturizes and facilitates sliding, and also protects the mucous membranes.
Combination of techniques
Don't get hung up on just one movement. Change your position, combine different techniques, try new things all the time. For example:
- During a classic blowjob, when you make movements from top to bottom and back, the tongue can be placed on the head or along the penis, which provides additional stimulation.
- During throat oral sex, when the mouth is almost near the base of the phallus, with the proper degree of preparation, the tongue can caress the scrotum, although this is aerobatics and is not immediately comprehended.
- One of the benefits of oral sex is that it frees up your hands. And you will find a use for them - caress your partner or yourself where you can reach.
IMPORTANT! If you're just learning blowjobs, ask your man to let you know in some way what he likes and what he doesn't like. It is not necessary to comment on your every action - let it gently and smoothly guide you in the right direction.
To swallow or not
Be sure to think about this BEFORE your diligent tongue touches his elastic penis! You don't have many options; you can swallow the sperm. Many girls (including the author of these lines) find sperm to be pleasant to the taste, it contains no harmful substances and is not capable of harming their health, so the question of whether to swallow or not can not be raised. However, there are girls who do not like the taste itself. Actually, it is very difficult to do something about this. If you are sure that the guy just got out of the shower, and he is absolutely healthy, and you gag solely because of his natural smell, then I would advise you to keep a pack of napkins on hand or use special flavoring compositions for oral sex. If the taste of sperm seems too strong to you, and you are not physiologically ready to take it into your mouth, then ask (you can even interrupt the blowjob for this) the guy to cum on your chest or tummy, and if you want to please him, hint that you don’t mind smear pearly droplets of hot sperm over your cheeks and lips.
No matter how you decide to deal with sperm, treat it with respect. Men strongly associate sperm with their own orgasm and pleasure, for them it is the real personification of their high, so don’t wince and spit, pretend to be pleasure or enjoyment. Better yet, try to feel it.
What to do with sperm if you decide to give your boyfriend the perfect blowjob: take all the sperm into your mouth, if a couple of drops end up on your lips or chest, this will only improve the overall picture.
Recommendations and lifehacks
Now you know how to do a blowjob correctly and how to do oral sex in general, you know the best blowjob techniques and you are almost ready to tell others how to do a blowjob correctly, give lessons and generally be considered a guru.
I'll tell you about some tricks that will help you in this pleasant and difficult task.
First of all, be less nervous and worried. Remember, not a single man of traditional orientation is able to tell and show how to properly give a man a blowjob. They only have past experience and theoretical knowledge. Past experience plays a lesser role, because you are now next to your man, and in any case he will be loyal to your questions and experiments on how to give the perfect blowjob. You can get knowledge gained theoretically with it. Well, ask him to show you an example of proper blowjob on video, most likely it will be porn, not video lessons of proper blowjob for housewives and students, but what's the difference? Ask leading questions: what does he like about the facial expression he sees? Corner? Pose? The fact that the girl in the video, before doing a proper throat blowjob, smears her own lubricant on her lips? Repeat what you see immediately; there is nothing better than practice.
If you physiologically cannot stand the taste and smell of your lover’s cleanly washed penis, then think a little, what if your body is warning you against a man who is not suitable for you? If you are sure of your compatibility, then try giving a blowjob with a condom, or use flavored lubricants.
Speaking of lubricants. Do you want to avoid experiencing unpleasant sensations at the very beginning of learning the throat blowjob technique? Buy a special lubricant for throat blowjob. This will ensure better glide, relax your throat and slightly numb it.
Almost all of the best blowjob techniques involve the use of your hands, but keep in mind that if you want to move your hand on the base of the penis in time with your lips, the penis must be well lubricated. Yes, again we are talking about either your natural lubrication (if you are excited, insert a couple of fingers into the vagina and then smear it on the penis or invite the guy to change the hole and slightly lubricate the penis in the most suitable place on your body), or about saliva or artificial lubrication . Remember, you can caress not only the penis with your hand. After all, he has hands and will give you a hundred points in this, so there is no point in competing in this matter. Caress his testicles, stroke them, lightly and carefully scratch them with the tips of your nails, twist and lift them. Pay enough attention to his prostate, either caress his anus with your fingers and tongue and try to penetrate lightly, or do not claim the inviolability of his butt and just stroke the place between the testicles and anus prostate there inside, and he will be pleased.
You need to suck with soul. It is most important.
You need to suck with soul. It is most important. It’s better to give a blowjob not too often, but to do it well, efficiently and with soul, using your entire arsenal of skills and abilities, watching how to do a blowjob video and lessons, and making your man growl with excitement every time you open your mouth.
Of course, there are different blowjob techniques, including deep blowjob techniques, but no one will tell you how to suck a dick correctly if you don’t love it and love it with all your soul. As it was said in one translated book, from which after perestroika one could learn about the sacraments of sex, blowjob is an expression of all your love for your man, imagine that he has shrunk to the size of his penis and imagine how you would caress him. Most likely, you would stroke it, kiss it, lick it, and even try to put it in your mouth, but nothing more is required. Express your feelings using your tongue and mouth, convey your emotions to him and be sincere - then every blowjob you give will be perfect.
ABC of the ideal lover: TOP 10 blowjob techniques
It is possible that a man will not even want to continue a relationship with this woman who does not want and cannot give a blowjob. But many representatives of the fair sex experience fear and prejudice, since they do not know at all how to behave due to lack of experience. Complexes do not allow them to liberate themselves enough. Not every girl can share her feelings about this with her friend. But perhaps many would dare to do this if a man talked about it, or even better, showed how to do it correctly. Fortunately, there are special techniques that will help you learn how to please a man. Therefore, it is worth practicing first so that the man is pleasantly surprised.
1. First steps. It is necessary to close the teeth with your lips, while relaxing them. The mouth must be rounded, as if pronouncing the letter O. The base of the manhood can be held with your hands, the mouth must slide down until you reach the required depth. There is no need to go too far; this should be done without any tension. Having reached the depth, you should wait for two seconds and then move up. Language can also be involved in this process. Do not be too zealous, otherwise you may scratch or bite your genitals. This cannot be allowed under any circumstances. The mouth should also be as relaxed as possible.
2. Ice cream. The teeth should be covered with the lips to reduce the risk of causing pain. This will also help to tightly envelop the manhood. The skin on the trunk must be pulled off with your fingers. Holding your manhood tightly like a popsicle that needs to be licked. The tongue works actively, drawing various patterns and ornaments. You can simply stroke the surface of the penis with your tongue, or you can also touch it, quickly imitating a snake. Do the same as a snake sticks its tongue out and in.
3. Vacuum cleaner. It is necessary to retract the manhood, sucking it halfway. The man experiences incredible pleasure at this. It is better to do this at high speed, but you can do it slowly. The main thing is that this process is enjoyable. Add tongue movements to enhance the pleasure.
4. Deep hickey. Men are crazy about such movements and this technique is considered one of the most favorite. But it is difficult for a girl to use it, especially if she does not have enough practice. It is necessary to deeply absorb manhood until it reaches the throat. It must be remembered that for the first time this may provoke vomiting or cause discomfort. But if you practice on some other soft object, then nothing like that will happen. After trying several times, you can learn to do it without any discomfort.
5. Bright ending. This technique will help enhance the pleasure of orgasm. To do this, you need to cover the place where the sperm is pouring out with your finger. Use your lips and hand to massage the base of the penis. The man will experience voluptuous feelings. After a while, when orgasm is about to happen, the finger can be released. In this case, sperm will flow out like a fountain. During this entire process, the man experiences incredible delight.
6. Cat. The man should spread his legs, the woman should position herself below so that it is convenient for her to caress the manhood. Here you need to lightly massage the testicles and the area leading to the anus with your tongue. The girl imitates movements with her tongue, as if a cat is lapping up milk. Movements should start from bottom to top. This technique gives an unforgettable sensation to a man; he simply cannot help but like it.
7. Wet blowjob. First you need to warm up the man so that he gets the taste and feels excited. To do this, suck on the manhood using slow, gentle movements. Hands holding penis. At the same time, they must be lubricated with lubricants so that the penis always remains wet. The girl should imagine that she is sucking a lollipop. At one point you need to move away and release the penis from your mouth so that a pop is heard. A man’s penis should not be allowed to become dry; it must always be wet, for which it is necessary to use special substances that moisturize the skin.
8. The flap of a butterfly's wings. It is necessary to find the most sensitive place in manhood. It is located under the head. You should go down 3-4 centimeters from it. If you stimulate this sensitive strip with your lips, tongue or hands, the man will experience incredible pleasure. This place can be called the most sensitive on a man’s body. You need to touch him gently.
9. Vercenie. Keep your lips moist while performing this technique. You need to move your lips in the place where the frenulum is located. You don’t even have to try too hard with this, since this place is quite sensitive. No special talent is required, since the man will experience pleasure and orgasm in any case. This technique is usually used after sexual intercourse to force the man to continue further actions. This can actually bring any man back into action.
10. The girl must get on her knees. To enhance the sensation of this loving act, your hands can be tied behind your back. The man can move back and forth, and his dignity in the girl's mouth makes thrusts. The girl can also help him in this by moving her tongue.
