08.08.2018
The basic emotion of hyperthymia is joy. There are quite a lot of them among people, about 15% among men and the same number among women. People of the hyperthymic psychotype practically never have a bad mood; they are always positive, active, energetic and cheerful. They are not vindictive or conflict-prone, and prone to adventure.
Interaction of hyperthymic with other psychotypes
In a company, Hyperteam is its soul, and in general he easily adapts to any team; he works better in a team. In the profession, hyperthyms usually do not achieve any heights, they remain in working positions, their managers are mediocre, and they are indifferent to building a career. And the level of aspirations of a hyperthymic person is usually not high, his relationship with money is complicated, he simply does not stay with it. A hyperthymic person has a strong will, they are courageous and angry. Other people's experiences are not important to them, although they are quite romantic and sexy.
How to determine a man's psychotype by his clothes
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Women rely on intuition, and it rarely lets them down. Often, only after meeting a man, they “read” a large amount of information and draw conclusions. Appearance, gait, gestures, facial expressions, and, of course, clothes - all this speaks about a man much more vividly than he can imagine! The most observant ladies compiled their own typology. We hope you find it amusing, thought-provoking, and perhaps helpful!
Macho
The macho sees the main goal of his life in conquering as many women as possible. Just like a peacock unfurls its feathers, this character is dressed to the nines: a fashionable fitted shirt, expensive sunglasses, pressed trousers. The macho man is not afraid of bright colors, well, if he also grew muscle mass in the gym, he will not hide it!
Thin tight knit jumpers and short-sleeve T-shirts highlight his biceps, triceps, deltoids and abs. A macho man can have a lot of girls, and, most likely, sooner or later he will settle on the most extraordinary one when Cupid’s arrow reaches its target.
Metrosexual
A metrosexual's clothes are similar to those worn by a macho man. But this type is even more concerned about his appearance. Not only does he have as many creams, masks and nail files as his girlfriend, but his wardrobe is impressively diverse! If a metrosexual is financially able, he will change his wardrobe every season and will never wear trousers that are 5 cm shorter than fashion requires.
Careerist
This type of man attracts ladies with his determination, efficiency and sometimes even charisma. Careerists are leaders who lead large teams or dream about it. The main fashion weapon is a business suit, which, in their opinion, is appropriate for any occasion, at any time of the day. As a last resort, in order to relax a little and emphasize the informality of the situation, a careerist can take off... his tie. Here he is, the hero of an office romance! Since he is always at work, he usually finds his life partner there.
Happy-go-lucky creative person
Previously, such men were called “clowns,” but now they use a politically correct name. Since they are very good at making people laugh and entertain, they work as DJs, event hosts, and actors. The most savvy of them monetize their talent well.
Creative individuals dress as they please: they can wrap a bright, creative scarf around their necks, or put on brightly colored trousers. It seems that these are the ones that are waiting for you in men's clothing stores: bright pink or eye-catching green shirts, ties with the Simpsons and matryoshka dolls. A man who takes himself seriously is unlikely to choose this. But creative people don’t want to be like everyone else!
Botanist
The “nerd” characteristic can hide not only a student at an agricultural institute, but also a remote programmer, passionate about his work, or the director of a manufacturing company, busy with important issues. The essence of such men is that they do not attach any importance to appearance. What difference does it make whether the shirt was made the year before or this year, when more important things are at stake? As a rule, the wardrobe of nerds is very simple and consists of elementary basic things: jeans, sweaters, T-shirts and shirts.
Perhaps someone will find this type funny, and that’s all. However, if a woman manages to attract the attention of this concentrated object, then she will probably receive an interesting interlocutor and a faithful, reliable companion. Well, dressing him up in a polo from the new collection of a fashion brand, choosing a casual jacket and stylish boots is not at all a difficult task for a girl.
In conclusion, I would like to say that today the choice of men's clothing is impressive! You can find options for all occasions - from a sports weekend to an important corporate event. And if a man cannot make a choice and grabs the first slacks that come to hand, then we advise him to turn to his companion for fashion advice. After all, women know exactly what a smart, successful, confident person should look like.
Hyperthym in communication
Hyperthymic people have an urgent need for communication and cannot stand loneliness for a long time. Sometimes they do not respect personal boundaries, they can make a tactless joke, but they themselves are not touchy and do not hold any grudges. Of all the positive qualities of hyperthym, it has one unpleasant feature - optionality. At the moment when a hypertim promises something, he thinks that he will really fulfill it and even wants it, but circumstances change, and with them his intentions. In general, a hypertim easily gets along with people; five minutes of communication is enough for him to begin to consider a person a friend. Hypertim has many old and new friends. But all friendship is superficial, not deep, based on immediate needs: a snack, a drink, a chat. Hyperthym can be friends with any people; he does not divide people into classes, castes and races. He is ready to help anyone and can easily ask for help.
Psychological character traits and types of behavior of men
Based on the type of character, any man can be classified into one of the following categories.
- Depressed.
Usually a person is in this state temporarily, so it can be considered transitional. But if you decide to start a relationship with a man who has recently experienced a divorce, separation from a previous passion, or other unpleasant events, prepare for the fact that he will lose his temper for any reason. Some women are attracted to this type of male behavior, incessant monologues and discussions about the past. If you are one of them, then do not immediately refuse a potential partner. Just don't give him all your time. - Business.
He is extremely self-confident and wants to dominate always and in everything. A man of this type of behavior believes that he is not only strong, but also practically omnipotent (after all, not everyone can get theater tickets or arrange a business meeting). Therefore, he will be able to build a relationship only with a woman who will accept him for who he is. When entering into an alliance with a man of a business type of behavior, know that he will make absolutely every decision independently and at his own discretion (who to invite to an event, where to go to rest, how to properly raise children, and so on.). Many women are attracted to the feeling of confidence they feel next to such a person. However, it directly depends on the state of his affairs. Often, the firmness in the behavior of business men gives way to uncertainty and depression at the first failure. Plus, there is a high probability that for a partner of this type you will be nothing more than one of his successful “acquisitions”. - Excellent student.
The type of behavior of an excellent student is characterized by the desire for excellence in everything. He probably already has a long list of qualities that he wants to see in his partner. He may also ask her to change her outfit or hairstyle to suit his taste. Therefore, the chosen ones of excellent students most often become very kind and compliant women, younger than themselves. If a person of this type of behavior is truly a role model for you, then he will be a great partner for you. However, there is a risk that, having brought you to perfection, a man may begin to search for a new object. - Dreamer.
The plans of a man of this type are usually unrealistic. He always has some ideas floating around in his head, but he never implements them. A man who is a dreamer can be seen right away by his behavior - he does not stay long in one job and cannot work well with anyone. The problem is that he wants to change the world, but is not even able to arrange his own life. However, for decisive women with clear goals who are ready to become the head of the family, such a partner is quite suitable. - Single.
According to this type of behavior, men are distinguished by calmness and a desire to remain alone with themselves for a long time. They can be very kind and welcoming. However, in order to maintain internal harmony, it is extremely important for them to spend exactly the same amount of time alone as with their chosen one. As a rule, they do not like idle chatter and noisy companies. Single men can build strong relationships only with those women who will not be offended by their behavior (“withdrawal”) and will react normally to sometimes visiting without a husband. The advantage is that you can always be sure that if he is not with you now, then he will not be with someone else.
Why is it so important to distinguish between types of behavior in men?
Of course, all the types of behavior of men listed above are defined conventionally and even slightly exaggerated. None of us are perfect, and men who strive to build strong relationships with their other halves may have certain character traits. It is only important to understand in time how strongly these traits are developed.
Despite the fact that for some, love is associated with strong passion, suffering and painful dependence, it cannot exist without harmony. It is unlikely that partners will be happy in relationships where a woman adheres to the principle “it is better to have at least some man than to be alone!”
Remember, the choice is always yours: to have a strong, happy family and a reliable husband nearby, or to get bogged down in your complexes, psychosomatic illnesses, tears and suffering. Often several psychological types are combined in one man. The main thing is that he cares about you no less than about himself. This is the only way you will achieve family happiness.
But if you can recognize what type your partner is, you will be able to make a timely decision about whether to continue the relationship with him.
Special types
To determine the types of people in a relationship, it is worth looking at them like a product in a store. Before purchasing, be sure to read the ingredients, pay attention to quality, price and other parameters. After all, if you save money and buy a defective or fake product, you will soon need to throw away the product and go exploring the shopping aisles in search of a new assortment.
Hyperthymia in the family
Hyperthym is a radical who is also not very stable psychologically. He is simply not able to be in love and devoted for a long time. Hypertim perceives family as entertainment partners. The wife is a drinking buddy, and the children are gambling partners. Because of this, alcohol-related conflicts are common.
Hyperthymic parents are practically not interested in raising their children; they do not care what grades the child has or with whom he communicates. They believe that a child should learn everything on his own, from his own mistakes, and in childhood conflicts they teach their child to fight back. Although hyperthymic people sincerely love children, at heart they themselves remain children all their lives. Hyperthyms are not domestic, the doors of their unkempt, sloppy house are open to everyone, almost to passers-by from the street. And, in fact, they don’t care where they spend the night, not necessarily at home, because such people are comfortable both at a party, in an expensive hotel, and in a cheap hostel.
Hypertim does not value family ties. The search for new emotions makes him feel bored in his marriage after the first months of marriage and look for entertainment on the side. Hyperthym easily cheats on his wife, tearfully repenting each time. But a hyperthymic person will easily forgive his wife’s betrayal.
Five psychotypes of men
Every woman dreams of a beautiful, strong, reliable, caring life partner. However, such representatives of the fair sex are most often found in films. In life, a variety of nuances are possible.
With the help of experts, we tried to understand the main male psychotypes and help women not to fall for the bait of a womanizer or become a victim of a tyrant.
photo: Natalya Muschinkina
Some women go on dates to get new exciting emotions, and some go on dates to get a husband. However, on a first date, it is sometimes not easy to determine what kind of man you have got. Can you rely on him, is he the one you dream of? Unfortunately, it is difficult for a person in love to evaluate the situation and the personality of fans objectively, and very often the impression is deceptive, and trust is unnecessary. Sometimes this leads to sad consequences - yesterday's lover disappears without a trace, and sometimes even with your money.
Therefore, expert psychologists strongly recommend that women pay attention to the male psychotype, which in fact is not so much. True, they are practically never found in nature in their pure form (in most cases, mixtures of different types are found). And yet, the main features of certain psychotypes will help you, as they say, instantly understand what to expect from your admirer in the future and predict the possible consequences of entering into an intimate relationship with him.
According to psychologist, hypnotherapist, member of the All-Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League Mikhail Reimarov, there are five main common male psychotypes. Let's try to carefully study each of them.
Male patron
This type strongly resembles Hippolyte from the film “December 31 or Enjoy Your Bath,” beloved by Russians. Reliable, strong-willed, decisive. If not every woman, then at least 80% of the fair half of humanity dreams of this. This is a psychologically strong man, the head of the family, who takes upon himself all decisions. The woman plays a secondary role with him, hiding behind his powerful back.
The external manifestations of this psychotype are bright, but inside there is weakness. “They like to say or make it clear “I’m in charge here,” they want to feel significant and leading everywhere, even in sex. Such people are tough, unsentimental, often suspicious, and like to constantly control their woman. They are often successful leaders, but in everyday life they are real tyrants. A patron communicates with a woman something like this: you never know what you want, I decide everything here,” says Mikhail Reimarov.
Such a man can be identified by reasoning about the roles of men and women in the family, and by quickly taking the initiative into his own hands. “With him, the likelihood of unprotected sex is minimal: he feels responsible for everything and plans several steps ahead. But if something goes wrong during sexual intercourse and a woman becomes pregnant, this man is unlikely to leave her alone. If he doesn’t get married, he will support him morally and financially,” comments Mikhail Reimarov.
The sad thing is that it is extremely difficult to change such men. In most cases, it’s not even possible, since they believe that everything is fine with them, but not with those around them. “They destroy the people who are nearby. For a woman, relationships with them result in loss of health and loss of her interests. And family for them is just a necessary status. I knew one woman to whom such a admirer said: “You have 48 hours to decide whether you will marry me or not. You suit me. “You will be in furs and diamonds.” But she was smart enough to refuse this offer,” says Reimarov.
photo: Natalia Gubernatorova
Male escapist from reality
They don't adapt well to life. In order to gain control over others and over the situation, they try to acquire some secret knowledge, and are often carried away by mysticism and esotericism. Runaways from reality are always at a turning point. They need an inspirational muse. They are sensitive to any reproach and are prone to tearfulness and depression. They rush between “I’m super” and “I’m a complete nonentity.” In life, such men, as a rule, are not successful. They try to succeed in esotericism - and only waste time. What are the consequences of a relationship with them? Because they will periodically lose their sense of reality and withdraw into themselves, and the muse will have to endure these periods when her man will say in all seriousness: “It’s not at all important to flush the toilet.”
“These men are sensitive to criticism, because they believe that their opinion is the only correct one, because it is based on the fact that everything in the world is predetermined from above,” notes Mikhail Reimarov. “They quickly get inspired, constantly start something new, but don’t finish it, they give up everything to start a new life again. You need to be quite careful with them. If they realize that the possibility of parenthood may be in front of them, they are likely to run away, fearing that their lives will settle into a uniform pattern and become boring. Although among such men there may be quite decent people who will regard a possible pregnancy as predestination. They will convince the woman to take a wait-and-see approach and, if necessary, give birth to a child. But the last thing they will think about is their responsibility.”
Male pickup artist
Show-offs come out of such a man from all the cracks. But this is just an attempt to solve internal problems, disorder, inferiority, insolvency. The pickup artist closes this hole in the psyche by constantly changing partners. They often complain that they constantly need a new woman, and it is extremely important to bring each of them to orgasm. After a short-term relationship, they quickly cool down. With age, the need for new sensations is not lost, but achieving what you want becomes more and more difficult - now a bald spot has appeared, and the belly has grown...
Such men also extremely rarely achieve social success. They try to become manipulative in relationships, but in essence they are afraid of them. They are afraid of women. They rarely decide on a permanent relationship; difficulties frighten them. They constantly need a new victim, although they themselves are also victims and hostages of the situation. “If you have close plans in bed, you can make contact with such a man. But remember - he doesn't need you. And even as they grow up, pick-up artists do not get rid of their complexes,” our expert warns.
In an effort to impress, these men do not skimp on compliments and gifts. He wants to capture the woman’s attention, extract from her all the information he needs, while avoiding talking about himself. He gets lost if he cannot control the conversation when a woman takes the initiative into her own hands. The pickup artist’s goals are mundane – sex, and relationships with him usually don’t go beyond bed. Taking responsibility for the fact that fertilization could occur during sexual intercourse is definitely not about him.
Giolo man
This type is trying to solve their problems and achieve social success at the expense of women, without experiencing the slightest torment or remorse about this. Alphonse knows how to give compliments, knows how to please any lady. He is a talented psychologist, quickly reads all your weaknesses and plays on the strings of your soul. If he falls for a lie, he skillfully avoids conflicts. Such men are most often attracted to women with certain neurotic characteristics and dislike. But they must remember: gigolo’s “love” is not eternal. As soon as he finds a more profitable party, he will leave you without a twinge of conscience.
“Something always happens to gigolos, some kind of force majeure, troubles when he needs to be consoled. They demand constant care for themselves, whine, and press for pity. And, of course, they gladly accept any attempts to pay for him, to lend him money. In this they are very inventive and cunning,” our expert warns.
These are psychologically weak people who play the role of a child who needs to be pitied. Without third-party support, gigolos are nothing of themselves. Although purely outwardly, they are usually attractive and very well-groomed. They become very animated when it comes to your well-being - work, salary, apartments, cars. Neither appearance nor age matters to them. If you have any difficulties in the financial sphere, gigolos calculate: is it profitable for them to maintain a relationship with you or is it worth looking for a higher-paid party? They approach the issues of creating a family and having children with cold calculation. And if it suits them to get you pregnant and marry him, they will do it. But remember: gigolos don’t need you or their children. You are just a way to earn money, nothing more.
Male partner
Such, alas, are very rare. These are self-sufficient and self-confident people. But they are the ones who are committed to long-lasting, equal, honest relationships. This does not mean that you will use toilet paper equally. This means that your interests with him will be equally important.
Partners value and respect their woman, they build relationships openly, without fear, without a double bottom. It is useless to ask them how many “ex” they had: after all, this has nothing to do with your relationship with him, pardon the pun. “I won’t be happy if we break up, but I’ll get over it,” such men say.
“You can understand that this is exactly the man in front of you by assessing how naturally he admits his mistakes and allows himself to show emotions. Not only is he confident in his own opinions and follows them, he is willing to listen to others and maintain a healthy balance between what he thinks and what others think. If a condom breaks during sex or it was not possible to interrupt sexual intercourse in time, he and his partner will discuss what needs to be done - rely on chance, give birth to a child if pregnancy occurs, or take emergency contraception,” says the psychologist.
...According to the Women's Health Index study, the majority of Russian women (81%) consider the condom to be the most effective method, and every fourth woman also considers interrupted coitus and the calendar method to be effective (26% and 28%, respectively). But none of them provides a guarantee against unwanted pregnancy. For example, 14% of women who used condoms were forced to have an abortion.
— Many women have casual sexual contacts in their lives. As Mikhail Zhvanetsky says, “one wrong move and you’re a father.” Between 25% and 40% of pregnancies occur as a result of casual sex. Of course, you should try to prevent unwanted pregnancy, for which there are many methods of planned contraception. In the case when a woman could not resist (and this also happens), for example, she became a victim of a pick-up artist or gigolo, you can use emergency contraception. Remember that you have three days after unprotected sex to take the pill and prevent an unwanted pregnancy. Bay leaf, jumping from the closet, homeopathy will not help here. We need special drugs for emergency contraception, advises WHO international expert in the field of reproductive health and family planning Lyubov Erofeeva.
“Remember, you may be unwise if you end up in a relationship with the wrong man, but you are okay.” Therefore, always remember your interests and try to isolate yourself from people who bring emotional discord into your life, advises Reimarov.
Hyperthyms and other psychotypes
A hyperthymic person can easily find a common language with a person of any psychotype; he sees friends and comrades in everyone. For the paranoid, he will obligingly run on his orders; for the epileptoid, he will be mobilized to carry out an important party mission. For these psychotypes, hypertim will perform the functions of a security guard, soldier, driver, courier. Even a creative and bright hysterical person can attract a hyperthymic person to serve himself, usually in the role of a lighting designer or assistant director. Hyperthym will also quickly find a common language with hyperthym, but usually such relationships do not go beyond friendly communication.
A lot of hyperthymic people can be found in the retinue of a paranoid prophet; they constitute his halo. But, like hysteroid hyperthymics, they are not distinguished by devotion and, if the opportunity arises, they can form the retinue of another paranoid.
Hyperthym with hyperthym
Such a couple can be united by a party and sex. They will stay together as long as they are interested and having fun, until interest appears on the side or someone gets tired of such a wild lifestyle and decides to “settle down.” Often, with the birth of a child, a hyperthymic wife decides to change her lifestyle, while her hyperthymic husband continues to walk. This can cause serious conflict, including divorce. Such unions are quite rare, with the exception of when a hyperthymic radical is combined in a person with an emotive or epileptoid radical.
