The story of the Vietnamese woman Nyau Mao is an amazing story about how a husband decided to leave his wife, who found herself in a difficult situation. However, the young girl's life soon took a sharp turn, and she became successful again. And her ex-husband bites his elbows, because he probably made the biggest mistake in his life.
The girl was married for 4 years, but then the couple divorced. The reason for the divorce is trivial - the wife owed the bank for an unpaid loan, and her husband was afraid to share the debt with his wife, so he decisively kicked the girl out of the house. Her situation at that time was really difficult: her job was low-paid, her daughter was only 2 years old, there was no money in her wallet, no one could help her. It's a difficult time, but fortunately it's over.
Hard childhood
Nyau Mao and his brother were raised by one mother, their father left the family a long time ago, and they remained in the village. Currently, my mother lives with her brother Nyau Mao and his wife, but now their financial situation is much better. The daughter can help them and has made their life carefree. However, when her husband left the heroine of the story, she had to take her child, rent a cheap motel and try to somehow make a living, hoping that the day would come when she could start all over again.
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It was not possible to wash the double glass in the oven. My husband came up and easily took it off
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My husband's wife
Well, or what should I call her?
Almost from the very first day, for some reason, she decided that her husband and I’s divorce was not a mutual, a thousand times thought-out decision, but throwing me, like ballast, from the basket of his balloon. Therefore, it is vital for her to check in on my territory as often as possible.
Everything would be fine, but for the son, who adores his father and is not to blame for the fact that his parents were unable to get along together, these hours a week were negligible. And then I had to share them with some aunt.
Unexpectedly appearing father
However, in life you never know where you will find your happiness. Three years later, the less-than-responsible spouse changed jobs and found a position at a new company with a higher salary than the old one. He was very happy, but on the first day of work an unexpected meeting with someone made him scared, shuddered and wanted to disappear.
He met his ex-wife at a new place of work. In a huge company, she held the position of deputy director of the company. He was so shocked that he could not say a word. It turned out that his ex-wife became deputy director, and the boss of a huge corporation was her father.
Her father lived in two families in the past. He married the daughter of a businessman, but did not love his wife. Soon he met a girl with whom he began a hot affair. This girl was Nyau Mao's mother.
Biography of Leonid Bichevin
He was a quiet and well-mannered child, began to study music early, was very fond of horses and was fond of horse riding, and entered an agricultural technical school to become a breeder and develop a new breed. Leonid Bichevin's family had nothing to do with the world of art.
Leonid Bichevin in his youth
However, Leonid soon became disillusioned with his chosen profession and decided to become an actor.
Bichevin on the theater stage
Bichevin entered the famous “Pike”, graduated from Shlykov’s course in 2006, and was accepted into the Vakhtangov troupe. Leonid has many theatrical works to his credit, and he began acting in films in 2003.
Still from the film "Morphine"
Director Alexey Balabanov played a huge role in the development of Bichevin as a film actor. Actress Agniya Kuznetsova, with whom Bichevin had an affair, provided patronage for the actor. Bichevin starred in Balabanov’s “Cargo 200”, and people started talking about him.
Still from the film “Rowan Waltz”
Then he starred in the films “Morphine”, “Closed Spaces” and “Rowan Waltz” (for the latter, Bichevin received the Abdulov Prize at the Spirit of Fire festival, as well as an award from the “In the Family Circle” film festival, and not without reason. Smirnov’s role in Rowan Waltz "was played with incredible poignancy and authenticity. Bichevin also had serious roles: "The Last Meeting" (Shilov); "Once Upon a Time in the Province" (Che); "Dragon Syndrome" (Volkov); "Chagall - Malevich" (Malevich ); “The Stuntman” (Zaborsky); “Walking in Torment” (Telegin); “Adaptation” (Ivy); “Trigger” (Poltoranin); Muravyov-Apostol in the “Union of Salvation.”
Still from the film “Union of Salvation”
Today he is considered one of the most sought-after actors; his creative biography has been very successful. In his personal life, the actor was also lucky - fate brought him together with two bright women, the first became his common-law wife, and he was legally married to the second.
Parents' story
Despite the fact that he was married, the father lied to his beloved woman, saying that he was still single in order to communicate and perceive the relationship with her as his second family. Their relationship lasted three years, during which two children were born. But everything secret becomes clear. The real wife found out about her husband's second family. The father had to choose, and he chose. The man abandoned his beloved, daughter and son to return to his legal wife and children.
Two years ago his wife died. Now he alone owns the business. Remembering the two abandoned children, he found them in order to somehow make amends for his guilt, and decided to arrange for them in life. The children from his official wife have all grown up and have their own careers. Nyau Mao has a talent for business, so her father gave her a good position, now she is in charge of an entire department and is considered a deputy director.
Ex-husband's new wife is pregnant
- We were friends! – says thirty-five-year-old Irina. “I brought her into the house myself and introduced her to Pashka.” He really didn’t like her at first, I also defended her in front of him, I’m a fool. She told me how good she was... And she not only stole my husband, but also my children’s father. She also boasted about everything - they say that for her sake he abandoned his family, his beloved daughters, whom he carried in his teeth. I was proud of this...
...Irina has a rather banal story behind her in our times - almost ten years of marriage with her beloved man, a strong, almost ideal family, two desired children. And an unexpected hasty divorce, which struck like a bolt from the blue.
“Nobody even believed me at first!” – Irina sighs. - "Come on! Pashka got another woman? Can't be!" Everyone considered us an exemplary family, and Pavel an ideal husband and father. With his daughters, he ran around to the envy of many. And I didn’t sleep at night, and changed diapers, and walked with a stroller. I earned money so that the girls could have everything. They doted on him and did not fall asleep without him. Everyone asked where dad was, when he would come - well, when everything had already happened, of course...
- Well, he probably came to see the children when he left you, right? Since such an ideal dad...
- No! In fact of the matter! He left and that was it. Explain to them yourself, he said, as you know. And now it’s been almost two years - no call, no letter, no news. He pays alimony, I won’t say anything here - even more than he should, and I myself did not apply for alimony. Apparently, it lulls the conscience in this way. But no, he doesn’t want to communicate!
My daughters are now nine and five years old; the youngest won’t even recognize her father if she suddenly meets him on the street. Pavel really left, just like he said.
“Maybe it was embarrassing to look me and the children in the eyes, I don’t know!” – says Irina. - He is a good, correct person. Mom says, it’s because he’s so correct that everything happened! Another would have gone quietly and back to the family. And those who are ideal, like Pasha, will always mess things up. It was also necessary to find a woman for myself - my wife’s best friend... There aren’t many others, perhaps!..
Yes, perhaps, it would be easier for Irina to accept the appearance of any other lady of her heart - if this word is even appropriate in this situation. I love anyone, but not Svetlana.
...They met Sveta quite by accident - in a gynecological hospital, where Ira was admitted for safekeeping while pregnant with her second daughter. Sveta ended up there for the same reason, but her pregnancy, unlike Irina’s, could not be saved. Nevertheless, the women lay in the same room and talked day and night.
Ira just groaned as she listened to the life story of her new friend. Ups and downs, love, betrayal, lack of money, work and housing - how many problems and difficulties she has, it’s just like Santa Barbara. But Sveta did not lose heart! She fought, smiled, moved forward... After being discharged from the hospital, Irina rushed to help Svetlana. I found a new friend a decent place to live, borrowed money...
– As soon as I earn money, I’ll give it back immediately! – said Sveta.
And she really gave it away from the very first salary...
Irina’s husband, Pavel, looked at this friendship at first with a great deal of skepticism: why, they say, do you need this at all, people are ungrateful creatures, not a single good deed will go unpunished. But Ira believed that we needed help. Sveta, by the way, turned out to be a responsive girl: Irina’s pregnancy was not easy, she kept ending up in the hospital, and Sveta seriously helped her out with her eldest daughter a couple of times when her mother was sick and could not take her in with her.
Perhaps it was during this period that the relationship with Pavel began, Irina now thinks.
...In due course, a second daughter was born, and Svetlana, meanwhile, simply became a member of the family: she was invited to the dacha, to birthdays, to the New Year, Irina shared with her everything that was in her heart.
“I complained to her that Pashka had become somehow strange, not like himself!” – says Ira. - And she also consoled me - well, she probably said she was tired at work... She advised something...
And then thunder struck - one fine evening Pavel packed some clothes into a bag and said that he was leaving forever. That he is terribly guilty, Irina is too good for him, but so and so - he has another. Moreover, Irina knows her very well...
...The divorce was very difficult for Irina; only the children brought her out of her stupor. Objectively, everything is fine with her now: she has a job, an apartment, her mother helps with the children, and enough money to live on. Not more than that, of course, but better than some other single mothers, given the generous alimony. But psychologically, Irina, it seems, never came to her senses. She follows her ex-husband’s life on social networks, maintains a relationship with his mother - not at all for the sake of the children, as everyone says, but to keep her finger on the pulse.
Irina learned from her mother-in-law that three months ago Sveta gave birth to a boy - unfortunately, prematurely and sick. It is now clear that the baby will live, but whether this life will be full is a big question. Doctors, averting their eyes, advise not to despair of hoping for a miracle. In general, be patient and prepare yourself for a long, painstaking rehabilitation.
The mother-in-law in the pediatric pathology department was told straight away that your grandson would not be an ordinary child...
Ex-husband's fatal mistake
This real life story is truly like a movie. No matter how guilty the main character's father was to her mother, one thing cannot be denied: it helped the girl and her brother change their lives. When Nyau Mao's ex-husband heard this, he looked at her in disbelief. He kept muttering that if only he hadn’t divorced her that day...
Indeed, if he had just tried to be patient for a while that day, their family would have overcome the difficulties and now would not need anything. Having learned about the wealth of his ex-wife, he even tried to improve relations, but she already has another man, and soon they will become a real family. Nyau Mao sent her ex-husband to the farthest representative office as an ordinary clerk. This is not revenge, it’s just that everyone must be responsible for their actions in life.
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ex-husband's new wife
I left my husband when my daughter was 3 years old. At first he tried to sort of get us back. I myself understood that nothing good would come of it. After a year and a half, he began to visit me again. I was then all about work and the child. I decided to have an affair with him, but just don’t get along. Yes, and my daughter saw him more often. All this went on for a very long time. Then, in the winter of 2020, almost at the end, we were arguing and he disappeared. Appears with a proposal to divorce. I agreed, but decided to ask whether he had someone or not. Here I felt that someone had appeared. He didn’t confess, a few months later it turned out that there was a woman older than him with 3 children. Then I was very angry that I didn’t confess! Like a rag. Well, I think God bless him. After a while, mutual friends said that he and his new wife were expecting a common child. She reacted easily, but with a little apprehension. Before New Year 2020, he decided to take his daughter there to a new family. I thought for a long time, but finally let her go. Several times my daughter went normally, but the last time my daughter complained about bm’s new wife. She said that she had attacked her. She gave herself a ban so that I would let her go there at least once. I didn’t bother to deal with her, because she was still pregnant. BM doesn’t come to his daughter, unless he’s at work, I can bring him for 10 minutes and with a pause of 2-3 months. The new wife is categorically against letting him come and take his daughter for a walk. BM’s mother has not been here for 4 months is interested in his granddaughter. In short, BM’s new wife encourages them as best she can. I tried a million times to get him to at least be a Sunday dad. It doesn’t work! On Saturday evening I took my daughter and her dad to see her. They talked for about 10 minutes and we left. So at night that day his crazy wife called me with a complaint like why am I going to see her husband! Of course I put her down, but I was so sick of all this already .I explained to his mother, to him…..that he had become uninteresting to me! We don’t even talk to him when we meet. But for some reason his wife is sure that there is something between us. They are surfing my social networks, looking for something !On Sunday BM called and apologized for her and asked to meet. I was very harsh in my statements. We had a fight again. Having thought everything over, I decided to make a knight’s move! Demand that he become the child’s Sunday dad! If he decides everything with his own, then let the whole family go to hell! So that daughters don’t appear in life at all! Do you think I’m going to do the right thing? Tell us about your experiences in general! How to behave with BM’s second wife? Any advice and experiences from life.
