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External signs of a married man

Nowadays, many married men, having an affair with a woman on the side, do not hide the fact that they have a family.
It’s easier for them, because they only have to deceive their wife. And the mistress is aware, so there is no need to dodge and come up with why he didn’t call or come. However, there are also married men who carefully hide their marriage, confident that the woman, having learned the truth, will simply point to the door. These types know many tricks that help them carefully hide the true state of affairs for a long time. I must say that we often fall for their bait and fall in love. And then, having discovered that our beloved has a wife and children, we bite our elbows and drown in tears. How to avoid this? How to determine whether a married man loves you, or whether he is definitely single? External signs of a married man

How to spot a married man at first sight? Actually quite difficult. In general, a non-free representative of the stronger sex can easily be seen through a wedding ring. But these cunning people take it off before meeting a lady!

1 . We need to take a close look at the ring finger on the new acquaintance’s right hand. Traces from the ring should appear on it. But even if they are not observed, this does not mean anything. Some married men don't wear wedding rings at all. And to dissatisfied spouses this fact is explained by the fact that the ring interferes with his work, presses, clings and causes a lot of inconvenience.

2 . The absence of a stamp in the passport does not give any guarantee that the man is free . He can live with a woman in a civil marriage. Someone may object that, they say, a civil marriage does not count. It's like just dating. It still counts! People live under the same roof, solve some problems together, furnish their home, have a common budget, and so on. So living in a civil marriage and just dating are not the same thing.

3 . You should not be deluded if a man offers to show your passport on the first date confirming that he is single. Why would he be in such a hurry? Maybe there is simply no time for long-term courtship, and the pseudo-bachelor is afraid that his wife’s call or her appearance will give him away? That’s why he forces events, wanting to go as far as possible in his relationship with a woman.

4. If during a date he turns off his phone or goes out somewhere when they call him, you should be wary. He turns it off, most likely, because he is afraid of calls from his significant other. And it comes out for the same reason. I forgot to turn it off and she called! What remains to be done? Go out somewhere and lie with inspiration that there is a rush at work, an urgent order has been received, a wheel has fallen off the car and in general he is stuck in a traffic jam for many kilometers. And the liar will tell us that the boss called, an uncle from Rostov, a close friend, the one whose wife left. And he, they say, did not want to bother you with boring conversations.

5. If you are attentive and not naive, you can always identify a married liar. Either he suddenly runs away after a call , declaring that a distant relative has unexpectedly arrived, then he suddenly goes on business trips frequently, then he gets sick and can’t come on a date, then he doesn’t pick up the phone... No, even a bachelor can behave this way, of course. And relatives fall out of the blue, and there are frequent business trips, and the phone ends up in the back room. But if, trying to explain why all this always happens, a man begins to get confused, calling a relative either Uncle Fedya or Aunt Nina, and cannot remember where he was sent from work a month ago, this is suggestive.

6. In general, a mobile phone willingly betrays its owner. It is enough to call a man late in the evening or send him a message. If he doesn’t answer either the call or the SMS, it means he hasn’t passed the test of his veracity. It is unlikely that such a busy and business-like person would turn off his phone at night. However, maybe he is sleeping very soundly and does not hear anything. Then we do things differently. Let's try to be left alone with the traitor - the telephone, call it from our mobile phone and see how our number is displayed. Is this our name or an affectionate nickname? Everything is fine. The beloved is truly free. This is “Ivan Petrovich”, “Seryoga the car mechanic” or “Glafira Stepanovna. Job"? No options. He is a family man.

7 . If you met your hero through an online dating site, and it turned out that the man posted a photo that was not his own, then this is a reason to think twice. For what purpose did he do this? The conclusion is that this man is married. No matter what excuses he comes up with, the fact that he hides his appearance is very suspicious.

8 . If he makes plans for the future, then small ones - for the coming days.

9. For many married men in the family, the spouse closely monitors the budget . Therefore, even if he spends money on gifts and restaurants, he quickly stops doing this, limiting himself to meetings on his girlfriend’s territory.

10. Married womanizers especially often go on business trips , but do not tell how they went, where and what they did there.

eleven . At the beginning of a relationship, bachelors behave more modestly in bed so as not to frighten the woman with pressure. “Married people” do not hesitate to immediately compensate for everything that is lacking at home.

12. If he doesn't stay with you at night . then this is not good. If he disappears from your bedroom every evening under various pretexts, then he definitely has another girlfriend - his legal or common-law wife.

However, it is worth understanding that there are exceptions to any rule. So, for example, there are busy male businessmen who have not lived with their family under the same roof for a long time, but at the same time have absolutely no intention of getting a divorce.

Business travelers feel at ease in a foreign city, just like wealthy adventure lovers. Some guys manage to live in two houses, for example, spending time with their family in a country house on weekends, and living in a separate apartment on weekdays.

13. He avoids meeting people and places that he often visits.

If a young man prefers to limit himself exclusively to face-to-face communication at your home or in a hotel, and does not take you out to people - does not take you to restaurants, cafes, beaches, parties, social events, then he has someone to hide your relationship from.

14. He doesn't give you his phone number or forbids you to call him first.

Married men are usually tightly controlled by their wives, so unavailable gentlemen usually ask in advance, or rather, demand that you not call them at all, or not call them first, or call only on certain days or at certain times.

How to tell if your boyfriend is married

In the vast expanses of our vast country, it is easier to find a Ussuri muzzle than a free man. You can, of course, become the mistress of a married man. It’s better, of course, to go straight to the oligarch. After all, sitting on the sidelines of a simply good guy is stupid and unprestigious. Girlfriends feel sorry, mom sighs bitterly, and spiteful critics call her a “sucker” behind her back. And this stupid position of yours is not justified even by great and bright love.

Some decent girls, in order not to fall into such an ambiguous position, immediately ask a man when meeting him whether he is single or not. And they even hope to hear a truthful answer. Naive. If he really likes you, he will, of course, say that he is not married. You will start dating, planning children together and a golden wedding. And suddenly - like a bolt from the blue - the bitter truth will be revealed. The “groom” is burdened with a large family, including his wife, mother-in-law, children and even grandchildren. And you are a mistress, not at all aware of your “interesting” situation. We have studied the psychology of this type of womanizer, who pretend to be serious and free, but in reality they are simply looking for thrills. A lie gives their attraction a special erotic-dramatic meaning, which they have long lost in everyday life with their wife. But no matter how much “Stirlitz” is encrypted, it can be figured out at any stage of communication.

Dating stage

Every secret agent, even a deeply married one, knows women's weaknesses and actively uses his knowledge. Here are the tricks he uses to get you hooked on an affair:

Offers a rich cultural and romantic program: a park, cafes, cinema and other places for lovers. In his family, he has long lacked novelty and grace in his relationships, so with you he is emphatically gallant, sentimental and inventive.

Demonstrates “serious intentions” with words like “Oh, what a miracle that I found you! This is fate,” “It seems to me that I have known you all my life,” etc. He himself really begins to believe. From words they move on to other signs. Men trust visual manifestations of feelings - glances, facial expressions, gestures - more than verbal explanations.

Looks soulfully into the eyes. And he does this all the time. Ordinary lovers also love to play staring contest. A soulful look into the eyes is both an erotic challenge and a test of feelings. Most of the representatives of the stronger half of humanity are convinced that “eyes will say more than words.” But this trick is especially loved by guys who are hiding something from you. It's good if it's a million bucks. But usually, alas, another aunt. It is extremely important for him that you appreciate and accept him exactly as he is, with all the aggravating circumstances.

He easily shows his passport to convince you that he is unmarried. However, in our frivolous times, a passport does not mean anything. Because of the fashion for civil marriages, your hero may indeed not have a stamp. But this does not mean that he does not have a beautiful wife and three children. In general, if a man does not marry, it means he wants to reserve the possibility of small affairs. Such as with you, for example.

Shows warmth, care and thriftiness. With enviable diligence, he prepares dinner, helps you hang up the washing from the washing machine, and meekly wanders around the shops with you. Most likely, he asserts himself this way. His wife cruelly nags him for not caring about everyday problems. And he - in defiance of his tormentor - begins to “have a blast” in your house. The wife is a harmful bore, and you are a beautiful fairy who bestows a kiss on virtue for every hammered nail.

Makes plans for the future, but small ones - only for the coming days. He warmly promises to hang a cornice for you, to go with you somewhere nearby - to the theater, to a museum and to a macrame exhibition.

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A married man behaves completely differently from a marriageable groom. He doesn't give bouquets. At best, a box of chocolates. I also got tense with the “cute little things.” The “male” demonstrates his generosity and creditworthiness to his future wife. He has no time for that with his mistress. He throws all his strength into not catching fire. Perhaps gifts will appear later, when you agree to the legal position of a mistress. Then he will relax and behave with you as a “second wife”. In the meantime, he offers exclusively male assistance.

EXPRESS TEST

How to bring it to clean water

Tactics for the brave. Show that you are a broken girl and are not against an affair with a married man. Then he easily admits his marital status.

For the not so brave. Touch on the topic of fidelity in relationships. Speak out against the “scoundrel-cheaters.” If the topic is relatable, it will cause a heated reaction - positive or negative.

For the timid. Delay the start of a close relationship. Why do they go to the left? For that. And if he sees that there is still work to be done, he will most likely quietly depart for the family nest. Or he’ll spill the beans on intimate, romantic walks.

What happens when an agent is exposed

If the relationship has not gone far, perhaps he will hasten to evaporate, muttering goodbye: “Well, I’m sorry.” Or by saying nothing at all. But, most likely, after exposure, he will want to continue the relationship. Do you need the role of a legal mistress? It's up to you to decide. But keep in mind that without intrigue, your romance will slowly fizzle out. There is no one else to lie to. Soon Romeo will go in search of another Juliet to relive everything that happened to you. Perhaps he will even promise you to divorce his wife. Psychologists testify: this process can last ten years. Especially if the wife takes urgent measures to keep her husband. Read about what measures a wife can take in one of our next issues.

Early relationship stage

You should immediately be wary if, at the very beginning, your newly minted Brad Pitt does the following:

On your first night, he tries to go outside the apartment: into the entrance to smoke, look at the car, go to the store, etc. In fact, he calls his wife and lies about something.

They don't stay overnight under various pretexts.

Doesn't invite you to visit him. Any normal hunter drags prey into his den. If not, then the den is someone else’s.

Sometimes he runs into another room to talk on his cell phone. After the conversation, he becomes clearly irritated, but does not explain the reason to you.

While staying with you, the mobile phone turns off.

In conversation, he listens more and asks questions. He speaks little about himself and gives only general information.

An “irresistible force” constantly interferes in his life, which forces him to drive him to the ends of the world in the middle of the night. A child from his first marriage suddenly falls ill, and the hospital is on the other side of town. Or a mother in Kandalaksha suddenly ran out of money and needs to be taken urgently. By train. It is impossible to transfer to the account because my mother lost her passport. In addition, he has a huge number of friends who need to be taken to the airport (usually at night), to the dacha, or to help harvest a gigantic harvest of tomatoes. But for some reason he doesn’t introduce you to his friends and doesn’t treat you to tomatoes.

Doesn't give out his home phone number or address.

He doesn’t want to go with you to the company of your friends and generally doesn’t like crowded places. Afraid to meet friends.

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He is 100% married if in the evening after ten he does not pick up the phone and does not answer SMS. Or turns off the phone altogether. This is a guaranteed check for vacancy.

EXPRESS TEST

How to bring it to clean water

Give a “Valentine”: a keychain or heart with Velcro, a pendant for car keys. If all the next days the thing is in the same place where he placed it with you, most likely he is free.

On your next date, unexpectedly offer to go to his house. Like, I want to see how you live.

Romance stage

How to recognize a “double agent” if you have been together for a long time:

You still have never met his parents or even talked on the phone.

All meetings take place on your territory.

He often goes on business trips, but upon arrival he doesn’t say anything: how he went, where he was, what he drank.

From time to time, he speaks knowledgeably about some imaginary female shortcomings that you do not have. For example, to one girl, her boyfriend always complained that women’s breasts sag with age and their figure deteriorates. “What does he care about others? I am 25 years old!" - the girl thought. She lived with him for a year in the same apartment and suddenly found out by chance that he had been married for a long time to a woman who was not young and had gained a lot of weight after giving birth.

Emphasizes its value in your life and the uniqueness of your relationship. Still would! You are exactly the woman with whom he decided on such an adventure as bigamy.

His personal belongings often disappear from the house for a while and then return. His favorite T-shirt is missing for a week, and then he appears in it, fresh. “The T-shirt is dry and does not smell” - this is a passionate greeting from his wife.

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His main strangeness at this stage manifests itself in money. He saves on your general expenses, you are not aware of how much he earns. He often buys something in a store and drags it in an unknown direction, and not to your nest. He explains that it’s a gift to his parents, etc. Or he’s completely silent.

EXPRESS TEST

How to bring it to clean water

Ask him to introduce you to his parents and other close relatives. If he refuses, insist.

Eight signs of a free shooter

1. He immediately takes you to his house. Any man feels insecure with a new girl. At home he will be more comfortable with you - his native walls help. Plus the hunter's instinct mentioned above.

2. Talks a lot and unobtrusively praises himself.

3. After intimacy, he begins to actively interfere in your life: he calls in the middle of the working day, writes SMS just to find out how you are doing, and confesses his warm feelings.

4. Begins to make joint plans for a summer vacation (especially if it’s autumn).

5. Willingly introduces you to friends and parents.

6. He has a serious hobby, and maybe more than one. Skydiving, kayaking, rock climbing, etc.

7. Comes to the second or third date with flowers.

8. Shows material signs of attention: gives jewelry and other cute trinkets.

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How to understand that a man is married?

1. He doesn't give out his home phone number . At first you exchanged mobile numbers, and that seemed quite enough. But the relationship is developing, and you want to be able to call him even when there is not a penny in the account. You tell your man about this and, oddly enough, he is not at all happy about this prospect. His reasons for not giving out his home number seem flimsy? This is similar to the behavior of a married man. Perhaps his wife might answer the phone, and therefore he does not want to risk it.

2. Tone of voice . Sometimes little things can indicate that a man is lying or not telling something: a change in the tone of voice in a conversation on certain topics, a feeling of discomfort expressed by posture and gestures when talking about family, children, the place where he lives, and so on. . If he says that he is divorced and sees his son on Sundays, but in fact they live in the same apartment, then the man’s excitement is understandable. But something else is not clear: why deceive a girl who loves you and trusts you?

3. Reluctance to visit certain places . For example, you met your loved one in a cafe and now you want to visit him and feel a little nostalgic. But he flatly refuses to go to this place, offering a dozen other options to choose from. The fact that he doesn’t like the food or music in this establishment is more of an excuse. Your man is probably afraid that his friends or neighbors will see you and report his adultery to his wife.

4. Strange behavior on a date . If your loved one, while in a restaurant with you, changes his face when his mobile phone rings, hangs up the call or gets up from the table to answer it, this makes you wonder if the man is married. Theoretically, this could be an urgent call from his boss, but you should still ask and carefully observe his reaction.

5. Stealth . Of course, in terms of frankness and desire to tell personal details about themselves, men are very different. Some people on dates talk incessantly. Others are silent by nature - and this does not mean that they are necessarily hiding something. But if enough time has passed since you met, and you still have “blank spots” regarding many aspects of his biography, this should definitely alert you.

How to spot a married man on the Internet?

A huge number of dating starts on the Internet. But on dating sites and on social networks, the easiest way for men is to mislead gullible young ladies and not advertise to them their real marital status.

If you become interested in an attractive stranger on the Internet, you should do at least a minimal check - so that you don’t regret later that you unknowingly got involved with a married man!

“Beautiful and Successful” suggests doing this:

Conduct an image search

Take a few photos from the man's profile and use the image search function (you can do this on Google). If these images are also found anywhere on the Internet, you will see links to their location.

Considering that men usually don’t really like to be photographed and rarely have a large number of photos of themselves, they often post the same successful photo on different accounts, forgetting that anyone, even a stranger, can identify them this way.

And don’t be too surprised if the free gentleman from the dating site suddenly turns out to be an exemplary husband and father on his Facebook account!

Look for your new online friend on other social networks

Some “hero-lovers” are so naive that they don’t even use a nickname or a fake first and last name when creating a bachelor account somewhere.

Pay attention to what time of day the man is usually online and when he is in the mood for long correspondence.

Many married people pay attention to “left” dating during their working hours, getting bored at the office, and in the evening and at night it is more difficult to catch them online, and even more so to engage them in long correspondence, because They devote this time to family. Of course, this is not the only and not obligatory sign (because someone works in the evenings, someone manages to correspond with other women in the presence of their wife, etc.), but still, this point should not be completely overlooked .

How to find out if a man is married or not

In the article I will tell you by what external characteristics and actions of a man you can determine that he is married. You will learn about ways that will most likely help you find out the marital status of your chosen one. You can also avoid a relationship with a married man by finding out his marital status at the dating stage. Having determined that the man is married, you can choose further tactics of action so that it does not cause you pain. Either continue meeting with your loved one, or stop them immediately so that your relationship does not have time to turn into something more serious.

There are few representatives of the fairer sex who are ready to build their happiness on the misfortune of another woman. Therefore, no one consciously strives to enter into a relationship with a man who is married.

If you nevertheless dare to have an affair with a married man, first read the recommendations given in this article.

However, a man often hides his marital status in order to gain the affection of the woman he likes and at the same time save his family. Thus, a woman falls in love with a married man, not realizing that he has a family.

If a man does not intend to leave his wife, then the woman has to either come to terms with the role of an eternal mistress, or finally part with her beloved. Both outcomes are sad, so it is better to find out at the beginning of building a relationship whether the man is married or not.

How can you tell by a man’s behavior that he is married?

How can you find out that a man is married if you meet someone “in real life”?

It is clear that there are no rings, etc. and there is no question - if a man wants to get a mistress by deception, then he will not show obvious signs of marriage. This means you will have to pay attention to indirect signs.

He offers appointments during daylight hours, not on weekends. At the same time, he carefully stipulates the day and hour, insisting on ones that are convenient for him, so that one gets the feeling that there is very little free time in his life at all. If this bothers you and you want to arrange a check, offer him an impromptu meeting, and only at a time convenient for you. For example, under the pretext that you got two tickets to a concert. Or simply – “Hey, let’s go for a walk today, it’s a wonderful summer evening!” It is clear that if such initiatives are repeatedly rejected from you, then something is fishy here...
The meetings are short - not late, especially not until the morning... And if they are late and until the morning, then this happens so rarely...
He does not invite you to his home - you either see each other on neutral territory, or he actively asks to visit you. If this worries you, make it clear that you are against meetings and overnight stays at your home and would like all this to happen on its territory. Look at his reaction and excuses...
He doesn’t introduce you to anyone from his friendly circle and doesn’t even talk much about his close people and friends. It is clear that after one or two meetings it would be too early to count on meeting the parents and “officially” introducing the man to his friends, but if this does not happen even after a few months, there is a risk that you are a mistress, and not his only girlfriend...
Another sign by which you can know that a man is married (or at least think about it) is that he does not give you any confidence in the relationship. Occasionally offers meetings - but without the slightest regularity; supports communication - but in a lazy way, without inundating you with messages and calls; does not talk about parting - but does not make common plans either; gives you compliments - but avoids words about love, etc.

Of course, as a last resort, there are radical methods of obtaining information about whether a man is officially married - for example, secretly getting into his phone or laptop, asking his friends (for example, from his friends on social networks), in the end, just carefully tracing where he lives, who else lives with him, etc. But if you don’t trust your gentleman so much that you decide to take these actions, then be extremely careful - after all, if he finds out that you were following him, then this probably will not make him happy, and this will definitely not contribute to strengthening the relationship...

— Author — Dasha Blinova, website www.sympaty.net – Beautiful and Successful Copying of this article is prohibited!

Ways to help find out a man's marital status

There are several reliable methods that will help you accurately determine the marital status of your chosen one. Let us look at them in detail.

Check your passport.

Only for women who are willing to take risks. You can take advantage of the moment when the man leaves, for example, to go to the toilet, and check the required page of the passport.

Ask to stay with you for a couple of days. If you have already become intimate with a man, but he has never stayed overnight, then an invitation to stay over the weekend should please him. Or upset if he is married.

What gives away a married man

What external signs and behavioral characteristics can reveal a married man? Let us take a closer look at each of them.

External signs

Wedding ring. This is the first and most obvious external sign that a man is married. But, of course, if a man intends to deceive you, he will take it off. This is where you will see a barely noticeable, and in the summer, against the background of a tan, a clearly visible mark from the ring.

Ironed clothes. Often a single man's clothes look less neat than those of a married man. Always a perfectly steamed jacket and trousers, a starched collar should sow doubts in you that this man is free.

Clean-shaven face. If a man is not married, he can sometimes afford to be slightly unshaven. And if you have a spouse, she will remind you when to shave.

Features of behavior

In the evening he turns off his phone. Or he doesn’t answer the phone in the evenings, and then every time he makes the excuse that he simply didn’t hear the call. This means he cannot answer because his wife is at home.
Doesn't invite you to visit him. There may be several explanations for this. The man lives with his parents, is ashamed of his home, or is he married. First, eliminate the first two points. If these options do not work, then with a high degree of probability he is married.

To find out if he lives with his parents, ask unobtrusively about them: where they live, what they do. If he lives with his parents, he will definitely accidentally mention this in conversation.

Avoids certain walking areas. Ask directly why he doesn’t want to go to this cafe or park. If there is no good reason, then persistently ask to visit this place once for your sake. A categorical refusal indicates that, for example, his wife works in this establishment or that he might run into someone he knows there.

Doesn't introduce him to relatives or friends. If your chosen one says that he has no relatives, then he must have friends. No friends? This means there is something wrong with him, or he is married and lying to you. In both cases, it is better to avoid communicating with such a man.

He hangs up calls in your presence, or moves aside each time so that you do not hear the conversation. Everyone may have secrets, perhaps he gets a call from an acquaintance with whom he does not want to talk. But such situations are rare, and the man usually explains why he does not want to talk to the caller at the moment.

Pay attention to how often he drops calls. A constant reluctance to answer the phone in your presence may indicate that he is married.

Don't celebrate holidays together. One holiday is not an indicator; a man may have such a schedule at work. But if you celebrate all the holidays alone, then this should lead to the idea that he is tied by marriage.

Refusal to take photos together. The man is afraid that you will post this photo on one of the social networks where your spouse or one of your relatives or friends might see it.

His friends cheat on their wives. It is possible that in conversation he will happily share how his friend has been secretly dating another woman for several years. Friends can be a bad influence on your chosen one. Perhaps he imitates them by dating you.

Doesn't make eye contact when you bring up one of the following topics: wedding, children, family, fidelity, lies. His reaction could be explained by previous unsuccessful relationships, but since he is ready for a relationship with you, it means he must have already experienced the pain of a previous breakup.

No registration on social networks. Through a social network, you can easily determine your marital status by looking at the photos in which your chosen one is tagged and studying the comments on them.

Doesn't stay overnight. What man would refuse to spend the whole night with the woman he loves? Right. The one whose wife is waiting at home.

Doesn't accept gifts. If a woman gives a sweater, shirt, or, for example, a scarf, and then notices that the man is not wearing her gift, then this is a sure sign that you have a rival. If a man has no reason to be afraid, then he will definitely show off your gifts on himself.

Doesn't talk about himself. People in love often share their impressions of their day or remember some funny stories. A man who has something to hide will be careful not to give away his secret and will prefer to listen rather than talk.

He only calls on business. You won’t get calls from a married man just to talk, to ask how you are doing. He will call only to, for example, arrange a meeting.

Doesn't give gifts. Usually married couples have a common budget, so the spouse may notice large expenses. Do they only give you small souvenirs? Most likely your chosen one is married.

It is possible to accurately determine a man’s marital status if several signs indicating this occur at once. If you notice only one sign, then it is better to carefully discuss your doubts with the man. Most likely he can easily dispel them.

Behavior

When you are next to a man, do not forget to take off your “rose-colored glasses” at least for a while. Don’t be afraid to ask him directly why he suddenly canceled a date yesterday or doesn’t invite you over. When a guy answers, look at him and observe his behavior. If he does not look you in the eye and avoids answering in every possible way, this is a sign that he is lying to you!

To determine whether a guy is married, ask him for his home phone number, under the pretext that you often cannot reach him on his mobile phone. If he has nothing to hide, then such a request will not bother him.

If you and him never go to the cinema, popular cafes and restaurants, clubs and supermarkets, this means that he does not want anyone to see him with a woman.

Does he ask you not to call him first? This is not at all a sign that he has a lot of work and you are distracting him. He just doesn't want his wife to know about you. One call at an inconvenient time and that’s it – his betrayal is exposed.

Married guys love experimenting in bed, not with their wife, of course, but with you. If sex is more important to him than communicating under the stars, this means that he has someone to discuss everyday problems with, even without you.

Finding out the truth about a man is not difficult; to do this, you just need to “turn on your brain” at least for a while. If your gentleman has the above signs, think about whether you need a relationship with him. After all, the point is not even that he has a family, but that he lies to you and doesn’t blush.

Most women do not want to share their loved one with anyone, and for this reason they want to find out if a man is married before starting to date him. Of course, you can ask a man a question about his marital status directly, but it’s not a fact that the answer will be truthful!

Unfortunately, there are many married men who like to have love affairs on the side, and realizing that not every woman will agree to date a married man, they simply hide their marital status. Therefore, it often happens that a woman finds out that her beloved is married only when the relationship has already gone too far.

How can you spot a married man at the very beginning of a relationship with him? There are several signs by which you can absolutely determine that a man is not alone.

Signals indicating that a man is married

A married man usually rushes to quickly persuade a woman to have an intimate relationship, bypassing the candy-bouquet period. As a rule, such men do not want to waste time on long-term courtship of the woman they are trying to seduce - they only want non-binding sex from her, and not at all romance and spiritual intimacy. Married men, with rare exceptions, are not going to fall in love with their mistress and become attached to her, and therefore behave according to the principle “only sex and nothing personal.”
You can determine a man’s marital status by his reaction to a woman’s request to give her her home phone number. Married people are very reluctant to give out their mobile number and at the same time hide their home phone number. If a man claims that he does not have a home phone number, you should be wary!
If a man lives with his wife, he, of course, cannot invite a woman to his home, therefore, he either invites her to a rented apartment, or invites himself to visit the woman. In order to declassify the married man, you can offer him a date on his territory. Naturally, he will refuse under various pretexts, saying that his apartment is being renovated, or his relatives have arrived, or something else like that.
If a man’s mobile phone too often, especially in the evening, answers: “The subscriber is unavailable,” then nine out of ten that this man is married. In addition, most likely, he has two mobile phones: one that he turns on only when he is outside the house - for his mistress, and the other - for everyone else.
To determine whether a man is single or not, you need to pay attention to how he reacts to phone calls. If a man, being next to his mistress, grabs his ringing mobile phone and runs with it to another room or simply moves away, one can suspect that it is his dearest wife calling him.
A married man, if, of course, he values his family relationships, will never take his mistress to public places, fearing that someone will see him and inform his wife. Therefore, married men prefer to meet their mistresses in rented apartments or go out into nature.

As you can see, there are quite a lot of signs by which you can tell whether a man is married or not. But what if there are suspicious facts, but the man beats his chest and swears that he is free as an eagle?

Three effective ways to determine a man's marital status

In order not to be tormented by suspicions, a woman can use some techniques that will help dispel all doubts.

Ask a man to show his passport In the end, a woman has every right to know with whom she is communicating, and a man, if he really values a woman, will not be offended by this. But you should not ask a man for a passport on the first date, so as not to shock him. It is more appropriate to do this when the man starts talking about the fact that it’s time to get to know each other better, that is, he starts hinting at intimacy. True, it may not be possible to find out if a man is married this way. Now many people live in civil marriages, so the passport of a man who has been living in a civil marriage for a long time will probably be pristine. Ask a man not to turn off his mobile phone in the evenings. You can explain your request under the pretext that you really want to wish him before going to bed: “Good night, dear!” This is probably the best and easiest way to find out a man’s marital status - if a man is married, he will not know what to object to. Start insisting on walking around the city together, take a walk in a public park holding hands, sit over a cup of tea in a cozy cafe - isn’t it romantic? If a man, despite persuasion, refuses with all his might, justifying himself by saying that he really doesn’t like crowded places, then everything is clear with him.

But what if a woman falls in love with a married man and cannot break up with him? This is already a conscious choice of the woman herself. In the end, we all have the right to happiness... But the whole point is that happiness from a relationship with a married man, as a rule, is not enough. Much more often such connections bring tears, suffering, broken hopes, and even a broken life!

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