Woman is zero, woman is minus, woman is plus.
There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality.
The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them. There are women - minus, who, with their fear of losing loved ones, slowly but surely drive them into the grave. And there are women - plus - those special women, next to whom you blossom and become the darling of fate, the lucky one, the favorite of fortune.
A woman's purpose is to be such a woman - a plus, whose environment blossoms and makes sure that she is satisfied and nourishes them with her wonderful energy for as long as possible. Of the thousands of women I've talked to, I've seen no more than 7-8% women - plus. Meeting them is always a holiday! And for every man. Basically, the modern world is inhabited by women - zero. They were taught to survive in a man's world and they believed that life is a struggle and everything comes through hard work. You need to snatch your piece from life, otherwise someone else will take it away. It is by faith that one is rewarded. And over the years, this Faith either strengthens, and a woman - zero becomes a woman - minus, or the soul begins to whisper to the mind: “You’re not a fool! Look, you're doing something wrong! There are other ways of development! Those whom you thought were fools live better than you. Stop going into the abyss, start learning to fly to the other side. Where happiness is, and not the eternal struggle for it! Take a closer look at truly successful women who have everything in order with their man, health and money. How do these Plus Women create a space where abundance, love, family and happiness thrive? Look at them through the eyes of the men who choose and provide for them.
What do we, men, see in a woman that makes us decide to get her at any cost? We see three main qualities: - Acceptance, expressed in respect for others. — Integrity, expressed in self-esteem and self-respect. - Naturalness, expressed in consistency at the level of mind, feelings and behavior and allowing her to express all her feelings, without worrying about whether she will be approved or not. A woman gives a man energy through her emotions. The one who is afraid to show her feelings, but who is eager to receive them from a man, is simply a vampire. Because she is a woman - zero or minus. Hiding her inner world under the mask of equanimity, she considers herself a mystery, but for a man she is a burden. A woman is the earth, a man is a tree that feeds from the earth. Woman - zero or minus - is the earth that sucks all its juices from the tree. And the tree first withers, and if such soil is present for a long time, it dries out. An unsatisfied need for approval and recognition forces a woman to unconsciously vampire energy from a man. To stop pumping energy from others, you need to find a source of energy within yourself that will give you a sense of integrity. Such a source for a woman (after accepting her mother) is the inner man. Union with your inner man and your shadows (repressed feelings) gives you the much-desired naturalness, self-sufficiency and energy to accept others. Unfortunately, reading instructions on how to merge with the inner man and shadows does not provide either understanding or, especially, the desired effect. The purpose of the article is to give direction to your development for the transition from a woman - zero to a woman - plus. Look for a way to awaken, nurture and strengthen your inner man that will protect your inner woman and attract/awaken your outer man. Again. A plus woman is a woman who has harmonized her inner man and woman.
Author: Mark Ifraimov.
If the partners are not married
This is discussed in detail in the hentai “Friends for Open Relationships”. A rather frank cartoon for those who have already crossed the threshold of adulthood. From the episodes you can learn about all the pitfalls of this lifestyle and learn to avoid the mistakes that the main characters make.
A completely free man and woman decide to try this type of relationship. There is nothing connecting them in the past and there are no plans for a future together. They live for today and they are completely satisfied with it. There is an agreement between them - not to drag the other into their problems and to give each other only joy. To some extent, this type of cohabitation can be called a dress rehearsal for a real marriage. In this case, there are much more pros and cons in an open relationship than in the previous case. Let's consider separately for each partner.
Woman-zero, woman-minus, woman-plus characteristics
There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality. The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them.
There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality. The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them.
There are minus women who, with their fear of losing loved ones, slowly but surely drive them into the grave.
And there are plus women - those special women, next to whom you blossom and become the darling of fate, the lucky one, the favorite of fortune.
A woman’s purpose is to be the kind of plus woman whose people around her blossom and make sure that she is satisfied and nourishes them with her wonderful energy for as long as possible.
Of the thousands of women I've talked to, I've seen no more than 7-8% plus women. Meeting them is always a holiday! And for every man.
Basically, zero women live in the modern world. They were taught to survive in a man's world and they believed that life is a struggle and everything comes through hard work. You need to snatch your piece from life, otherwise someone else will take it away.
It is by faith that one is rewarded. And over the years, this faith either strengthens, and woman zero becomes woman minus, or the soul begins to whisper to the mind: “You’re not a fool! Look, you're doing something wrong! There are other ways of development! Those whom you thought were fools live better than you. Stop going into the abyss, start learning to fly to the other side. Where happiness is, and not the eternal struggle for it!”
Take a closer look at truly successful women who have everything in order with their man, health and money.
How do these plus-size women create a space where abundance, love, family and happiness thrive?
Look at them through the eyes of the men who choose and provide for them.
What do we, men, see in a woman that makes us decide to get her at any cost?
We see three main qualities:
— Acceptance expressed in respect for others.
— Integrity, expressed in self-esteem and self-respect.
- Naturalness, expressed in consistency at the level of mind, feelings and behavior and allowing her to express all her feelings, without worrying about whether she will be approved or not.
A woman gives a man energy through her emotions. The one who is afraid to show her feelings, but who is eager to receive them from a man, is simply a vampire. Because she is a zero or minus woman.
Hiding her inner world under the mask of equanimity, she considers herself a mystery, but for a man she is a burden.
A woman is the earth, a man is a tree that feeds from the earth.
The zero or minus woman is the earth that sucks all its juices from the tree. And the tree first withers, and if such soil is present for a long time, it dries out.
An unsatisfied need for approval and recognition forces a woman to unconsciously vampire energy from a man.
To stop pumping energy from others, you need to find a source of energy within yourself that will give you a sense of integrity.
Such a source for a woman (after accepting her mother) is the Inner Man.
Union with your Inner Man and your Shadows (repressed feelings) gives you the much-desired naturalness, self-sufficiency and energy to accept others.
Unfortunately, reading instructions on how to merge with the Inner Man and Shadows does not provide either understanding or, especially, the desired effect.
The purpose of the article is to give direction to your development for the transition from a zero woman to a plus woman.
Look for a way to awaken, nurture and strengthen your Inner Man, which will protect your Inner Woman and attract/awaken your Outer Man.
Again.
A Plus Woman is a woman who has harmonized her Inner Man and Woman. published
The meaning and essence of a free union
There is a statement in psychology that men are inherently polygamous. This means that, being next to one woman, they stare at another, and then don’t mind being in the arms of a third. There is no point in lumping all men with the same brush. There are respectable family men who are satisfied with the affection and tenderness of their legal spouse, but other women do not arouse their sexual interest. Modern youth have picked up this statement and are trying to cover up their immorality with it.
The essence of an open relationship is the absence of obligations that normal love relationships involve. In other words, meetings occur for the sake of sex. Partners are not interested in each other’s problems or successes and maintain neutral positions. The girl does not introduce the guy to her parents, and the young man is not obliged to introduce her to his friends. There are no hints about marriage or restrictions on freedom of action.
Today a couple has a good time, has sex, and tomorrow everyone lives their own life, meets other people. This model of behavior of young people has a secret meaning, which is considered in two ways.
The emergence of open relationships is associated with several factors. These include:
- spoiledness and lack of basic concepts of morality;
- freedom from social stereotypes and challenge to society;
- reluctance to fulfill the responsibilities dictated by marriage and joint housekeeping;
- lack of free time, busy work schedule, dangerous activity;
- the man’s reluctance to provide financially for the girl;
- improper upbringing;
- sexual liberation.
Independent relationships are played by both young people and mature women and men.
Advantages and disadvantages
Open connections are good when there are normal relationships. For example, a man is married, but his wife does not satisfy him in bed. He is looking for a woman who is in the same position. Nobody wants to ruin a family. Everyone is looking only for sexual satisfaction and emotional release. But meetings for intimacy cannot be long: partners quickly cross the line of what is permitted or become annoying to each other. Sex doesn't seem so fun anymore, and there's nothing to talk about.
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Advantages:
- the freedom of action;
- lack of obligations;
- minimal financial expenses;
- allowed to have sex with other partners;
- no need to account for actions and actions;
- meeting at a convenient time;
- dating for pleasure, not psychological therapy.
Flaws:
- Nothing binds except sex; if you get tired of intimacy, your paths will diverge;
- no psychological, emotional intimacy;
- they don’t care about their partner’s problems, they feel selfish;
- there is no proper attention to which women and men are accustomed;
- there is a possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted infection;
- there is nothing to strive for, meetings stop when sexual fantasies are exhausted;
- having to share a partner with others.
Open relationships are good as a temporary phenomenon. They help to unload mentally, physically, emotionally, but do not replace a full-fledged connection between a woman and a man. Over time, you need to “grow up,” take responsibility, and get married. The main purpose of representatives of both sexes is procreation and raising children in a prosperous family.
Rules for casual communication
To understand how to build relationships, people have come up with unique rules that must be followed. If a partner oversteps the bounds of what is permitted, the relationship ceases to be free and its meaning is lost. In this case, the couple either begins to build a normal relationship or breaks up.
Rules:
- do not limit your partner’s freedom;
- do not demand attention;
- make no claims;
- if you don’t like something, talk about it right away;
- not be interested in your partner’s personal life;
- don't be jealous.
The essence of free love should be clear to everyone: we met, had a good time, returned to normal life, if you liked it, agreed on a second date. The connection lasts as long as everyone enjoys it.
Is it possible to show jealousy?
Feelings of jealousy are akin to possessiveness. A person who loses something of his own is jealous. Since in an independent relationship there are no rights or responsibilities, one cannot be jealous. But this feeling occurs in all people and is considered normal, so we have to suppress it. There is no jealousy if a person is absolutely indifferent. Then another question arises: how to have sex and have fun with an indifferent partner?
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If you fall in love with someone else
Relationships based on freedom do not require the presence of love and do not prohibit having an affair at the same time. A girl and a guy can fall in love on the side and build meaningful connections. Everyone agrees to a certain role. Some people are content with sex without commitment, while others demand proper attitude and responsibility.
Minus girl
A minus girl will never ask her man for anything. It's much easier for her to do everything herself. She shifts both her and his worries onto herself.
What's the end result? The holy belief is that there are no real men left. Such a girl does not believe in her man, does not respect him, does not consider him a man, and thinks that everyone else is the same.
But stress and overload with care have a detrimental effect on both a woman’s appearance and well-being.
Very quickly, the minus girl turns into a workhorse: no health, no beauty, no youth. Universal fatigue and hatred for all humanity forever settles on her face.
No one will appreciate her suffering and perseverance. The only “reward” of a minus girl is an infantile, weak slacker.
The whole family is already sitting on her fragile female neck, why should a man once again strain and try to do something?
A strong woman always competes with a man, so most likely her companion is:
- He will break down and fall into childhood;
- Learn to solve all problems at her expense;
- He will beat, proving with his fists that he is a man;
- He will go away.
Well, which of you will be satisfied with this version of events?
A relationship with a younger man is normal!
Firstly, in a relationship between women and a man who is younger than their partner, they have a full-fledged sex life. Secondly, being with an older woman is interesting not only in bed: she knows and can do a lot, it’s fun to talk to her, she’s always ready to listen and, if necessary, give advice.
So, an employee of my friend, married to an older woman, claims that he has nothing to talk about with young girls, because “they are almost all fools.”
Thirdly, a woman may have already been married or has experienced more than one disappointment in love affairs, therefore, in a relationship with a younger man, she treats her young companion much more carefully and, fearing losing him, tries to avoid all the sharp corners in communicating with him .
Features of a girl. 3 types of women: zero, minus, plus. What type are you?
There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality. The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them.
There are minus women who, with their fear of losing loved ones, slowly but surely drive them into the grave.
And there are plus women - those special women, next to whom you blossom and become the darling of fate, the lucky one, the favorite of fortune.
A woman’s purpose is to be the kind of plus woman whose people around her blossom and make sure that she is satisfied and nourishes them with her wonderful energy for as long as possible.
Of the thousands of women I've talked to, I've seen no more than 7-8% plus women. Meeting them is always a holiday! And for every man.
Basically, zero women live in the modern world. They were taught to survive in a man's world and they believed that life is a struggle and everything comes through hard work. You need to snatch your piece from life, otherwise someone else will take it away.
It is by faith that one is rewarded. And over the years, this faith either strengthens, and woman zero becomes woman minus, or the soul begins to whisper to the mind: “You’re not a fool! Look, you're doing something wrong! There are other ways of development! Those whom you thought were fools live better than you. Stop going into the abyss, start learning to fly to the other side. Where happiness is, and not the eternal struggle for it!”
Take a closer look at truly successful women who have everything in order with their man, health and money.
How do these plus-size women create a space where abundance, love, family and happiness thrive?
Look at them through the eyes of the men who choose and provide for them.
What do we, men, see in a woman that makes us decide to get her at any cost? We see three main qualities: - Acceptance, expressed in respect for others.
— Integrity, expressed in self-esteem and self-respect.
- Naturalness, expressed in consistency at the level of mind, feelings and behavior and allowing her to express all her feelings, without worrying about whether she will be approved or not.
A woman gives a man energy through her emotions. The one who is afraid to show her feelings, but who is eager to receive them from a man, is simply a vampire. Because she is a zero or minus woman.
Hiding her inner world under the mask of equanimity, she considers herself a mystery, but for a man she is a burden.
A woman is the earth, a man is a tree that feeds from the earth.
The zero or minus woman is the earth that sucks all its juices from the tree. And the tree first withers, and if such soil is present for a long time, it dries out.
An unsatisfied need for approval and recognition forces a woman to unconsciously vampire energy from a man.
To stop pumping energy from others, you need to find a source of energy within yourself that will give you a sense of integrity.
Such a source for a woman (after accepting her mother) is the Inner Man.
Union with your Inner Man and your Shadows (repressed feelings) gives you the much-desired naturalness, self-sufficiency and energy to accept others.
Unfortunately, reading instructions on how to merge with the Inner Man and Shadows does not provide either understanding or, especially, the desired effect.
The purpose of the article is to give direction to your development for the transition from a zero woman to a plus woman. Look for a way to awaken, nurture and strengthen your Inner Man, which will protect your Inner Woman and attract/awaken your Outer Man.
Again. A Plus Woman is a woman who has harmonized her Inner Man and Woman.
Author: Mark Ifraimov
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A powerful argument
For women, the pros and cons of open relationships are fraught with another very unpleasant factor. And then, as fate will decide, it’s hit or miss. Love can come suddenly. After a month or a year of such an affair. This will entail a whole bunch of problems - you will no longer be able to calmly watch him leave or talk about other women. There is a chance that by that time the man will become attached and a happy marriage awaits you. But if he breaks off all relationships, then you will be left with a broken heart.
What is Girl-Minus
The classification of representatives of the fair sex, depending on the degree of influence on men, that appeared on the Internet from video blogger Mila Levchuk aroused the interest of many. In our articles we will study this classification, and first of all we will understand what a Minus Girl is.
And in the following articles we will cover in detail such concepts as Girl-Zero and Girl-Plus.
What is Girl Minus?
Mila Levchuk suggests dividing girls into 3 categories, focusing on the degree of influence that a girl has on her partner. Many have noticed that with the appearance of a new partner in their lives, many men begin to “go uphill” or, conversely, lose what they already have. These changes occur under the influence of the energy of a particular girl. It is this influence that is discussed in the classification.
Signs of a minus girl:
- the often manifested “I myself” position;
- desire to control everything;
- she believes that she knows better how to do it;
- distrust of a man, his decisions and actions;
- such a girl is not afraid to take on men's affairs - from nailing a nail to financially providing for all the needs of the family.
A minus girl can look different. This could be a successful career woman who holds all the family’s financial flows in her hands and earns more than a man. This could be a person who is always dissatisfied and criticizes everyone (especially her boyfriend), from whom you won’t get a kind word. Or maybe she’s just a girl who does a lot in the family and doesn’t give her boyfriend any chance to prove herself.
What happens to a man if the Minus Girl is next to him?
If a girl takes on too much, that is, begins to play a male role, then her partner loses leadership qualities and shifts responsibility for everything that happens to her.
A man next to such a partner begins to be lazy, his strength diminishes, and his desire to achieve any goals disappears. He becomes less proactive, loses leadership qualities, may stop doing housework, and at work he will stop building a career. If he has his own business, he will stop investing in it and developing it.
After some time, the activity of such a man will decrease significantly, and he will noticeably degrade. Financially, his affairs will become very bad, he may lose his job or his business. At the same time, he will not consider such a situation as something wrong. The man seems to come to terms with the fact that the woman decides everything and will happily lead a lazy life. Instead of work, his life will be replaced by television, computer games, a game console, beer with friends, endless car repairs or other unpromising things.
With age, Girl-Minus turns into a “fight-woman” who will stop the horse and drag the whole house on herself. They are the ones who make those strong women who complain that the whole family is sitting on their neck, but do nothing to change it.
What to talk about with a girl. How to behave with a girl
“For a woman, good impressions from your acquaintance are important.”
If a man is persistent, he will definitely achieve success with women. At the beginning of a relationship, it is difficult to correctly formulate a conversation with a girl. Especially if you are shy yourself. If you think that answering her questions with “yes” or “no” is enough to keep the conversation going, you are deeply mistaken.
In order to meet a pretty lady and know what to talk about with a girl, you can take a test for yourself. To do this, you need to learn how to get acquainted correctly and know how to behave with a girl. Understand that the banal phrase “girl, can I meet you” already makes everyone “sick”. Therefore, we will use the simplest method, which is called a “bottle opener”. Use these phrases:
- How blue and clear the sky is today...
- Look at the nails! (Pointing finger at them).
“Do you know why there are so few people here today?”
- Wow! Are you hanging out here too?
— The weather is great today, isn’t it?!
- Look, it seems to me that that guy is watching us. Let's go faster.
— A pleasant warm breeze is blowing.
“That woman looked at you like that!”
— Do you know where to buy ice cream? By the way, will you be there?
- Hello, do you have any chocolate? I'm so hungry. Maybe we can go shopping and have a snack together?
— There are so many people around and mostly everyone is in pairs. And you and I are alone.
By using these phrases, you “open” a conversation with a girl. This is your task. Pay attention to her reaction. Then you need to use this exercise 20 times in 2 hours. Next, pay attention to how easy it is to start a conversation with a girl. How surprised she will be and how pleased you will be to watch.
Further, the process of talking with a girl should depend only on you. First, remember one important rule. You are not a "litter"! If a girl comes on a date, it means that you have already had contact with her. Therefore, you should not ask her:
“Where would you like to go?”
“How are we going to spend this evening?”
Be confident! Don't ask her what she would like. Tell the girl straight to the forehead: “Let’s go to the cinema, or to the cafe!” In general, make your own choice. Show that you are a man!
Next, I want to say that girls love it when people show sympathy to them. Eg:
“It’s probably hard to walk in such high heels.” Your legs are probably tired?!
“You must be hot in those jeans.”
“You look tired, let’s sit down and rest.”
In general, you understand your tactics. Next, don’t forget about compliments. Everyone knows the phrase “women love with their ears, not their eyes.” So don’t be shy and tell her compliments about: hair, smile, eyes, figure, gait, gestures, legs...
There are many options:
-You have beautiful, amazing eyes.
— This blouse suits you very well. You have wonderful taste.
- You have a beautiful smile.
- You look amazing.
— You have a nice, even tan. At least where I see it.
In communication, the main thing is not to take a long pause, so as not to seem like a boring interlocutor.
Have a provocative conversation with a girl on the topic of sex, and maybe you’ll learn something secret about her. Believe me, talking about sex is what it’s all about! Use these phrases:
“Did you know that you can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not by her gait?”
— By the way a girl holds a cigarette in her hand, you can determine how hot she is.
— But it’s true that girls who wear red underwear in bed are very active.
— Did you know that brunettes love to have sex in public places?
— Would you like extreme sex?
Plus woman, plus man
How are they different from ordinary women and men?
They help others function better.
What is functioning? This is the ability to act according to your intended plan, without postponing goals for later and bringing the matter to fruition.
One could say that functioning is the ability to be oneself if people actually understood who they are and what it is like to be themselves?!!
People are like robots with a clumsily written program. They constantly hang and freeze while they do what they themselves decided to do.
They constantly need those who can motivate them, motivate them, and inspire them to meet their own needs.
They love them like that. They are charged with energy from them, like devices from batteries, and after communicating with them they run about their business while the charge has not yet been reset to zero.
As soon as the energy runs out, they again become ordinary women and men “zero” or even “minus”.
And since there are few people who know how to give energy, there is a queue of positive people for a new portion of the “magic kick”.
Is it possible to become a plus woman or a plus man?
There is a chance. To do this, you will have to go through three stages of closing the energy leak: 1. Generic. It is necessary to get out of the family weave. Interweaving is a repetition of the fate of their ancestors, who did not cope with their situations in their lives and passed on suffering to their descendants as the main pattern of behavior.
As long as a person lives according to such patterns, he survives and cannot thrive. He does not live his life, cannot be himself and cannot find himself. His energy merges into the past, to those ancestors with whom he is intertwined.
2. Children's. Due to the child’s lack of his own self, he has to borrow his parents’ survival patterns and, like them, divide his self into good and bad.
The bad selves in the child (for example, I am unworthy, I am guilty, I am greedy) are rejected and divert some of the energy from the good selves to suppress them. It is necessary to stop this civil war and achieve internal unity. As long as the struggle continues, the energy drain will be expressed in laziness and self-doubt.
3. Playing with yourself. This is the level of maturity when any negative situation is perceived not as a conflict, but as a Game of expanding one’s inner Universe. At this level, the transformation into a Plus person occurs.
The woman becomes an inspiration, and the man becomes a charismatic motivator. In the eyes of herself and others, she is feminine, and he is cool.
Women's opinion
Girls are suspicious, emotional creatures. They evaluate relationships with free subtext positively only in three cases:
- married or has a permanent partner who is not sexually satisfying;
- tired of everyday life, I want to break away;
- the partner is not considered as a boyfriend, husband, but satisfies in sex.
Women's understanding of independent relationships differs from men's. For girls, their essence is to satisfy sexual needs, as well as psychological ones - to spite their permanent partner. Moreover, by agreeing to an open relationship, a woman makes insidious plans and hopes that the situation will gradually change.
Zero, plus or minus, what is your sign of attraction for men?
You are responsible... no, not for those you have tamed, but for your own feminine happiness. How well you do in relationships depends largely on your personality type.
Woman minus
She should have been born a man - then everything would have been logical: she takes everything into her own hands and clearly moves towards her goal. He also promotes sex without commitment and is proud of his progressive views.
Her hero: an inaccessible macho who needs to be achieved. If she succeeds, she will prove to him (and therefore to herself) that she is worth a lot! If not, with a sense of accomplishment, she will go looking for the next rebellious and unattainable man.
People who fall in love with her are losers who want to get everything at her expense. Still would! She is so beautiful, proactive, brave and also pays for herself. You can do nothing and still feel like you have a queen. Ideal layout.
Why it is dangerous for a man: with its independence it kills the heroic principle in him. He feels insulted in the best of ways and will think 10 times before giving her flowers or making a gift. And this is even at best.
Zero Woman
Remember the song: “I don’t need much, just to touch with my gaze the tips of your eyelashes for a few seconds?” These lines fully reveal the character of the zero girl. Unpretentious and confident in her own ordinariness. If a man paid attention to her and even remained in her life, then he will constantly feel deceived. If she doesn't love herself, then why should he?
Her hero: the first person you meet. If a man shows interest in her, then she instantly falls in love with him and attributes positive qualities to him. Over the course of further relationships, her task is to mold her ideal from what was. Often the mission is impossible.
People who fall in love with her are: unrecognized geniuses (aka alcoholics, hooligans, parasites) who are looking for someone who will admire them in moments of their moral decline and financial ruin.
Why she is dangerous for a man: with her incredible patience she proves not love, but her unpretentiousness. Men sit on her neck and lose the ability to move forward on their own.
Plus-size woman
Remember when they told you that you can be happy without a man, but you didn’t believe it? So, the plus woman believed. And I found inner harmony. She is not afraid to do something wrong and knows that she is valued not for her achievements, but simply because she is.
Her hero: someone who is not afraid to take on responsibilities and take initiative.
People who fall in love with her are: men who know what they want from life. They know how to look after and give gifts, and they are also not afraid of the phrases “serious relationship” and “family”.
Why is it dangerous for a man: having met her once, he can no longer live without her. And either he proves his masculinity every day, or (if he turns out to be unworthy) he lets it go, but reproaches himself for a long time for the missed opportunity.
How to become a plus woman
Do you recognize yourself in the description of a woman-minus or a woman-zero? To change and become a woman who is valued by others (not just men!), you need to build boundaries, create your own code of conduct and strictly follow it.
You'll have to:
- Notice the manifestations of zero and minus in different life situations relating to friendships, careers, relationships. If you like to complain or carry everything on yourself at work, then in your personal life you will do this automatically. Consistency and overall strategy in everything is important.
- Give a man the right to make mistakes and correct these mistakes on his own.
- Know exactly what you want and in what quantities. And, of course, voice your desires.
- Be prepared for the fact that some men will fall off on their own. The one who saw you as entertainment will go looking for what he is used to: someone more accessible and unpretentious.
And this is just the beginning of your transformation. By becoming a plus woman, you will not only learn how to choose men, but also increase your self-confidence.
Men's gaze
There are more supporters of free love among guys. But it's not just about polygamy. Society demands responsibility from men, while women expect stability, confidence in the future, attention and support. Firstly, many guys are not able to fulfill these conditions, and secondly, they do not want to burden themselves. It is much easier to have sex with a girl by agreement than to fully court, show your best side, and achieve intimacy. Moreover, a man does not spend money on his chosen one, does not give gifts, does not promise to marry and solve all her problems.
Selfish Love 4
No matter how hard you try to bring your beautiful friend down from heaven, her self-confidence is unshakable, like a tank. From early childhood, she heard compliments addressed to her, which were then confirmed by the admiration of men. She had broken hearts many times, been rejected, and felt nothing special about it. It's simple - her ego is much bigger than you can imagine. Of course, there are thousands of ladies who are calmer and do not have an inflated ego. But if even a shadow of doubt about the selfishness of your betrothed has crept into your loving brain, then it’s time to connect the head that is on top.
