A new man has recently appeared in your life, and you are incredibly curious about what he is really like. In order to get to know a person better, it is not at all necessary to communicate with him for several years - ten minutes of observation is enough. Insignificant, at first glance, details of his behavior will tell a lot about his character and personality type, and at the same time help assess the prospects for the development of your relationship.
HIS FAVORITE SPORT Single sprinters - runners, swimmers 1 - enjoy their independence and self-sufficiency. Fans of popular team sports - such as football, hockey, basketball - 2 have a strong spirit of competition, and this applies to both work and personal life. Men who are indifferent to sports in general are most likely 3 distinguished by their independence of judgment, and when making decisions they rely mainly on intuition.
HIS FRIENDS If he has a childhood friend, chances are 4 he knows what true loyalty is and will want you to live up to that ideal. And one more thing: be patient - it will take you a lot of time to gain his trust. If he has a lot of friends, he 5 easily finds a common language with people and easily adapts to any conditions.
COMMUNICATION STYLE He bombards you with emails, but will never call you first. This method of communication allows you to properly edit your thoughts. Well, he probably does n't want to show his true colors, or maybe he's just not very confident in himself. Anyone who likes to chat on icq or send SMS 7 craves attention non-stop. Is he 8 able to talk to you on the phone for hours? He is conservative, but close relationships do not frighten him at all.
CREDIT OR CASH? If he pays everywhere only with a plastic card, most likely he is ambitious and incredibly proud of his social status. If he pays only in cash, then he is a self-sufficient and independent person, a real macho who is difficult to baffle. If his pockets are empty, he is probably someone else's help. And I am sure that there will certainly be helpers.
SUNDRAIN OR DECOLLETE? If your favorite jeans and sundress turn him on more than a black tight dress, you're dating a true realist. He is calm, unhurried and prefers girls of the same kind who do not require a special approach
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A man who is ecstatic about women in designer clothes 13 thinks first of all about prestige. He's probably making a ton of money
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But there is a danger that this plays too big a role in his life. Is he turned on by girls dressed as the lead singers of the group “VIA Gra”? He has 14 obvious problems with his self-esteem.
Being surrounded by stunning women is his dream. PARTIES If he tries his best to attract the attention of others, he 15 is not too confident in himself. A party animal may be a good choice for having fun, but it is not easy to live with. He will demand constant attention from you to his person.
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HOW HE DRIVES A CAR If he gets angry at the sight of a traffic jam, one thing is clear: he is aggressive and is not used to restraining himself. Perhaps this trait will help him make a career, but a relationship with such a person is clearly not the ultimate dream. By the way, he prefers to dominate in his intimate life
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If in traffic jams he behaves like a true Taoist, then his self-control 18 is definitely all right.
BAD HABITS A gambling addict is an optimist with an adrenaline addiction. True, his excessive optimism disappears when faced with reality
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A heavy smoker will most likely turn out to be also a part-time neurotic. And it won’t be easy to persuade him to live together
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A drinker, perhaps 21 hides spiritual insecurity behind his quirks and violent antics.
WHAT IS HE LIKE IN BED? During sex with him, your bones literally crack, and he is definitely proud that he is capable of such pressure. He is 100 % sure that you are crazy about him. However, he 23 may also turn out to be a conservative, fulfilling a traditional gender role. If in bed he prefers the passive role of the executor of your desires, perhaps he once experienced mental trauma due to rude refusal and still has not come to his senses.
WHAT DOES HE ORDER AT A RESTAURANT A man who orders large portions is 25 constant, but dependent. And in general he is far from an adventurer.
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Chooses exotic? Lover of 26 spontaneous decisions and a fun life.
CLEAN OR DIRTY An exceptionally neat man 27 is terribly picky about pleasures. Those who have artistic clutter at home are by no means careerists, but very sensitive and creative individuals. If there is not even a washcloth in his bathroom, he is most likely lazy and dirty. Are you sure you want to get to know his sheets?
TIME FOR SEX A person who likes to make love in the morning before 30 is impulsive in everything. If he prefers intimate settings and the darkness of the night, he is most likely a romantic at heart. Don’t expect the Kama Sutra from him, but long and sensual sex is guaranteed.
HIS TV He only watches comedies - perhaps 32 laughing helps him relieve stress. He will not accumulate resentment and will never lose his composure
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But it may be difficult to have a serious conversation with him. A lover of detective stories and crime chronicles, 33 is prone to analysis and is proud of it.
You can always count on his help. LEFT-HANDED OR RIGHT-HANDED Lefties are most likely 34 artists at heart. After all, they process most of the information with the right hemisphere, which is responsible for creativity.
. Nothing definite can be said about right-handers.
HIS HAIR A man with a perm or styled 35 is an egoist like no other. If the hair has already begun to leave your boyfriend's head, this the best effect on his self-confidence. But he will most likely turn out to be very sensitive.
HIS SEXY STYLE He's a real sprinter! The result is more important to him than the process. Perhaps he is selfish , and not only in bed. If your man is a lover of long, sensual sex, there is definitely contact between you, just as there is a future for your relationship.
THE FATHER HAD THREE SONS The eldest 39 is responsible, you can rely on him. Younger 40 - creative. A bit of a nonconformist... In general, the fairytale Ivan the Fool was not too simple
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But if he is the average 41 , keep in mind that his sensitive soul needs a lot of attention.
CARESHIP ON DISPLAY If in public he hugs you all the time, this is probably his way of proving to others his masculine worth or simply... “marking his territory.” But this is a sign of insecurity. A man who doesn't even touch you in front of anyone is 43 not sure of either his feelings for you or your feelings for him.
UNDERWEAR The tighter the briefs, the stronger his 44 desire to show off his sexual prowess. And he really has something to be proud of! If he chooses boxers, he may not be a sex machine, but 45 will be incredibly attentive to all your desires. What can you say about a man who walks around without any underwear? He is free from prejudice and has good control of his body.
APPEARANCE AND AMBITIONS A man who catches his reflection in every shop window 47 definitely suffers from narcissism. But it is also a sign of a focus on success, no matter what aspect of life it relates to.
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If he pays almost no attention to his appearance, then he may be less ambitious and much easier to communicate with.
He definitely won’t put pressure on you. WHO SHOULD DRIVE THE CAR If he doesn’t plop down in the driver’s seat as if it were his rightful place, but gladly gives up the steering wheel to you, he probably wants you to manage your relationship as well. At least sometimes. If he jumps behind the wheel even in your car, at best he is old -fashioned. It is much worse if he turns out to be authoritarian, prone to constant control.
DOES HE LOOK YOU IN THE EYES If he avoids meeting your gaze, 51 you shouldn't trust him 100%. However, if he stares at you all the time, then 52 feels the need to keep everything under control, or even wants to completely subjugate you. But if he his burning gaze off you... You yourself understand that he is simply fascinated by you.
HOW HE SPEAKS If he speaks a hundred words a minute, then he is a man of mood, incredibly energetic and possibly very selfish. If he speaks with feeling and attitude, you definitely can’t call him an extreme sports enthusiast . But it’s worth listening to what he says more carefully, because he doesn’t always say everything in plain text!
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One of the ways to avoid many problems and troubles is the ability to recognize people. Unfortunately, it is very difficult to immediately understand their thoughts, character, habits and dreams
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After all, this is all a real secret behind seven seals
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And if it is sometimes difficult to understand yourself, then what can we say about others
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Photo: how to recognize a man
What you need to pay attention to to get to know a man better
- Which hand does he write with?
Yes, most people are right-handed. But if you are dating a man who prefers to use his left hand, be prepared for the unexpected, because such a person has a very developed creative component of his personality. A creative guy will definitely not let you get bored. - The way he talks.
By the pace of the chosen one's speech, you can say a lot about his attitude towards life. A man who speaks slowly, calmly and measuredly behaves the same way in life: measure seven times, cut once. Such a person will not let you down and he will always say what he thinks. Fast, hurried speech indicates energy. Sometimes such a person is so overwhelmed by the desire to show himself on the positive side that he completely forgets about the interlocutor. - What does he prefer to eat?
A lover of exotic cuisine in life is ready for adventure, the routine quickly tires him, and the one who prefers more traditional dishes is not prone to recklessness, he is more reliable and constant. - What kind of underwear does he prefer?
A young man who prefers tight swimming trunks is eager to show off his sexual prowess. He is proud of his skills, but he may not listen to your wishes. A lover of boxer shorts is not so creative in bed, but he will definitely not forget about the pleasure of his woman. A liberated person who loves freedom may surprise you with a complete lack of underwear. - The way he looks at you.
The burning eyes of a man speak of a strong feeling that is impossible to restrain. If he looks away during a conversation, there is a high probability that he is hiding something. A man who doesn't take his eyes off you during a conversation may want to show that he feels confident around you. - How he treats you.
The way your chosen one behaves with you in public can say a lot. Wanting to show you off, he will constantly be nearby. Unsure of his or your feelings, a man most likely will not touch you in front of others, since touching indicates a close relationship.
Generosity.
You can get an idea of this masculine quality by observing a man’s behavior. Identify what is important to you in his behavior and look carefully at what you see.
You can simply observe, or you can slightly provoke a man to do certain things. This way it will open up better. And notice how he will behave in every situation.
The most “cool” thing when meeting a man is putting him in different stressful situations. For example: you forgot your keys at home and cannot get home. Your car won't start. Or your heel breaks and you don’t know what to do. And it is very interesting to watch how a man will react to the problems that you have.
Talk to him about women
According to research, men do not change the patterns by which they build relationships with girls. This means that knowing about your chosen one’s past relationships and the direction in which they developed, you will be able to predict the future of your romance. But you shouldn’t ask a man very intrusively about his past relationships. Just try to carefully figure out a few key points.
For example, ask what the reason for the breakup was. If a man gets away with a couple of general phrases, this is a good sign, which indicates that he respects the woman, despite the breakdown of the relationship. If he begins to list the numerous shortcomings of his ex, accusing her of all possible sins, then there is a chance that you have met a man who is “always right.” This is a bad quality, since in any dispute he will consider everyone to blame, but not himself.
Cheating as a reason for a breakup also means a lot. There is no guarantee that he will not repeat the same mistakes in the future. Be sure to think about this! Young and naive girls fall in love with such guys, they cheat on them, and then with tears in their eyes they think about whether to forgive the betrayal.
A disdainful attitude towards women, constant jokes about their intelligence and abilities will not add points to your chosen one, because it is likely that he will treat you the same way.
You most likely won’t ignore stories about a man’s wild adventures either, since they may indicate that he is only interested in sex in a relationship.
Questions for a guy to get to know him better
When a girl starts dating a guy, it is very important to have strong, sweet and interesting questions in stock. In this article, we will help you get your bearings and start asking important questions that will help you figure out whether this is the person for you or not.
By asking the right questions, you will be able to decide whether this man is the one you want by your side and determine your next move in the future. They are needed to help the relationship between you develop further. Let's take a closer look at some good and sweet questions you can ask the guy you like.
A list of questions:
1. What makes you smile?
Psychology. Great question if you want to know if your boyfriend is a cheerful person or a constant whiner. Also, this question will let the guy know that you are interested in what exactly makes him a happy person. Also, you will get to know him much better and will be able to make him smile in the future.
2. What's your favorite movie?
The question is very banal, but it will allow you to find out if you have common interests. The more you have in common, the better!
3. Is there a place in this world where you would like to visit and why?
An educational topic if you want to find out if you have a common dream.
4. What is your favorite sport?
Many guys love to play and talk about sports. If he plays on a team, he will definitely invite you to the game. And also, you will create the appearance that you are interested in his passions and want to get to know him better.
5. What is your family like?
Take the initiative to ask about the people he values and loves.
6. What trait makes him proud?
Find out more closely whether the answer is about his appearance, abilities or personality. This way you can recognize an egoist or a benevolent, self-sufficient person.
7. Have you ever cried while watching a movie?
As a rule, all men answer this question categorically no, but if yes, then your guy is very sensitive.
8. What's your favorite car?
Another favorite male topic. If he is a car enthusiast, he will adore you for asking this question and will happily tell you all about cars.
9. What is your favorite food, what do you like to eat?
The more you learn about him, the closer the connection between you will be.
10. What is the first thing you notice when you meet a girl?
Will give you a good understanding of what your boyfriend really is like.
11. Is there any crazy thing he did?
It will give you the opportunity to find out how far its borders go. Will you be able to keep up with them or do you want much more than what he is willing to do.
12. What was the scariest moment in his life?
Find out everything he is afraid of and why.
13. Who is his favorite hero?
By asking this question to a man, you will find out who he strives to be like.
14. What is the definition of intimate in your understanding?
Asking this question will give you insight into how your partner perceives intimacy and romance. The answer to this question can be very touching and charming, or rude and vulgar!
15. Favorite hobby?
Find even more common interests!
16. What is your favorite restaurant/cafe/bar?
If you're both big sushi lovers, then you already have plans for a new date.
17. Favorite video game?
Many men love to spend all their free time playing computer games. Find out if your boy has such an addiction. If yes, then it’s better to think about whether you need a man who is a gambling addict.
18. Is he a superstitious person?
Some superstitious people are too intolerable in their providence and habits.
19. Is he a religious person?
An important question, because it would be great if you both came to a mutual understanding of views. Different understandings of life lead to a break.
20. Favorite time of year?
What does he prefer: lounging on the beach in the summer or drinking hot cocoa in the winter?
21. What kind of music does he prefer to listen to?
This question is sure to open the door to a great conversation between you and your beau.
22. What makes you nervous?
Find out all the weaknesses and strengths of your partner.
23. What was your first kiss, what was it like?
A good topic for conversation, because who doesn’t love telling stories about first kisses.
24. Does your chosen one know how to dance?
This question may seem stupid to you, but if you are a woman who loves to dance, then you will want your boyfriend to dance with you.
25. What upsets him?
Maybe you both hate cigarette smoke or neither of you can tolerate broccoli! This will also help you avoid mistakes and some things that irritate your boyfriend.
Cool questions:
- What would you choose: listen to your heart or your brain?
- What would you do if you inherited $1 million tomorrow?
- Guess what I'm thinking about right now?
- What is better: asking for permission or asking for forgiveness?
- What's the funniest thing that happened as a child?
- If you were a waiter and the customer was an ASSHOLE, would you spit in his food?
- What do you think is the sexiest animal in the animal kingdom?
- If you had to eat only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- How would you spend a rainy day?
- If it were possible to read other people's thoughts, whose would they be?
- What should happen in your life over the next 5, or 10, or 15 years?
- If he could choose any job in the world, what would it be?
- Where would he rather live - in a big house in the suburbs or a tiny apartment in the city center?
- You only get 3 words to describe yourself - name them?
- What was the last book he couldn't put down?
- What qualities does he want his girlfriend to have?
Do you also want to know what to talk about with a girl when you run out of topics to talk about? Then read here and stay up to date with current topics!
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