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Why are most girls so eager to get married as soon as possible? What are the main reasons for this desire?
Every girl from an early age dreams of a handsome prince, reads romance novels and imagines her future chosen one, strives to be as beautiful as possible in order to immediately blind her betrothed and make him fall in love with her forever, to be his only lady in his heart, unique and the most beautiful. But many girls also wonder: what awaits them in married life, what are its true charms? In this article I will give you the 10 most common reasons why girls decide to create an official union with a man! This is why you, dear girls, want to get married so much:
1. If you have met the very man with whom you would like to live your whole life, fall asleep and wake up in the same bed, if you are confident in him and are ready to give him all of yourself - feel free to transfer the relationship to official status! Keep the change.
2. By the way, the “position” of a wife itself sounds much more pleasant and specific than “just a girl,” a common-law wife, and especially a cohabitant (what a vile word!). A wife is also a status, isn’t it?
3. All your friends are already married, but you are not? This is a mess! We urgently need to make up for our positions! This may sound stupid, but this one is true?)
4. You already really want a doll and definitely one that looks like him! It seems to you that it’s high time to have a child, but you don’t want to do it outside of an official relationship.
5. And your future husband also has a beautiful, sonorous surname and you want to try it on yourself as soon as possible. And, of course, you want your common children to bear his last name.
6. You really like your husband's relatives. With them you will feel even more confident in life. They will always help with everything and will definitely come to the aid of the young family!
7. You want to be the queen of the house, you want home comfort, family holidays; you love to cook and want to feed your whole family delicious food. You are a true homemaker, you have no price! You are a golden man and your man should find out about it as soon as possible!
8. You are tired of solving all the problems and issues that you encounter along the path of life alone! You want to have a real ally, support, a person who will help you overcome all adversity, who will always help you out, calm you down and warm you with his care.
9. You strive for financial well-being, but perhaps things haven’t worked out for you yet, but you really want to live the “Hollywood life”... You definitely need a spacious apartment (or better yet a house - why waste time on trifles!) with a stylish design, with the latest technology... A red car and the most fashionable clothes and relaxation, relaxation, relaxation on the sea, sea, sea. Of course, it’s better to realize your “modest” plans with your sweetheart. No comments.
10. You want to prove to your former boyfriends, who treated you so badly and broke up, that everything in your life has improved and you have finally found true love, and everything that happened before means absolutely nothing. “Look at my VKontakte avatar and drool, you asshole!... and show me to your new goat - I’m many times better than her!”
In fact, there are a lot of reasons why girls want to get married, and each girl has a dozen of her own “personal” reasons.
And the list that I have just shown you is general and more or less standard for all girls - I am sure that from these 10 points you definitely recognize yourself somewhere. Of course, I wouldn’t like to think that some kind of mercantile aspirations or financial interests lead to marriage, but, unfortunately, there are a lot of such examples. But I sincerely want to believe that at least all of our clients definitely get married out of sincere love! After all, everything can be read by the faces from the photographs of our WEDDING PORTFOLIO
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A person without a partner seems inferior to others
Romantic fairy tales about two halves constantly convey to us the image of the inferiority of the individual. Having learned that an adult does not have a partner, people begin to look for flaws in him, wondering what is wrong with him and why he does not have relationships with the opposite sex. Bad character, manic tendencies, 21st finger on the lower back - what’s wrong with you, after all?
What to do about it?
Never think that they are right! The tendency to get married as soon as possible is a sign of a weak, immature personality. Only a psychologically healthy, confident and free from stereotypes woman can afford not to turn marriage into an end in itself. But this is exactly what each of us wants to become.
The belief that a woman can realize herself only in the family
Another greeting from the 19th century: “Woman, go to the kitchen and give birth to children. Preferably without interrupting the preparation of borscht.” Our predecessors had very limited opportunities for self-realization. Some chauvinistic heads are still convinced that women have not done anything useful in the entire history of mankind. If you know someone like that, let them read our material about everyday inventions invented by ladies https://heroine.ru/7-povsednevnyx-izobretenij-kotorye-pridumali-zhenshhiny/.
Even if you managed to make a dizzying career, the reason for this is unhappiness in your personal life. As a rule, those who couldn’t do anything themselves think this way. “In the end, you can always get married,” is a typical end to a conversation about a girl’s plans for the future.
What to do about it?
The best argument is your own example. Don’t hang around your parents’ house wondering what to do, but look for something you love and achieve success in it.
This is the Russian mentality
The idea that a woman must hide behind her husband is deeply rooted in the past. A daughter has always been a burden in the family, so even the most loving parents wanted to quickly transfer her into reliable hands. Having married the girl, they were freed not only from material, but also from moral responsibility - now another person is completely responsible for her fate. Convenient, isn't it?
Realities have changed, but prejudices remain. You already earn your own living, and any everyday issues can be solved by “husband for an hour” and other services. However, in the eyes of mom and dad, you will always be a slightly helpless, fragile daughter.
What to do about it?
It is not our parents’ fault that social thought has not yet evolved enough. And they themselves were born and raised in a completely different reality, and cannot get all past experiences out of their heads. So give them a hug, and make a mental promise to yourself to never push your kids in marriage matters.
People think you're lonely
There are still a lot of people among us who think that without a boyfriend there is nothing to do. In their minds, the absence of a partner is the same as loneliness. They see you sitting in your room all day watching Bridget Jones's Diary.
What to do about it?
Don't give up on anything just because you don't have anyone to go with. Glory to the Internet and worldwide globalization - now a person needs to seriously try to feel like Robinson. There are a lot of communities of interests online, where you will always find a partner for the most extravagant activities.
