What kind of love is there? Types of love

What kind of love is there? Types of love

What kind of love is there?
Almost always unexpected. It takes us by surprise, invades our calm and orderly life and creates complete confusion there, confusing our thoughts, plans and actions. At such moments, it seems to us that we are completely confused in ourselves and in our feelings, and nothing can help us. But that's not true. Still, some semblance of a grammar of love exists. And for those who know its basics and imagine what love really is, it will be much easier to cope with this confusion. When we fall in love, we know for sure that no one has ever experienced anything like this before. This is both true and not. Love comes in different forms. People use the same word to describe completely different conditions. But still, the nature of these states is the same.

What kind of love is there?

Love-drama

She is very emotional and explosive. It knocks you off your feet like the first cigarette you try, full of quarrels and scandals, jealousy to the point of absurdity, constant showdowns, a series of endless tears and promises. Such love usually happens at a young age and ends with a nervous breakdown, complete withdrawal from reality, or hair dyed provocatively.

It is through this kind of love that we learn to love. Everything is for the first time, so you want to experience everything. And at any cost and as quickly as possible.

Love-hate

This love is an eternal quarrel. The words “I hate you” are heard much more often than “I love you,” and hugs are more like suffocation. We run barefoot down the dirty steps of a dark entrance, smash our phones against the wall, shout that we hate it and at the same time don’t want to lose it. This kind of love is when on New Year’s Day, instead of wishing to find the “Man of Our Dreams,” we just want everyone to finally leave behind...

Love-hate is the result of the inability to build normal human relationships. From such love, wrinkles and nervous breakdowns quickly appear. Such relationships have everything: passion, goodbyes, despair, excitement and self-destruction. The only thing missing, perhaps, is boredom.

Love

Everything is quiet and calm here: no breaking of dishes, hacked accounts on social networks, calls from exes and promises of scratched out eyes in case of betrayal. In such relationships, everything is based on mutual trust, which is already in the default settings.

Such love is very tenacious, with it you can make children and create a family that would be ideal for a toothpaste advertisement.

It's just that it's very monotonous. Therefore, you need to try not to “get caught” in it in your youth, when you still really want passion, a scratched back and scarlet pink petals on silk sheets.

Love is a chameleon

In such a relationship there is everything: love, grief, quarrels, and hope. They feel good together, but not so much that it becomes boring. They fight, but not so much that they break up. They know each other well enough and are still able to surprise.

If she hurts him, she will feel much worse than him. And he cannot find words to explain why he is with her. In the morning she brings him coffee in bed, watches him sleep and is afraid of losing him. When he dreams that she is sitting in a cafe with another man, he tosses and turns and wakes up in horror...

They know what love is like, but they don’t know what kind of feelings they have. They don’t know how long they will live and why they love each other so much. And sometimes it seems to them that no one knows this.

What is love like?

Girls really like words of love and a lot of attention. They want the person she is dating to confess his love to her as quickly as possible, and she begins to worry if this does not happen for a long time. Is it possible to somehow understand without words that he loves you? And what is love like?

It is worth noting that relationships between a man and a woman can develop in the most unexpected ways. It is impossible, looking from the outside, to say that everything is perfect in this couple, while in the other everything is heading towards separation. Many people do not show their true relationships in public; often they just play at love. People can be friends for decades and after some quarrel stop communicating forever.

Or the person you thought was your friend becomes the object of your passion, and a long-term romantic relationship begins. Where is the line that separates indifference from interest, hatred from love? Our feelings are capable of changing their state, and therefore life is constantly full of events. After all, even in one day a person can experience a wide variety of emotions and feelings.

As you know, love comes in different forms, and it is necessary to understand what a person may feel towards us, and what can we give him in return? Experts have identified three main types of love: friendly, family, passionate. So, let's try to figure out what we have.

Friendly love

We feel a sense of gratitude, tenderness and love for the people who have become our friends, who have made our lives more beautiful and interesting, and we cannot imagine that we could ever lose them. Such love must be devoted and sincere, otherwise friendship cannot be called real.

Friendly love is affection, shared memories, a good time, it is an opportunity to receive advice from someone you care about or hear the right criticism for your inappropriate actions. Be that as it may, a friend will never leave you in trouble or hurt you. You have many common interests, you have something to talk about, share your successes and failures, and you get a lot of positive emotions from communicating with your friends.

Family love

Family love is parental love for children and vice versa. This also includes love between brother and sister, between grandmother and grandson, etc. Love for relatives is unconditional, it cannot just disappear - be it a minor quarrel or a huge disagreement. Truly close people will always be able to agree and find a compromise, because they have no one more dear to each other.

Family love is forgiveness, help, support, understanding, comfort, family warmth and hospitality. A dear and close person will never leave you in trouble, will never abandon you, remember how many mothers have to raise disabled children or find out that their child crossed the line of justice and became a criminal. They did not stop loving them less for their shortcomings and bad deeds.

Love for their children will always live in their hearts, no matter what they do, sometimes this love is destructive, both for the mother and for her child, so you need to try not just to love, but to guide your child on the right path. In a family, feelings such as respect, trust, sacrifice and, of course, love must be present between the closest people.

Love-passion

Passionate love is not just an exciting sex life, it is a manifestation of tender, platonic love that is reinforced by this passion. This feeling is especially typical for young couples who experience incredible attraction to each other, both physical and emotional. But passion-love is not only the privilege of the young, but also for older people it is quite relevant.

What is passion-love? This is a relationship between a man and a woman, the basis of which is affection, affection, care, dedication, tenderness. Every person dreams of such magical love, especially girls. And there always comes a moment when she begins to think about the question: “Does he love me?” This is a very difficult question and it is quite difficult to figure out what the answer will be. But women always know how to listen to their hearts and trust their intuition, look at your relationship from the outside, and if you like the result, then you can confidently say that you are not indifferent to the person. However, it is worth remembering that men are cunning creatures, and women are gullible. Be on your guard because you don't want to be disappointed.

But love can be different...

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