More and more often, couples go to psychologists so that they can tell them how to begin to feel each other. A particularly pressing topic is the topic of sex. Young people are interested in what are the most common arousing positions that will bring pleasure to both partners.
What is this?
Sexual gestures are a way to express your affection without words. Our body says a lot about how we feel, but sometimes we don’t understand it, or rather, we don’t know how to understand it. Therefore, discord often occurs in the relationship between a man and a woman. It is necessary to study gestures and postures in order to better understand your partner. This will help you avoid unpleasant situations, attract attention and interest the opposite sex.
Women's gestures
Sexual gestures are based on gender characteristics. Usually a guy wants to please a true girl, but a lady, on the contrary, wants to please all the men around her. There are a lot of gestures that have a sexual message.
The following are characteristic of a woman:
- In order to attract attention, the girl naturally makes a gesture with her hand, for example, stroking her hair, tucking it behind her ear or straightening her clothes.
- Tilts the head to the side.
- Moving her head, she seems to throw her hair sharply to the side or back from her shoulders to her back. Girls with short hair do this instinctively.
- When a girl walks, her chest is directed forward and her back is straight. At the same time, her gait is from the hip.
- When a girl or woman sits, a smooth crossing and straightening of the legs occurs.
- Stroking body parts such as calves, thighs and knees with your hand.
- Slowly crossing your legs over your legs.
- A girl who is passionate about her partner will show off her wrist at ease.
- Straightened chest.
- An amorous look combined with a smile.
- “The look of a coquette” - she smiles a little, then looks away to the side.
- Wet lips.
- Half-open mouth.
- Low soft voice.
- Stroking any rectangular object.
- If a woman is very interested in a man, she will try to sit next to him.
- When talking to a man, he leans forward a little.
- Eyes. If a woman is attracted to a man, she will look into his eyes and try to make eye contact with him, thereby turning on a partner.
- Examine yourself in the mirror in the presence of a man, so that he then looks at her.
- Paint your lips in his presence.
Sex positions for orgasm: Buddhist style
If you like passionate and long sex, but your partner is too fast, try holding it back. This position is ideal for those who want to prolong the pleasure in order to obtain the highest pleasure.
And this is very important for women who need more time to achieve orgasm.
How to do it?
Let your partner lie on his back so that he is in a reclining state. For comfort, place pillows under his back.
Position yourself on top so that his face is between your legs and he can caress you with his tongue. Then slowly move down until he enters you. Hug his torso with your legs and lean on your arms behind you. Have him lift his legs to grab your thighs. This way you will be intertwined in a single impulse. Movements should be soft and careful.
This will excite you even more!
You can also use a vibrator in this position. Ask the man to touch his inner thighs with it. But let him not rush.
Look at each other, enjoying the trembling of the body.
Sexual gestures of men
Men also have their own sexual gestures:
- At the level of instincts, men adopted from primates the position of legs wide apart (as if showing off their genitals).
- A frank look, as if undressing a woman.
- Hands are on your hips.
- Fingers sticking out of a jacket or trouser pocket.
- Straightening your hair and items of clothing with your hand.
- When a woman appears, the man straightens his shoulders and back.
- Walks back and forth.
- In a sitting position, the legs are pulled forward.
General gestures
Common sexual gestures for guys and girls:
- Hands resting on hips.
- Legs are spread wide.
- Long or short intimate look.
- If your pupils narrow, then you have no chance, but if they dilate, then the opposite sex really likes you.
- The “eye to eye” gaze lasts a couple of seconds, then rushes down.
- The guy evaluates the girl as a whole, and she, in turn, does it gradually.
- Increased eye contact.
- The back is straight.
- When partners like each other, they seem to try to sit opposite each other.
- Copying gestures.
Sex positions for orgasm: Body plexus
This is a passionate and sensual position that will give you a feeling of intimacy, euphoria and harmony. It's like Argentine tango, in which two people give themselves to each other without memory. It will allow you to get closer or remember a previous passion.
How to do it?
Once on your knees, lean your back so that your knees are bent and your hands behind your head. Let your partner lie on top with one leg bent.
This position will allow him to penetrate very deeply and your clitoris will be constantly stimulated. Try having sex slowly, feeling your bodies move together.
This will excite you even more!
Let your partner blindfold you with a silk scarf and work on your body. The unknown is very intriguing and exciting for both partners. Let him touch and caress you, you will feel defenseless.
Unconscious manifestation
The choice of these sexual gestures occurs unconsciously. Therefore, if you know them, you will better understand what the opposite sex wants from you.
So, we have looked at what sexual gestures there are, now let's move on to exciting poses. They will help diversify the intimate life of sexual partners. Because sometimes there is a moment when passion fades away, and young people try to add zest to their relationship. But the partners should come to this method together, so as not to offend each other later. A woman should ask what positions excite a man, and vice versa. By doing this, you show your other half that you respect her, and do not show your dissatisfaction. Just as the position determines the style of sex, our desires and sensations at that second determine the position.
What excites
Let's look at the most exciting positions that both partners will enjoy.
First of all, it is not the novelty of the poses that is important, but the relationship between the partners. For a girl, the main thing is that the guy is affectionate with her, but at the same time a little rough in sex, this turns her on. Then she wants to give herself completely to her partner. And for a man, it is important to see the woman’s very desire, that she likes it, and the main thing is that she also tries to conquer him in bed, and not lie like a log and only wait for actions from him.
TOP 10 positions for 100% orgasm
Butterfly pose or modified missionary pose
In this position, the girl lies on the bed on her back, and her partner enters her vagina in a standing position. In this case, the girl should slightly lift her pelvis upward and, for the deepest penetration, throw her legs over the man’s shoulders. With this angle of inclination, the likelihood of orgasm is especially enhanced. And, despite the average penetration, there will be excellent stimulation of the G-spot and vagina, which will certainly bring the long-awaited result.
Another missionary
You can try another version of the banal missionary position and simply start with it. As soon as the man enters the woman's vagina, she needs to squeeze her legs between her partner's legs. In this case, the partner will move his body slightly forward and create the necessary pressure on her clitoris. In this case, the man’s actions will perfectly stimulate the clitoris and allow both partners to enjoy an incredible orgasm.
Nude pose
In order to increase the sensitivity of the penis and maintain an erection for a long time, during sexual intercourse a woman needs to use her thumb and forefinger to create a ring that should be placed at the entrance to the vagina; the hand will clasp the head of the penis when the partner enters and creates additional stimulation. This life hack is also suitable for couples whose genital lengths fundamentally do not match. The woman will be able to limit the partner’s immersion, and the partner will feel stimulation along the entire length.
Pose using a table
The position using a table is often used during sudden sex, when, with unbridled desire and in a fit of passion, papers and stationery are thrown off the table, especially aggravating the feelings of the lovers. In this position, the woman lies down on the table, and the man enters her in a standing position. In this position, sexual intercourse is under the complete control of the man, which allows him to achieve deep penetration. The woman is moving up and down on the table at this moment. Foreign objects and excessive clothing on the partners in this situation creates the effect of surprise and some depravity, which makes this sexual intercourse especially passionate, thus increasing the excitement of both.
Scissor pose
This position allows the partner to fully control the process, starting from the choice of penetration depth and angle. At the same time, the clitoris is perfectly stimulated, and the woman easily achieves an incredible orgasm. In the Scissors pose, the partner lies on his back with his knees bent, and the partner is above him in such a position that one of her legs is on his thigh and the other is between his legs. In this position, the girl herself can control the degree of assertiveness and strength of the resulting friction.
Lifting off the ground
Having sex against a wall, when the partner holds his girlfriend in the air, brings special pleasure to both lovers. This is probably due to inherent gender differences, when a man should be strong, and a girl should be fragile and graceful. In this position, the hug is incredibly strong, and this enhances both physical and spiritual contact. This position is physically difficult, since the partner must support the woman’s weight, so it is suitable only for athletically trained people. But, if you feel that you are capable of it, be sure to try! There is another life hack that will help less athletic couples implement this idea - use a chair! Let your partner rest one leg on a chair while she is against the wall, so she will take some of the load off the man, but the feeling of weightlessness will remain.
Stimulation of maximum points
In this case, we want to talk about the position when a man is more focused on his partner’s sensations rather than on his own. Let your partner stimulate several strong erogenous zones of a woman at the same time, for example, the clitoris with the tongue, the nipples with the hands, and let the vibrator help influence the G zone (in this case, it is better to choose some kind of device in the form of a clothespin, for example We-vibe sync or Silhouette, they also bend well in the desired position). It is better for a man to sit between his lady’s legs, placing a bolster or pillow under her lower back. You may not be able to wait for the penetration itself, since a woman may well get an orgasm without a man’s penis, but which representative of the stronger half of humanity will not experience pleasure seeing how his girlfriend shudders in the strongest multiple orgasms. From this you can finish yourself.
Need to shake things up
If you need a small but very stimulating change during sex, this option is a great way to take a break for a while. To do this, the man, when exiting his partner, leaves the head of the penis on her clitoris, and rotates the base of the penis in different directions, lightly hitting the clitoris with its head with each movement. Thus, both the clitoris and the head of the penis will be stimulated, and both partners will receive pleasure.
Engaging the buttocks and anus
If your partner is not opposed to bold experiments, we recommend trying annilingus. A comfortable position is lying on your side with your legs crossed. Well, if these manipulations bring only pleasure to your partner, do not hesitate to move further in stimulating the prostate. It’s not for nothing that the prostate is called a man’s second heart; by acting on it, he can experience a powerful orgasm. It would be good to start this action with an erotic massage in order to thoroughly relax and excite your partner, and our training “Male Orgasm in Your Hands” is a must-attend.
Other scissors
You can use erogenous points not only with your hands. For these purposes, special manipulations have been developed, and the method outlined below is incredibly effective for this. During sex, the girl must raise her legs, and the young man must grab her ankles with his hands. At the same time, the partner can change the position of his beloved’s legs as he pleases - turn them, move them and spread them apart. These manipulations bring unusual sensations associated with stretching of the pelvic tendons. This type of sex will perfectly diversify your usual intimate life and add an unforgettable zest to it, and your partner, in turn, will be happy to dominate.
Don’t be afraid to experiment in search of positions that are especially pleasant for you and the effectiveness of orgasm. Use our tips, and the result will not keep you waiting long!
Positions that men like
Everyone has at least once been interested in what the most exciting position of a man and a woman is. It is on this topic that we will discuss further. So, what positions turn guys on? These positions include:
- "Classical". This position is to the liking of a man, since in this position he is on top. That is, it is the guy who controls the entire process. This is very important for men. In this position, partners have the opportunity to observe each other, see emotions and passion on their faces. Frequent kissing also becomes possible in this position.
- “Spoons” is a fairly popular position. Guys also really like her. In this case, the girl has her back to her partner. Therefore, he sees something wild in this position. The partner will be 100% excited.
- "Reverse Cowgirl" The guys really like the position. She literally drives them crazy. In this position, the lady sits on top of her man, with her back to him. Representatives of the stronger sex love this pose. Because at this moment they can relax and watch how their woman gives them pleasure.
- "Like a dog". If you ask a man what positions are arousing, this list will definitely include this one. The new name is "doggy style", or man from behind. Attracts a guy because he is behind and controls the process, feels his power over his partner, and also sees her beautiful back.
- "Rider". This is the most arousing sex position for a man as he watches his woman pleasure him. He sees her beautiful figure, which makes him even more excited - this is an exciting pose. With its help, you can have sex with your girlfriend anywhere, even on the street in the bushes, which turns the guy on even more. In this case, the partner can attach himself to his half both in front and behind.
These are the classic positions to turn a man on. And if a woman meets her partner after hard work in beautiful lingerie, then this will please him even more. The lady can view the photo poses in advance. An excited man will follow her to the ends of the earth.
But don’t forget that girls also have their own preferences in sex.
Sex positions for orgasm: Sitting from behind
An armchair or sofa can be a great place to make love. This pose will allow you to discover new unforgettable sensations. It will especially appeal to lovers of passionate and quick sex, for example, you can have it five minutes before leaving the house.
How to do it?
Sit on the man's lap, with your back to him, and gently insert the penis. To control the depth and pace of movements, grab your partner's hips with your hands.
You can embody this pose in different ways - sit facing or sideways to him. But the position with his back gives the man more space for caresses.
This will excite you even more!
Try to catch your partner by surprise, approach him while he is watching boring news and open your blouse, he is unlikely to be able to resist.
Unzip his fly and sit on top of him. Be in charge, dictate terms.
Poses that ladies like
So, let's look at exciting poses for women:
- “Man on top” - the woman lies in a horizontal position with her legs thrown over her man’s shoulders. At first he should enter gently, then deeply with intermittent repetitions. The man enters several times, thereby allowing her to get even more excited, then the pace increases. If your partner likes it rough, then you can go even deeper with intense speed. At the same time, if a woman is uncomfortable, then she should say at what angle it will be most pleasant for her.
- “Face to face” - sitting opposite a friend. The man sits on his knees with his legs tucked under his buttocks, while the woman rests her hands on the bed, spreading her legs wider, bending them at the knees. The pelvis is raised, and the man holds the buttocks. In this position, the penis enters the vagina as much as possible, thereby enhancing sensations.
- The third pose is in a perpendicular position. The girl lies on the edge of the bed, her legs are spread and resting on the floor. The man is kneeling perpendicular to her. Both control the angle of penetration of the penis. Movements may vary. In this position, the man, in order to give maximum pleasure to his woman, stimulates the clitoris with his fingers. You can also give pleasure by caressing her breasts.
- “Heat” pose - this exciting pose, in fact, reminds everyone of the well-known “69” pose. But it is based not on oral, but on vaginal sex. The man lies on his back, and the woman rests her elbows on the bed, connecting her genitals to the man. It's mostly the woman who moves. This way she adjusts the angle of entry of the penis, thereby bringing maximum pleasure.
- “Cowgirl” - we have already looked at why men like this position. But it is also important for a woman because she controls the angle of entry and the pace. In this position, a girl can achieve orgasm because her partner can last longer.
Men, you have no idea what a woman can do when she feels wanted, loved and inspired. This is not only influenced by sex, but also by your attitude towards her.
Sex position Bridge
How to do it:
Start in missionary position. Have your boyfriend sit with his elbows resting on his ankles and his knees wide apart.
Lying on your back, place your feet on the bed and lift your hips slightly into a low bridge. He can grab his hips and use them as leverage.
Why it works:
- This sex position allows for very deep penetration and a good angle for g-spot stimulation.
- He can stroke your clitoris, or you can stimulate it yourself. (And it's practically yoga!)
Options:
- It can sit higher or lower, thereby changing the angle of penetration.
- You can move by raising and lowering your hips.
- Things will be much more intense if he gets on his knees and you wrap your legs around his torso or put your ankles on his shoulders.
Views on quality sex
By what principles can you evaluate the quality of sex? Let's figure out what's what. Firstly, “emotional nourishment”. Sometimes a man and a woman catch themselves thinking that quality sex can only happen with a loved one. Basically, a girl won't sleep with a guy if she's not attracted to him. At the same time, a man will not be able to sleep with a woman who is cold-blooded towards him. Therefore, they must have sympathy for each other.
Secondly, there is a taboo on talking about exes. Few people like it when the topic of ex-partners comes up. There is little point in this, because after hearing how it happened to others, you will become fixated on it.
Third, sexual experience is not important. Men and women should be calm about this situation, because since you are together, you will share the experience with your other half. Don't forget to voice your sexual fantasies. New ideas will only diversify your intimate life. Then you both can enjoy it.
Another important factor is the absence of complaints against your partner. This sign is very important for men. The fact is that when a woman makes sexual claims, the guy can react sharply to this and withdraw into himself. Therefore, this problem should be approached very delicately, so as not to hurt men’s self-esteem.
Coital alignment technique
How to do it:
Start in missionary position. Ask him to move closer to your head so that his pelvis is slightly higher in relation to you than in the traditional missionary position.
Instead of moving up and down, he should focus on friction.
Why it works:
Despite the complex scientific name, this is a wonderful position that many women enjoy.
The position of your pelvis in this position allows your pubic bone to rub against your clitoris, which is necessary for most women to achieve orgasm.
This position is great for women who are shy about trying crazy positions, as it is just a variation of the traditional missionary.
Options:
For even more intense contact, use your hand to spread your labia so that your partner is rubbing directly against your clitoris.
You can also use a clitoral lubricant to enhance the slippery sensation.
Tips for those who want to achieve harmony in intimate relationships
When making love, try to maintain a balance between your desires and your partner's needs. If you take, be sure to give, and vice versa. Be extremely generous with tenderness and affection. With all this, do not allow your partner to infringe on your return.
Try to play with your partner. Be sure to show each other your true desires. Convey them with words and gestures. Only in this way will you be able to motivate your sexual partner to respond. With proper communication it will be much easier to achieve absolute mutual understanding. Never be afraid of your desires! Even if you think they are too depraved. Only with your revelations can you surprise your loved one, evoking vivid emotions in him and giving his attraction new strength.
Experiment!
When making love, do it with your soul, fully expending your energy and strength. This is the only way you will be able to fill sex with the most vivid emotions. Making love will turn into an exciting, exciting adventure if there is pleasure, sincerity, new discoveries and a selfless desire to improve for the benefit of the partner. Try not to have monotony in your intimate life. It destroys attraction and turns passionate sex into routine.
Remember that you are not brother and sister, but a couple in love! Therefore, try to treat sex as the most important thing in your life. Allow yourself to open up to new sensations in the intimate area.
The most effective ways to achieve orgasm
Everyone knows that it is much more difficult for women to experience orgasm than for men. There are many reasons for this. However, don't despair. Achieving orgasm is a daily painstaking work that is rewarded with unforgettable sensations. I WANT to tell you about the most effective ways to achieve pleasure.
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Orgasm, like many other things in our lives, can be learned. Your desire to get maximum pleasure from sex is the key to success. Try different ways and you will succeed!
Love your body
Any path to exploring your sexuality begins with self-love. Love yourself for who you are. Unfortunately, most women treat their bodies with irritation and dissatisfaction. And the body responds to them in kind. Every woman has her own unique beauty. Understand this and drive your complexes away.
Study your body
One of the best ways is masturbation. In order to achieve orgasm, you need to study your body well, master all your erogenous zones.
Clitoral orgasm is the most accessible type of sexual release that exists. Learn to achieve it in any way: first in private, then during sex with your loved one, additionally influencing your sexual organ.
Feel free to use a vibrator. Using this device develops vaginal sensitivity, opens new erogenous zones, and increases the sensitivity of the G zone.
Interesting Facts
Scientists say that the body's sensitivity to sounds and smells is noticeably weakened in a supine position. Therefore, if you choose the missionary position, you are obviously depriving yourself of some sensations.
Psychologists say that when you don’t see each other’s faces, thoughts about your partner’s pleasure fade into the background, giving way to reasonable selfishness and fullness of sensations. So the “from behind” position is ideal for orgasm.
If you're an avid cyclist, you might want to seriously consider another sport. Studies have shown that women who spend several hours a day on a bicycle are at risk of decreased genital sensitivity.
Women fantasize during sex more often than men. And they do it right - for women, the number of sexual fantasies is directly proportional to the level of sexual satisfaction.
Choose poses
Every woman knows in which position it is easiest for her to achieve orgasm. Therefore, try different positions to ensure you have fun. The first position in which women get orgasm quickly is the cowgirl position. It allows you to control the intensity and rhythm of movements. This pose is active, so it requires good physical fitness.
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The second position in which you can easily get an orgasm is to stimulate the G-spot. It can be stimulated in the “man from behind” position: the position is especially suitable when the woman is kneeling on the bed and the man is nearby on the floor. It is also convenient to influence this sensitive area in the “officer’s position”, when the woman’s legs are on the man’s shoulders.
The third position allows you to achieve clitoral and vaginal orgasms simultaneously. The constrictor muscle, which is located in the lower part of the vagina, is responsible for vaginal orgasm. If this muscle is not developed, a woman cannot experience a vaginal orgasm.
You can train this muscle if you regularly do exercises - retract the muscles of the anus 20-30 times a day or hold the stream of urine for a few seconds each time you urinate. “Double” orgasm is possible in positions where the penis enters shallowly, for example, when you are facing each other or when the man is lying on the bed and the woman is on top, facing his feet. In this case, you or the man must act on the clitoris. Use special tools
Most drugs, the purpose of which is to increase sexual desire and achieve orgasm, work on the same principle. They increase blood flow to the labia and vagina, thus increasing their sensitivity.
Don't forget about natural aphrodisiacs that increase sexual arousal. These can be aromatic oils, food products, herbs, etc. According to scientists, more refined, most often sweet, aphrodisiac products are suitable for women, as well as smells and music, which are emotional stimuli. To send a signal to a woman’s brain to relax, you can eat strawberries, chocolate, or drink a glass of red wine.
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