3 simple ways to “twist” a man

Man as an object of education. Bad advice

Let's start our show. Our topic today is how to make a man obedient, controlled and constant. How to break a man's willfulness and always be sure that this wild animal will not get away from you and will not bring you any unpleasant surprises? And surprises in general.

Solving this problem does not require great intelligence; energy, hard work and stubbornness will be enough.

So remember. The first thing that is required of you is ABSOLUTE PERFECTION. Remember, you are a queen, of whom this man, chosen quite randomly (for they are all the same), is a priori unworthy. Even if it’s not in your actions, the main thing is that you are impeccable in your motivation. You always do everything only with the best intentions, in caring for him, for the good of the family, for the children, and so on. The queen has no weaknesses or mistakes. Every step she takes towards a man is condescension, it requires incredible effort and is given with pain, and the man must feel this pain and the greatness of this condescension.

The Queen does not speak directly - her hints are vague and contradictory, and only such a stupid person like him cannot understand them correctly.

You must instill uncertainty in a man so that he doubts his every action, and especially himself as an actor. Remember: a creature such as a man cannot and should not be held responsible for anything. The less a man has to decide and the more he tries, the better. Let him know that he is surrounded by care from all sides and that you always act out of love for him, saving him from unnecessary troubles.

In general, care is the strongest way to make a man remember about himself. The main thing is that he knows that this care is not easy, but refusing it will hurt you even more, almost kill you. Even if he grinds his teeth at first. He'll get used to it. A man’s payment for his worries should be responsibilities, the detailed fulfillment of which you must closely monitor. For men are like children.

Your weapon is control. Remember that men, in principle, cannot be trusted - all their thoughts revolve only around how to evade any responsibilities. Therefore, watch zealously and tirelessly to ensure that not a single small detail, not a single detail of the life plan you wrote, is neglected by the man. It is the little things that are the best indicator of loyalty and constancy. Keep an eye on him constantly, ideally - let his whole life be subordinated to your affairs and your rhythm, and let retreat be punished.

And although you are deprived of the opportunity to influence a man by force, you have in your hands much more serious and effective means of punishment. These remedies have been known for a long time and have been used throughout history. It's guilt and shame.

Guilt binds a man to a woman more tightly than an iron chain. Any mistake, any wrong movement or action should not be forgotten. Of course, a man needs to be forgiven pathetically so that he understands how much it cost, how hard it was and how great your sacrifice is. It is impossible for him to forget about his guilt. Over time, the feeling of guilt will turn into a constant companion of your marriage and will be a reliable guard against any man’s attempt to be willful, stopping the man even before he has done anything.

Another powerful means of control is shame. Shame differs from guilt in that it is experienced in contact with someone, even an imaginary one. The viewer is not necessary for guilt, but shame arises precisely at the moment when someone outside has learned something. In order to make shame a tool of control, you need to hint to the man as indirectly as possible, but quite understandably, that you are able to tell everyone about what he wants to hide. Ideally, that he is weak as a man in every sense, especially that he is afraid of something and that you control him. A man is ready to give his right hand for his reputation, and therefore the most dual behavior - working for his reputation in public and against it in private - will forever instill in his soul uncertainty and fear that the roles will suddenly change and he will be disgraced and ashamed.

In general, comparing a man is not in his favor with others, especially those who are fundamentally unattainable - with his late father, with characters from lives or TV, with the fruits of your imagination, as well as comparison based on unchanging external parameters such as age, appearance or life path already traveled - excellent a way to instill in him a feeling of inferiority, again reliably tying him to everything familiar, that is, to you.

If you are believers, try to find a suitable confessor for your husband. There are two types of suitable confessors - either a monk who is always silent and advises to “pray more”, or an arrogant and lecturer from yesterday’s seminarian. Remember, a man, even tonsured or ordained, remains a man, and therefore your direct task is to prevent the formation of male solidarity, including with the priest, and for this, the confessor must be as unlike your man as possible, and chosen by you, not by him.

In general, limiting external contacts and putting them under your control is an important step towards the complete and final suppression of male willfulness. When they get together, men tend to scold their wives and do all sorts of things that you can't possibly approve of. Male company relaxes and removes female control - so let your man be deprived of this opportunity. You should go everywhere together. This is the law and it is not discussed.

What will you get as a result? You will receive a man who will be at your complete disposal, because you will be a source of unquenchable pain for him, and only you can give hope to alleviate this pain. They don't get away with this.

True, your man will look little like a man. But who cares? The main thing is stability and lack of risk.

How they deceive

How do men cheat? Here is a list of male replicas that can have a double bottom. Just don’t strain yourself too much now – I said “can”, not “should”! It’s worth thinking about them if these phrases are combined with other “alarm bells” or a chronic lack of his attention to you .

“There’s been so much work lately that I’m just out of breath, I’ll call you,” he says at the end of your date. Most likely, he won’t call again; your relationship ended before it even began.

- At our work, no matter the woman, she’s a scoundrel! - if variations of this phrase are repeated too often - he clearly has a crush on one of these monsters.

– There are few normal women, basically everyone wants to sell themselves at a higher price, – you are an honest and selfless girl. Prove this, don’t ask him for anything so that he doesn’t think that you are “one of those”...

“Honey, I’m so tired that I simply don’t have the strength to tumble in bed...” if he gets “tired” too often, obviously he’s tumbling on the desk with someone.

“You’re one of those rare women who looks like a thousand dollars in any outfit!” - Why do you need money for clothes? You look good in a faded robe.

“Our wages are being delayed, will you postpone the salon procedures until next month... - the salon treatments will go to the one in whose bed he needs to establish himself.”

- Look, darling, how lucky I am! I open the car door and almost step on a gold bracelet! - Whether you believe in miracles or not, invite him to melt this thing down for earrings. I think he will find a way to explain to his over-aged mistress that his wife is far from a fool.

- We need to check our feelings - it’s time to disappear for an indefinite period: I’m a little tired of you!

“I was in such a hurry to meet you that I put on the wrong jacket by mistake!” - You will pay for dinner in a restaurant - it’s enough for me that I came anyway.

- Let's not advertise our relationship for now. Let this be our secret for some time - so that no one jinxes our love! – if his wife “jinxes” your love, he will not feel very comfortable.

- My mother has a character, before introducing you, she must be mentally prepared for this - for starters, she should divorce her wife, otherwise a morally unprepared mother may behave inappropriately.

– I don’t understand how you can sleep with an unknown woman? How can you even have soulless sex? I didn’t find myself in the trash heap and prefer only “pure” and strong connections - a phrase that kills several birds with one stone and has the widest range of applications:

1. You, if he called you to bed, are not just “random” and “another,” but “special” and “deeply sunk into his soul.”

2. Girls who fall for this powerful trick of experienced womanizers firmly believe that his disgust will firmly protect them from possible betrayals.

3. “Pure and lasting relationships” is real verbal magic, because it is associated with what most dreamers lack - pure and honest love.

“Maybe I still don’t want to sleep with you, and we will remain friends, let’s talk to you some more, tell me what’s important to you in a relationship?” - having heard such verbiage, be vigilant - either in front of you is a man with wandering potency, or he is a gigolo who has paid attention to the hungry shine of your eyes.

“These modern, emancipated idiots end up alone.” A woman should be feminine, flexible and homely - then she will get a good man who will take care of her... But bitches don’t get good men, they only have fun with them and then abandon them - in fact, those who are usually called “bitches” themselves they choose the Best men for themselves (in the sense of men, according to their taste), or, as an option, they create a couple with such a “pseudo-preacher” and make him a man without complexes and prejudices.

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These tricks only work in cases where you are already familiar. As for dating, it is important to pay attention to your gaze: you can conquer a man with your eyes alone. And then, of course, use other cunning tricks.

Make a private profile on a social network

According to research by Western psychologists and relationship specialists, a man is much more interested in a woman if her page is closed from free access.

This can turn the head of any man who falls in love with you. When you're already in a relationship, the effect will be similar if you don't talk about yourself openly on social media.

Don't answer calls or messages at inappropriate times

If a man calls you while you are at a conference or important meeting, let him wait. Nothing bad will happen to him: let him get bored and think about you.

Then you calmly call him back and say that you couldn’t answer because you were working. The same goes for the time when you are already sleeping. I wrote or called after 10 pm - sorry.

Don't settle for "dates in 10 minutes"

This means that you don’t need to change all your plans and give up everything you do in order to meet your loved one. Yes, sometimes we get bored, we do nothing at home and wait for someone to call us and invite us somewhere, but this does not always happen.

Tell him that you are having an evening with your family and that you are very tired after work. You can find a whole lot of excuses, but don’t forget two things: let the excuses be convincing and believable, and don’t let them be permanent.

Don't be active on his social media page.

A man waits impatiently for you to start liking his photos, commenting on posts and recordings, and so on. Trying to pretend you don't care can have a very powerful effect.

Don't rush to add him as a friend. If he asks, then go ahead, but you don’t have to take the initiative yourself. Let him ask permission himself and do what he wants. You must maintain an intriguing distance.

Avoid communicating a lot on the Internet and via SMS

Correspondence is good, but in moderation. If you correspond little enough, the man will want to meet with you and continue the conversation in a different format.

In general, with the advent of the Internet, people have become less romantic and much more introverted. If you manage to pull yourself together and not communicate on social networks often and a lot, then the initial stage of the relationship will be simply fantastic.

Don't use emoticons

Firstly, it is very infantile, especially when there are too many of them. Some men find this very annoying, so they avoid such girls and women.

Secondly, if you get rid of emoticons altogether, it will be much more difficult for a man to understand your reaction and emotional state. This is very good because he will think about you more.

Meet as little as possible

Of course, you don’t need to hide from a man so that he thinks you’re avoiding him. But you don't need to see each other every day in the early stages of a relationship. Let each other miss you.

There is no perfect formula. It is important to remember here that many men are very emotional and want to see their newfound beloved every day. You need to find a balance so that he gets bored and worried, but not too much.

Don't pick up the phone right away

Some women even force a man to call twice in order to increase his worth. You should also be extremely careful with this, because you can go too far and simply scare away your partner.

If you're busy doing something, that's a good excuse. If not, then there is no need to make excuses; let him ask why you are in no hurry to pick up the phone.

Reply to messages briefly

Psychologists advise not to bare your soul and not write poems to the usual “how are you?” It is enough to answer that you are “everything is fine, thank you,” and not to tell how the day went in detail, why your boss is unhappy and where the heel broke.

Short, but informative and kind messages leave a pleasant note of uncertainty in a man’s mind. In this case, he again begins to think more about you, and this is exactly what we are trying to achieve when talking about love clothing.

Previously, we talked about what and how to say to a man. There are certain words and phrases that will make you more desirable in the eyes of your lover. It's never too late to start using them.

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30 September 01:55