How to succeed with men: secrets of sexuality. How to always be the Queen and Mistress of relationships


It is simply unrealistic to argue with the position that systematic sex adds extra energy to a lady and turns her into more attractive and desirable in the eyes of the male half. The whole fact is that during sex, a woman’s body produces a special hormone - estrogen, which leads to a favorable result and improves the woman’s overall mood. It also affects individual components of the body. The hormone has a particularly positive effect on the condition of hair and skin. It has a rejuvenating effect on the cells of the body, creates a lady’s mood, adds self-confidence, and increases self-esteem.

Everyone can do it

A beautiful mistress is, first of all, a lady who can provide a man with unforgettable pleasure in bed. But the main mystery is not only this. A woman knows not only how to bestow bliss on her partner, but also knows how to experience pleasure from him. Among the most experienced temptresses, there is one secret rule - a beautiful mistress does not have sex with her partner to increase her self-esteem. And not for the sake of another tick, but for the purpose of your own pleasure! All other aspects are the fruits of intense female experience and intuition. Any lady, even the most moderate, repressed and shy, dreams inside her soul of becoming a wonderful lover for her own man. Be that as it may, the sexual relationship between a lady and her man lives its own separate life. Often, a measured person, internally balanced in ordinary life, can deprive a man of his mind in bed. How can you turn into a beautiful and unsurpassed lover? We will try to help and prevent routine and routine from entering your intimate life.

Ideal parameters do not guarantee happiness in bed and personal relationships

Experienced matchmakers who have connected hundreds of happy couples assure that people’s external characteristics have never played a decisive role in building relationships. In an effort to get married successfully, a girl must follow a number of rules:

  • always have a well-groomed appearance;
  • choose clothes with taste;
  • control your behavior in public places;
  • do not stop in your own self-realization.

Please note: none of these points have any reference to the notorious “90-60-90”. A girl needs to love her body, take care of it, and not focus on not meeting standards. In this beautiful half of humanity, we need to take an example from men: they are happy with the body they have and prefer not to have complexes for no reason. Sincerely loving her body, a woman automatically begins to behave more relaxed in bed, shows readiness to experiment and realize the wildest male fantasies. And add to this knowledge of her partner’s desires, the ability to carry on a conversation, sincere admiration for his successes, and she turns out to be an unsurpassed lover! But what to do if you can’t find someone to show off your sexual talents to? You can contact a qualified matchmaker. Her experience and knowledge are enough to select a worthy candidate in a matter of days.

Pajamas

It’s impossible to even imagine if a beautiful mistress lies down in pajamas on a love bed. Is a lady in such an outfit capable of arousing a man to sexual exploits? Although, naturally, “there are no comrades according to taste.” And yet, maybe it would be better to get into the habit of going to bed in beautiful, transparent, sexy underwear? When naturally, you want to be desired by your own man at any moment! Men love most when their lady wears beautiful underwear that pleases the male eye. Even when, while taking off these clothes, he accidentally tears them, this will only reveal to you his irresistible desire to own you and show you his true passion and emotionality.

How to invite a girl to become your mistress? What are the chances that he will agree?

This is the situation: I’m 27, divorced. I met a girl, 35, she has a child but no husband. I want her, I just want to have fun and sex, without a relationship. I know that she likes me. So the question is how to offer her to simply become lovers without obligations. And what are the chances that she will agree? I don’t want to hurt her and give her false hopes through deception.

Without money there is no chance.

It’s good for her pussy if you lick it, maybe she’ll take you as her lover: you’ll polish her herring with your tongue without obligation.

man, have you hit your head that often? who needs you even with a relationship? Are you Abramovich or Brad Pete? What can you offer her, with or without a relationship? whoops with venereal diseases, dragged around by another woman?

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man, have you hit your head that often? who needs you even with a relationship? Are you Abramovich or Brad Pete? What can you offer her, with or without a relationship? whoops with venereal diseases, dragged around by another woman?

There are no 35 year old girls with children...

Invite him to the cinema, to a cafe, and then seduce him. Give compliments and hints that are exclusively horizontal. If your desires coincide and she is not a fool, she will understand that you are only counting on flirting and sex without obligations and will agree. But most likely only a couple of times. Women after 30 look at life prospects more practically and meaningfully. Sticking your pussy in is already an unconditional pleasure; women are anatomically not designed for such dubious pleasure. The functionality is different. If you have no other virtues other than another mediocre ***, then you can forget about frivolous relationships on a stable basis. If you have money, bring it to your mistress, a large filigree workpiece will only give you +2 to uniqueness. And tips: Never say an amorphous: “I like you”, which can be understood as ambiguity. Do not say anything in relation to her with the words: “love”, “beloved”, “love”. It can also be misinterpreted.

It's easier to lure young people into sex, but it's more interesting with adults

* and women anatomically. * ordinary p and s and * will give you

Where is the edit button?

Man, aren’t you ashamed to think about this and write about it on the forum! Women do not deserve the role of giver and litter. Every woman wants a respectful relationship and a family on a subconscious level, but you only want sex. Tell her about it directly, don’t lie to her that you’re in love, and you’ll see her reaction. If she agrees, it's her choice. So at least tell her the truth. I wouldn't want to meet such a man. Know what is needed as bedding and nothing more.

Man, aren’t you ashamed to think about this and write about it on the forum! Women do not deserve the role of giver and litter. Every woman wants a respectful relationship and a family on a subconscious level, but you only want sex. Tell her about it directly, don’t lie to her that you’re in love, and you’ll see her reaction. If she agrees, it's her choice. So at least tell her the truth. I wouldn't want to meet such a man. Know what is needed as bedding and nothing more.

Yeah. I always thought that a mistress was the same as a wife, only there was no stamp in the passport. Those. the man takes full responsibility for the woman and her child (if there is one), provides for them, takes care of them, but he does not formalize the relationship legally. This is the relationship of lovers.

Yeah. I always thought that a mistress was the same as a wife, only there was no stamp in the passport. Those. the man takes full responsibility for the woman and her child (if there is one), provides for them, takes care of them, but he does not formalize the relationship legally. This is the relationship of lovers.

Well, yes, 27 years old, the author is an absolutely irresponsible person. How should we know the author? If that woman still wants to get married and have support from a man, why the hell are you pushing her? If you’re already disappointed in peasants and you don’t need anything other than sex, then try it - you know the woman better

Can you tell me what TV was doing when I was wandering around hospitals to fix YOUR mistake? Have you been scratching your head about all sorts of weird things? Did you take a shabolda from Volgodonsk on a trip? She seemed to have a special attitude. And I wasn’t even embarrassed by the fact that my aunt abandoned her child. It was so fucking itchy! And at that time I did not leave the hospital. You made the commitment on 08/12/2011. Or it wasn't you. What will you answer?

Personal complexes

To feel like an excellent lover, sexually uninhibited and desired, many ladies are often frightened by their own complexes. Constriction and fear in such ladies are generated from insecurity in their own charm and from underestimating their own appearance. Other women are afraid that a man will mistake their overt actions for promiscuity and vulgarity. But should you be afraid of your own desires? Maybe it would be better to rely on your own intuition, personal perception and show your partner your originality and mystery. There is nothing wrong with revealing to him the style of the true Venus of love, the goddess of sex and a beautiful lover. Let him feel your passion, sexuality and increasing desire. However, don't overdo it! The most important thing is to subtly feel the line between temptation and promiscuity!

The ideal lover through the eyes of men

There is no certainty that not a single man has imagined an ideal wife or mistress in his mind. Who is she, what features of appearance or character should she have in order to be worthy of his attention? Now let's try to understand. A mistress, she is also a part-time wife. Simply put, what does a man need to avoid a trip involving a left turn.

The very first place for a man is relaxedness. His chosen one should be relaxed in bed, not shy, and be natural. A woman should not only receive, but also give pleasure to a man. Being in beautiful underwear more often seduces and attracts a man. The grooming of a woman is very important for any man.

Many people dream that sometimes the initiative in sex comes from a woman, because not all men offer experiments, because they are afraid that a woman will consider them a pervert. Naturally, the experiments must be reasonable in your understanding for both. It could be a role-playing game, or a romantic dinner with further continuation, or whatever your wild imagination is capable of.

You shouldn’t lie like a log and wait for a man to do something to you first, show affection and attention. After all, a man also expects kind words and movements in return, he also wants to feel that he is loved, gentle and unique to you. In a word, he is your king and god in bed, even if he is not, help him teach him how to give you pleasure by disguising it as an experiment. This is in case a woman is very shy, and intimacy does not bring her the pleasure she is looking for. Because people are different in temperament, they are also different in desires.

What type of figure do you think men like best when looking for the one? You won’t believe it, but it’s a pear-type figure. The most common, not an hourglass, not anything else, but a pear. How they are in awe of the magnificent forms of our hips and busts. Well, they like moderate, slender shapes, and no matter how we women struggle with excess weight, it is our very small tummy that makes an impression on men. They like it, and they also don’t have the concept of a fat woman, they have a full-breasted expression, there is something to look at and something to touch. In the understanding of a man, a woman of average build is more prone to childbearing. They subconsciously choose a woman with appetizing bust or hip shapes. And if you also have a small belly, like belly dancers, that’s all! Therefore, down with complexes!

The ideal woman, as a wife and lover in one bottle, is one who does not create problems about her complexes due to her appearance, but presents them as advantages. And most importantly, she should be able to be desired, smiling, and not dirty with curlers in the kitchen.

Stop thinking with your penis

Start thinking with your hands as well as with your tongue. The biggest mistake men make is to think that quality sex requires only the right equipment, preferably larger and thicker ones. This is enough to make a woman moan with pleasure and her friends to envy. That's what porn teaches.

In reality, the woman sadly studies the ceiling and hopes that you will still decide to pay attention to her desires before you turn to the wall and fall asleep.

It is men who need a penis for orgasm. For women, things may be different. According to some data, less than 35% of women experience a purely vaginal orgasm. For the majority of women (almost 80%), orgasm depends on oral and manual stimulation of the genitals. They don't care about the size and thickness of the penis, the speed and strength of friction.

There are no general recipes. One likes caresses with the tongue, another likes the touch of fingers, the third likes to be touched with the whole palm. Study the woman and, for God's sake, cut and clean your nails.

…stop listening to other men

Forget about the advice of your peers: most men, who are confident that they have delivered hundreds, thousands of orgasms, have never actually been the source of them in their lives. Women have long learned: in order not to upset your lover, you need to pretend, otherwise you can’t expect any good from upset men. If he doesn’t give up, he’ll accuse you of frigidity; if he doesn’t accuse you, he’ll try to bring the matter to a victorious end, and there’s nothing worse than a man who repeats the same thing all night, expecting a different result. A guru who talks about how to correctly extract multiple jet orgasms from women is, with 99% probability, either a character in the “and you say” joke, or an ideological fighter for banknotes, who considered that twenty neophytes of 2990 rubles each is already a good monthly salary.

Ideal Lover

Every lady is pleased to date a well-groomed, neat man who does not have bad breath. It is necessary to take care of your teeth, shower regularly and wear clean clothes. This rule is very banal, but failure to comply with it can kill an ideal relationship at the root.

Arrange your home properly

Obviously, an adult man must have his own living space so that he can invite a lady to his place any day. Don’t make a mess in your apartment, even if you’re single and comfortable. In the bedroom you need to put a comfortable double bed and create a romantic atmosphere. A guest should feel comfortable in your home.

Don't brag about your skills or past achievements

The ideal lover does not need advertising. It is better to prove your talents in practice than to talk a lot about it. When dating a girl, do not engage in narcissism, do not savor your victories over the fair sex.

Take time to warm up

An important component of good sex is its duration. These are not hour-long bed fights like in porn. This kind of sex is boring, exhausting and annoying. The duration of sex does not depend on the length of time the penis is in the vagina. On the contrary, the ideal penetration time is 7–13 minutes. We are talking about the duration of the entire act of love.

It's all about cause and effect.

For a man, it’s “I’m excited, so I’ll kiss and hug you.” For most women, it’s the opposite: sensual contact causes desire.

This is why men often reach orgasm faster than women. The man starts where the woman is still warming up.

Good foreplay will help. Trying to “catch the radio” by twisting your partner’s unfortunate nipples or eating her ear is not foreplay. A sensitive man knows that a woman, in addition to her breasts, has other erogenous zones.

A gentle kiss at the junction of the neck and shoulder can drive a woman crazy. Touching your inner thighs with your fingertips will make you tremble with passion. Take your time to start the main course, be patient and spend time studying your partner’s body. The result in the form of fireworks of orgasms is worth it.

...learn the materiel

Once again: the days of grandfather, when the only information available was a chapter on anatomy in the eighth grade, are long gone. There are, albeit not many, but quite enough high-quality books about sex and sexuality, where they talk about the physiology of women and its research: for example, “As a Woman Wants” by Emily Nagosaki or “Viva la vagina” by Nina Brockmann and Ellen Stöcken Dahl. If you want to become a good lover, read them, not men's forums.

And also check any information: for example, the existence of the G-spot, which firefighters look for at every training, and the police look for, has not been proven by anything except a few studies, in each of which it was good if more than one woman took part.

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Finding a mistress in our time is not a problem, since modern stereotypes have not only ceased to prevent men from having mistresses, but have begun to support them in every possible way in this endeavor. Just look at the praise of friends or the inspired stories of acquaintances about how they found their mistress, and also how great they had time with her.

The problem will be to ensure that the relationship on the side remains secret and does not jeopardize family relationships. Women are just as possessive as men, and the fear of being exposed by your wife will constantly accompany you. However, there are a number of recommendations, following which you can minimize the risks.

Before starting the search for a mistress, a man must understand one important thing: the ideal mistress is a married mistress. By starting an affair with such a woman, you provide yourself with some guarantee that your mistress will not pretend to marry you. In most cases, married women who take an affair do not plan to divorce their husband. By having a mistress who is not married, you risk very quickly experiencing the ability of women to manipulate men. They will start pestering you with offers to divorce your wife in order to make a choice in favor of your mistress. It could come down to blackmail. Do you need it!?

Some precautions.

The best place to find a lover.

Additional precautions after the mistress is found.

After each lovemaking session, take a shower to wash off all the odors.

Always carry a bottle of your eau de toilette with you to cover up the smell of another woman's perfume. Even if it seems like there is no smell, the wife can easily find traces if she senses betrayal.

Py.Sy. I thought maybe someone might be interested.

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