Sexual fantasies and food
Bill Shifton works with food. He is a true connoisseur and knows better than anyone what is suitable for the client. But all the products that Bill uses are not used for nutrition, but are used for sexual fun. A person's sexual fantasies are limitless. And Bill is part of this business that makes these fantasies come true. Many people limit their sexual fantasies, but some do not want to stand still and go further, introducing eroticism into everyday situations and receiving sexual pleasure from everyday things.
-A fetish is any erotic object other than the genitals that cause desire. From childhood we are taught that playing with food and getting clothes dirty is bad. This deprives us, to some extent, of sensual pleasures, not allowing a person to feel relaxed and free. And all those who engage in dirty sexual fun, breaking all these small rules, feel free and uninhibited. (Catherine Gates, author of the book Kinky Sex Positions)
Such sexual predilections are quite common, so Bill Shifton opened the Dirty Studio in the suburbs of London and began publishing a magazine for lovers of this type of fetish. People read about it, buy the DVDs or rent his Dirty Studio, hire a model and have fun.
-They don’t have sex in our studio. It’s just that someone will smear you in the cake, and then, if you wish, you can also smear someone else and nothing more. Everything is done with humor, the actors clown around, make puns, and crude farce is used. The scenario can be anything, for example a clumsy waitress or a fight at a banquet. Everything is done very simply by coming up with a stupid script, and then making a film based on it. For example, in the morning I might come up with an idea about a flight attendant who, due to her clumsiness, splashed a client and we go and film this scenario. Or clients can come to us with their ideas and sexual fantasies. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)
According to Bill Shifton, his clients do not always want sexual relations with his models. Farce is more important to them than sex, but it must be sensual and here everything depends on food. Food may be different. People are picky about both their food and what they pour on themselves. A popular technique is to pour food into clothes to feel how it flows and stains the body. They are always experimenting. Some people like their food to be smooth and slippery, such as sweet cream or chocolate syrup.
-I love maple syrup. In it I look so beautiful, golden and shiny. (Helen model from Dirty Studio)
Others prefer something lumpy and heavier, like porridge, rice pudding, or something sweet like rice pudding, brownie, or cake batter.
-The most important thing to remember is that there are products that you should not use. Some products contain very strong dyes, for example, blackcurrant jam is blue in color and people who cover themselves with it then wonder why they are all blue and cannot wash off. Therefore, I try to warn my clients and ask them not to bring such products. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)
Bill Shifton believes that people have always liked to get dirty, some just stopped hiding it.
-Many of our clients did not even suspect that someone else was doing this. They thought that these were their personal sexual fantasies and perversions and that no one else could like it. I think thanks to me and my studio these people can feel less weird. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)
The only drawback of this business, according to Shifton, is cleaning up after clients.
-We use the studio 2-3 times a week. We could rent it out more often, since there are a lot of people who want it. Many people want us to make a private video for them, but I'm afraid that I'm too selfish. I don't want to spend 2/3 of my life cleaning. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)
Sexual fantasies and balloons
But not everyone likes to pull beans or rice pudding out of their body folds. Most people associate fetishism with shoes, leather or food, but not with balloons. But there is a category of people who prefer them.
-This is an absolutely innocent and harmless hobby. Balloons can also serve as a fetish and this should not in any way affect the attitude towards this person, since everyone’s sexual fantasies are different. Yes, this may seem strange and unusual. And what? Am I a moral monster now? No! I just have different interests and I can explain them. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
Everything is very simple. Thousands of men and women around the world experience sexual addiction. They enjoy collecting, deflating, inflating and in some cases popping balloons.
-Among fans of balloons on the Internet on forums there are endless debates about whether it is good to pierce them. Those who don't like it protect their ball. He is like a sex partner for them. They love their ball; they like to hug it, cuddle it, rub it, smell it, and love it. And people who like to pierce balloons don’t understand why others don’t like it. They get an orgasm from it and that's the whole point for them. (Catherine Gates, author of Perverted Desires)
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-This is amazing, because all your life you believed that only you were doing this. And suddenly it turns out that your passion and sexual fantasies are shared by thousands of people around the world. It's simply stunning. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
Having legalized his air fetish, Miki gradually became addicted to it and his girlfriend.
- Of course, he didn’t admit right away, not on the first date, that he had a fetish. (Sheri Mika's girlfriend)
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-I really like it when my friend participates in my fun with balloons. That doesn't mean I don't get turned on by other women who aren't tinkering with balls, but I take that energy out on my friend Sheri. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
Balloons play a huge role in Mike's sexual fantasies and life, but for him it's also a business. He creates websites and produces full-length videos.
-I create video films about what I like. Mainly about women blowing up balloons until they burst. Just about this. A girl inflates a balloon until it bursts and that’s what all our videos are about. We pierce them in different ways. Sitting and inflating balloons is tiring. That's why we use different variations: girls trample the balls, sit on them, try to crush them, and so on. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
If you like popping balloons, the main shot is when the balloon pops, but there's more to it than that. Fetishists revere balloons not only because of their shape, but because of how they feel. Depending on how they are used, the balls can be fed like a breast, filled like a penis, or taken like a woman's vagina. But Mike's sites and videos focus on them getting popped, reflecting Mike's own passion.
-A good video should have a lot of balloons, a lot of gorgeous women who will inflate them until they burst and have fun. And the more the merrier, the more the merrier and the more perfect the video. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
Although Mike makes a living filming girls with balloons and them popping them, he doesn't like the noise. He prefers the clap to be silent, so when he films, he puts on headphones and leaves the room before the climax. His empire may be intimidating to those who don't like piercing, but he knows his market, as does his friend Sheri, who directs and shoots videos to study demand and establish consumer feedback.
-Most customers prefer pear-shaped balls. Some ask for long ones. Believe it or not, balloons come in a wide variety of sizes and the bigger the better. Viewers love how girls with puffy cheeks inflate balloons and then pierce them. (Sheri is Mika's friend)
-Most often, when people hear the word fetish, they imagine something dirty and perverted. But in fact, everything is quite innocent and harmless. By doing this you get a huge boost of energy and I am proud to take part in this. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)
A sense of community and belonging to a group is quite natural, but in the world of fetishism it is not bad to have your own guide, especially if your guide produces a bible of fetishists who live in this world.
What you want. About the sexual fantasies of men.
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Sexologist, MD Sergei Agarkov, having assessed your 10 most common fantasies with an experienced eye, clearly explained why men want exactly this, and Arina Vintovkina, an expert on women’s and partly men’s souls, told what girls think about men’s dreams and how to persuade a lady to the desired pleasure, without doing anything spoiled
So, the following situations were selected by majority vote:
60%
HAVE SEX WITH A BEAUTY IN A UNIFORM (STEWARDESS, POLICE SERGEANT...) AT HER WORKPLACE
sexologist's comment:
Uniform always implies a service relationship. Sex always disrupts work relationships. It is this combination of official and non-official that arouses your exciting interest. For example, a flight attendant: she is calibrated, smiling, helpful and, it seems to you, ready for a lot - but is it possible to have sex with her on an airplane? No. And this desire to enter the realm of the forbidden is a very tempting idea for you. It is this plot that pornography has been exploiting for many years - the uniforms change, but the stories remain the same.
By the way, a woman in uniform (especially a police uniform) is still, in one way or another, a representative of the authorities, and fucking the authorities is generally such a very our, Russian idea.
Arina Vintkina:
As for the girls whose white robes, fitted jackets and impudently shiny cockades deprive you of peace, then, in my opinion, the degree of their inaccessibility is greatly exaggerated. Firstly, the atmosphere of male lust with which they are surrounded cannot help but have a corrupting effect. Those who find such concentrated attention a burden do not stay in the profession. There remain those who like to feel like a fetish. I do not presume to say that only nymphomaniacs become flight attendants. But the thought that your mere appearance makes men fidget excitedly in their chairs is a tonic. And, as we all remember, a woman’s sexuality directly depends on how sexy she feels.
Secondly, the very concept of violating prohibitions excites more than just you. If the Labor Code or some bald-headed idiot from the HR department does not tell a woman to have sex in the workplace, then she will certainly find an opportunity to do otherwise. I also had occasion to violate labor discipline. And I’ll tell you what: an orgasm obtained on a photocopier cannot be compared with an ordinary one in bed. Even if they happened to the same partner.
59%
HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL OF A DIFFERENT RACE
sexologist's comment:
Previously, this was called heterochromophilia and was considered a complete perversion. Today, interracial sex is a luxury and nothing more. This is a common and typical fantasy for men: since she looks different, it means she has sex differently - you have to try it.
Another reason for this obsession is evolutionary. To survive in this world, a species must evolve. There are only two development factors: random mutations (and it is unknown when they will happen, whether they will be positive or negative) and the exchange of genetic information with sexual partners. The more heterogeneous the partners are, the more new, fresh genetic information (including positive) will result from their contact. This is what you need.
Arina Vintkina:
If women didn’t have such an option as curiosity, the number of mixed marriages (and sex in general) would noticeably decrease. Using the example of my closest friend, I know where an innocent question can lead: “Does the black man have a penis the same pale pink color as his palms?”
I can say with confidence: women have an interest in imported lovers. And, judging by the reviews of foreign female friends, Russian men in this sense have a good erotic image: strong, romantic, generous (what can you do - the habit of compatriots to litter petrodollars abroad has not gone unnoticed).
However, there is one subtlety in the matter of seducing representatives of other ethnic groups: it is better to do this away from their natural habitats. I understand the phrase “Just returned from Tokyo. Wow, these Japanese girls are awesome!” sounds very playboyish. But there is little chance that the moon-faced beauty will fall for a Russian tourist (after all, international adultery is a troublesome thing, and the husband may not understand). It’s another matter if the girl is brought to Russia or fate brings you together on neutral territory. Take my word for it: when getting ready to travel, a woman leaves at home not only most of her wardrobe, but also half of her moral and ethical principles. Hence the accommodating, omnivorous and adventurous spirit of most female travelers.
55%
HAVE ANAL SEX (THE RECEIVING PARTY IS OF COURSE)
sexologist's comment:
We are talking here, oddly enough, not about special physiological sensations (they are in tenth place), but about the same invasion into the realm of the forbidden. You are looking for psychological rather than physical sensations.
Anal sex is not a perversion, not a pathology, not a disease, but simply a preference. Another thing is that most men, having tried it, are convinced that it is like shearing pigs - there is a lot of squealing, but not enough wool. There is also an opinion that latent homosexuals are prone to anal sex, but this, too, is all written with a pitchfork. But if this type of sexual relationship becomes an indispensable practice, then, of course, we need to talk about some psychological characteristics of a person...
Arina Vintovkina
With anal sex it’s the same as with asparagus: some people are completely blown away, while others have a complete intolerance to the product. Moreover, the number of the latter, according to my personal observations, is much larger. The girl will have a lot of arguments in favor of denying you access to her anus: scary, shameful, unnatural, unhygienic, risky, and all that stuff. And only one “for” - “If you want it that way...”
What can overcome fear? No, I’m not talking about an ecstasy tablet, washed down with 400 g of sambuca, or even about a promise to get married. And about the habit. You can’t make someone love anal sex, but you can get used to it. The main thing is that the man’s hands do not grow from the very place to which he is so fiercely striving.
All that is required of you is to gradually transfer the area of interest from the “forbidden” format to the category of a full participant in the process. Anal stimulation, when performed delicately, is quite a pleasant thing. The main thing is not to get carried away. A maximum of two phalanges, at a gentle pace and with simultaneous caresses of more traditional areas (clitoris, nipples). It should become commonplace for a girl that you are always doing something chemical with her anus, without trying to encroach on its integrity. Having stopped waiting for a catch, she will relax and ultimately capitulate.
And remember: in that blessed moment when you hear her “To hell with you, let’s try...”, you should have a lubricant on hand, preferably with an anesthetic. And here's another thing. If, at the slightest hint of affection from the rear, a girl begins to kick, you can thank your predecessor for this. In nine cases out of ten, a difficult background is to blame for an allergy to anal sex. Because - I speak from the heart - if approached inappropriately, it can be very, very painful.
What do women want?
Arina Vintovkina claims to know the answer.
If you carefully read my explanations for your “sex wish list,” you might have noticed that there is a lot in common between male and female fantasies. There is only one fundamental difference: you boys think in pictures, and we think in plots. My version was confirmed by London psychotherapist Brett Car: an Englishman conducted a study involving 23,000 people and came to the conclusion that the strong half of humanity focuses its attention on the visual side of sex, while the beautiful half focuses on circumstances and emotions. Simply put, the sight of a naked Volodya Kristovsky, if it stirs up my feelings, will be only slightly. To get excited, I need story, dialogue, drama. It's night and pouring rain outside. And then Volodya bursts into my boudoir, all wet and with burning eyes. "Arina! “I have two important things to tell you,” he whispers and kisses my knees. - First of all, I left my wife. And secondly, the song “Farewell” was written in honor of you!” And then I’m like this to him...
I hope, dear reader, you caught the vector of my thoughts, because at this point I’ll probably take my leave - an urgent matter has arisen.
53%
HAVE SEX WITH A GYMNAST
sexologist's comment:
A gymnast is like a model, only not a static one (as for a photo or at a clothing show), but a dynamic one, a kind of ideal model of female sexuality. Young, beautiful, flexible, graceful - isn't she the best sexual partner? Artists, ballerinas, and circus performers have always fascinated the public, gathering a huge audience. It's so natural.
Arina Vintovkina
Well, what can I say: you boys, as always, are in your repertoire. I call this “Kulibin syndrome” - when the leading motive for a man’s behavior becomes not so much a specific need, goal or mission, but rather an ordinary desire to experiment. Indeed, if a girl is able to throw her leg behind her ear in front of the whole stadium, how can you not try to find out if she can do the same one-on-one while sitting on top of you.
As for the reality of fulfilling this fantasy, I’ll tell you this: why not? A gymnast is also a person, and not a single ribbon can replace a strong man’s “mace”. Another question is that active female athletes don’t just walk the streets, but spend more and more time chilling at competitions. Tweak the script a little. Fitness trainers - especially in yoga and Pilates - in this sense are more accessible and responsive, and they bend no worse.
In defense of ordinary girls - that is, those who are not accustomed to giving blowjobs while doing the splits - I can say the following. We also sometimes don’t mind having acrobatic sex. However, to master choreographically complex poses and other somersaults, we need a partner with appropriate endurance. Required, but not always found. By masturbating on gymnasts, of course, you can strengthen the muscles of the upper body, but, apparently, this is not the most effective training system.
49%
HAVE SEX WITH TWINS
sexologist's comment:
The plot made it into the top five, but I don’t think any of the men really get stuck on this fantasy: in spontaneous surveys, “without prompts,” twins never appear. And so, I saw this answer and became interested: why not? Experiments are always attractive.
However, the fantasy is not very realizable.
Arina Vintovkina
Sexy twin girls who turn out to be so promiscuous that they decide to have fun with one guy and each other (admit it, you won’t be interested without this?) is something out of fantasy. It makes more sense to realize such a labor-intensive fantasy on a commercial basis.
But, if you have a twin brother, you can turn the situation around 180 degrees. Women are rarely guided by the “it’s cool” argument when it comes to sex, but this seems to be the case here. Having sex with twin brothers - there is something surreal about it: two faces, two ends... - and cut like a carbon copy. Secondly, even a hereditary humanist understands that the number of orgasms is directly proportional to the amount of effort made. Thirdly, the fact of kinship to some extent guarantees that guys will be focused on you and not on each other. Just so you know: when having sex with two men, many girls are confused by the possible homosexual connotation of the idea and the prospect of not getting one out of two members.
48%
LET THE THIRD INTO YOUR BED
sexologist's comment:
The story is remarkable in that when someone else appears, competition begins. With two women, a man has the opportunity to rule and manage. They can be manipulated, they can both be made to stand on their tiptoes. Psychologically, a very tempting situation.
True, if you don’t know what to do with one, then you definitely won’t be able to cope with two. Especially if they team up.
Arina Vintovkina
Erotic fantasies on the topic of threesome sex according to the F-M-F scheme excite more than just you. I won’t say about all the girls, but I can vouch for at least those who had same-sex experience. Knowing what sex is like separately with a man and with a woman, it is logical to want to combine the benefits of both. And sometimes thoughts on this topic acquire very intricate modifications. For example, one of my married friends with violent bisexual experience admitted that sometimes, in fulfilling her marital duty, she imagines her husband with female breasts.
Okay, I'm all about girlfriends. Let's be honest: hypothetically, I could agree to the role of the “third” (the word “hypothetically” means that you don’t need to send naked photos of yourself and your girlfriend to the editor’s address). But dragging strangers, and even worse, familiar girls into your family - no, excuse me! The risk is too great. Neither I nor any other young lady is able to predict in advance the strength and direction of her own reaction. What happens when my man’s penis sways even half a degree towards a stranger? Will this sight excite me or, on the contrary, will it plunge me into the abyss of passion, from where they usually emerge with their hands up to their elbows in blood?
As practice shows, such experiments are most painless either with strangers (for example, a newly formed couple) or with extremely close ones. Typically, the required degree of merging of partners is achieved after 30-40 years spent together, that is, closer to retirement. If I were you, I would bet on option #1. It’s a gift of fate when, in the very first week of communication, a new girl enthusiastically tells you about how in the recent past she had a wonderful time with her girlfriend. You can't go wrong if you ask her to join forces.
43%
HAVE SEX WITH A CELEBRITY
sexologist's comment:
Sex with a celebrity increases your rating (and it turns out that 43% of those who took part in the survey feel the need to assert themselves). The nuance is that the rating increases in the eyes of others, but not in your own: the celebrity is so wonderful and omnipotent, but you are still nobody, little boy.
Arina Vintovkina
The shortest way to Zhanna Friske's bed is to pretend that you don't even know who you're dealing with. Guarding the star at the service entrance with a bouquet of cornflowers and a face trembling with excitement, you can count on a maximum of an autograph and (if you seem really pathetic to her) a kiss on the cheek. In the formulation “female celebrity,” the defining word is still “woman.” Therefore, you need to behave with her in the same way as with all other representatives of the fair sex: calmly, decisively and a little imposingly. A casually thrown phrase: “We didn’t happen to meet at a conference of ornithologists in Paris? No? By the way, I brought a bottle of the excellent Chateau d'Artagnan from there. Will you keep me company?” - what you need to start dating. It is optimal if it takes place not at a reception on the occasion of the presentation of “Taffy”, but under more neutral circumstances (in a supermarket, a veterinarian’s waiting room or a public bathhouse).
There is a suspicion that many celebrities suffer from attention deficit. Not hysterics in the spirit of “You are a Goddess! I’m ready to marry a napkin with traces of your lipstick!”, but normal male attention. As is usually the case with beautiful women: they look at them, they start dripping with saliva, but no one dares to approach, they think: “Such a girl certainly cannot be lonely!”
42%
HAVE SEX WITH A 16 YEAR OLD NYMPH (WITH HER CONSENT, OF COURSE)
sexologist's comment:
The search for young women is primarily a fear for adult women. A mature woman sees right through you, and if she agrees to have sex, it means she accepts you for who you are. But for this, intimacy must first arise, a relationship that is promising from her point of view.
And it’s easy for a young girl to be fooled. When she is inexperienced and has no evaluation criteria, it is easy to adjust her to your needs. It’s easy to lead her by the nose, you can give her cheap jewelry... With her you can feel accomplished and competent due to her age advantage. And this is a typical fantasy of flawed men who have failed in relationships and who have stumbled upon a well-emasculated bitch in life. That's when they need taciturn Tahitians, little girls, village simpletons - something that is not difficult to drag through life, that does not pose a danger. But life shows that when a girl pretends to have a relationship with a more mature and intelligent man, she has a very high opinion of herself, grows up quickly and will still get her way. The moment of rapture of innocence is brief.
Arina Vintovkina:
Just so you know: since the times of Kievan Rus, schoolgirls have been competing for the right to be considered “the most advanced girl in the school.” From time immemorial, the one who had the coolest and coolest boyfriend won. The degree of male cool at this historical stage is determined by the presence of a personal car and acquaintances in the field of show business. Well, and age, of course. The most enviable gentlemen are 20-30-year-old playboys, followed by 30-40-year-old married men, then “daddy daddies” and at the end of the line trail peers who are not rated at all. In a word, dear reader, if you earn the money to buy the MG yourself, and don’t shoot from your parents, you have every chance of getting a 16-year-old mistress.
Please note: with rare exceptions, young girls do not consider men as a source of bodily pleasure. For this, the young ladies have hands and a shower head. And with you she likes to go to the cinema, ride in a car, eat sushi, exchange text messages and chat. Actually, the nymph agrees to intimacy out of altruism - because you need it.
In an erotic sense, a teenage girl is like a violin with one string - it seems to be a musical instrument, but what the hell can you play. Your caresses make her feel rather pleasant and a little ticklish, rather than - “O-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o!”. If you are not the Paganini of sex, I advise you to be philosophical about your partner’s lack of orgasm. Resign yourself and don’t worry: you get satisfaction and a storm of emotions about how narrow and smooth she is, and your partner gets a feeling of her own adulthood and experience. At this stage, you will do the girl an invaluable service if you explain what kind of blowjob can be called good and that douching with Coca-Cola is not included in the register of contraceptives approved by the Ministry of Health. And she will figure out her physiology on her own, just give her time.
Young, unsure, but curious
Sexologist SERGEY AGARKOV shares his impressions of the statistics obtained.
In fact, the survey conducted gives an idea of the fantasies, although not forbidden, but bordering on this area. These are dreams about sex that are not always realized in everyday life.
In modern sexual culture, a man under 35 (before he is married, before he has children, truly becomes attached to a woman) is such a diffuse (that is, undecided, rushing from side to side) perverted creature who dreams of everything you can think of. By the age of 35, he cools down, even if he has not realized all his fantasies, but in his head there remains a notch: yeah, this didn’t happen in life, an omission (it’s like his skeletons in the closet). That is, thanks to the survey, we see what unrealized types of sex worry most men. These fantasies are usually associated with the violation of some kind of prohibition - and not with a regular partner, but with another woman.
But in general, my summary is this: before us are young, not very confident, still interested in sex, and at the same time oriented towards external effects.
41%
EJACULATE ON HER FACE
sexologist's comment:
Here you go - a typical stereotype created by the porn industry. Ejaculation on the face does not provide any psychological benefits to a man - it is done in order to show the picture to third parties. Oral and vaginal ejaculation is a much more obvious psychological goal for a man than interrupted sexual intercourse. And they choose this plot, again, out of curiosity: they say, I haven’t had anything like this, I should try it.
Arina Vintovkina:
Personally, I don’t see anything reprehensible in this fantasy. Sperm really has a beneficial effect on the condition of the skin. As for the pornographic nature of the act itself - perhaps there is a slight touch of immorality in this, but in sex there is no way without it. Moreover, the grateful look of a man who was allowed to feel like Rocco Siffredi compensates for all the inconveniences.
Disgust for the idea is usually experienced by girls who, in principle, are disgusted with male ejaculate. Plan your route step by step: cum in her navel for a while, gradually rising higher - chest, neck. When, at the moment of ejaculation, your partner stops squinting, pinching her nose, shuddering and crossing herself (you really need to get used to the smell and consistency of seminal fluid), you can move on to realizing your fantasy.
The most common mistake is the “surprise shot”. Just as a sandwich inevitably falls with its face down, so without warning a shot of sperm is released and always ends up in the eye. Of course, what happened can be turned into a joke, but laughter will not make the redness and burning go away faster. The second classic mistake is to voice your intentions too early (immediately after penetration, at the beginning of foreplay and on the first date). The best option is to raise the question a few seconds before the finish line, in a decisive tone and in the most direct text possible: “I want to cum on your face.” You wait for her timid “yes” (a consonant interjection, a nod, an inviting look), slightly hold the girl’s head (she can instinctively twitch, and the sperm will land where it is not needed) and do your job.
32%
HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BOSS
sexologist's comment:
The boss is the same as a celebrity, that is, a way to increase her rating in the eyes of other people. And this fantasy is in tenth place because the boss is a bit of a mother (incest motives arise), and in such a sexual relationship there is a large component of compulsion and submission.
Another thing is that you may generally have developed slavish tendencies, then this story is also attractive to you from the point of view of the opportunity to tickle your psychological characteristics.
Arina Vintovkina:
Having experience in leadership positions, I will say frankly: this is a very good and correct fantasy! If only someone would oblige couriers, system administrators and assistants to do manicures, shower twice a day and use anti-acne cream - that would be great.
Firstly, the more a woman works, the less time she has to improve her personal life. In the context of an irregular schedule, the choice is small - either with yourself or with a subordinate. Secondly, office romance invariably affects productivity (it distracts the amateur, but, on the contrary, stimulates the professional). Thirdly, sex itself with a low-status man always turns out incredibly spicy. The thirst for dominance sleeps in every woman. In some - lethargic sleep, in others - simply dozing. However, you can understand your own role preferences only if there is a person wandering nearby, at whom the Labor Code allows you to shout: “Hey, make me coffee and cunnilingus. Hurry up!” 5
Not for everyone
The following remain outside the top ten of your exciting fantasies (a sexologist explains why):
29%
HAVING SEX IN A PUBLIC PLACE WITH THE RISK OF BEING NOTICED
“Sex in risky places is more of a feminine idea. The psychological literature says that these are anthropological remnants of ritual practices in the woman's brain. Collective deflowering, initiation in front of the entire tribe - oddly enough, their subconscious still remembers it.”
27%
HAVE SEX WITH YOUR MOTHER AND DAUGHTER AT THE SAME TIME
“Such a situation brings a man closer to a very serious cultural prohibition - the ban on incest. Few are ready to step over it.”
26%
BEING THIRD IN SOMEONE ELSE'S BED
“It’s like an exam: once you come, show what you can. Such a situation of testing, quality control, testing sexuality is a very alarming thing for a man. Well, off to the swamp.”
24%
PARTICIPATE IN GROUP SEX (more than four actors)
“Group sex is very intimidating for men because it is also a public competition situation that requires a lot of obsession with sex in order for everything to go well. The risk of failure here is very high, and in general, the older you are, the less you want to be in a group. You want to be an individual, unique and irreplaceable, without making much effort.”
21%
PLAY GLORY HOLE
(you put your penis into a hole in the wall, and there someone invisible uses it for its intended purpose)
“What if there is a toothless old woman behind the wall? And for hygienic reasons, this is not the best entertainment... Anonymous sex is generally unusual in our culture.”
20%
BE HER MASTER
“Sadomasochistic tendencies are a universal hobby that allows you to diversify your sex life. But among young men who still have the opportunity to cope with sexual problems by changing partners, this practice is not very popular.”
19%
HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND'S WIFE/GIRLFRIEND
“In modern Russian culture, this is simply rudeness. It’s hard to admit to yourself that you’re such a scoundrel.”
18%
FAKE RAPE
“The game of violence is a purely feminine pastime. For a man to work flawlessly, he needs admiration from a woman, but in the eyes of a woman, a little dramatization of violence sometimes adds piquancy. Especially when she’s not turned on enough.”
14%
BE HER SLAVE
“In general, this fantasy should have been in the top ten - men very often add variety to their sex life in this way. On the other hand, this is maximally manifested already in adulthood, and young respondents strive for self-affirmation - why should they be slaves to someone?”
12%
PRACTICE SWING
“It's just not a very popular practice in our culture. Something akin to being attracted to your best friend’s wife.”
8%
LET A THIRD INTO YOUR BED
“Again competitiveness, the risk of which is that this third person may turn out to be better than you. Do you need it?"
5%
HAVE SEX IN A PUBLIC PLACE AND FOR EVERYONE TO SEE IT
“Let me remind you: it’s mostly women who attract prying eyes. Collective deflowering, etc.”
Text: Arseny Vinogradov
Photo: Viktor Gorbachev
Read everything: https://www.mhealth.ru/sex/896321/#1480221756#ixzz19VNpnFQQ
