How to get your wife to divorce? (with humor)
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Here you are together watching the next episode of “Lovers” and in full agreement criticizing the translation and the choice of actor for the main role (well, a monkey, honestly), and then the man hears your sweet voice: “Do you remember, then you also told me that you went to the dacha alone, but in fact Lena was with you?”
That's it, his gaze and thought stop. First of all, he doesn't remember. What kind of dacha? What is Lena like? And why “also” if the series is not about Lena or the dacha at all, but about a monkey man? Secondly, he understands that he won’t finish watching the series again - until he admits that he was wrong and swears on the country rug that he will never do it again. Thirdly... yes, you can do without thirdly, the evening was already a success. 3. In general, you need to choose the right time for everything. This is our hobby, it’s worth testing it more often.
How to calmly and peacefully talk about divorce?
When it is not possible to reach an agreement at the negotiation stage, further proceedings are carried out by the court, the decision of which may not please both.
You shouldn’t wash dirty linen in public if there is even the slightest opportunity to have a heart-to-heart talk and find out the cause of family problems. It is undesirable to delay the conversation, but you cannot afford to come to the meeting unprepared.
For greater clarity, you can write down the main criteria on a piece of paper and go through each point in detail. Raising the tone, blaming the spouse for all troubles, ultimatums and blackmail are bad methods of influence.
Regardless of the options for solving the problem, only a compromise is the most adequate way out of the situation.
How to tell my husband that we are breaking up?
In any case, you will have to show honesty and tolerance, otherwise the partner will feel trapped, and the male sex is accustomed to turning to the force of aggression when it is not possible to get out of the cage.
You should let him know that the love that held your hearts together until this moment has passed, and only fading memories remain. Perhaps the husband will insist on maintaining the relationship. At the same time, you need to listen, without interrupting, to his arguments and still insist on your own.
The partner must understand the pointlessness of further attempts, and when this happens, you need to discuss with a fresh mind the specifics of the procedure: conditions for keeping children, division of property, etc.
You should not focus on the man’s shortcomings, because the family consists of several people, each of whom contributed to the creation of an unfavorable environment.
How to tell your wife that I love someone else and am leaving the family?
Masculinity is the very character trait that pushes a person to action. This is exactly what a husband should be guided by when another woman appears in his life.
A mistress cannot be the main cause of problems just because she was the reason for the breakup. This means that there has been no strong connection between spouses for a long time, and it is worth putting an end to self-deception and lies.
It is not worth talking about the topic of divorce at the beginning of the day, when the wife is tense and somewhat confused by the morning's worries. It is better to wait for a moment of privacy and explain the situation in a calm tone, wait until the shock passes and give specifics of your actions. There is no need to prepare a fiery speech first, it will look insincere.
The main thing is to make it clear to your wife that you tried to save the marriage, but your feelings for another woman are stronger than the desire to stay with your wife whom you no longer love. After the conversation, you should leave the woman alone so that she can correctly set priorities, calculating a plan for her future life.
It is worth trying to find the right words so that the reaction to the breakup is not too violent, and the divorce is not considered a betrayal.
If a man files for divorce, is the mistress to blame or is it the wife?
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Try to be as frank as possible. Have you had a mistress? Tell your wife about this. Do you smell like women's perfume? Needless to say, you visited a perfume factory to add variety to your life.
Just say it: hugged with your best friend, then kissed, and then. However, she should already understand what will happen later if you returned only in the morning. Don't hide the details and then the beatings. They will help you gain the support of your friends. Sympathetic glances even from her friends will only play into your hands. #2 Has she always wanted you to be more tidy? Start cleaning your house in the morning, preferably on Monday. Does she have to get up at 7 am for work? At 5 o'clock you turn on the vacuum cleaner, washing machine and other household appliances. To her indignant exclamations, answer one thing: “Yes, you’re lazy, it’s dirty, I want to clean up.” #3 Constantly point out her flaws.
Mistress leading to divorce?
But I don’t even understand how you can build a serious relationship with a man who betrays his family? Not only that, he doesn’t even hide it! God, where is the world coming to? But we women, because of our love, do not see anything and forgive everything in the hope of the best, but this best never comes!
No, this is not masochism, this is the desire to love and be loved. It is difficult for a woman who has a successful life and has a loved one to understand, one who is content with little (secretly hoping for full communication).
