Girls were sent to geisha school from the age of 5-6. This was in ancient times, parents could not feed their children and often sold them for education. Subsequently, the age of girls for the geisha school was raised by law to 15 years.
The profession arose in the 17th century, when special male artists began to entertain visitors in drinking establishments, called geisha, that is, an “artist” or a man of art, much like a modern mass entertainer. They turned on the audience by getting the visitors drunk. Once this role was played by a girl whose sharp mind and funny jokes were more popular with the regulars.
Thus, a new job appeared for women, and men gladly gave the opportunity to earn money by organizing the holiday. They were strictly forbidden to have affairs with visitors, and if one of the guests still insisted on spending the night, he slept in the geisha’s room under the close supervision of the mentor, so that he would not allow himself too much.
Many were ready for a platonic night among beautiful girls. The strictness was dictated by local prostitutes, who made sure that their means of earning were not taken away from them. At first, geishas were not even allowed to wear bright outfits, as they could not compete with representatives of the ancient profession.
Mass entertainers liked the new profession
The innovation, which appeared in the Yoshiwara quarter (“Plain of Joy”) in the Japanese city of Edo (modern Tokyo) in numerous tea houses, gradually spread throughout Japan. Even geisha schools appeared, where girls began to be taught how to entertain guests.
They were taught literacy, literature, philosophy, poetry, dancing, singing, makeup, wearing national clothes and the art of seduction so that they were pleasant to look at. The rules and requirements became more and more stringent, the selection was carried out more carefully based on external data and talent.
Geisha look
The very first thing that reveals a real geisha is her gaze. It is with its help that you can convey the entire spectrum of feelings, pacify male anger and make your heart beat faster. Eye contact was of utmost importance at all times. You can and should learn this art.
In order for the gaze to be piercingly deep, it is necessary to perform a special technique daily. Every morning, immediately after waking up, you need to close your eyes and roll them. Trained eye muscles will give your look a special charm, shine and attractiveness.
The geisha school had harsh laws - the monastery was the opposite2
Two centuries ago, girls were selected from 9-12 years old. When she entered the geisha school, the girl occupied the lowest level of student, more like a servant for her older sisters. They washed the floors, put their shoes in order, had to wait for their elders to return from the city, sometimes until late at night, and thus endured all sorts of humiliation.
This is how they developed endless patience without complaints or tears. Girls were forced to play the shamisen, a three-string musical instrument, outdoors on frosty days until blood began to ooze from their fingers. For every unsuccessful note, they beat me on the hands and head.
They were taught to be worthy representatives of the “world of willow and flowers”: to play several national instruments, dance folk dances, sing folk songs, read poems by different authors, have a good understanding of poetry, the news of modern life, its etiquette should be impeccably polished, know well and lead the ritual of the Japanese tea ceremony.
Walk, sit beautifully, carry on small talk, dress tastefully and be sure to be able to laugh, lifting the mood of the guests. All this was instilled in Japanese geishas from an early age.
The girl could not leave the geisha school. She signed a strict contract according to which she must earn back all the money spent on her training, clothes, accessories, and food. The only thing is that a rich man could buy her and give her the opportunity to create his own geisha school. Then she gained freedom. Her presence at tea ceremonies and hosting the evening was well paid.
The more skilled the geisha, the more men were interested in her company, the greater the fee she received. She herself chose the man with whom she wanted to spend the night. Many would like to, but not everyone had access to it. Often a geisha had one regular client for a long time.
Only a very wealthy man could afford to relax with a geisha. The rest of the residents could not even guess what was happening behind the tightly closed gates, entry was prohibited, and geishas also could not leave on their own. The establishment was closed and mysterious.
The art of dance
Geisha dance is not just a dance, but a ritual sacrament. Every movement and detail of the costume carried a deep sacred meaning. Eastern men knew the language of dance and easily read it from the graceful curves of the female body. Depending on the situation, a geisha could dance both to calm and excite. According to Eastern teachings, a woman, with the help of dance, releases a huge flow of creative feminine energy, which can be used in any way. At the same time, the body seems to be renewed and younger, since the woman, having shed her previous energy, receives a portion of new one.
Adult geisha, their lives, opportunities, responsibilities and limitations3
Geisha of the ancient city of Kyoto are distinguished by strict adherence to traditions and enjoy special favor from the Japanese and not only. From all corners of the globe, rich men are eager to get and spend time with a geisha, although it costs a lot of money.
When a schoolgirl sometimes walks down the street, everyone literally freezes, spellbound by her beauty, the way she moves, and with her gaze she can subjugate any man. Sometimes there were cases when young men fainted from such a look, and accidents occurred on the road.
How could a girl completely covered in a kimono make a huge impression on others? She could only show her bare, graceful foot shod in open sandals, and this caused strong sexual arousal, and not everyone could see her wrist. The rules dictated that you should never eat in the presence of guests, but maybe drink a little of the offered drink.
On the coldest day, overcoming the cold, she would walk through the snow in sandals so that her bare foot could be seen, such a gait delighted those around her. Even in your isolated little world, you must always be ready to receive guests, combed, made up, and wearing a beautiful kimono. Live the life of a geisha completely 24 hours a day.
This is her life, every minute she cares about her aesthetic appearance, about how she is perceived from the outside. She can even give birth to children, but she is in no hurry to get married, freedom is more valuable to her, the only thing she worries about is saving money and opening her “tea house” for guests.
Geisha massage. The Exquisite Romance of SexElisa Tanaka, 2007
The temptations of smells and the sensuality of fragrances
Japanese women have always known the temptation of perfume - a fleeting scent in the air or penetrating the folds of silk dresses. The scent of a woman, be it a geisha, a courtesan or a lady of the Heian era, remained long in the memory of their lovers. As one gentleman wrote: “I never thought of it as a mere gamble to spend the night with you and then part at dawn, still smelling your perfume.”
The power of scent is one of the most important and memorable tools in the art of seduction. Many experts believe that smell has a stronger influence on emotions than any other sense. It can transform your mood and make you feel romantic and sexy, passionate and adventurous. It can also transform his mood. Let's take a closer look at this feeling and how you can use it to your maximum benefit.
Your last lover may not remember the dress you wore or the shoes you wore, but he will remember your perfume. Perfume is endowed with magical power to transform something ordinary, everyday into something magical and amazing. One drop can make you feel like you are in the arms of your loved one, transporting you back to those special moments you shared with them.
In all eras, courtesans carried small lacquered boxes containing perfume that hung from the clasp of their kimono. Later, the smell of a geisha was as individual as the style of her calligraphy with a brush. Understanding well why nature endowed flowers and plants with strong stimulating aromas, she knew that the most important ingredient in choosing a scent should reflect the emotional essence and spirit of the woman who uses it. Your scent should be as individual as your personal painting. Learn to choose your scent and use it effectively.
As leading perfumer Jacques Polge said: “Clothes decorate the outside, perfume reflects the inner world.” Christian Dior considered perfume a necessary component of a woman's individuality, an obligatory finishing touch to a woman's outfit, a “highlight” that every woman should afford.
We choose perfume intuitively, and this choice can tell a lot about us. Influencing our mood, they, voluntarily or involuntarily, force us to straighten our backs, tighten our butts, stand on our heels and walk proudly down the street with the gait of a queen. Giving advice on choosing perfume is a thankless task; in this delicate matter there is only one assistant - your own taste. But today I know only one thing - a true woman will never opt for seductive promising names, or be guided only by the external allure of beautiful packaging. Because she has known for a long time that not a single detail of her stylish wardrobe can compete with a drop of expensive perfume, which can become a trap for any man.
After all, only a woman, covered in a delicate sensual haze of an exquisite aroma, can “turn” her head. Nowadays, the choice is so huge that you can get confused in all these incomparable smells, not knowing where to stop. The main advice is to try to choose perfumes that will not overload your image; your task is to present yourself in the most advantageous light, to emphasize your charm, and not to drown yourself in a sharp, intricate, even the most fashionable and expensive aroma.
One perfume for all occasions is a sign of bad taste. In the boudoir of a real geisha, you will never find a bottle standing in splendid isolation. What is good for a fresh morning look is not at all suitable for evening romance or meetings with a man. Everything has its place and time. You should not only dress differently, but also choose different perfumes. The aroma of perfume will adjust you according to the situation. Despite the existence of several thousand natural and artificial scents, all perfumes can be divided into four main types: fresh, floral, oriental and woody. It is better to buy perfume in the morning. Try them not on a blotter (a strip of paper), but apply them directly to the skin. And that's why. There is a special pyramid, or, better said, a structure for the composition of perfumes. The top is the first impression of a fragrance, usually a wave of freshness that fades after a few minutes. The middle (also called the heart of the perfume) contains longer notes (soft spices, flowers). The base is noble woody-spicy aromas that will manifest themselves no earlier than in 10-20 minutes. Therefore, when choosing your favorite bottle, I do not advise you to rush.
Never break the scent by rubbing your wrists together. And of course, try no more than 2-4 different perfumes in one session.
The skin perfectly retains the smell of perfume in those points where the pulse is felt, but do not forget about the hollow on the chest, especially if your magnificent bust allows you to wear clothes with a low neckline. If you prefer perfume with a spray bottle, then in addition to the well-known points of applying the aroma, spray the perfume in front of you and literally dive into the aroma. Your hair will retain its sensual notes for a long time. Clothing also retains the aroma of perfume well, especially wool and fur; cotton and synthetic fabrics are worse. A little advice - don't put a stain. And remember, perfume should smell fragrant, and not strike on the spot and with all its might. Quality does not always mean quantity; a strong trail can only cause a headache in a man, and not an enthusiastic attitude towards you. Yes, one more small detail: do not mix smells. If you usually use deodorant, make sure it's from the same brand as your perfume, or choose an unscented deodorant.
Tips for using perfume
• Find one or two scents that excite him, make them your only perfume, and you, or at least the memory of you, will remain in his memory forever.
• Be smart when choosing your perfume. Warm weather intensifies the scent, so switch to lighter scents, such as honeysuckle and jasmine combined with spring French lime blossoms. Perfume with the scent of lime, basil, tangerine and grapefruit is good for summer. For daytime, use some light perfume, and leave heavy musky scents for evening seduction.
• To get the most out of your perfume, apply it to your pulse points: your temples and the base of your neck, as well as your wrists, ankles, behind your knees (the scent rises upward), on your elbows and between your breasts. Forget about applying them behind your earlobes. The skin in this area secretes oil, which kills the smell. He will never hear it when he bites your ears.
• Eau de toilette, which has a strong but not lasting scent, is designed to refresh you. 80% of it disappears after 3 hours, so don't add more than four hours later.
• Perfume lasts a day and has a softer aroma. Even if you don't feel it, your loved one will.
Charisma is an innate quality, it either exists or it doesn’t, and it won’t exist4
It was considered the height of the art of seduction when a geisha walks among guests through snowdrifts in her open sandals with bare feet, everyone freezes and calls her the short word “iki.” A European would say “charisma”, “class”, “chic”. That subtlety of inner state that no man can resist.
The concept of iki originates in the 17th century, at a time when warriors (shoguns) closed borders and thereby forced residents to take up farming and return to traditions. Life revolved in two directions - between the red-light streets and work itself and everyday life. Iki art flourished, developing into photography, cinema, and theater.
Nowadays it is called elegance. This is what has always distinguished a geisha from ordinary people. At the same time, it is difficult to find such aesthetically perfect admiration for a man in the world; this is the whole essence of a geisha and her attractive power.
Gymnastics from the Land of the Rising Sun
Japanese gymnastics Makko-ho appeared back in 1933 in Japan. Today it has spread throughout the world. We will also be happy to join gymnastics, which has another name - “Stop Aging.”
Makko-ho is not difficult to remember, as it consists of 4 basic movements that are aimed at:
- straightening the spine;
- restoration of mobility of leg joints;
- stimulation of blood circulation;
- improvement of metabolism;
- strengthening the immune system;
- stopping the aging of the body.
The complex is similar to yoga. But, unlike yoga, in Makko-ho the stretching exercises are repeated so many times until the joint movements become easy.
Prostitution is separate from the geisha and is not inherent in it5
Yujo girls provide sex services; this is not the responsibility of a geisha, but it is not strictly prohibited and is considered her personal business; no price is set. The only time she sleeps with a man against her will is during the initiation ritual and transition from maiko to professional level. Without this act, she cannot work and obtain a license.
Wealthy men pay a lot of money for the right to the first night. Often they also support the girl in the future, but for each visit to the tea house they pay without a discount, the maintenance of an individual charming girl is also his personal business and is considered very prestigious in society, his rating immediately rises.
Maiko, the geisha's apprentice, wears a more modest kimono with the belt hanging loosely at the sides. The outfit changes several times until she reaches adulthood and takes up her direct craft - entertaining guests during the tea ceremony. A big mistake is made by those who get married and give up their profession for the sake of their husband; they are rarely accepted back in the event of a divorce.
Outfits, how precious you are, but without you we can’t get anywhere6
Hikizuri - a kimono for dancing is very expensive, up to a thousand dollars, so you have to use the wardrobe belonging to the hostess, for which you need to give part of the money you earn. This money supports elderly geishas who can no longer work, maids who never became geishas, no one chose them and are not ordered at the ceremony.
The hostess lost her benefit on them, that is, she taught and spent her money in vain. They try their best to serve so as not to be kicked out. A lot of money was spent on their training, but it did not bring results.
Currently, no one teaches maiko (the younger generation) individually, but rather send them to centralized training in dance schools located nearby and in music schools.
The shoes deserve special attention. Your feet should be wearing okobo copurri, sandals on a high platform; walking in them is not very comfortable, and your gait turns out to be mincing. To feel how geishas walk in them, you can tie your legs at the knees with a sheet and try to walk like that.
