Tell us who your mother is according to your horoscope, and we will tell you how to communicate with her

Aries Mom

Aries mother rarely complains about her children. She loves them, but often places high demands on them. She doesn't like to argue, but she controls the children so that they don't act rashly. This seems right to her. Try to make concessions to your mother. Give compliments more often, as this is important for her, emphasize how beautiful, wise she is and does not look her age at all. She wants to be proud of you, including your independence and independence.

What kind of mother are you according to your zodiac sign | Interesting facts about what you need to work on

Mom's Strengths: Confidence, self-awareness, strength and fearlessness

Weaknesses as a mom: competitiveness, anger, tunnel vision, obsession, vanity and self-centeredness.

Parenting style:

Hello warrior mom! Ruled by combative Mars, Aries moms approach everything in their lives as if they were going to war—alive and alert. And they definitely intend to win. Motherhood is not for the faint of heart - that's your motto.

One of the strangest things about motherhood for an Aries, especially in the early stages, is the dependence of another person on you. Aries is definitely one of the most independent signs of the zodiac, and you tend to put your own needs first. But after the birth of a child, you have to change, or at least adjust, your priorities. No matter how much you love your baby, one thing is certain: you will miss your former independence and freedom.

You may feel guilty for expecting too much independence from your children, but in the long run they will thank you for it.

The mistake of the Aries mother is that she is very focused on competition and victories. She not only wants to be the best in everything, but also expects this from her children.

Aries mothers may be too demanding and do not give their child affection, care and attention, but they are an example of a strong and independent personality who fosters independence and self-confidence in the child. And also, a warrior mother will defend herself and her family to the bitter end.

Taurus

Mom's strengths: stability, caring, hard work, common sense, insight.
Weaknesses as a mother: indulgence, materialism, mood swings, vanity.

Parenting style:

Taurus moms are stubborn and strict when it comes to some key parenting issues. There's a conservative inside every Taurus mom, and you certainly won't give up on your standards.

Taurus mothers are practical and prefer to make profitable investments. This trait extends not only to finances: when raising a child, a Taurus woman, although she loves him selflessly, subconsciously expects “dividends” in the future. She dreams that the child will grow up, become successful and give her his gratitude and appreciation for all the work that she put into him.

The Taurus mother’s child is always well-fed, dressed in good, clean clothes, attends a wide variety of clubs and schools, does homework on time and under the mother’s control, and is accustomed to obedience and discipline. A typical Taurus mother already knows what profession her child will get after school, calculates his first steps in the professional field and has decided on the type of spouse with whom her little one will connect her life in order to give her grandchildren.

A Taurus mother is very important and needs a connection with her child, mutual understanding and common values. Therefore, if she sees that one of her children has more in common with her compared to other siblings, she may unconsciously choose that child over others.

Twins

Mom's strengths: versatility, flexibility of thinking, curiosity, open-mindedness, originality, creativity.

Weaknesses as a mom: Inconsistency, lack of boundaries, tendency to contradict yourself, impatience, talking or lecturing instead of listening.

Parenting style:

Geminis are mothers with many faces. They are complex, contradictory and capricious, but they are also funny and unpredictable. It is never boring or monotonous in your family, although from time to time your household members will regret that you never have just routine and calm everyday life.

Your standards are never set in stone and can change in the blink of an eye. You can suddenly break away and go to live in the village so that your child grows up in a clean environment, but without hesitation you will take him to a smog-filled metropolis, as soon as your priorities change.

Let's face it - you love to contradict yourself, and you can't help it.

But Gemini mothers are full of surprises and know how to keep their kids on their toes, giving them a million different hobbies and interests. Their children, as a rule, have no problems with motivation and develop a very broad and interesting outlook.

These mothers are well versed in subcultures, so you can often find them wearing matching T-shirts with their teenage daughters at the mall.

Since many Geminis, due to eternal hyperactivity, have problems concentrating on one thing, it is difficult for them to finish much of what they start, including those related to raising children.

Often, a Gemini mother looks for a kindred spirit in a child, intuitively perceiving him first of all as a friend, and not as a child for whom rules and boundaries need to be set.

a lion

Mom's strengths: enthusiasm, leadership, creativity, confidence

Mom's weaknesses: self-centeredness, drama, too much energy, Pollyanna principle

Parenting style:

A creative but dramatic Leo mother treats raising a child as a calling - with complete dedication. She tries to be present in almost every aspect of her children's lives. From the cradle, she raises successful and conscientious citizens who will do great things in the future.

Leo mom is strict in her standards. She is the leader of her pride and must be obeyed. But mother Leo is also the person who puts all her strength into the harmonious development of her little ones - for the sake of their happiness and success in the future, she will die. And when children become the pride of a Leo mother, she is ready to drown them in her love and tenderness.

Virgo

Mom's strengths: organization and structure, common sense, healthy habits, intelligence.

Weaknesses as a mother: tendency to criticize and judge, anxiety and neuroses, complacency, tendency to overanalyze

Your parenting style:

Virgo mother is a freedom-loving and changeable parent who can equally control every step of the little one, or loosen the reins of power too much.

In order to reveal the tender and caring side of motherhood, Virgos need time and habit, especially if they are introverts who love personal space and time. Children invading their lives and depriving them of their personal space may at first seem like a loss rather than a reward.

However, once you change your priorities, a Virgo mother turns into a woman capable of creating an ideally safe and favorable environment for her children.

Virgo mother knows what is good and bad for her little ones. They know the best ways to ensure proper nutrition, healthy habits, care and education of children. Other mothers, as a rule, turn to Virgo mothers for advice.

But Virgos should not get too carried away and make children of their universe to the point of complete self-exhaustion.

Since Virgo mothers are also perfectionists, many of their children feel pressure: their parents are often dissatisfied with their achievements and demand to do better. Because Virgos are the queens of organization, they can obsess over schedules, programs, and plans to the point that it makes them neurotic.

The Virgo mother has no problem pointing out her child’s shortcomings to such an extent that she mistakenly takes constructive criticism for the fact that it can leave the little one with psychological trauma for life, force her to rebel and confront, or undermine her self-confidence.

Scorpion

Mom's strengths: strength, resilience, intuition, willpower

Weaknesses as a mom: control, paranoia, emotional detachment, obsession.

Your parenting style:

The Scorpio mom is a curious mix of whimsy, control, and inspiration. She can be scary at times. Your mood dictates your children's attitude towards you; they may love or hate you for it.

One glance from a headstrong Scorpio mother is enough to rein in even the most disobedient child. Mothers born under this zodiac sign are very fierce; on the one hand, you often suppress all household members with your authority, on the other hand, you no less desperately protect your children, using unstoppable strength and spirit.

Most Scorpio mothers quickly adapt to motherhood and from the first days of pregnancy begin to work on a bright and comfortable future for their children. Financial security is very important to you, and your natural maternal instinct tells you to work even harder once you have a baby.

Life as a Scorpio mom may seem like a game of chess, but the “queen” always wins in the end. Your control and maneuvering is all part of a grand plan between you and the entire universe that often points to better choices and you truly trust your instinct more than anything else.

Bossy Scorpio moms can love their children all-consumingly, and this can really hinder their development of independence.

Because Scorpios thrive on emotional extremes, their emotions can change like the weather at sea. Be careful not to put children on an ongoing emotional rollercoaster.

Cancer

Mom's strengths: sensitivity, comfort, good taste, devotion, sentimentality

Weaknesses as a mother: overprotectiveness, mood swings, fear, jealousy.

Your parenting style:

As the zodiac sign that rules all things matriarchal, you are considered the mother superior to all other signs. A Cancer mom's maternal instincts are ingrained in her DNA. From a very young age, you have been the nanny of your siblings, friends, toys, pets, and anyone in need of a mother's love.

As soon as a Cancer woman starts a family and a home, she begins to devote herself entirely to relationships with her spouse and children. The combination of toughness and severity with a soft and loving heart makes you the most harmonious of all mothers. Because mothers born under the influence of the Cancer constellation are affectionate, they are sensitive and seek emotional input from their children. Without this, they simply do not feel needed and loved.

Most women born under the Cancer zodiac sign are shy by nature, but your children will give you the perfect opportunity to interact with other parents. Hearing about their unique views on school, diet, parenting, and other things makes you understand their values and instantly compares them to yours. Later you will be able to open yourself to a sincere friendship with them.

Cancer mothers want their children to be protected from the cruel world, and will do everything possible to shield them with themselves.

A child’s gaining independence is often the most painful topic for a Cancer mother. Often they do not even notice that they are strangling their children in the strong grip of maternal love.

Scales

Mom's strengths: patience, exactingness, good taste, fairness

Mom's weaknesses: inconsistency, snobbery, vanity

Your parenting style:

Parenting can be a bit stressful, especially if you're trying to find a balance between your kids and you.

Libra is the sign of relationships. Contrary to what other books proclaim about the importance of loving yourself first, you find happiness when you think that you are living your life for the sake of another person. Your children are the perfect excuse to live this way. Organizing your children's lives comes naturally to you.

Libra moms are touched by their children's antics and love their quirks and stupid questions. They happily spend countless hours explaining why the sky is blue.

Although Libra moms already have children, they still love to dress beautifully and extend their style to their children. Their vanity can be a good thing, especially when it helps children figure out some important issues.

However, Libra children tend to lose their individuality because their mothers unknowingly suppress them.

Capricorn

Mom's strengths: planning, systematic approach, traditional values, consistency, patience, thoughtfulness

Weaknesses as a mother: anxiety and suspiciousness, excessive caution, pessimism, self-doubt.

Your parenting style:

Capricorn mothers are more likely to behave like fathers. If you are a single mother, this trait is useful because you can see through the eyes of the father, and this is exactly what children growing up without a father lack.

Motherhood for Capricorn women means determination and organization. You always set limits on what your children get. This effectively teaches them responsibility and restraint.

You may feel the need to be there for your children, but you don't necessarily become their best friend. You honor traditions and will go to great lengths to teach your children to preserve them.

Capricorn moms are tough; you give your little ones hard lessons and big hugs. You love to show your love through your actions. How this plays out in your family has a lot to do with your own upbringing. Capricorn moms tend to bottle up their emotions. Your children may find it challenging at first, but this will provide a solid foundation for future success.

The Capricorn woman is a traditionalist with a strong sense of duty and authority. Among other things, she teaches her children to respect not only themselves, but also those around them.

If you're a Capricorn, you've probably had to take on a lot of responsibility at a tender age. Because of this, you sometimes expect more from your children than they are capable of delivering.

Additionally, the Capricorn mom doesn't always have the warmest and most affectionate nature. In fact, she can appear cold and standoffish if she wants to.

Aquarius

Mom's strengths: passion, open-mindedness, originality, fairness

Mom's weaknesses: boundaries, turbulence and drama, detachment, excessive connivance and indulgence.

Your parenting style:

Aquarius mothers have a unique character - they can be affectionate and spontaneous, as well as reserved and strict.

You see motherhood as a journey and you want your children to experience it for as long as possible.

Your ruling planet is Uranus, which is associated with the unexpected, rebellion and emotional detachment. Your motto could be “expect the unexpected.” Aquarius moms can be a cooing angel one moment and a menacing monster the next. In order to raise a child who is harmonious, emotionally stable and self-confident, you need to balance the instability of your character as early as possible, especially the sharp changes between authority and connivance, forgiveness and inflamed resentment.

Aquarius moms don't balance past and present very well, so they sometimes get sentimental. You enjoy drama in your life, whether you accept it or not. However, you can always counteract this with your strong personality.

Even though you have become a mother, it is always important to maintain your youth and sociability. If you love going to sports games, music festivals, art exhibitions, always make time for it. If you try to put aside your interests to become the perfect mother, you will find yourself regretting it and rebelling against everything you have created. Getting the balance right is the key to being the best mother you can be to your children.

Sagittarius

Mom's strengths: adventure, wisdom, humor, perspective

Mom's weaknesses: impatience, rudeness, harshness, too much spontaneity and lack of structure

Your parenting style:

The Sagittarius mother lives one day at a time and always acts on the basis of pure instinct and motivation. You love your freedom, so being a mother is a surreal feeling. Parenting is truly a huge challenge and lifestyle change for you.

The Sagittarius woman will certainly need some time to adjust to motherhood. Your sign is ruled by Jupiter, the planet associated with abundance and wealth. Sagittarius mothers tend to be overly submissive - working until exhaustion - or vice versa - avoiding responsibility in general. Either way, once you have a baby, you definitely need an improvement when it comes to structure and planning.

Make sure your children learn from you while you do housework or relax. This way, you become a leader and your child becomes a follower. You instill in them good leadership qualities and good taste.

Sagittarius moms encourage their children to broaden their horizons and be open to different points of view. They can spread the wisdom and knowledge of philosophy and other cultures to their children. There will be no uncultured children in the house of a Sagittarius mother if she uses her intellect and her interests as an example to follow.

However, don't go to extremes: it is important for you to understand where to set boundaries. If you build relationships with children in an overly friendly style, this can turn into a parenting style. Sagittarius mothers often sin by allowing their children to do what they want. In addition, Sagittarius needs to control what and how they say in front of children.

Remember that you don't have to be the perfect mother all the time. Your innate sense of humor will help you take on parenting challenges with a smile.

Fish

Mom's strengths: compassion, imagination, nurturing, creativity

Mom's weaknesses: quirks, manipulation, instability, guilt

Parenting style:

Pisces moms are empathic and eccentric, affectionate and spiritual, but also full of wisdom. You certainly know how to treat yourself like a goddess and inspire other moms to be the same.

Pisces mother has many quirks and children are incredibly interested in them. It is the Pisces mother who is able to instill in her child a love of learning through exciting games.

Mothers born under this zodiac sign will successfully develop the creative abilities of their children, as well as their own.

The negative side of their limitless imagination is instability, immaturity and lack of boundaries.

Often it is Pisces mothers who force their children to grow up ahead of schedule. Protest will always be a problem if you allow your spontaneous antics to control you. If you feel like you can't do it alone, the best way is to have a partner (husband, nanny, your own parents) to manage your home.

There's nothing wrong with that as long as you make sure they don't lose respect for you.

Since you don't really like being told what to do, this can have a big impact on how you discipline your children.

You have your own life, but you should always make sure that you maintain closeness with your children over the years. If you can achieve this, you will become their best friend, confidant and advisor.

Taurus Mom

A Taurus mother does not always tell her children how offended she is with them after a quarrel. She can pretend that nothing happened. She may even stop talking to you if you have an argument. If you suspect that you have offended your mother, come and ask for forgiveness. You will see how her face has changed. Be sure to help her with the housework, she really appreciates it. And she will accept your offer to go with her to the dacha with enthusiasm. It is very difficult for a Taurus mother when her children do not listen to her advice, even if they are already adults. Remember to spend time with her as often as possible and respect her persistence. Your mother is very demanding. But this is her strength.

Gemini Mom

Gemini mom is the most sociable mom. She wants her close people to let her in on their secrets and tell her about their problems. She is one of those rare mothers who understands that her children have become independent and adults. Gemini mom just loves it when her adult children come to visit. If you don't live with your mom, do this as often as possible. If you quarrel, just tell her that you are to blame and are ready to make amends in any way.

Aries - zodiac sign of a child-girl: characteristics

This is the sign of the cosmic child, the fresh green shoot, the prodigal bright teenager. She will always bring a completely new and unique atmosphere, no matter the home or company. The Aries girl child has their own way of seeing the world, which is why they sometimes have a reputation as child prodigies.

Flashes of playfulness and slight playfulness can turn a “sheep” into a real party girl and fashionista. She's not afraid to be silly and isn't shy about being the center of attention, but don't neglect her or talk about her behind her back (even if you say something positive or neutral). Sheep prefers to know what people think of her and gets upset when her reputation doesn't live up to expectations.

Cancer Mom

Cancer mom is very vulnerable. You should always remember this. She's always hurting at heart, and she cares so much about her adult children that it can be a little annoying. Remember to call her often if she is worried. This is very important to her. She also needs to know what her daughter does and who she communicates with. If your mother could decide for you, she would prefer that the child live next to her all his life. She is ready to nurse grandchildren and take care of children all her life. She is very attached to her family.

Ideal mother

The ideal mother for an Aries (Rooster in particular) girl child would be a woman with a similar zodiac sign. Aries mothers are often seen with their baby strapped to their back or in a bicycle stroller. Such a mother believes that adventures need to start as early as possible, because once upon a time, as a girl, she was adventurous and restless. She'll take her kids to faraway places like Paraguay and Kathmandu, take them to Mardi Gras to see a parade, and introduce them early to the exotic cuisine of Sichuan—all in the name of adventure. Aries moms can be a little impatient with their in-laws, especially with children who are quiet, introverted, or mediocre. But not if her child is an Aries girl! In this case, mother and daughter will become real soul mates for each other.

Leo Mom

Leo mother loves to boss her children around, or at least wants them to respect her opinion. Never allow yourself to speak to your mother in a raised voice, remember that she will have the last word. This is her little weakness. Try not to argue with your mother, but rather tell her about your successes. If you have a fight, apologize and try to spend more time with her. If you live together, offer to visit either her friends, or to the theater for an interesting performance.

Character of a Taurus child

Taurus ♉ (April 21 - May 20)

Already from the newborn period, a mother can note a calm and undemanding character in her baby. They rarely cry or act up for no reason. The only thing they don’t like is to be left without attention for a long time; it is very important for them to receive love, affection and care.

Taurus babies love to sleep for a long time and wake up only to eat. As a rule, Taurus babies have a good appetite, good health and a “heroic appearance” due to their rather high birth weight. For this reason, children under the sign of Taurus begin to hold their heads, roll over and crawl later than others. Parents should not sound the alarm, because children of this sign are a little slower than others.

Little Taurus is a very curious child and loves to ask a lot of questions, so be patient and be prepared to give countless answers. In addition, Taurus are very observant guys. They closely monitor your actions and begin to repeat them early. They make good helpers around the house, but while they are small, buy for them toy sets of dishes, tools, household appliances and utensils.

The character of a middle-aged Taurus child is not simple. With friends, he can be reliable and loyal, who will always lend a helping hand and never betray. With close people he can be independent and independent. He will absolutely not obey the orders and instructions of his parents. He will copy the attitude of his parents towards him, and if they raise their voices at him, the parents will receive the same reaction in return. If you have built a trusting and good relationship with your child, have no doubt - he will love and respect you.

Also, your Taurus child may be affectionate and easy-going at times, but if he gets very angry, he may turn into an aggressive and uncontrollable child. But if in response you show him not anger, but understanding and empathy, then he will quickly calm down and return to his former child. To maintain the friendly, cheerful and purposeful character of the Taurus child, it is necessary to praise, encourage and approve the child’s good deeds more often, as well as provide a calm and favorable environment at home.

Taurus mothers and fathers can rest assured about their old age, because their grown-up daughter or son will not leave you without attention and care. Taurus is a big family man - he respects the older generation, loves his children, and remains faithful to his soulmate.

Positive and negative character traits of Taurus:

positive features (+):
flexibility, constancy, perseverance, determination, loyalty, hard work, analytical mind, sensuality, practicality, determination, patience, justice, caution, pride, friendly character.

negative features (-):
jealousy, stubbornness, distrust, arrogance, materialism, irritability, slowness, conservatism, secrecy, owner, greed, laziness, indecisiveness, reticence.

Virgo Mom

Virgo mother does not tolerate sloppiness. If she was promised something, she will have to keep her word, otherwise she will not understand unpunctuality and irresponsibility. Virgo mom loves to criticize, but this is a feature of her character. In addition, she may not like your clothing style. She will notice the inconsistency in your suit, the wrong colors, the blouse that is not very fresh. Try not to get annoyed. Such a mother loves it when children listen to her opinion and advice.

Gemini parent - Taurus child: general characteristics of compatibility according to the signs of the Zodiac

Relationships in such a zodiac couple are often very difficult, so representatives of both generations must provide each other with enough free space to grow as individuals and learn something good from each other.

Gemini parent and Taurus child have a lot to offer each other, but they can also test the limits of the opposite side's patience. Taurus and Gemini have completely different astrological natures. While the former is more sedate and practical, the latter are more intellectual. Therefore, it may be difficult for a Gemini mom or dad to understand and accept the behavior of a Taurus child, who demonstrates a “primitive,” “down-to-earth,” “boring” approach to everything. At the same time, it is difficult for their solid child to accept mobility (not only of the body, but also of the psyche, mind), some capriciousness, eccentricity, and sometimes the lack of understanding of the essence of things by the “airy” Gemini parents.

There is a risk that in such a family, a Taurus girl or boy may grow up very needy for parental affection and approval and not too confident in themselves. But with the right upbringing and guidance, these children will only gain strength. In addition, the Gemini parent is able to help the Taurus child relax and enjoy life. An heir or heiress can also teach adults valuable life lessons, helping them take life more seriously and consistently.

It is difficult for such representatives of the older and younger generations to understand each other's motives. But the child-adult compatibility horoscope assures that if Taurus and Gemini learn to communicate constructively, their family will be stable and happy. The best aspects of this relationship are the security that these two can give each other, as well as the ability to open up new perspectives in life for the other party.

Now let's look at the relationship between Gemini parents and Taurus children in more detail, depending on the gender of the older and younger generations.

Libra Mom

Libra mother does not tolerate disharmony. Try not to appear in front of her in a bad mood. She will certainly think that you have big problems and will offer options for help. The Libra mother is a very comfortable mother; she prefers not to conflict with her children. The only thing that can make her angry is a misunderstanding of her position and a complete rejection of her advice. Try to consult with her as often as possible. Compliment her on her appearance. If you have a fight, just apologize and go shopping with her. Note that she has excellent taste. Most likely, she will immediately forget about the quarrel.

Talents and abilities of an Aries child

Try to develop the qualities he lacks from childhood, then it will be too late. Give him enough attention (maybe even to the detriment of your personality), study toys with him, build a house from blocks, solve riddles, look at pictures.

Build a car with him from a construction set or make a doll, sew dresses for her - try to develop in him patience, perseverance, and interest in activities. Aries child loves to be first and quickly achieve success. If he fails to do this, he quickly loses interest in the game and in the person.

Aries love noisy and energetic games. Parents will have to come to terms with the sound of a drum and the playing of a musical instrument (pipe, whistle, accordion). There will be a lot of screaming, noise, and uproar in the house.

Difficulties in raising Aries

When the Aries child grows up, he will bring noisy groups of friends into the house. It’s better to endure this when he’s in front of your eyes than, knowing him, to torment yourself with guesses about what kind of company or story he got into and why he’s still not home.

If Aries is a boy, he can be quite aggressive. Never respond to his aggression with aggression, or cruelty to cruelty. He is prone to violence to achieve his goals and insists on his own. In his anger he can be reckless and uncontrollable. Do not encourage rough play, animal cruelty, or a love of guns in boys.

An Aries child is impatient from birth, by nature. It can be difficult for him to sit over a book and write for a long time, although he is capable and grasps everything on the fly. Choose for him his favorite books about good heroes, exciting travels or deeds.

Aries loves exploits and adventures. Try to give him a good education from teachers who do not use punishment and act more by conviction and personal example. This will prepare the Aries child for his adult life.

Aries are very diligent and diligent. When you are passionate about your work, you are ready to take care of and help others. They take little account of the views of others, even their peers. They are distinguished by their courage and quick reaction, which increases over the years.

Scorpio Mom

If your mother is a Scorpio, she does not have the simplest character. She wants to control everything, is interested in your whole life, wants to know what the children ate for breakfast and who they spend time with. You may feel like she is trying to manipulate you. It is not true. Such a mother is very caring and cannot believe that her child is an adult. Remind her of this sometimes, but very gently. If you quarrel, apologize first. She is always ready to forgive, but she needs a step forward to be taken.

Sagittarius Mom

Sagittarius mom is a progressive mom. She is almost always full of optimism. She must not be offended. In this state, she can make a lot of comments to you about your behavior. Take it for granted and don't argue. If your mother is a Sagittarius, never deceive her. She will certainly discover this and express everything she thinks about it. If you have a fight, just give her a small gift, she is very sentimental and will be happy about it. Remember how she walked with you as a child, tell her something nice.

Interaction of planets

Ruled by Mars and being the first sign of the zodiac, Aries is the child in the karmic wheel of life. The Aries girl has an eternal optimism, always looking forward and rarely giving up. She is a born leader. The horoscope of an Aries girl child is largely based on the position of Mars in the natal chart.

“Sheep” often imitates someone, but never copies. Sometimes she can cause excitement, but usually she only causes anger among those classmates who secretly want to be just like her! If you are brave enough to criticize her, you must also be willing to defend yourself. This brave girl is not afraid to talk business or even fight.

Aquarius Mom

Aquarius mom. If your mother is an Aquarius, you are very lucky. She is very progressive, always ready to listen to your point of view and engage in discussion. Don't deny her this. If you don't agree with your mom, just explain why and say that you are ready to listen to her advice. Aquarius mom loves to chat. The best thing you can do is become her friend. If you quarrel, just say that you were wrong, show concern for your mother in any convenient way.