Seductive kitty
Advice for ladies
It is important for a man that he is the hunter and conqueror, that he is the one who takes the first step, so it is not always worth showing excessive courage and perseverance.
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Who is she?
This is what women with pronounced sexuality are usually called. For any healthy man, even if he is a faithful family man and would never cheat on his wife, such women cause erotic arousal. A man may not admit to himself that he liked the lady... But she will not leave him indifferent.
The cats are distinguished not only by their bright clothes, but also by their special gait and bold, inviting look.
This look seems to indicate that the young lady “doesn’t have a headache”; she won’t annoy her companion with long conversations around the bush. You can get straight to the point.
Her strength and weakness
Sex bombs really attract men's attention. But do gentlemen want to get to know such ladies better? Practice shows that sexy beauties not only attract, but also often repel and frighten potential gentlemen with their appearance.
Firstly, they may seem vulgar. Secondly, a man is much more attracted when a woman looks sexy exclusively in an intimate setting, alone with her chosen one.
Advice for gentlemen
A revealing outfit does not always mean that its owner is an easily accessible dummy. Don't judge a woman by her clothes, try talking to her first.
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Whitewash for a gray mouse
There is no doubt that it is not easy to get rid of habits and complexes. And it is likely that your man is satisfied with a submissive, timid maid, ready to fulfill any desire. But keep in mind that the gaze of someone who lives with a gray mouse will forever be drawn to exotic birds. By hiding your true traits, you deprive your loved one of the opportunity to admire you - the play of the facets of your character, the whims dear to his heart. How to stop being a gray mouse
?
Breaking out of your own cage is difficult, but possible. Let's start right now, without waiting for the end of the month, the full moon and rain on Thursday!
You don't love yourself, you consider yourself plain and uninteresting. But haven't you ever dreamed of becoming an actress? Try to play the role for one spectator - for yourself. Imagine that you are not a gray mouse , oh no! You are a star! You are incredibly beautiful, incredibly sexy and incredibly talented! Damn attractive, finally! Believe this - for the game, for a minute... Now go to the mirror. Look at it - but not fearfully and briefly, as you do in the morning, running off to work.
Do you see how the eyes of your reflection shine? Not surprising! The woman behind the glass is the one and only. No one else has such eyes, such a smile, such a mole on his cheek. Maybe she should change her hairstyle? Take off her boring suit and use your last money to buy that dress you were frozen in front of last week? Honestly, the looking glass lady is gorgeous! It is impossible, it is unthinkable to call her a gray mouse
! But she is your double, remember?
So where did you get the idea that life is sad and happiness is inaccessible? You deserve the best! And above all, you are worthy of your own love. Learn to adore and appreciate yourself! Cast aside doubts - there are no ugly women in the world. Take a closer look at Hollywood stars - are they all that good-looking? Self-confidence is what makes us beautiful. Stop hiding under the skin of a gray mouse! “We were and remain goddesses, and the curves of our bodies have nothing to do with it,” let these lines become your motto from now on.
But for the miracle to happen, you must help him. First of all, you should take care of your appearance. Are you overweight? Try to lose weight and don’t think that the task is immensely difficult. The women's magazine JustLady will tell you a lot of great diets. But even if your efforts are not crowned with success, it doesn’t matter. The figure will not stop you from being a gray mouse . Men rarely say out loud that dry roach is only good for beer, but even less often do they divorce their plump wives.
Be sure to contact a makeup artist. Skillful makeup will highlight the beauty of your face and hide its flaws. Go through your wardrobe - does it contain fashionable and stylish clothes? No? Is everything old, ordinary and discreet? Terrible! Start small - buy one, but extravagant thing and go to work in it. Will they say that the “gray mouse” has dressed up? Don't pay attention - it's not about you! You are different now! And let them think and say whatever they want. Don't listen to anyone and do whatever you want!
Do you think that it’s not just about beauty? Of course you're right. An educated, clever and craftswoman invariably attracts attention. But enormous strengths and talents always lie dormant the gray mouse Remember what you loved to do as a child? Paint? Dance? Or even play football? It is quite possible that your talent is hidden there, buried deep because of a minor failure or a stupid insult. Try to dig it up, clean it and finally develop it.
If you already play the guitar, quote classics and cook great, does anyone even know about these virtues? Don't hide your talents! Admire them and show them to others. Are you modest and non-communicative? Go to the Internet, browse chat rooms and forums - there are a lot of interesting people there! Virtual does not oblige you to anything, and you can hone the art of communication, find like-minded people and share problems. Well, in real life, cut off friends who don’t want you to stop being a gray mouse .
Never criticize yourself, don’t offend yourself - just correct your mistakes. If you treat yourself differently, the attitude of others will change. Women will stop talking nasty things behind your back, men will start looking at you. But do not forget that among our knights there are often hunters who do not feed with bread - but let them drive you back into the strong cage of a gray mouse. Don't give in! Shake off the usual numbness - and your loved one will begin to respect your personality.
It is much more difficult to stop being a gray mouse if you are lonely. Loneliness poisons life and makes you give up. But there is a remedy here too! Remember: it’s not you who wants a man – men want you! It is not they who choose, but you. Believe me, if you are convinced of your own irresistibility, you won’t have to wait long for your chosen one. And don’t be afraid to be strong and unapproachable next to him! After all, a real man is bored by easy victories.
And look only for joy - in every conversation, every look, every moment. You simply must live the new day better than the last. Cinderella's carriage turned into a pumpkin, but this did not stop her from marrying the prince. Throw out old sorrows from your head and forget about what oppressed you. There is no point in grieving about the past! Your desire to stop being a gray mouse should not become just a short impulse. Step forward boldly! You will achieve a lot if you don't stop! After all, by changing your inner world, you change the reality around you. You create the world around you!
Set yourself up for happiness, and luck will come on its own! Be sure to check out other articles in the women's magazine JustLady - you will undoubtedly find many relevant stories and advice in them. And remember: gray mouse
- just a shell, a mask, attached to your bright, extraordinary soul. But only you can break it yourself.
Elena Afanasyeva Women's magazine JustLady
Gray mouse
Advice for ladies
You shouldn’t perceive every man as an enemy who is just waiting for your weakness to show up in order to take advantage of the moment. If you went to a cafe with a man, this does not mean that later you will owe him something. Enjoy the conversation!
Who is she?
This is what they call modest, sweet, shy girls. Sometimes they lack self-confidence, it is difficult for them to attract the attention of a gentleman, and they are often indecisive.
Gray mice do not flaunt their sexuality, avoid revealing clothes, and limit themselves to discreet makeup.
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Her strength and weakness
Gray mice conquer men because they do not make any special claims on them, are able to appreciate good qualities, and enjoy even the most modest gifts and signs of attention.
Knights are captivated by their natural beauty. In an intimate setting, a quiet and inconspicuous gray mouse can become a passionate, temperamental and insatiable lover.
But, in order to reveal your best qualities to a man, you need to get to know him better. And gray mice often find it difficult to make contact. Often they see in every man an insidious seducer and are in no hurry to trust their gentleman.
Advice for gentlemen
Don't try to win the gray mouse's attention with a cavalry charge. Get ready for a long courtship!
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According to statistics, 70% of men first look into a woman’s eyes, and then evaluate everything else.
How to stop being a gray mouse
First, you need to draw an image of your ideal self. The self you want to be. Yes, you shouldn’t immediately pick up a makeup brush or buy acidic nail polish. First, just dream. Once the image has been formed, you can begin to implement it. After all, not everyone wants to be a vamp with blood-red lips and make men pile up with one look. For some, it is enough to look as natural and smart as possible, and also learn not to get lost in the presence of strangers. The desired image is an important stage of any work on oneself. Secondly, you need to work with your own self-esteem. Until internal work on yourself is completed, you shouldn’t even move on to external work. Assess why you are tense, what you are ashamed of, and what complexes are just asking to come out. Once the most important problems in self-acceptance are identified, work will become easier. When a person has adequate self-esteem, he will be able to respond to rudeness, confidently say “no,” and defend his own point of view.
Thirdly, we need to move to a positive worldview. Every day you need to remind yourself that “I am the most charming and attractive ...” and further according to the text, which everyone determines for themselves. This kind of auto-training really brings results. Look, a stranger on the street will wink even without any active action on your part. This point can be described as self-love. Allow yourself to be yourself, love your strengths and weaknesses, accept yourself completely, and then it will become easier to relate to the world with a positive attitude.
Fourthly, you need to think about your appearance. It has long been known that no people are ugly, you just need to be able to emphasize your charms and hide your flaws. The most skillful people generally turn their shortcomings into advantages. If you’re not happy with your own figure, go to the gym or stadium in the morning; if your smile doesn’t make you happy, go to the dentist; if your hair looks like straw, go to a beauty salon; if your wardrobe is more suitable for the grandmother from the second entrance, go to the store immediately. There is a solution to any problem, the main thing is not to worry about it, but to start working.
Fifthly, pay attention to the development of communication skills. If communication barriers arise, it is imperative to find out their cause. If you cannot figure this out on your own, you can seek help from a psychologist. When intrapersonal problems are resolved, it will be much easier to change behavior. Set difficult goals for yourself at first (for example, chat with 10 strangers in a day) and achieve them. Until you do it, forbid yourself to go to bed. A dozen strangers in a day is not that much. Just think about how many people you meet on your way to work.
Everyone thinks I'm a gray mouse
Hello, I am writing to you because I have completely withdrawn into myself and this is at my age when I should enjoy life without any problems. I take everything very close to my heart and I’m already tired of it. For example, I was insulted and I’m sitting at home in the evening and thinking, “maybe I really am like that.” People around me don’t understand me, no one knows about my problems, for everyone I’m a cheerful person. But this is not so, I also have nerves, although sometimes I feel so bad, but I still put on a smile and go. I stole my beloved Vlad from my friend Valya, but he himself drew attention to me and I didn’t know that it would all end like this. True, in the end I broke up with the guy, but I remained friends with him and made peace with my friend)) (although sometimes my conscience torments me about this) I started dating another guy, his name is Denis, I also broke up and he told me that it was nothing and did not have! We were just friends!! Well, I also communicated well with him later. But in the summer I walked with another friend of mine, Natasha, and met HIM, okay, I survived it. We talked nicely, but at school, when talking with Natasha, we insulted him and our mutual friend Pasha conveyed this to him. It's a scandal, my friend and I are enemies No. 1 for him. I asked him for forgiveness, but my friend did not. He forgave her, but not me! And then he told everyone that I asked him for forgiveness on my knees!! This is some kind of horror!! I went through it well, I forgot, and today I met him as luck would have it, and he and his friend began to get to the bottom of me (my phone rang, I started calling back and he said to me, “Why are you calling Pasha to complain about me?” This phrase infuriated me, but I I didn’t give any signs. As always, I took everything to heart and now I’m sitting there worrying, and is it really all my fault? In the summer I worked part-time and went to work by public transport every morning. I’m a great music lover and always have headphones on with music. And one fine day I go to work and then some man shows on a piece of paper “Hello, let’s get acquainted?” We met, he is 2 times older than me, he has a wife and 2 children. He began, as it seemed to me, to look after me under the pretext "let's have a good friend with connections" and I refused him, said that I don't need a friend like that. That would be fine, but he lives at my stop and every morning when I go to school I worry about suddenly seeing him again!! I don't want this, but 5 months have already passed and I can’t get rid of this thought “what if I meet him,” and today when all the troubles fell on me, I met him, or rather, we crossed paths, he was walking with his wife and children and I was walking with my parents to the city Christmas tree. Today I told all my “problems” to my friend, but she didn’t understand me, she was even offended. Sometimes I envy Natasha, everyone pays attention to her and even the guy I really like pays attention to her, and I’m like a second plan. If Natasha gets sick, they immediately think of me. I am tired of this! Everyone thinks I'm a gray mouse, but that's not true!! If people get to know me well, they understand that this is not so! But I can’t show everyone that I’m not a gray mouse, “what if I do something wrong, and everyone won’t like it.” I'm sick of all this! I'm tired of taking everything so closely! I can’t tell my mom all this, I’m ashamed!
I don't have time to live. Everyone thinks I'm a loser
