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Many women who do not reach the world-established standards, ninety, sixty, ninety, experience a complex and are determined that they cannot attract male attention. But sociological surveys of men indicate that standard cover girls attract them only as an object of sexual fantasies, and for more serious relationships they would like to see next to them a woman who has not only a pleasant appearance, but also some other qualities. So, what kind of women do men like?

Of course, there are many opinions about the ideal woman and it is impossible to create one single image of the ideal, but a general opinion still exists. What a woman should be like for her man:

1. Attractive

This means she knows how to attract his attention, emphasizing her natural beauty. What kind of man is uncomfortable being next to a woman who looks well-groomed and tidy? Many women put “tons” of cosmetics on their faces, pump up every possible part of their body with silicone, torture themselves with diets and try to idealize themselves artificially at a time when men need a natural woman who does not mask her natural advantages.

Makeup should not be too flashy and bright. If he is too provocative, then it is possible that a man will form an opinion of you as a not entirely decent woman, or, even worse, an image of an Indian will appear in his mind who dug up the hatchet of war and now, with his bright colors, shows his readiness for aggressive actions.

Young girls are advised to wear minimal makeup and not weigh down their fresh, young skin with heavy foundations. The powder will be enough to hide the oily shine and not spoil the natural color of the skin.

Men also do not like lips generously covered with a layer of lipstick. When kissing, they want to feel the warmth, tenderness and trembling of a woman’s lips, and not count in their brain how much chemical they eat during the evening, what means they will have to wash off super-resistant lipstick and what is included in the lip gloss, which either sticks or slides to them.

This, of course, does not mean that men like women who do not use makeup at all. Moderation is needed in everything! Light blush, a little mascara, calm tones of shadows and natural lip color are what you need.

The hairstyle can be super fashionable, or it can be a simple haircut, the main thing is that it suits the woman and the hair looks as natural as possible. They should be fresh, clean, smell nice and, since men love to touch and kiss the hair of the woman they love, they should be silky and soft.

Bright violet-crimson colors can make a man worry about the health of your hair; hair generously sprayed with hairspray becomes so unpleasant to the touch that a man will try to touch it as little as possible, and locks of artificial hair extensions that fall off at the most inopportune moment can quite seriously affect a man’s psyche.

Extended long fingernails can delight only you and your friends. Men are not only annoyed by painting their nails with varnish every day, that is, inhaling chemicals, but they are also frightened by the length of their nails, which they associate with the claws of a predator, ready to pounce and tear at any minute. In addition, a woman with such nails cannot fully perform her feminine work, and therefore the impression is created of her as a bad housewife. Men prefer natural nails of medium length, that is, a simple, neat manicure.

2. Sexy

Many girls have the opinion that lips plump from Botox, breasts inflated with silicone, preferably a deeper cut, a shorter skirt and appropriate makeup are what will emphasize her sexuality, but only young boys will fall for this. Men have a completely different concept of a woman's sexuality.

A sexy woman should not be “naked.” Clothes should be closed, but with some zest that will allow the male imagination to run wild and give free rein to sexual fantasies. For example: a shirt with one or two top buttons undone, a closed blouse emphasizing the contour of the chest, a straight skirt that slightly covers the knees, or classic trousers that highlight the butt. The color scheme should not be flashy, and the fabrics should be soft and pleasant to the touch.

Sexuality gives a woman confidence in herself, in the fact that she is an equal sexual partner and is ready, with generosity, to thank the man who gave her pleasure. Confidence in what she wants and what she can give.

A sexy woman knows how to speak softly, calmly, as if purring and squinting her eyes languidly.

The way a woman smells also plays a big role in sexuality. Strong perfumes or various stimulating aromas are not exactly what men like; they will gladly prefer the natural smell of a woman or a light aroma of freshness.

The ability to walk beautifully also plays an important role in a woman’s sexuality. A straight back, an even, relaxed gait attracts the gaze of men, and the lack of lightness, tension, clumsiness and awkwardness in gait cannot be covered up by any clothing. To learn to walk beautifully, you need to take off your comfortable low-speed shoes and switch to high heels or stilettos.

But having just these two qualities is not enough. There is something else that reveals the truth about what kind of women men love.

3. Feminine

Jeans, sneakers, a “boyish” haircut, an awkward gait, sudden movements and a rude voice - this is the image of an anti-feminine girl whom men perceive as one of their own, but they will never look at a woman, with the exception of cases called “ not for everyone."

Russian girls are famous for their femininity, since they have not yet been deeply affected by the well-known emancipation. They have retained the ability to be the “weaker sex”, which causes a reflex in men to “protect” and thereby understand that he is strong. Next to such a woman, a man realizes himself and the feeling of responsibility for this fragile “creation” attracts men like a magnet.

4. Smart

There is an opinion that men are afraid of smart women, and bad ones (sorry) annoy them. A woman should be so smart that she can be an interesting conversationalist and her normal intellectual development is not in doubt, but also not let a man know that she is much smarter than him.

5. Self-sufficient

Self-sufficiency makes a woman independent, and this prevents a man from feeling like a nanny or a “wallet.” Independence gives equal rights to both parties, which is important in strengthening relationships.

6. Sociable and cheerful

An optimistic woman who walks through life with a smile and a good mood is not only a pleasant conversationalist, but also a person with whom you want to be more often and be charged with vitality and positive energy. Agree that a twitchy, hysterical person, with an always “sour” expression on her face and complaints about such a bad life, will not be “to the taste” of every normal man.

7. Respectful

Respect for a man, his friends and family, his views on life, interests and hobbies will help not only win a man over, but also make him treat himself with respect.

What other women do men love? Kind, gentle, caring, who know how to build a family nest and keep the fire burning, so that a man, when he comes home, understands that the one who simply needs him is always waiting for him here and loves him.

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Women's success: what does a man think?

Life is an unpredictable and dynamic thing. Every summer I work in the tourism industry. And I earn huge money for our family. In a month it turns out to be as much as my husband earns in three. This fact gave me reason to reflect on the topic “How to help an MC survive your success?”

My success is seasonal. And already on September 1st I completely forget about him. But while three green horses are smiling at me from the calendar - June, July and August - my personal technique is working to not give my husband any reason to be upset that I am financially more successful than him in a given period: I try not to translate life into the plane of money. I earn it, money, put it in an envelope and... forget. Until the time comes for big expenses. Meanwhile, life continues in the same direction as before. Adjusted for the fact that I am more tired than usual, and my husband, accordingly, devotes more time than usual to the house: shopping, daughter, dacha.

Each of us (this is my personal opinion, it may well be wrong) at least once experienced a period when a woman was more successful than her husband/man. My friends confirm this theory.

Lyuba, who works remotely on a flexible schedule for a Belgian company and has a husband who has been unemployed for a year, says: “My know-how is not to nag, not to compare with others, not to demand an immediate change in the situation, to discuss his plans and desires, to help with information and options that he, for some reason, does not see. And make the most of the situation for yourself.”

“Man differs from man,” says another friend of mine, Sveta. “My man would gladly not work and would live at my expense, enjoying my successes and raising his daughter.” We don't have grandmothers, and this option would suit both of us. I think my husband is not the only one. Or I'm wrong?"

“My experience illustrates the unpredictability of life,” says Katya, “five years of marriage with a poor eternal medical student, when I was earning serious money and my husband received a postgraduate scholarship, turned out to be not indicative. And in the sixth year everything changed: now I give birth to children, and he finally learned and supports us all.”

“I’m more successful than my husband,” says Olga, a designer, “but he and I have similar specialties, so I try to involve him in my projects. As practice has shown, it is great if you can unobtrusively mention somewhere in a group of friends about this assistance provided. As a result, I don’t stress, and he feels involved in my success and is only proud of me.”

“My husband and I’s relationship fell apart because of my success,” recalls my classmate Lisa, “but I don’t regret it. I remember well how joyfully I told him about another promotion, and in response I heard: “I hope you get paid for your work.” I thought I was going to kill..."

Our three heroines know what long-lasting success is. Longer than a week, a month, six months. Their stories are an excellent source of inspiration for those who are just learning how to build a relationship with a man, without wanting to give up a brilliant career or hide it behind the doors of their office.

Polina Belimova (39): She would like to live in Manhattan. Marital status:

married 15 years
Children:
daughter Sofia, 9 years old.
Education:
St. Petersburg State University, The University of Warwick in the UK (specialty in “Methods of teaching foreign languages”).
Personal success:
language school “Practice”.

Whatever I do, I do it to fulfill a mission: new effective methods should help people learn a foreign language quickly, efficiently and with pleasure.

To achieve this goal in St. Petersburg, I participated in projects of the British Council on communicative teaching methods (taught courses on methods for teachers of schools and universities), helped develop or create language schools with a progressive approach to teaching English.

My husband and I have always understood that I am a workaholic, a careerist, that I am obsessed with the idea of updating methods of teaching and learning English, and he is a person for whom home and family take first place. We have always been against such stereotypes as “the woman takes care of the house and children, and the man works,” changing roles is not a problem for us. Almost no problem. So the husband became a housewife.

"Almost" refers to the birth of a daughter. Until recently, I could not enter the “pregnant” role and returned to work when my daughter was 2.5 months old.

In the first years, it was very difficult to run to work, hearing my daughter crying because my mother had left again. The entire burden of the educational process fell on the shoulders of the husband; our parents could not help us. I really appreciated my husband’s involvement in the process of “motherhood and fatherhood”; I sincerely admired his ability to cope with the child as well as I probably would not have been able to.

Sometimes I asked myself: how long can I work for others, always doing everything as if it were my business? And yet, opening my own company was like a step into the abyss for me.

My husband tried not to influence my decision and, although he had doubts, he helped me in everything.

At first, his support and help were absolutely necessary (an educational business is opened with virtually no start-up capital, only on the basis of contacts, experience and a team that follows you); my husband was three-in-one for me: he helped me in business, took care of the house, and raised my daughter.

The first years after the opening of my language school “Praktika” were very difficult and required my almost round-the-clock immersion in work, but now the school is able to work more autonomously, and I control it remotely and am thinking about selling it: someone as passionate as me , could now breathe new strength into her.

My husband, daughter and I like New York. I see space for activity in it: for example, now I am helping to develop a training company in New York, and we are planning to live there for some time.

The biggest difficulty in my relationship with my husband is not my success, but the test of the “parallelism” of lives: when everyone is passionate about their activities (one with work, the other with home), it becomes difficult to understand each other.

The main cure for this is to share more of what is happening and listen to each other’s advice.

A man should feel his most important role as an adviser, feel that he is smarter and more experienced. My husband always listens, supports, inspires. I truly appreciate it. And he, in turn, sees and feels how valuable this is to me. After all, he is the rear!

Polina's husband:

“Being the husband of a successful woman is not easy. She brings constant worries and thoughts about work into the harmony of the house. In addition, it’s not easy to rebuild: after all, she’s sometimes the strongest in the world, and sometimes she’s just a weak woman who needs a strong man’s shoulder.”

Nastya Obraztsova (22): Success is not a luxury, but a necessity . Marital status:

Single.
Children:
two daughters: Arina - 2.5 years old, Polina 1 - year old.
Education:
St. Petersburg State University, Faculty of Law.
Personal success:
Krasatof brand, head of Krasatof-Russia, the company provides exclusive self-adhesive images on nails for nail art masters.

I met my ex-husband at a party. We didn’t see each other right away: the romance was developing, gaining momentum... We matured before the wedding after the birth of our daughter Arisha. Almost until I gave birth, with my stomach in, I worked as a model; I managed to save money - I lived on my husband’s salary. He made money... not bad. And not good. Usually. And after the birth of my daughter, a crisis struck, my husband’s job didn’t work out - he was unemployed for more than six months and was in no hurry to change anything. But I found myself pregnant again... We lived on “model” money, and my parents helped at times. The period turned out to be difficult for everyone - me, my husband, tiny Arina and Polina sitting in her stomach. Not feeling any support from my husband and prospects, my daughter and I went to my mother. She gave birth to Polina. After the birth of our second daughter, my ex-husband and I tried to start again “all over again,” but nothing worked out. Not that option. Wrong person. At that moment, I clearly understood that now everything depended only on me. When my youngest was two months old, I went to work and now I’m starting my own business. At this moment, my mother helped me a lot and is still helping me, for which I never tire of thanking her. In less than a year, everything has changed - I have found application for my previous skills and gained new ones: they directly or indirectly help me in my business. What I can do is related to the beauty industry (work in the modeling business, diploma as a stylist-make-up artist, professional dancing classes). A legal education also came in handy. My personal life is also in order: I love and am loved, the young man provides all possible help and shares all my endeavors. My ex-husband’s pride was wounded - he couldn’t even imagine that I would get out of the stalemate so quickly and beautifully. But I had no choice: my success (even if it’s said loudly, because the company is still gaining momentum!) is a necessity. My daughters are growing up, which means I have no time to sit back.

I understand that when a girl becomes successful, pitfalls appear in relationships with men, but I hope they will bypass me. Our joint plan for business development with MCH involves both of us: now, when I am managing the promotion of the company in Russia myself, he provides me with legal assistance, but soon the time will come when I will need to expand to Europe, and he will develop business in Russian regions. And when there is cooperation, there is no envy, right? That's the whole secret. Although there is another secret - at the moment I am a pole dance choreographer. For me, this is a great way to get rid of negative emotions in order to move on. And for my MCH (and he doesn’t hide it) this is a pure thrill: after all, he doesn’t need to go to a striptease to see an erotic dance. Everything is nearby.

Alexey, Nastya's boyfriend:

“Next to Nastya, I develop as a person and I see that Nastya is developing with me. You feel like a real man when you discover new facets in a girl and suggest directions for her development. And when Nastya gets carried away, her hobbies open up new opportunities for her - both for creativity and for business. And I see in her success the seeds I planted and I rejoice.”

“Every man secretly dreams of a cover girl. And if a wife is engaged in improving female beauty and teaches this to others, she is already doomed to success. But I live not with my wife’s success, but with her beauty. This is every man's dream."

Psychologist Irina Prokhorova comments:

Changing roles is an excellent, although rather difficult to apply, means of refreshing and improving family life. Often this change is more difficult for a husband than for a wife. After all, society habitually trusts a woman not only with the family hearth, but also with a galloping horse and a burning hut. But if a man who is “supposed” to carry a mammoth into the house suddenly remains behind the fire, some are immediately ready to consider him a gigolo. Does he run the house well? Does he take care of children conscientiously? Or did he sit on the woman’s neck and dangle her legs?

Even if the change of roles turned out to be a forced step, the lesser of evils, it is very important for both spouses to perceive it as a mutual voluntary decision and to turn all their attention to the positive aspects of such a step. And there are many of them. After all, rigidly fixed roles are a powerful factor in the development of family conflicts and neuroses.

But changing roles means getting a good opportunity to break stereotypes, get rid of old conflicts, stand in each other’s shoes, understand each other. And, among other things, gain a unique life experience.

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A successful woman does not need a man!

The picture is called “ ME MYSELF!!! "(by the way - “I myself” is a crisis of 3 years, when a child begins to realize himself in the world. I am very surprised when Women at 30 say this. Do you understand the paradox? 3 years - 30 years)

I spoke with one woman on the topic “ What does she want for herself? ". I often ask people this question, because I see that people do not understand which goal is their own and which is imposed by others, advertising or the media. Moreover, people often defend other people’s goals without realizing that these “goals” were planted in their heads by someone.

It all started with the desire to have POWER. Do you understand the true purpose of man? BE ABOVE OTHERS to receive bonuses for yourself. A very low intention - most often it is found in people who are on the verge of survival, who have nothing and understand that they will remain there forever if they do not have “power”. Of course, they already have some kind of power in the family, they most often constantly humiliate their parents or spouses, if the second spouse left unable to bear it, then it will be given to the child.

To assert themselves by humiliating others is Power for them. Explaining to this person at this stage that he needs to be useful to others is USELESS . They only talk about benefits for themselves. Sincerely thinking that this is the meaning of their whole life.

In the conversation, it turned out that this woman’s concept of HOW TO BE USEFUL TO OTHERS was confused with another “ how could I receive more and more easily from others . And in principle this can also be understood. When a person lives for many years DOING NOTHING FOR HIMSELF. Hence the complete misunderstanding - how is this for yourself? I have a child! So I have to forget about myself, I have parents, well, I’ll live with them in a cramped apartment, so that I can completely quarrel for the rest of my life. And then I suddenly buy an apartment for myself, but again, for what??? 1) for my son, 2) for convenience (of course, I need to buy it closer to work, kindergarten, school - nothing else! 3) to prove to my parents how successful I am. But not for yourself.

My friends, if a person wants to leave his parents for many years, why doesn’t he rent a house, but for decades he only “dreams about an apartment” and does nothing for it??? What's the truth? Everything we have, we have thanks to our intentions. Everything we don't have, we don't have thanks to our intentions .

What is the intention? POWER! to rake in more for yourself. AND FOR WHAT???? It is no longer possible to answer this question. And everyone says SO IT WILL BE! and period!!! I don’t know how you can become happy and light with such thoughts???

And a woman, to be successful, must be light, happy and loved. But some believe that you can be loved WITHOUT A MAN)))) And I see how the world is rapidly filling with such female couples who know Love and can Love without men))))

Girls, Women, My dears. Why do you forget who you are? Why do you fight with Men who only live for you? Maybe you need to stop and think WHAT DO YOU WANT EXACTLY FOR YOURSELF? ONLY FOR MYSELF! not because you need to escape from somewhere, or because everyone else already has this iPhone or Audi! And just abstract yourself from this world, look inside yourself - WHAT ARE YOU MISSING inside you???

And then, unexpectedly, you will understand that you can get this not by fighting the world but with Love - your Inner Strength. and this power will make you more charismatic, more powerful, kinder, and more loving. Then a stream of benefits will flow to your feet, and your heart will be filled with Happiness.

Love to you and a worthy man!

So, what kind of women do men choose as wives?

Male psychology has long compiled a list of qualities possessed by representatives of the fair sex who are successful with men. And here is the list:

Men like beautiful women, and this fact cannot be justified. Well, I like it, that’s all! Ugly women can also very often be liked if they have other “pleasant” qualities and character traits for a man. Therefore, take care of yourself, your appearance, take care of your face and body. Even a woman who is not very naturally beautiful can transform herself with the skillful use of cosmetics, skin care products and training. Elastic, healthy skin, a toned athletic figure, and skillful makeup can charm many males. Any man is pleased to see such a wife next to him. Add here elegance, a beautiful gait and good posture.

Men choose women as their girlfriends and life partners who do not lecture them and who easily look at their little weaknesses. Who are able to “forgive” them the time spent on friends and who do not give a man advice on every occasion and without. They choose those who are gentle, affectionate and calm. All this can be summarized: men choose patient and calm ones. Here you need to feel a very important line between self-sufficient calm and indifference and complete submission. Women who are submissive and do not have their own opinions are usually just as uninteresting to men as the loud, scandalous women from the nearest market, who criticize everyone who passes by. Be wise and patient, but respect yourself. Respect your man, his opinion, his hobbies, his interests and hobbies.

Men also very often like smart women with whom they can talk about various topics. Who are able to carry on a conversation with them on topics that are interesting to a man and on which he would like to communicate with you. Just not those who are “abstruse” and constantly push with their intellect. On the contrary, men try to avoid such people, and not marry them at all)) So, if you want to get married, try to be aware of those topics that are interesting to your man.

Men choose as wives those women who truly love them and show their love and support. After all, any person wants to be accepted for who he is, not to try to remake him for himself, to be respected and appreciated. And a man in this is completely no different from us women. If he feels that he is the best for you, that you completely do not notice other men around, and he sees the fire of love in your eyes, then you become a very, very attractive person for him!

Men choose sexy women. Those who are relaxed in bed, love to have sex with them, who are passionate lovers for them. After all, everyone knows that sex is more important for men than for women. And if he always sees a passionate response from you, then he will definitely rank you among the women from whom they choose wives!

Men choose women who respect them. Women who never humiliate them do not have debriefings in front of their friends. They choose ladies as wives who are able to respect their opinion, even if they do not agree with this very opinion. Who never put themselves above him.

A man chooses a faithful woman as his wife, who will not be suspected of cheating. Jealousy in moderation is also welcome!

A man wants to have a thrifty wife next to him, with everything clean, tidy and deliciously prepared. And she should also be “homey,” that is, prefer to be at home rather than having fun with friends and restaurants.

Who do men want?

So, who do our men choose as their life partner? They claim that in women - candidates for the role of wife - they value:

Independence. Well, this is all clear. Representatives of the stronger sex do not like to act as a nanny. It is much easier to live when the wife is able to deal with personal problems herself, and not blame them on her husband. There's a lot to do here! There is no time for men to bother with women’s complexities. Moreover, these difficulties, from a male point of view, are sheer nonsense. It is quite possible not to pay attention to them at all - they will disappear on their own. And the helpless wife will cry over every petty problem and pester her - help, help! And you’ll have to drop everything and help. No, it’s better to have an independent spouse. Such a lady will be able to solve her problems and pull her husband out of an unpleasant situation, if anything;
Intelligence. The statement is dubious. Probably, the male half of humanity in this case means that women's mental abilities should exceed the mental abilities of a chicken. But not too much. It will be enough that you can at least talk about something with your wife. A spouse who is too smart usually irritates and stresses people out. During lunch he starts talking about Fermat’s theorem or the economy of Egypt, and lunch is gone! So intelligence is intelligence, but everything must have boundaries. Let her be smart, but not very smart;
External attractiveness. Well, there’s no point in discussing this. All men want to see a charming girl next to them, with whom they are not ashamed to appear in society. Well, so that she looks good at home, and doesn’t wander from room to room disheveled and in a washed-out robe. A woman should always be charming, period! However, charm won't hurt us in general. So here you should listen to men’s opinion;
Respect for a man. It means a woman’s ability to respectfully listen to his opinion and not argue, even if she doesn’t like it. Well, tactful behavior in relations with the faithful and expression of respect for him in society. That is, we must always be polite and correct. Even if your better half cheats, is rude and wanders around all night long. No comments;
Unobtrusive and democratic. In other words, a woman should not tell a man what and how much he should eat, when and where to go, what to do, and so on. We can probably agree with this. Let them have their own interests and enjoy freedom. But at the same time they do not limit our freedom. Just think, my wife sat with her friends all day and didn’t cook dinner! Yesterday my husband also stayed at the casino until three o’clock in the morning and lost almost his entire salary. Everyone has their own interests. You can also have sandwiches for dinner;
Delicacy and wisdom in communicating with a man. It is expressed in the absence of reproaches and inappropriate reminders of responsibilities. There is no need to regularly tell a man that he needs to take out the trash or throw his dirty shirt in the wash. You shouldn’t ask him to call when he’s late and blame him for forgetting about your wedding anniversary. Representatives of the stronger sex have other, global tasks. They have no time for empty calls and remembering all the dates. Didn't come home from work on time? So that's how it should be. Forgot about your mother-in-law's birthday? My head is busy with world problems. True, if the dear one showed up in the morning, and his significant other wisely and tactfully does not ask where this misunderstanding was, he may well be upset - was the wife really not at all worried? It turns out that she is indifferent to her husband;
Sexuality. Oh yeah! Sexy is great. The main thing in this matter is to know exactly what and when your spouse needs. And don’t pester him in just underwear or without it when he comes tired, has eaten too much or is watching football. Everything has its time. The most important thing is to forget that your head hurts, even if it actually hurts. And that after a hard day at work, running around the shops and preparing a delicious dinner, there is no energy left for sex. Did your husband want sex? Get to bed quickly! A man's desires must be satisfied. Otherwise, he will go in search of the one who does not suffer from headaches;
The ability to get along with a man's parents and friends. This means that a woman must be able to please her mother-in-law and patiently listen for the fiftieth time to her father-in-law’s stories about the exploits of his youth. And treat your husband’s friends with friendliness and respect. Even if he endlessly disappears with them in the sauna or fishing. Men! But respect and friendliness must have boundaries. Otherwise, friends may decide that they are being seduced and inadvertently be seduced. And only she will be to blame for this. It's a woman;
The ability to inspire a man to great achievements. It consists in the fact that a woman is convinced of the exclusivity of a man and demonstrates this with all her behavior. Well, even if he is lazy and doesn’t like to take initiative in anything. Exceptional, that's all. Give him an incentive - he will move mountains! The “stimulus” should be given by the wife silently, without reproaches, with just an enthusiastic appearance. Otherwise, the road will stop destroying mountains and fall back onto the sofa.

This is roughly what the basic requirements of most men for their future wives look like. Actually, there is nothing supernatural about them. And many of the fairer sex would easily develop the qualities necessary for a happy marriage. Since a woman chooses a man for the comfort of the entire future family, and not just for herself. And I’m ready to change as much as possible for this. If only everything were exactly as men claim.

In reality, for some reason, those who best meet most of the requirements described above are the ones who are lonely and unhappy. The exception would be sexuality and independence. And even then within certain limits. Because an overly sexy wife can tire you or raise suspicions of infidelity, and a too independent wife can infuriate you with her independence in decisions.

In women's society, there is an opinion that men have long-term relationships either with angels or with bitches. But who are these angels? These are submissive economic wives, capable of lying down with bones, as long as the husband feels good. They are predictable, reliable, kind, affectionate and gentle. However, in this case they usually forget about themselves and their development. The result is that most men with angels simply get bored, and they cheat on their faithful without a twinge of conscience.

As for bitches, they and boredom are incompatible things. Extremely independent, mysterious, self-confident, sexy, they blow away the stronger sex. Experienced manipulators and excellent psychologists, true bitches easily control men by playing on their instincts. Their credo is cold, selfish calculation and self-interest. Why do men, even understanding this, still lose their heads over bitches and are ready to lay the whole world at their feet? Because relationships with them are bright, multifaceted and unpredictable. You never know what a bitch will do, so you won’t get bored with her.

Nevertheless, bitches are abandoned no less often than angels. One day, men begin to see the light and begin to realize that there is no warmth to be found here, and there is no trace of sincere feelings. And it won't. A real bitch is incapable of giving anything away. She only knows how to take, satisfying her own needs. Spending your whole life next to such a woman means voluntarily condemning yourself to eternal hard labor. She cannot make anyone truly happy. A bitch is capable of awakening passion, an irresistible sexual desire, but that’s all.

So what kind of women do men confidently and willingly choose as wives? Who do they dream of connecting their fate with until the end of their days? With those who are able to love, feel subtly and, without thinking for a long time, come to the rescue. Who enjoys life and does not believe that self-denial is the lot of any wife. This is a charming and positive woman, endowed with natural wisdom. She is playful, flirty, mysterious, sexy, but not immoral. Such a woman, like a star, shines with inner light. Next to her, everyone becomes warmer and calmer. A man next to her is always interested and doesn’t want to kill time in a casino or over a bottle. He has no desire to stay late at work and go to bed with another lady. Such women are not abandoned because they generously give happiness. The most interesting thing is that such qualities exist in each of us. And developing them is our main task. Otherwise, there will be no family happiness.

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What kind of women do men choose as wives? Is it true that bitches are loved more? What should an ideal woman be like in a man's mind? What qualities do you need to develop in yourself so that your husband will love you all your life? Find out what men want and become a good wife!

Why do they like only one, but choose completely different ones as wives? Why is there such a huge gap between what they like and choose? Do you want to know what kind of wives men choose and why?

The instinct of the successor of the family tells him that his wife must complement and fit all these parameters.