50 male habits that annoy us...


Belching

The most disgusting habit can be called burping. After eating, men, completely unable to restrain themselves, emit a terrible sound from the depths of their bodies, accompanied by a not very pleasant smell. This can happen at home, at a party, and even in a restaurant.

If a man burps in the company of friends, they won’t even pay attention to it; for them it’s normal. It will only be unpleasant for a woman.

I wonder what your boyfriend’s reaction would be if you burped deliciously after eating in front of his mother? At the very least, he would feel embarrassed. So tell him about this, let him go to the bathroom for these purposes, if he really can’t control himself.

How to deal with this?

In any of the above or similar situations, you should first of all do the following: do not focus on what your husband does not do, but on the contrary, on what he does.
For example, one day a miracle happened and your spouse carried his dirty socks to the laundry basket, instead of throwing them in the middle of the room, as usual. You must, firstly, notice this step, and secondly, approve it in such a way that it motivates him for further exploits in this regard and many others. Sincerely admire such a situation, you can even approach it with humor, just don’t overplay it so much that your words will be sarcastic - we only need light humor, which can hardly be called irony. Otherwise, you will scare away your husband in his good impulses and endeavors, because he obviously will not like ridicule on your part. "What I see? Socks are where they should be. What a fine fellow! Thank you." - as an example. The main thing is never shout over trifles. Sometimes your nerves really get the better of you, but try to control yourself, because aggression will by no means achieve a positive result. It will only get worse, such is male psychology.

Sometimes you can even give encouragement. Did your husband meet you after work and help you carry your bags? Give thanks with some little thing, and above all with a kind word. Your husband's good deeds should not go unnoticed - let him know that you lead and appreciate them. Sometimes motivation will do, although you don’t need to go overboard with it so that the relationship doesn’t turn into a game of “I am for you, only if you are for me.” Tell your husband, for example, that if he takes his daughter to the dance in the evening, you will cook him his favorite dish on the weekend.

As for the fact that the husband refuses to do any housework, distribution of responsibilities will help here. Let your spouse take your position and take on some of the tasks. Of course, you also have bad habits.

You shouldn’t forget about this either, so treat some things with irony, and turn a blind eye to some, because your spouse loves you, no matter what, so sometimes you take an example from him.

What bad habits do your husbands have?

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Socks

Men throw their socks all over the apartment. They don’t care that they smell bad, that they are difficult to collect for washing, and that vapors are lost more often this way.

Sometimes men's socks can be found in the most interesting places.

It gets ridiculous: when the lost second sock is found, the first one is lost. So you have to throw good, whole socks into the trash can, despairing of putting them together. You can try to buy a special net for socks, place it near the place where the man undresses, and ask him to put his socks there. This will not completely solve the problem, the socks will still lie around and give off a masculine scent, but it will help partially, which is good.

Bad habits of husbands

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From the women's forum.

— Mine fiddles with his fingers, pulls off hangnails, clicks his joints, doesn’t trim his toenails until they get in the way of putting on shoes, sleeps naked with his ass out from under the blanket, snores like a shoemaker, drinks beer every day, which makes him snore even more, tries to produce the impression of telling the same joke 10 times, sucks in his stomach in front of the mirror and tugs at me to see if I’ve gotten fat, if I say I’ve gotten fat (take a beer) he gets gloomy and tells me that I have a flabby butt, and if I don’t say it, then I he has the most curvaceous one)) he closes the water in the bathroom with boiling water so that I always get burned afterwards, he puts the smelly underwear after sports in one bag for a week, and then asks me to wash it ((his forgetfulness is very annoying! You say what, he immediately forgets about What are you asking, I forgot((how many times in the morning I told you to do this, called at lunchtime, I forgot, I’ll do it in a minute, I came home and did it? No, I forgot... and he forgets important things. He never forgets to go out for beer with friends! My husband is 50 !!years.

- Girls, my husband has a ritual - every morning 1.5 hours on the toilet. This toilet is already equipped with everything necessary... there is a folding table, shelves for magazines, a laptop computer. He drinks coffee and eats sandwiches there. All telephone conversations are also carried out there... And when I knock and say that I also need to sit down, he gets up, looks at me and says: come on, sit down, just quickly...)) and I generally can’t squeeze a drop out of myself when he’s on me look!!))) This is how we live-))

- It’s infuriating - when he goes to bed, he stands in front of the bed, sticks out his treasure below the waist and every time asks with passion whether he has it big! ))) It’s as if THIS ONE is growing every day!

- And my nails are biting. He bites them off and eats them piece by piece, like caramels, with slurping sounds. It’s terribly annoying, I slap his hands. She also loves to dry her eggs after a bath. He’ll sit in the kitchen, spread his legs, and hang up the whole thing. And he rubs it with his hand, like it’s drying it. And I'm having lunch, for example. ) Very nice.

“He constantly sticks his finger in my ass and after laughing he asks: “What’s your name, honey?” It's annoying, damn!!!!

— He doesn’t put anything back in its place, this applies to both his personal and general belongings, and then he runs around the apartment with huge eyes and yells: “Liza, where is my watch/mobile/car keys??!!

- And it infuriates me that sometimes I talk to him, but it turns out that I was talking to the wall..... He just looked at me and thought about his own things..... And it also infuriates me that he is afraid of the dentist..... - It infuriates me when mine slurps at the table and sips when the tea is hot. No, cool it down and drink like a person! Sometimes he is also too lazy to take a shower before bed.

— It’s annoying when he drinks something, it’s loudly, with some incredible sips. The sound is the same as if you put a microphone on a lapping dog. And these swallowing sounds drive me crazy.

- When I’m already in a sweet half-asleep on his chest, he turns away and asks me to scratch my back. I won’t say what really infuriates me, but why can’t I just say it right away, but I definitely need to lie down and wait until I start to doze?

- Mine, when I’m almost asleep, starts touching my “”””, I can’t stand it when they wake me up, even in this way... In general, there are times when I want to burn him, but I love him very much, and this is illegal ...

- Wow, sometimes I’m ready to kill him, how infuriating! I just want to kick my feet! And it’s also infuriating that my condition amuses him!

— there are a few “things” that infuriate you, like Tozh constantly loses his keys, his mobile phone, his wallet (not really losing it, but at home), he farts sometimes, there are always drops on the rim of the toilet, and he throws his socks around. When I have a serious conversation, he starts fooling around, making jokes specifically to annoy me, but in fact, after about 5 minutes I start laughing at him like crazy)))))))) and here’s another thing that’s terribly infuriating - he comes home from work, runs into kitchen with wild eyes and begins to eat everything that comes to hand, although dinner is almost ready. Why can’t you wait 2 minutes???!!!!!

- it annoys me that you say the same thing 30 times, but he still forgets, sometimes he doesn’t brush his teeth at night, there’s some dirt sticking out in his belly button, he comes home from work with smelly feet, holds them out, the cat comes running to the smell and starts lick his feet (at this moment they both enrage him), snores, eats as if he hasn’t eaten for 6 days (sometimes he resembles a garbage cat who was given sausages and he eats with a growl, as if he’s going to take it away right now), hangs out in the toilet for half an hour, doesn’t lets him throw out his torn socks...

— — Even if he comes home after sports, sits on the bed and sighs for half an hour, it turns out that in the shower of another he saw a penis not standing as big as his boner... and the evening is spent worrying about this, or suddenly he starts yelling that I have a lover wound up (just like that, wound up like a flea)) Why did you decide that? Because I went to the hairdresser)) I say that I’ve been going once every 1.5 months for about 20 years, but well, he says, someone’s got a problem with you and it’s time to wash your hair!!!! I’m laughing, he’s serious, it’s terribly annoying. or I filled up the car, came home sad, snapped, saying that I filled it up in one parking lot, and drove through another next to our house - it’s much cheaper there and that’s why I!!!! didn’t call him and didn’t tell him!! Why isn’t it annoying...? Yes, everything is annoying, but we’ve been living together for a hundred years, we don’t know why. We don’t go to the side, I checked, he doesn’t need it, he needs to irritate me, tease me, yell, wave his arms, then kick a beer and go to bed, he loves, says more than life, the material aspect is a plus).

Scratching your private area

Men can scratch their intimate parts not only at home, where only you can see it, but also in public places - a store, a cinema, a bar. What is constantly itching there and why they can’t be patient remains a mystery to women. The only thing that can be done in this case is to try to discreetly film all these scratches on a cell phone camera and edit them into a video, which will be solemnly presented to the gentleman, for example, on February 23rd. Let him look at himself from the outside, evaluate his actions and the reactions of others.

What habits of men irritate women?

Men very often make mistakes at the initial stage of a relationship. Which then pushes girls away from them almost forever. They sincerely do not understand what happened, what was wrong and consider the girl mercantile or strange. However, it’s worth thinking about what went wrong on the date so as not to repeat the mistakes.

So, what a woman doesn’t like:

  • Stinginess. Invite people to a cafe and then run away without paying or defiantly counting their pennies. Also, some men ask to split the bill. If you don’t have money, don’t invite me to a cafe, it’s ridiculous and ridiculous. Take a walk down the street, drink a cup of coffee to go, buy the lady some ice cream.
  • Talk about your exes. This doesn’t fit into any framework at all, since the girl doesn’t even want to hear about it. Why should she feel sorry for you if your ex-wife is a bitch. So you're a sorry asshole for choosing her.
  • If a man does not want to leave a tip, then it is better to pay with a bank card. The fact that he stands and counts pennies at the checkout or after a cafe is even more annoying. A man must have money, period.

  • Attempts to save money on a lady when shopping, gifts. It’s somehow funny to go to the store to buy a birthday gift and stand haggling, trying to buy boots or perfume cheaper. This is not a market, the price will not be reduced, and by offering a cheaper product to a lady, the man himself depreciates in her eyes.
  • Inability to behave at the table. Anyone who slurps, slurps and blows his nose at the table will immediately cause rejection. Including drunken antics in a cafe or public place. If you don't know how to drink, drink at home, don't disgrace your girl.
  • Trying to save money on family and children. By forcing his wife to buy cheaper food for the house and things for the children, the man is admitting his own incapacity. He cannot earn enough to eat and support his family. One wonders why he started her.
  • Constant teasing and insulting. This will piss anyone off, and sooner or later the woman will explode. Just like whining and brainwashing. Try to be a positive person and not an annoying one, in this case the lady will look at the man with admiration.
  • Cleanliness. This is one of the important factors in family life. No one will continue to date a smelly and dirty man who does not know how to wash his clothes. Remember, you can’t drown out the stench with perfume, so buy a washing machine.
  • Inability to clean up the house - fix equipment, make repairs or improve the home. If you don't know how to do it yourself, you have to pay. The woman frankly doesn’t understand why only she cares.

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If a man takes into account all these positions, then he will not become a burden to a woman either in the first minutes of acquaintance or in the future.

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Of course they are annoying, you say! Either he scatters his socks, then he forgets to turn off the light, or he stays up late at the computer... By the way, are you sure that it is his bad habits that irritate you, and not your spouse himself?

Some psychologists say: if a woman begins to be annoyed by her husband’s behavior while eating, then, alas, she has stopped loving him. We will not be so categorical, we will only say that a constant feeling of irritation towards your husband is a serious symptom. He can tell you a lot...

Are you sure that it needs to be redone?

Actually, even before the wedding you outlined a plan for the future. This plan, in addition to having a child and buying a car, also includes educational measures, after which the husband will become “completely different.” Of course, it’s better: let’s say, he stops drinking beer or swearing bad words. Someone, and you (you thought) could make a person out of your spouse! But it didn’t work out: for some reason he fiercely resists your upbringing. Of course this annoys you. It’s still unclear what irritates you more – a bottle of beer after dinner or your husband’s donkey stubbornness. However, the truth is that it is impossible to change another person! As they say, the eyes saw what they took. Of course, you should tell your husband from time to time that you don’t like some of his actions or words, it is advisable to even clarify which ones. However, it is his right to follow your recommendations or not. Each of us can only remake and improve ourselves.

You don't understand him!

We lived together for so many years, gave birth to children, bought a washing machine together, but never learned to understand each other. This happens, and much more often than you think. For example, when he sits on the couch after work and switches from one TV channel to another at cosmic speed, you cannot understand that for the husband this is a kind of relief after a busy day at work. Or, when he spends the entire weekend polishing his car to a shine, he simply wants to be alone. He needs his own personal territory, no matter what! After all, only when he crosses the threshold of the garage can he not be afraid of constant questions: “How are you doing?”, “Will you eat?”, “Why are you silent?”, “Answer something?!!”

As soon as you understand that your husband covers the floor with an even layer of socks because it is at the moment of changing clothes that he is thinking about important production problems, you will no longer be annoyed by his untidiness. And you can tell him with a smile: “Darling, put your things in their places!”

Are you ready to break up with him?

No, you have neither a lover nor an admirer. You don’t even think about “looking at a stranger”! Well, perhaps in order to compare “our own” with him. And for some reason, every time the comparison is not in favor of the faithful! Continue in the same spirit, and very soon you will come to the conclusion that you are fatally unlucky with your husband. And then, based on your beliefs, you will choose one of two options: either imagine yourself as a victim and stoically endure a husband who does not value you, or quickly divorce him.

So isn’t it better to leave his bad habits alone and remember his virtues more often? Against their background, minor shortcomings such as sloppiness or unpunctuality will seem to you like cute and harmless points.

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Victims of genetics

Men are victims of their bad habits. They do not need to be retrained, but rather pitied. Unbearable male characteristics are inherent in the opposite sex at the gene level. The task of how to get rid of bad habits requires a thorough revision. What features will we eliminate? Some may seem very cute upon closer inspection. For example, the habit of stretching in the morning with your mouth wide open resembles the roar of a lion. The man is like an unsightly beast who does not hide his emotions.

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Each person has his own habits, but some of them need to be fought. Everyone can wean a person off a bad habit, and women in the fight for the well-being of the family can resort to a proven technique that will help influence their chosen ones. There is an effective way to influence your beloved husbands in such a way that they realize the harm of their addictions and want to get rid of them themselves. The fight against your husband’s bad habits can be divided into several stages, each of which will bring you closer to your goal.

1. You need to start with a conversation. Not all men understand that they are possessed by one or another bad habit. Women, before getting offended, need to directly say everything that does not suit them: scattering socks, a raised toilet seat, stains from mugs on the table... Any bad habit tends to go unnoticed, so a man needs to “open his eyes.”

2. The whip method will not have an effect on a man’s subconscious. To do this, you need to remember a simple truth: compliments and praise will be the very carrot that will help a man get rid of everything that annoys his soulmate. The “done-praised” connection will quickly become established in the subconscious, which means that soon after applying the strategy, the man will carefully monitor himself and take the path of correction.

3. A woman’s ingenuity and ingenuity will help her fight her husband’s bad habits without the use of “heavy weapons”: screams, hysterics, ultimatums. It will be enough to make fun of your careless spouse, thereby influencing his subconscious. For example, socks, which tend to creep around the apartment, can be “accumulated” and then presented to the addressee in a homemade parcel marked “biological weapon.” You can approach many bad habits with humor, because fighting them with a smile is much more pleasant than causing constant scandals and showdowns. Cute notes left in prominent places will help a man eradicate a bad habit. They can be composed in the form of humorous poems of praise, so that the man not only relearns, but also does it with pleasure.

4. Another point in influencing a man’s subconscious will be stories about how his life will change after giving up harmful addictions. Here even intimidation can be used, but cautiously: about deteriorating health, a decrease in male libido, the growth of a “beer belly.” Any bad habit that has a negative impact on your health will disappear if you replace it with something useful: eat right, go to the gym. In addition, a man may be promised a long-awaited gift in exchange for giving up something harmful.

A woman’s cunning at a certain stage may encounter provocation from a man. All his assurances that he is not able to change are lies based on laziness. Any attempts to “start tomorrow” must also be nipped in the bud. A woman can make the task easier for her chosen one if she herself sets an example: she gives up smoking, does exercises in the morning, and so on.

Women should remember that in place of a bad habit, a void appears for some time, which is important to fill with something useful. Such a replacement will once and for all rid the chosen one of everything that irritates and worsens the quality of life. Instead of getting annoyed again about your husband playing computer games, you should put movie tickets, an invitation to a quest or airsoft game in front of him. Replaced with useful ones, bad habits will quickly be forgotten.

Every woman can maintain harmony in a relationship without scandals and hassle. You just need to trust your inner voice, and also remember to respect your chosen one, and then any problem will be solvable.

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17.06.2019 03:30

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