We often hear from psychologists that in a relationship with a man there must be trust. If there is no axle, then it is impossible to ride on such a cart. When there is a feeling of trust in your partner, then only peace, coziness and comfort reign in the house. In such an environment, feelings can truly open up, everything will happen sincerely.
What are relationships built on?
Many people ask this question. Relationships should be built not only on love. Also on confidence in decency, goodwill towards each other.
If doubts creep in, it is difficult to build sincere relationships. This means that it will be difficult for a person to open up completely. In order to achieve this state of mind, each person needs to work in relationships.
Confidence
In this article we will talk about how a girl should behave in order for her to be the best woman in bed for her man.
Every young man wants to see his soul mate in different life situations.
First of all, this is a loved one who will show care in the form of cooking, caring for themselves and their appearance. After which come the feelings that will be shown to each other. And of course, it is important for men that his girlfriend in bed is the best. They need their loved one to be able to bring pleasure every time, as if it were the first time.
But in order to figure out how to be the best in bed, it is important for a woman to understand her man and begin to trust him.
The right attitude
Although they say that bed is the best way to reconcile, this is not always the case, and not for everyone. If you had a big quarrel, depending on how it all happened. If you said a bunch of nasty things to each other, insulted and humiliated each other, what kind of intimacy can we talk about? If there was just a scandal without getting personal, it is quite possible to end it in bed. Usually, emotions turn out to be much more interesting and leave more impressions.
Relationships are built on trust
At the moment of their first acquaintance, a woman and a man go through a candy-bouquet period, where the young man presents gifts to his other half, gives her unforgettable moments of pleasure during walks, going to the movies or having first sex.
But, as soon as this period of time passes, everything falls into place. Changes in the behavior of the female half occur very quickly. The girl becomes exactly who she really is. Therefore, it is important at this point in time to start building relationships on trust.
In modern society, you can often hear that relationships should be built in a sexually liberated atmosphere. They are also formed with the help of an emotional background. And if it happens otherwise, then it is boring and monotonous. And we can agree with this statement.
Each couple has its own discipline, which will be based only on individual traits. After all, some man will definitely mention what he likes most and would like to see from his partner.
Every young man wants the best girl in bed to be his. But it doesn't always work out that way.
Feminine sexual energy
How to become better in bed? It is important to pay attention to your behavior. Women's sexual energy is very rich and full. If she exists and she prevails, then the girl becomes like an attractive magnet. With the help of sexual energy, any woman can improve her psychological and physical health.
Tenderness and passion
It is important to find a balance of tenderness and passion. Let animal lust be combined with incredible tenderness. Love, give yourself to each other and try to give your partner maximum pleasure. And only then through sex will you get closer, become one, begin to feel and understand each other. It is very important. Not only for pleasure, but also for the release of energy. A woman nourishes a man, making him strong and successful. Notice your partner’s reactions to stroking different areas, reactions to changing positions, and to oral caresses. There is no need to do this on the run, just while relieving yourself. Approach lovemaking as a creative process that requires time and dedication
Jing Techniques
To improve attractiveness, a girl can use Jing techniques. The descriptions suggest some procedures that will help retain sexual energy. Thus, during this period, a woman can learn to control herself, her body, be able to control her breathing and subsequently give herself completely to her man. Sexual techniques include the following types:
- ovarian respiration. In this process, it is important to know the correct location of the ovaries and, with the help of the Jing pattern, learn to retain sexual energy in this area;
- orgasmic stretching upward. This procedure is performed when a woman experiences orgasm. It is important to concentrate on the ongoing process and try to retain as much sexual desire in your body as possible.
When thinking about how to be the best in bed, pay attention to the two methods described above. They are very simple in their execution. Over time, not only a woman’s sexual attractiveness will appear, but the youth of her soul and body will remain. The girl will be able to give truly magical sensations to her boyfriend.
Poses
There is also a lot of literature that presents in accessible language all the movements of people's bodies. It is difficult to name the best positions in bed. There are a huge number of them. What some people like may not be to the taste of others.
After all, some people find it uncomfortable to be in a particular position, while others get a lot of pleasure. And here it is important for every woman to know that she can become the best in bed only with complete trust in her partner and fulfillment of his desires.
But, for example, why is it good in bed? Intimate intimacy brings sexual pleasure, gives unique impressions, and diversifies your sex life every time.
I would also like to say that there are certain signs that you are good in bed. We will talk about them further. By the way, let’s say that if you know some important points, you can quickly answer the question of how to be the best in bed. Moreover, it is possible to do some things that can add variety to your sex life. After all, it is important not only to diversify it, but also to leave unchanged feelings for many years so that they do not fade away.
Signs of an excellent sex partner
So, what are the 11 signs that you are good in bed? Every person wants to believe that it is he who brings his loved one satisfaction, filled with sexuality and love. Of course, preference is always given to more experienced partners. Because it is easier to establish an intimate life and establish contact with them. But how can we determine this experience and understand that, on the contrary, we are exactly the person we need? To do this, you can pay attention to the signs. They will be able to characterize a person a little and help understand a person’s sexual preferences.
Stop thinking with your penis
Start thinking with your hands as well as with your tongue. The biggest mistake men make is to think that quality sex requires only the right equipment, preferably larger and thicker ones. This is enough to make a woman moan with pleasure and her friends to envy. That's what porn teaches.
In reality, the woman sadly studies the ceiling and hopes that you will still decide to pay attention to her desires before you turn to the wall and fall asleep.
It is men who need a penis for orgasm. For women, things may be different. According to some data, less than 35% of women experience a purely vaginal orgasm. For the majority of women (almost 80%), orgasm depends on oral and manual stimulation of the genitals. They don't care about the size and thickness of the penis, the speed and strength of friction.
There are no general recipes. One likes caresses with the tongue, another likes the touch of fingers, the third likes to be touched with the whole palm. Study the woman and, for God's sake, cut and clean your nails.
Signs of a good lover
The signs are revealed in the following manifestations of actions:
- Favorite drink is wine. This is not to say that there are no preferences other than wine. It’s just that if a person can drink two glasses of wine, then passion and a great desire to give his partner his warm feelings ignite. It will be difficult with someone who does not prefer any drinks at all. It is known that when drinking alcohol, a person’s mood changes, and this always happens only for the better. If a woman can afford to drink a couple of glasses, then she has nothing to hide, and she is who she really is.
- Having a sense of humor. If a person is the life of the party, then he is clearly spoiled by the attention of the opposite sex. Therefore, he can liberate himself and show himself from different sides. This will indicate that a little later this person will be able to trust his partner. He will be able to enjoy his company. Among a large number of people, it is difficult to find a suitable interlocutor. When a person can freely become the life of the party, this indicates his ability to find a compromise.
- Ice cream with coffee flavor. It would seem very strange when this smell predominates in a dessert. But if a person chooses such a treat, it means that he is great at sex. In any case, this is what is commonly believed. These are people who do not think about past feelings, do not live in dreams, but enjoy the moment that is happening in the present. Therefore, during love games, they are completely focused on their partner;
- Mind. Stereotypes say that this quality is rarely found in a beautiful girl. Unfortunately, many men think that when they date a beautiful, young fool, they will get unforgettable sex. This is a misconception. Because it is a girl with intelligence who will bring more pleasure to a man. Because intelligence is sexy.
- Enjoying food. It is not surprising if a person enjoys every bite of food. After all, this behavior transfers completely into the bedroom.
- Know what you want to eat. This is also an important sign. It will characterize a person as a self-confident person who achieves her goals and is aimed only at positive emotions and a positive result in life.
- Passion for politics. Observing the current situation in one’s country allows a person to develop diversified. And this knowledge can easily translate into experience for use in bed.
- Ability to dance well. There is also a logic here. Dance is body movement. The more actively a woman moves, the more likely she is to be great in bed.
- Stay naked. At home, almost everyone can afford to walk without clothes. This fact will play a huge role. Because even in this arrangement the girl will feel confident and comfortable.
- Lefty. This sign seems like an odd moment. But after conducting research, scientists found that almost 86% of people are left-handed. And they are the ones who can make a lasting impression on their partner.
Introduction
No one is better than you.
Nobody is smarter than you.
They just started earlier.
Brian Tracy
Our mission is to help people develop and couples to transform their relationships, because there is no limit to perfection.
Diana Balyko, Andrey Metelsky
- From you 283 rubles. Wrap it up?
- A? No, don’t, just put it in the bag... One question - is there a guarantee?
- Excuse me, but for what case is the guarantee?
- Well, if you don’t read it?
- So how?
- Well, incompatibility of requirements, for example... Marriage here, back and forth...
– All progressive youth are aware that usually first there is back and forth, and then marriage. In the worst case... It won’t be read?.. Ahhhh, I understand - you are by profession, how shall I put it, at least... mmm... an advanced user?
- Yes, I'm a programmer. But how did you guess?
“Young man, if Sherlock Holmes were me, he would tell by his glasses, dirty jeans, a hard drive sticking out of his backpack pocket, three bottles of beer in his hands and a keyboard under his arm.” But I’m not him... And everything is much simpler. This is a paper book, and it will definitely be read. All you have to do is open it.
Top secret
Now in your hands is not just a book, but a winning lottery ticket. And this is the truth, the truest of truths.
This book is for those who don't want to be lonely. This book is for those who are ready to be happy together. This book is for those who want to love and be loved, for those who want to have fun, captivate, seduce, delight, tempt, win and create miracles with their own hands...
In short, this book is for true ladies and real machos. In short, this book is for you.
How can you become half while remaining whole? How can you remain yourself when you are your other half? How to learn to accept yourself and your partner? How to find a native one? How to see in yourself and your partner a small child tormented by childhood fears? And how to overcome these fears? How to be born again in the happy tandem “we”? How to turn life into pleasure and enjoy every day you live? How to make sex an unforgettable adventure? How to anchor a partner? How to calibrate his desires? How to become the one and only, unique, best partner for your chosen one? How to manage passion according to the laws of NLP? How to let happiness and euphoria of love into your world? Our book will tell you about this. Come and take it!
Ministry of Health warns
This book is magical. Just like everything else in this world. But in order for its secrets and the limitless possibilities of magical transformations to be revealed to you, you need to believe in it, the techniques described in it need to be tested, experienced on your own skin and, having selected the most suitable ones for you, practice, practice, practice.
This book is about what games adults play. How they strive to manipulate each other and want to learn how to do it professionally. Effective manipulation gives power, but, strangely enough, cannot make people happier. Love makes us happy... Sincere love, which teaches us to trust unconditionally, wait faithfully, desperately hope, give freely, admit our feelings at least to ourselves and simply live.
But for some reason, people who are so smart do everything through the ass..?
- Isn’t it possible? – an active reader will ask.
Can. You can enjoy your own laziness, calling it inner harmony. You can kiss for fun, calling it love. You can love and hear that this is b...dst. You can build your own value system and find yourself happy in it, not for the good, but in spite of it. You can do everything you can’t and everything you want. If only it wouldn’t hurt later for the years spent aimlessly...
World turned upside down!
Dear readers, the time has come to announce that we are at the beginning of a new era. An era of limitless possibilities and excellent chances. From now on, everything you can imagine is real. The time for long thoughts and balanced decisions has sunk into oblivion. Now, if you want to achieve success in any field (and in the field of interpersonal relationships - first of all!), you need to bring your knowledge and skills to automaticity, and your talents and intuition to insight. And only NLP can teach this. New opportunities, signs from the Universe, interesting meetings and unique acquaintances appear every second, but only the fastest will be able to take advantage of them.
The immutable law of our time says: everything goes to the first. And therefore, followers, please do not worry: all that is left for you is scraps from the winner’s table. From now on it’s no honor to be second – it’s just stupid.
“The Ethics of Whoredom”, “The Magic of Flirting”, detailed instructions for the use of men and women and other psychological exercises flooded the store shelves. The subway and newspapers are full of advertisements about fashionable pickup courses. But now this is not another opus from authors who haven’t had sex for a long time and their problems are through the roof. Now before you is a magical guide to harmonious communication, based on easy-to-use, accessible and effective NLP techniques.
NLP: Deep Dive
– Love... Sex... Relationships... If you're not fast, then you're dead... Everything is clear. But what does NLP have to do with it and how does it work? - we foreshadow the question of the inquisitive reader.
NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming - is the science of personal mastery. NLP is a practical thing. It is a set of models, skills and techniques for thinking and acting positively and effectively in the world. The goal of NLP is to be useful, to show you that the coin has not two sides, but much more, that there can be an infinite number of choices and each of them is the best for the individual at the moment. NLP will turn you into a true lady or a real macho and make the whole world dance to your tune. NLP will teach you how to edit your life so that you can live in it and so that you like this life.
How this book was born, or Why we are together
This book has two authors: Diana Balyko - writer, psychologist, author of hundreds of articles, dozens of trainings and bestsellers on practical psychology and NLP, and Andrei Metelsky - psychiatrist, leading NLP trainer, director of the Minsk NLP Center. Male and female views, form and energy, plus and minus, storm and peace were combined in the author’s unique method of harmonious “YinYang”.
Diana Balyko:
– Before seriously taking up NLP, I heard a lot about it: “This is the twenty-fifth frame”, “It’s used in advertising”, “It’s cool!”, “It changes lives!”, “It’s zombifying the population”, “It’s political technology” , “This is for successful people”, “These are cheap tricks, manipulations”, “This is a sect”, “This is just a branch of psychology”, “This is something from the diet of intelligence officers”...
Andrey Metelsky:
– It was fashionable to talk about NLP. One of those phrases that a city dweller had to use to show the level of his intelligence and confirm the presence of a diploma of higher education. You could talk and not understand what you were talking about. The meaning was unimportant. There was a beautiful sound recording of the word.
Ten to fifteen years ago, many such beautiful words appeared in the life of a post-Soviet person - “marketing”, “transpersonal approach”, “management”, “gestalt”, “information technology”, “mutual investment funds”, “NLP”...
Diana Balyko:
– My acquaintance with NLP began with the subconscious implementation of several Enelpeer techniques for successful planning. I had been practicing practical psychology for many years, conducting consultations, writing books and firmly believing that personal development is slow, difficult and painful. Among my friends were coaches and Gestalt therapists who successfully conducted trainings. Their experience made me think that my time had also come, that writing books and private consulting did not exhaust the capabilities of a practicing psychologist. And I decided, based on my books on psychology, to create a serious multi-module training on improving relationships in couples. I wanted to conduct it in tandem with an experienced male coach, because our co-authorship, the combination of the energies of Yin and Yang, would certainly enrich and create a certain depth of coverage of the problem of relationships.
Andrey Metelsky:
– This would not have happened if the training had only one author. The depth effect occurs when a person looks at the world with two eyes. And the world becomes flat when he looks at it with one eye.
Diana Balyko:
– How to find a coach with whom I would like to work? We need to do a casting! With this thought, I went to Yandex in search... But it didn’t come to searching. There was an announcement on the news website that the NLP festival was starting on June 6th. I looked at my watch. It's already 12 minutes since June 6th began. It was past midnight. It is clear that the festival did not begin at zero o’clock, but somewhere closer to the morning. I didn't sleep well. Easy-going and mobile, I knew there was nothing in the world that could cancel my trip to this festival. After all, it will be possible to quietly conduct an effective casting and choose a suitable coach to work together. At seven in the morning I woke up the organizer with a phone call on my mobile. I was interested in whether there are still places available, how much participation costs, what the program is and how many international trainers will come to this festival. There was one place for me, the participation fee was reasonable, and the line-up of participants was impressive. At ten in the morning I was already driving in a car with NLP trainers unknown to me just yesterday to a three-day festival.
Andrey Metelsky:
“During all three days, Diana desperately provoked the coaches, ironized, laughed, looked for weak points, asked awkward questions, trying to unbalance and disrupt the internal feng shui. And I must say, she successfully succeeded.
Diana Balyko:
– The opportunities to find a suitable partner for work were disappearing before our eyes. The long list of famous international trainers was shamelessly thinning, I mercilessly crossed out the names of men who trembled under the pressure of my ridicule. This is exactly how I conducted my casting. I needed a truly self-confident, adequate, harmonious, truly successful person. And he was found. This turned out to be Andrey Metelsky, a psychotherapist and director of the Minsk NLP Center. It was him who I approached with a proposal to write and conduct a joint training. We did not open a bottle of red Californian wine, as Grinder and Bandler (the parents of NLP) once did, we drank Moldovan cognac and came up with a simple name - “The Ideal Couple”.
Andrey Metelsky:
– I have long wanted to conduct such training and could not find a worthy partner. We found each other because we planned a miracle successfully and on time. Believe me, our meeting was not an accident, simply because there are no accidents.
Before we started working together, Diana came to my center and conducted trainings on sex education for teenagers, gave lectures on the influence of fairy tales and parables on our consciousness, she taught me a lot, showing me the world from a new perspective, from a new angle.
Diana Balyko:
– I also attended various modules of NLP seminars conducted by Andrey, and watched how he works. And in the process of writing our joint training, Andrey became so fascinated with NLP that I decided to take it up professionally.
Andrey Metelsky:
– Diana masterfully formulates her thoughts and verbalizes her theories. Therefore, at the very beginning of working on a joint training, we had the idea to write a similar book that could be read by a huge number of people from different countries and cities.
Diana Balyko:
– They will read it and share it with friends. Men will read and seduce the most inaccessible women, conquer the most seductive beauties, and women will drive the most educated and intelligent men crazy, turn proud macho men into tender lovers.
Andrey Metelsky:
– And then a population explosion will begin in the world! Because of one of our books such a miracle will happen! Do you believe this? We know it!
Aerobatics
Today, in order to surprise sophisticated readers, you need to not just write an interesting book - you need to offer a fundamentally different solution, the search for an idea for which has become our main task.
Don’t be afraid that we will chaotically load you with complex terminology and torment you with new words from the realm of the unpronounceable conceptual apparatus for NLP masters. No! We will talk to you in an accessible and understandable way, understandable even for those who first became acquainted with NLP on the pages of this book. After all, there are a lot of virtuoso lovers, beautiful seducers and seductresses who have never heard of NLP, but have achieved certain heights in the field of interpersonal relationships using the techniques described by NLP. It’s just that these successful people didn’t know that someone meticulously took and studied their type of behavior, their sequence of actions, sorted them out and wrote them down for those who are ready to learn and improve.
Let's tell you a secret, NLP doesn't invent anything, NLP only describes effective behavior patterns. The most effective of them is practice. Practice, practice, practice... In each chapter we will invite you to meet, seduce, seduce. In each next chapter we will reveal to you all the new tricks and secrets of flirting. With every page, with every NLP technique you master, you will move to a whole new level of communication. You will become a guru of flirting and seduction. You will be surprised and delighted at how miraculously your life will change. And we will be proud of you.
There are many interesting things to do in the world. But we don’t know anything more exciting than communicating with people, captivating them, conquering and seducing them...
