Not in all situations women need to rush to get rid of their shortcomings. Perhaps they can help you find your destiny. There is an opinion that the crisis of forty years can be very useful for many ladies.
Representatives of the stronger sex can radically change their values in life, as well as their outlook on life.
For forty-year-old men, appearance is practically not important anymore. Some women's shortcomings were named, which, in the opinion of the stronger sex, only adorn women.
The girl is not economical
It would seem, what's good about this? Young representatives of the stronger sex try to choose a woman who can really become their mother. Mature men know very well that everyday life is very tiring.
Therefore, they are not at all opposed to their life partner getting more rest.
This means that by the evening she will not be tired at all and she will not have a headache either. In addition to all this, a woman’s exhaustion very often leads to conflicts. Therefore, mature men may give preference to a non-economic spouse.
Why do women like rough sex?
It is important to set boundaries for understanding what hard sex is. There is definitely no domestic humiliation or violence under this concept. Hard sex is limited to the sexual life of partners and cannot go beyond it.
Typically, in rough sex, the woman plays the role of the submissive victim, and the man acts as the dominant. It does not always have to involve pain, it does not have to be humiliating or humiliating. The psychological component predominates here - submission, dominance, a combination of strength and weakness, tenderness and toughness. All feelings are hidden behind uncontrollable passion, partners have sex, succumbing to natural needs.
Passionate rough sex excites women because all people have animal instincts to one degree or another. Among them, the most dominant are the feeling of hunger, fear, and the desire to mate. Men are much stronger than women sexually and physically, and this turns women on in bed.
They want to feel the strength of a determined man, to be weak and defenseless. This doesn't mean that every woman loves hard play in bed. Sometimes, on the contrary, women like to dominate a man and feel superior to him.
How to determine a woman's propensity for rough play in bed
There are criteria according to which a woman can be “diagnosed” as having a love for rough sex.
- She loves it when a man makes decisions for her. At the same time, she tries to satisfy every whim of a man. She perceives hard sex as a kind of gratitude for her care for the man.
- She loves variety. This can manifest itself not only in sexual relationships, but also in many other areas of life. True, most likely, such a woman not only loves sex “with spice,” but also doesn’t mind sometimes switching roles with a man and picking up a whip.
- She tends to play the victim. Sometimes life situations develop in such a way that women get used to moral masochism. Of course, this carries over into sex life.
- She looks unavailable. She will enjoy the fact that a man is pursuing her, and will never give up “the first time.” When a man finally achieves her, enchanting sex will await him, which does not exclude manifestations of rudeness.
Victim or hunter?
If a woman understands male psychology, she will definitely play along with her partner. She will demonstrate to him that she also wants to have rough sex, she will try, moan expressively and beg him to be more gentle.
All this is in order to maintain the fire of passion in a man and turn him on even more. And after such sex, a man will surround her with love and care to show how dear she is to him.
At the same time, sex can remain rough - partners will prefer to immediately begin intercourse, skipping prolonged caresses and kisses. Let it be just a little sex, but stormy, passionate, furious, exciting and driving you crazy. Men who don’t like hard sex are quite rare (although there are some).
Types of rough sex
- Sudden and fast.
This is one of the classic versions of rough sex, when a man “came and took it.” In this case, a woman may not suspect anything at all, and a man can catch her doing any activity and lean her against the wall, or bend her over the table. For a greater extravaganza of feelings, you can sweep all the objects off the table with your hand, tie your partner’s hands, etc. One of the possible options for such sex could be to sharply force a woman to give a blowjob. You just need to be sure that she will like it and maintain hygiene.
- Physical impact.
It doesn't have to be hard spanking or BDSM. If you have not practiced such things before, start with biting, light blows on soft places. You can gently grab a woman by the throat or squeeze her chest. But don’t forget, the female body is a very delicate system, and you need to correctly calculate the force of impact.
- Using harsh words
If you remember the phrase that women love with their ears, then you can “warm up” your partner and excite her even more. Call her a few dirty words and she will moan with pleasure.
- Bindings
How exactly your partner will be tied up, fully or partially, depends on your imagination. You can gag her mouth, blindfold her, or tie her hands. In a defenseless state, a woman’s arousal will only intensify.
What is golden shower?i
Golden shower is the name given to sexual practices involving a partner's urine. Conventionally, this phenomenon can be attributed to fetishism, although in reality everything is much more complicated than it seems. You may be surprised, but this phenomenon occurs much more often than it seems. Urophiles get sexual pleasure when they urinate on their partner, or when their partner urinates on them. This is where the name “golden shower” comes from.
But, as we have already said, everything is much more complicated. Sexual practices involving urine do not always involve direct urination on a partner. There are people who enjoy watching their partner urinate and the process of urination itself, and sexologists classify these as voyeurs.
Others prefer to urinate themselves in front of their partner, or even in front of everyone, and this is already a form of exhibitionism. In BDSM practices, golden showers can become one of the forms of punishment for the submissive, or, conversely, his reward. Some people find it interesting and exciting to delay the process of urination for a long time, and then have sex with a full bladder for the thrill of sensation.
And even hooligans who urinate on the heads of passers-by from the balcony can be classified as urophiles if they experience sexual arousal from this process. As you can see, behind the seemingly simple non-traditional sexual practice there are a lot of phenomena, often unrelated and even contradicting each other.
And in addition to what was said...__8230
And at the end of this article, which many readers may have found repulsive but still read to the end, we have collected several myths and interesting facts about urine. Not even all raincoats know them, but first we will address those who are disgusted by this article.
You probably think people who pee in the shower are just as disgusting and unpleasant, right? But according to the website Correlated, which specializes in anonymous surveys, 61% of people pee in the shower. Now live with it!
As we wrote above, some people (Hello again, Malysheva!) believe that urine helps against various diseases, but there is a more widespread belief that with the help of urine you can relieve cramps. Did you pee on your leg and it went away? Unfortunately, this doesn't work either.
Urine is also not suitable as a disinfectant. Even though it contains urea, there is not enough of it to kill bacteria. And it doesn’t help with burns either; moreover, it can cause even more pain and suffering. Depending on what you or the friend peeing on your burned leg drank today.
Another myth is that urine is sterile. Millions of bacteria live in the human body, including in your bladder, and only a person with little knowledge of biology can claim the sterility of any waste product.
The myth that urine is sterile has its roots in the work of epidemiologist Edward Cass, who developed a urine test to screen for urinary tract infections before surgery. Cass considered test results negative if there were less than one hundred thousand bacteria per milliliter of urine. And journalists, as usual, interpreted it in their own way.
But this is not the worst thing. Indian "scientists" (yes, we use that word in quotation marks) from the website "The Natural Benefits of Urine Therapy" stated that urine is a natural alternative for blood transfusions. Truly, obscurantism knows no bounds!
Have you heard stories about people who got stuck in the mountains or some other wild place and had to drink their own urine to survive? However, even the US Army Field Survival Manual states that high sodium content in urine will only accelerate dehydration, and for this reason, in a critical situation, you can drink anything to survive, but not your own urine. However, we should not forget about the bacteria that we have already mentioned. So, to the question of whether it is possible to drink urine, the answer, in my opinion, is obvious.
The average adult bladder has a volume of 400 to 600 milliliters. In 24 hours, the human body produces 1500 ml of urine, which means that it takes about 9-10 hours to completely fill the bladder. How quickly your bladder fills obviously depends on how much fluid you drink. The less you drink, the slower it fills.
Benjamin Brooker, MD, a urologist at New York Medical Center, uses the concept of functional bladder capacity, which is a combination of actual bladder capacity and sensitivity.
He also advises not to retain urine in yourself and get rid of it at the first urge to urinate. Holding urine in the bladder for a long time can lead to serious consequences for the body, including septic shock. Don't try to test this on yourself.
What happens if you are in someone else's urine? According to microbiologist Philip M. Terno, it is safer than not washing your hands before eating. Nothing worse than an unpleasant smell awaits you, and if you do not consider this smell unpleasant, then even more so. You can even crawl into it entirely; the chance of catching something through urine getting on your skin is close to zero. So lovers of golden showers can rest assured about their safety.
Appearance Features
The first thing a man evaluates in a girl is sexuality. How attractive her gait, smile, smell, movements are. You can’t go against nature... Every woman is initially assessed from the position of a sexual object.
A girl of any size can become attractive and desirable to a man, but there is one sign that indicates women's health and sexuality.
This is long hair. A very powerful signal for a man: this woman is in good health, she is young and active. Men associate short haircuts with painful, brittle hair. And a woman has to hide these problems with a short haircut.
Seductive image
One of the powerful tools for attracting attention is bright accents, semi-tight silhouettes, and high-heeled shoes.
No one will be indifferent to a lady dressed tastefully, in accordance with the circumstances: in a cocktail dress at a celebration, in a skinny and an elongated jacket at an art exhibition.
It is important that clothes look neat, clean and ironed. If at the same time the things fit well and emphasize the beautiful lines of the female figure, then this additionally adds charm.
Complete your look with light, almost invisible makeup. Blend your foundation, powder, and shadows well. Men are put off by untidiness, especially on the face: make sure that there are no lumps of mascara in the corners of the eyes, and that the nasolabial folds are not clogged with foundation.
Another important aspect: the choice of perfume. It's great when a fragrant trail accompanies a lady.
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The smell of perfume will evoke an attractive image of you in a man's memory. Perfumers keep their statistics of fragrances that conquer men's hearts:
- light, fresh fruity aromas;
- “compote” sweetish tones;
- candy, caramel, candy, with notes of confectionery baked goods.
Women who smell of classic perfumes always enjoy the attention of men: Dior Jadore, NinaRicci, Calvin Klein Euphoria.
Nonverbal cues
Most often, unconsciously, a woman understands which angle is more advantageous for her and sends signals to the man through body language, facial expressions and gestures. Let's look at a few of girls' favorite flirting techniques:
- "Shooting with the eyes."
The gaze is directed downwards, then the eyes look at the partner, interested, but very quickly, and then the eyes drop back to the floor. This is repeated several times. - Reducing the distance
. The girl moves her body slightly forward, towards the interlocutor, making it clear that she is not against moving on to a closer relationship. - Touching the tip of the nose, earlobe, twirling a curl on a finger
. All these gestures indicate coquetry in a girl, the man quickly reads the message and decides to begin retaliatory actions. - Position of legs in space
. There is an interesting psychological aspect, no matter what the interlocutor says, his legs are always turned in the direction of the object of interest. Therefore, make sure that the toes of your feet are directed towards the interlocutor.
“Establishing visual contact” technique . If a man glances at you, then boldly and openly look into his eyes in response, just for a split second. After a few minutes, repeat this technique, adding a slight half-smile to your look. By doing this, you will show the man that you are interested in him and that you are ready to communicate.
If you still do not master these non-verbal techniques, then you urgently need to catch up. Start practicing on work colleagues, on friends at joint parties. And with strangers in bars, cafes and on the street, learn to establish visual contact.
Why do men like rough sex?
It is important for men to feel like they are in charge, and hard sex is one of the opportunities to demonstrate their superiority and strength to their partner.
Most men engage in this kind of sex because this is how they psychologically transfer their dominant experience to sexual relations. If a man cannot realize his superiority in one relationship, he will definitely realize it somewhere on the side.
In some cases, rough sex turns men on, since it does not contain excessive feelings and tenderness, which are inappropriate, for example, in an easy relationship.
