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If you believe the famous singer of the 90s, then to be happy a woman needs “as long as there is a sweetheart nearby.” But if everything were that simple, then all our married readers would be absolutely happy.

Often we see a different picture - more and more women in marriage feel depressed, tired and sometimes even angry. And if you feel that at some point in your life something has gone wrong, this is the first step towards change.

We agree with the phrase that every girl is born for pleasure, which she will happily broadcast to the world. A woman is definitely not born to drag out a miserable existence. Everyone has the right to be happy.

Despite the fact that everyone has their own concept of “happiness,” there are several common needs, feelings and things that every woman needs. Let's talk about how much a woman needs to be satisfied.

Time for yourself

For a happy and contented woman, “I” is the first letter in the alphabet. Ladies with rescuer or victim syndrome are at great risk of being disappointed at the end of life, because no one will say “thank you.”

It is very important for a woman to find time for herself and for those things that give her a feeling of happiness.

That is why psiho-logika.com believes that a woman should not work, it is better if she does what she loves.

You can engage in any hobby, the main thing is that after it your condition is better than before. It could be embroidery, reading, Spanish, watching a movie...

What does a girl need to be happy?

You and I have two main concerns to create a happy life: 1. love yourself 2. love your man (In that order!!!). All. Men don’t want anything more from us True

In more detail what it means to love yourself:

1. Be beautiful (spend time for yourself, dress yourself beautifully, take care of yourself, play sports, be feminine, in short, do everything for yourself so that a man wants to admire a woman, and a woman is pleased with herself)

2. Be independent (that is, do not sacrifice yourself for the sake of others, do not dissolve in a man, do not forget about your desires to please a man, do not give up your interests. Yes, yes! It’s men who talk about this and want it! Men want strive for a woman, but you can’t strive for something that sticks tightly to the body.

A man wants to feel that he can lose his treasure, then he values it. Men want to fulfill a woman’s desires, and for this a woman must have desires!)

3. Be in a good mood and have a positive attitude. Men are focused on fighting the outside world. And they want to return home to a bright, joyful beloved creature who will share a good mood and help restore depleted mental strength. So creating joy and good mood for yourself is very important! They should be enough for both yourself and the man when he comes for support and inspiration to heal his battle wounds. 4. Constantly develop and never doubt that you correspond to a man! 5. Make yourself happy.

In a word, our concern is to create a life for ourselves in which we receive GREAT pleasure from this life! Quote: “The inspired inspires. Makes happy things happy. The whole secret. Be happy and inspired."

What does it mean to love a man: 1. Believe in a man, never doubt him, know that he is the best. Now. Replace the phrase “You can do it, you will be the best!” to the phrase “You can, you are the best!” 2. Give tenderness, care and affection. 3. Allow him to protect the house, to need what he does. And be there so that there is someone to protect. 4. Give self-confidence. A man wants to be sure that he has such a strong rear, with which no war is scary! And that this rear does not gossip about him and does not belittle him with his girlfriends. 5. Support the man. To scrap your saw and especially to forbid yourself to take it back when a man starts something new or fails - at such moments he especially needs support.

Forget the phrase “I told you so...”. Forget forever. No matter how hard it may be. 6. Respect a man, his aspirations, desires, attempts, do not interfere with him. 7. Remember and remind a man of his achievements, appreciate them. Recognize them and sincerely rejoice in them. Show attention to him and his affairs. 8. Admire a man. Quote: “admiration in the eyes of a beloved woman is what inspires heroic deeds, what gives strength to conquer new heights, what you want to live for and what you don’t mind dying for, what leads to new victories for in order to throw them at the feet of your innermost.” 9. Accept a man as he is. Quote: “So that they don’t try to re-educate, it’s better to take a long time, but do it yourself)).” 10. Tell the truth, even the bitter one. But no judgment. Simply because there is no one closer who could tell this truth. 11. And of course a man wants good sex, because... “These are the strongest feelings.” Especially in such moments (although not only in them, but constantly) he wants the words “the man of my life” addressed to him, the feeling that he is the strongest and most desirable, that he means a lot to the woman next to him.

I was also very moved by the phrase “A woman should always be nearby, but a little behind (you need to have time to cover up, if anything happens).” Men want us to follow them not because they are tyrants and despots, but because they feel responsible for us. Isn't this wonderful?!

Men say that it is almost impossible for a woman to motivate a man to do something. Encourages a man - a challenge. From the outside world. A challenge from us is a knife in the back. They expect love and support from us. If a man needs to be strongly encouraged, then this is the wrong man.

From the words of men, the reason for the unhappiness of many couples is clearly clear! We're approaching the problem from the wrong end, girls!

We agree to a man who doesn’t quite suit us, and we begin to improve him, racking our brains over the question “how can we more skillfully begin to love, respect and admire him.”

And trying to change a man (as men say) means making him and yourself unhappy! The only way to happiness: to find a man, next to whom you can only think about “how can you not love, respect and admire him?! How to restrain yourself and not say every minute: “Darling, you are the best!” Then happiness will not be able to leave you no matter how much you want

This is the kind of information the men kindly provided about themselves. So draw conclusions from it in relation to yourself and your life.

Relationship

...as well as understanding, support, support and the feeling “like behind a stone wall.” If you want to be in a relationship with a man, then this is a completely normal desire. It’s another matter if you are not self-sufficient, that is, your happiness constantly depends on him.

Self-sufficient does not mean “strong woman” and does not mean “doing everything yourself.” This means that you have your own hobbies, friends, plans, interests, favorite job, sports, and so on.

Every normal woman wants both physical and spiritual intimacy. After all, these are basic needs. You may not want a family or children, but understanding, sex and a sense of security are very important.

A woman's happiness lies in her children

“A woman’s happiness lies in her children,” my grandmother, a teacher with 40 years of experience, a master of sports in fencing, the wife of an Olympic champion and my faithful friend, said somehow casually. Then she couldn’t even think how this casually thrown phrase of hers with such generally obvious content would turn out for me. It was as if I had been brought back to consciousness after a long general anesthesia, when you seem to be there, but at the same time it’s as if you are not there. For the first time in many years, I stopped and looked around. At first timidly, hesitantly, then more and more boldly, with the gaze of a woman, the gaze of a mother. I saw such a dear, beloved, but strange picture. I am 33. I have everything that women at this age usually dream of: a husband, daughter, family, friends, a great career, a beautiful new house, my own car, travel, books. And also a constant competition with time. Who will win? So we have been racing for many years now, sweeping away on the way the most important, very fragile and most precious thing I have - my relationship with my daughter. Somehow everything was not up to her... “Wait, daughter, not now, an important client is on the line”; “No, we won’t go to the park today, we need to clean the house and go to the car wash”; “I can’t take you to a classmate’s birthday party today: I need to finish an urgent order, the person has been waiting for two days already”; "Go to sleep. Tell me a story? Well, please ask dad, I’m still busy.” And dozens of similar absurd refusals, each time mercilessly scratching the soul of my little daughter. Today, my biggest regret is the hundreds of stories I haven't told her. Forgive me, daughter! Now I’m ready to talk about the adventures of your favorite animals until the morning! How could it even occur to me that there is someone or something more important than you?! “A woman’s happiness lies in her children,” a woman who has seen life, raised two of her own children and raised hundreds of strangers with dignity told me. How she turned out to be right this time too, my wise grandmother! How much happiness burst into my life at that very moment when I began to return to my child. Now, almost every week, my Sonya and I go to the lake to feed the black ducks. We go to the store together and spend a long time choosing products for Sunday lunch. When going to an important meeting, I often call her to help me decide on the most suitable shoes or earrings for my dress. We collapse on the sofa in her room, and I once again watch some stupid comedy that my daughter likes so much. We do a lot together. But the most important thing is that now every night I tell my beloved girl fairy tales that I make up myself. And now I am seriously concerned about how not to darken the memory of the beloved storyteller Antoine de Saint-Exupéry: my daughter asked me to write... a continuation of the story about the Little Prince. And this time I didn’t refuse her. The path to my child is the best thing that has happened to me over the years. This is the right road that I am ready to follow until the end of my days. Let clients, orders, cleaning services, car washes wait. There are many of them, I have only one daughter. And all this time she was knocking on my heart. Thank you, daughter, for your persistence, and to you, grandmother, for your insight. After all, without you I almost missed it - the happiness of a woman.

Ekaterina Alekseeva, instructor on harmonizing relationships with children

Diversity

Another feature of female nature that we often forget about is diversity. In order to be happy, a woman simply needs variety. Routine and everyday life brings boredom into a girl’s life.

This doesn't mean you have to take on a new job every day or travel every month. But it is important to be able to dispel boredom. Firstly, it is useful for you personally, and secondly, believe me, your man will thank you.

If you are not in a relationship, then this state is the first step to attracting a worthy man into your life.

Funny birthday greetings to a woman

The dates of anniversaries come, without asking us about what we may regret, what we are waiting with bated breath. May your anniversary be clear and full of happiness and flowers, like the most long-awaited holiday, like a song of joy without words. And many years to you, dear, And new meetings on your earthly journey, So that you never get tired, You continue to bring light.

What does a woman need to be completely happy? Pleasant surprises as often as possible, Girlfriends and friends, Mexican passions, May my mother-in-law live far away. Diamonds, perfume, And attention from a husband, And women's logic More understanding. Also, so that the figure is not spoiled by cakes, So that there are just Sexy shorts. There are so many things that can be listed, But we will hasten to celebrate Your day. After all, the main thing is to always remember, That we are not afraid of Neither size nor year - We are all perfect, We only live once! Smiles, success! Happy birthday!

Happy birthday and I wish you from the bottom of my heart: Happiness - to the point of exhaustion, And good luck - without reason.

So that tears come only from laughter, If laughter comes from the heart, If you rush, then to success, And destroy obstacles.

And so many smiles - without counting, And love - until sparks in the eyes, Until victory - at work, Personal front and dreams!

Accept gifts today: All flowers and recognition are for you. Birthday gives wishes, sometimes fulfilling that hour!

Believe in your fairy tales and dreams, And let everything come true from the bottom of your heart. We wish you excellent health, Be as good as yourself!

Let life please you with impressions, And let your family always be there. And be as sweet as you are, And let your eyes glow with happiness!

Bloom like a rose, be beautiful, Give warmth and make everyone happy! May success accompany you on a fine or stormy day!

Let troubles pass by, Let the flame of love glimmer, Good luck and victories in everything, Be carefree like a flower!

I didn't have time to wash my face, I didn't have time to shave! I didn’t really have time to get dressed! Finish a bunch of different things! I didn’t have time to buy a gift, arrive on time for the feast! Accept that as I am, I will drink, I will eat. I'm really really sorry - I... didn't buy a gift. I was in such a hurry, I was flying so much, that... I didn’t even have time to do that. Let me just hug you and kiss you from the bottom of my heart.

You are such a modest person, but at the same time you are smart. Why are you sitting so quietly, dear employee?

After all, today is your personal holiday, your birthday! Come on, smile brightly, We want fun!

Our entire friendly team loves to celebrate! Connect your positivity and let's play pranks!

I wish you to look like garbage, To be the best on the planet, So that for one of your tender glances They throw a million down the drain!

I wish you to admire your beauty without any creams, masks, gels... In short, just be who YOU really are!

Sparkling with diamonds in her ears, And with a crocodile clutch, a sweet darling, whose name is Luck, will come.

And he will say to you: “Darling, Take it all from me. I know about your birthday and congratulate you!

There is still so much ahead, You are young, very successful! Beloved, devoted to some, You don’t even want to notice others!

Your talent is like a diamond, everyone is especially drawn to you! You are ready to help many, Even though kindness has gone out of fashion!

We wish you to spend your birthday in wonderful pleasant chores, and to feel the joy of life, Emotions are always useful!

What could be better for a woman than becoming a mother, but even they themselves do not know some interesting facts about motherhood. Have you ever thought that in most languages the word “mother” sounds similar? We call her “mama, nenkoya, matinka”, Russian and Spanish children - “mama”, French “maman”, German kids “nami, muter”, among Koreans mother sounds like “omma”, among Bulgarians - “mama, mike” .

Why is that? Probably because the syllable “ma” is the simplest thing a baby can pronounce. And “mama” comes from the repetition of syllables. Another interesting fact is that motherhood makes a woman smarter. Scientists from the University of Miami have proven that after the birth of a child, women become more attentive and remember better.

In the study, childless people and women with children were shown a piece of paper with six symbols on it for 10 seconds. After this, the participants were asked to draw what they remembered. The tests were carried out three times, and in all cases, female mothers showed better results. This happens because during the postpartum period, a woman’s brain begins to develop rapidly: some areas of the cortex change in size and shape due to fluctuations in hormone levels. And since motherhood radically changes the world for a woman, she gains new opportunities to remember information and is more inclined to learn.

Women in labor also have heightened perception, which allows them to recognize their baby by smell and sounds. Therefore, it is probably not without reason that they say that motherhood is a special state, a special happiness.

It's happiness. Immediately after the birth of a child, miracles happen. The feelings are so overwhelming that they cannot be contained. Love, tenderness, sensuality and immense happiness spread in strong streams of waves of energy from the union of two hearts - a newborn and his mother.

Why this happens, the answer is still unknown. First of all, only one answer comes to mind: everything is planned from above and every woman in labor is given a lot of strength for childbirth and the postpartum state.

Unfortunately, we often hear from women that they have not experienced such feelings. But this is not surprising. Having given birth to one, even two children, does not always bring euphoria of happiness. But now the third and further child is truly indescribable happiness.

Nature provides this pleasure, this feeling of happiness, intentionally for the continuation of the human race. And true happiness is given precisely to that woman who must give birth to a harmonious child.