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Through force, reluctantly, she does everything a man asks her to do. Such a woman will agree to spend time with any admirer, just not to be alone. She will not wait for her one and only, which will also lead her sooner or later to loneliness. “I can’t find a man, that means I’m a “sub-woman,” the “slave of her master” thinks. So it turns out that all sorts of “hello gentlemen” are attracted to her.
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The above reasons indicate that a woman may suffer from low self-esteem, that is, not love herself at all. This characteristic is fraught with consequences in the form of loneliness. To eliminate this, you should look at yourself differently, find yourself as a woman, love yourself, and then happiness will certainly come and “sparkle with rays” in the life of a beautiful lady.
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Relationship failures
Many of us have been thinking and dreaming about wealth for years. But when it finally comes, we are often unprepared for sudden changes in the behavior of those close to us.
After all, it's not something we think about often, and when friends start to pull away (or become overly attentive) and family members suddenly become involved in your financial affairs or become more interested in your life, it might be for you. come as a shock.
“It's all happening amazingly fast, and it's difficult to cope with,” says Goldbart, whose clients often include Silicon Valley entrepreneurs who have made their fortunes developing new technologies.
Money changes people
At the same time, money changes people. According to financial therapy specialist Megan Ford, president of the Financial Therapy Association, sometimes newly rich people, without realizing it, begin to waste money or suddenly change their interests, which can be the beginning of a rift with both old friends and colleagues.
She adds that friends "may be reluctant to adapt to the changes brought about by your unexpected wealth" and will gradually distance themselves from you, further exacerbating feelings of loneliness.
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The most difficult thing to control is the reaction of friends and relatives.
Often, strangers begin to gravitate towards the newly rich. Friends and family members try to strengthen ties with a person they consider successful.
How would you feel if your loved ones suddenly changed their attitude towards you? Most of us would suspect something was wrong.
Where were those friends and distant relatives while you were working your butt off at your job or staying up late at night growing your business?
Sometimes it's hard to know who has genuine intentions
It's natural to distance yourself from random people and limit your social circle if you doubt whether the person is trying to get closer to you just because you're rich.
“Their world becomes very small, and they try to maintain friendships with those who are their financial equals,” he says.
This feeling doesn't always go away once you get used to your new position.
“It's getting harder to figure out who genuinely wants to be your friend, and if you get it wrong once or twice, it's easy to predict the consequences of being even more lonely,” Ford explains.
“Sometimes it’s hard to know who has genuine intentions and who is trying to profit off your success,” she adds.
