Everyone loves flowers! These lovely creatures are favored by both women and men. It cannot be said that only the “weaker sex” is in love with flower creatures; men are also not indifferent and love these ideals of beauty, only less fanatically...
There are not many “male” flowers, but there are some that are given to any man.
A small flower list in front of you:
- Chrysanthemums.
- Roses.
- Carnations.
- Delphiniums.
- Orchids.
- Bamboo.
- Calla lilies.
- Lilies.
- Anthuriums.
- Gladioli.
- Tulips.
- Irises.
- Gerberas.
- Plumeria.
- Heliconia.
- Daisies.
- Sunflowers.
Don't forget about the color scheme
The following colors are welcome in flowers:
- violet;
- burgundy;
- white;
- blue;
- green.
Cases when it is customary to give flowers to a man
- Movie premiere.
- Concert premiere.
- Book publication.
- Publication of the article.
- A serious discovery.
- Birthday.
- Presentation of any award.
- Sports record.
Do not give your man bouquets decorated with various bows, ribbons, patterns, or various accessories.
- You can make the bouquet lush. It is also allowed to give not very flashy ikebana.
- You can arrange a bouquet in a basket, framing it with golf balls.
- Or a bouquet in the shape of a sailboat.
One girl did something even more original: she decorated a bouquet of tulips with small soccer balls.
If it’s his anniversary, give him a bouquet of plain flowers.
Are you partial to wildflowers? Do you want to give them to your loved one?
It is customary to give wild (meadow) flowers only for home furnishings.
"Money Tree"
There is a tree that you have heard about many times - the “money tree” (Crassula). True, many men treat flowers that need to be looked after with some “negativism.” After all, this flower will help a man “birth” responsibility, and for them this is a whole test for which they are often not ready.
Deciding on the choice of gift
If you have known a man relatively recently and have not yet studied his tastes enough, it is best to choose a neutral birthday gift. This could be an original set of luxury chocolate, a set of towels, photo frames, etc.
You can give, say, a parachute jump (not suitable for everyone). Not everyone will understand such a gift, but if you are sure that the gift will be received with a bang, why not? Just be sure to contact a trusted office and agree on all the details in advance.
A hot air balloon flight or a membership to an elite gym are more practical gifts. If you want to make some especially unusual and pleasant surprise, ask his relatives and friends for help, ask about his desires and hobbies.
Remember that originality is good in moderation, otherwise you risk being “misunderstood.”
Let's move on to one of the most controversial gifts for a man - flowers.
What flowers can be given to which men?
By the way:
- It is better to give green or emerald calla lilies to your boss. It is better to give the composition and its composition to professional florists.
- Colleagues will be delighted with a bouquet of several types of flowers. Bouquet decorations: paper, ribbons (natural shades), linen (made from natural floral fibers).
- To a friend, if he has a sense of humor, you can safely give the last thing listed in the list of flowers - sunflowers. You can decorate them in a fun way. For example, with clubs, and other such perky nonsense.
If a bouquet, what kind?
To begin with, give up the belief that a bouquet for a man should be discreet and modest. On the contrary, let it be bright and original, pleasing to the eye and soul. At the same time, a men's bouquet should look discreet and stylish. Let it be contrasting and multi-tiered, with bright flowers and thick greenery. But the presence of many small details is inappropriate: bows, ribbons, butterflies, curls. It is better to use dried flowers, reeds, and reeds as a decorative addition.
The shape of the bouquet should have strict lines, be elongated, square or triangular. It is better if the bouquet consists of flowers of the same type and color (mono-bouquet). However, you can give a man a flower arrangement of several types of flowers.
A flower basket would also be a good gift. In addition to flowers, it would be appropriate to add a beautiful bottle of good cognac (whisky, wine) or fruit to such a basket.
A thematic composition of flowers will not leave a man indifferent. Especially if it is related to his hobbies or habits. This could be, for example, a bouquet in the shape of a soccer ball, car, sailboat or sports weight.
Men are not spoiled by bouquets at all. Although, according to sociologists, most of them would really like to receive flowers as a gift. So, try to correct this injustice by knowing what flowers to give to men. And you will see that it is not difficult to touch a man’s heart. Flowers can say a lot, they help express feelings and fill life with the aroma of love and sincerity.
Question and answer about flowers for men
Question: What kind of flowers (by size) are best to give to men in order to please them one hundred percent?
Answer: Ideally, very large flowers. The larger, the more noticeable, right? Here! It is for this reason that choose larger flowers.
Question: Is it possible to give a man red roses? If yes – on what day (for what reason)?
Answer: Roses in red shades are usually given either to very close relatives who are already of advanced age, or to their loved one.
Question: What flowers are customary to give on February 23rd?
Answer: You can get by with just one flower. What it will be like - decide for yourself. The choice will not affect the holiday.
Question: I quarreled with a young man. Are there flowers that can bring peace with their energy?
Answer: There are no such flowers, alas. If there were, there would be no quarreling couples. What is more important is your energy, and the energy of the desire to make peace.
Have you given flowers to your men?
If yes - which ones and for what reason?
Women's reviews
Miroslava: I didn’t give flowers to my man, but yes, to my boss. It was his anniversary, I decided to please him. I don’t even remember now what kind of flower I gave. It was probably even more of a plant than a flower.
Alina: I gave a scarlet rose to my boyfriend for our anniversary. I gave it to him, and I don’t regret it: he still keeps it. In a book called “The Holiday of Disobedience.” Many people saw and read this book in childhood.
Ulyana: I was kidding. I gave him roses every weekend. Not constantly, but just for a month. Just so that he knows about feelings. I didn’t forget to, more precisely.
Maria: I never gave flowers to anyone. And no one gave it to me either. I'm not very fond of them, rather. I warn men about this right away so that there are no offenses.
Irina: I often give it to my dad for a holiday. My husband doesn't like flowers. If I loved you, I would give it to you, sometimes.
Violetta: His ex gave him flowers. I'm talking about my MCH. That's why I don't give it. And I’m unlikely to give it as a gift. I don't want to cause memories or associations.
Tatyana: You gave me the idea! We need to check the reaction and give it as a gift. I'll see what my happiness says about the bouquet I gave. Let's laugh together, if anything. It's good that we won't cry.
Marina: I read the question and remembered that I promised my friend to give a plant that blooms from time to time. He chose this gift for himself. And I forgot. Got wrapped up.... So uncomfortable now! And so... I didn't give flowers to men. I didn’t even know it was possible to do this. Thanks to this article, I will now know.
Christina: Darila! For every friend's birthday! He’s already used to it, because I’m the only one who was original enough to give him flowers!
Spectacular originalities -
As a rule, flowers, whether indoor plants or bouquets of fresh roses (violets, orchids, etc.), are given specifically to the fairer sex. Men prefer gifts that are more practical, which will be useful around the house and will last a long time. But any experienced florist will explain to us what flowers are given to men for birthdays and other holidays. By the way, American researchers found through a social survey that out of ten men, six would not refuse a bouquet for their birthday. And the respondents were by no means representatives of show business, actors and champions who were accustomed to receiving roses and chrysanthemums from fans.
How to find out a man's opinion?
If you are afraid of making a mistake and don’t know how happy a man will be with such a gift, you can unobtrusively find out his opinion: give him a houseplant with blooming buds before his birthday. If you see bewilderment and a lack of positive emotions in the eyes of this person, then perhaps this man does not like flowers and it is better to congratulate him in some other way.
So, a bouquet can be made entirely not from flowers, but from beautiful cookies, on which an inscription with congratulations will be visible. In any case, you can be sure: not a single man will be angry when he receives a bouquet. At most, he will pass it on to his wife or mother. Thus, the gift will still, at least indirectly, please the birthday person. Therefore, do not hesitate and choose a bouquet. But remember the important rules of etiquette and the right choice of composition.
How to give bouquets to men
Classic rules of etiquette dictate giving bouquets to male heroes of the occasion. That is, for actors on the day of the premiere, for husbands on their birthdays, at an award ceremony or in honor of an important discovery, or the publication of a book. Flowers should be held in your left hand. If the hero of the occasion arrived with his wife, then the flowers should be given to her.
If you want to give gifts to your beloved man, then the best occasions will be Defender of the Fatherland Day, Valentine's Day, the anniversary of the first meeting or wedding. However, you can give a bouquet to your loved one without any reason. True, according to etiquette, you cannot give flowers to a man who is younger.
At work, you can present a bouquet to your manager on his anniversary or professional holiday as an addition to the main gift, a bottle of expensive alcohol, or a box of chocolates.
Features of etiquette
If you follow classic etiquette, then there are age restrictions. It is believed that a woman can give flowers only to her eldest man, and only to the one in whose honor the celebration is scheduled. Modern etiquette ignores these rules, so calmly present flowers, regardless of age or occasion, but you can’t do without some recommendations here:
Tropical flowers and plants are a good choice for men. To say that men don't like the color, scent and texture of a flower is like people don't know how to appreciate the good things in life. There are many flowers to suit all men who love to live well, and thinking of all the men you know who love gardening and giving a flower or plant means you won't have to worry about whether it's the right size or the right style, and it doesn't have to be individual!
Flowers: carnations, chrysanthemums, daffodils, tracheliums
Another plus is that anyone sharing their space, be it at home or in the office, can see the sun of their day just by watching the device. Send your husband, son, brother, uncle, grandfather or any other relative or friend a gift to congratulate him on his promotion, say "get well soon", celebrate your birthday or Father's Day.
- When offering flowers, hold the bouquet in your left hand. A well-mannered man will kiss the right one as a sign of gratitude.
- Prepare some nice compliment in advance.
- Take care of a second bouquet for your wife if you know that she will be nearby at the time of delivery.
What plants are best to give?
The first masculine flowers that come to mind for almost every woman are carnations, strict and laconic symbols of the revolution. Yes, on May Day or Defender of the Fatherland Day, carnations will come in handy. However, if you are seriously thinking about what kind of flowers men give for their birthday, then pay your attention to gladioli, irises, tulips, gerberas, lilies, orchids, delphiniums, and callas. Bamboo can complement bright flowers.
As for the color scheme, it is better to choose shades of burgundy, purple, green, and blue. Snow-white orchids, light delicate callas and neutral white lilies are suitable. A good choice is a monochromatic bouquet, without additional “delights” like ribbons or bows. You can also give a strict ikebana. Ideally, the flowers should be large in size and the bouquet should be lush. But you can give a single flower. Field plants, large daisies and small bells, are worth giving for home holidays. For a men's bouquet, a linear design, compositions in the form of sailboats, is more suitable. It is not advisable to combine several plants in one bouquet. You can present the composition in a basket.
What flowers are given to men for their 50th birthday? Dark red and burgundy roses are just right here. It is the royal flower that suits mature people of both sexes.
Few men like indoor plants, because they need to be looked after. Lovers of home flora will appreciate cacti, “money trees”, Kalanchoe, anthurium, and chlorophytum. By the way, anthurium is also popularly called “male happiness”; it is believed that it helps with disorders in the intimate sphere.
Succulent plants that do not require constant watering are an ideal gift choice for men. And if the birthday boy doesn’t have enough luck in life, then feel free to go to the flower shop for Dracaena Sanderiana. This Asian flower of happiness, related to bamboo, will attract spiritual and material benefits to life. The teachings of Feng Shui say that a dracaena with three stems attracts happiness, with five - money, with seven - health. A plant with 20 stems is called the “tower of love.”
Flowers are an integral part of a gift for a woman on any holiday. When going to visit, on a birthday, or on a date, it is customary to give roses, daisies and other plants. What flowers are given, men should know better than anyone. After all, this is a purely feminine gift. Well, what about men? In today's society, it is customary to give flowers only to male artists, politicians, and teachers.
Is it worth giving them to those who are not included in this narrow circle? Of course yes! According to etiquette, giving flowers to men is considered good manners. Especially if it’s an anniversary and February 23rd.
What flowers are given to men? And what should the bouquet look like? These questions are of interest to those who have decided to give a gift to a male representative in the form of a beautiful package or basket. Of course, it is better to ask the man himself first, but if this is a surprise, then you will have to rely on your taste.
There is simply no definite line in what flowers are given to men and what flowers are given to women. If your dad or husband likes roses, then why not give them to him.
But according to Japanese traditions, there are flowers that are more in harmony with men. For example, the iris, which has sharp sword-shaped leaves. Gladioli and hippeastrum are also ideal for men's bouquets; their shoots point upward, symbolizing climbing the career ladder.
When it comes to the color of the bouquet, there are many opinions and theories. Periodicals write that flowers of darker shades are suitable for men - blue, purple, green, burgundy. But thanks to numerous surveys, we found out that they still prefer bright shades - yellow, red, orange.
The shape of the bouquet also plays a significant role, and the shape depends on what kind of flowers. It is given to men who have a thick stem, which characterizes the strength of a man. Flowers should be arranged linearly, the bouquet should not be lush and contain many ribbons. must be strict.
What is the correct way to give flowers to a man?
According to the rules of etiquette, the bouquet is held in the left hand, thereby leaving the right hand free for a handshake or a second gift. A box of chocolates would also be perfect as a second gift.
You can give flowers to loved ones less formally. But in any case, it is necessary to say a few congratulatory words or express gratitude.
Well, what about the wedding? After all, this is an event for two people, and in the registry office it is customary to congratulate not only the woman, but also the man. Well, how else to congratulate you if not with flowers.
What flowers are given for a wedding?
The main quality of your flowers as a gift is freshness. Therefore, it is better to choose a basket of flowers. At the bottom there is a sponge that is soaked in water. Therefore, your flowers will retain their appearance for a long time. As for the color of the bouquet that you will present to the newlyweds, it is advisable to choose pastel colors - they can convey all the solemnity of what is happening. roses, calla lilies, and lilies are considered.
How to arrange a bouquet?
Nowadays it has become fashionable to decorate bouquets with fabric rather than cellophane, so a fabric ribbon will add sophistication to it. If you want your gift to be remembered by the bride and groom for a long time, then you can order it in the shape of a heart.
It is not customary to give gladioli, camellias, and daffodils; they are considered mourning flowers.
Also, before the wedding, find out from those getting married whether they are allergic to any plants. It will be awkward if the groom breaks out at the wedding or if he sneezes incessantly.
Flowers are a traditional gift for any occasion. But you need to correctly select and arrange the bouquet so that it brings only positive emotions to the person to whom you present it. And this is quite a difficult task, in which it is better to rely on experienced specialists. Florists arrange bouquets; they will help you choose a flower for any occasion.
Choosing a bouquet is sometimes no less difficult than choosing a gift. And if the flowers are intended for a man, then the number of questions only increases. What flowers should be used in the composition and how to arrange it correctly to make the bouquet truly masculine? How to combine style and harmony into one whole? The advice of florists and your heart will help you.
If you have a question about what flowers to give to a man, you can always contact an experienced florist. However, it is enough to know a few simple rules, and choosing a bouquet will no longer seem such a serious and difficult task. And if you carefully think through the details, add a bright personality to the composition and put your soul into it, then such a gift will surely melt any man’s heart.
Should I give flowers to a man?
What associations do each of us have with flowers? This is, first of all, beauty, admiration, special solemnity. So why do we sometimes deprive men of such magnificent recognition gifts and think that a bouquet is too feminine? Why do we doubt whether it is worth giving flowers to representatives of the stronger half of humanity? After all, it is with such a gesture that you can not only emphasize your respect for their courage, but also express love and show attention. And you don’t always have to wait for a suitable occasion or holiday for this. After all, you can create a mood and give positive emotions just like that. And, believe me, it is precisely such moments that are always stored in memory longer than all others.
Features of a men's bouquet
It is believed that several criteria make a bouquet masculine, these are:
- Variety of flowers in a bouquet,
- petal color,
- Composition form,
- Laconic design.
When choosing a composition, it is important to take into account not only the reason for presenting flowers, but also the age of the recipient, his tastes, habits and even his temperament. For younger men it is customary to choose flowers with lighter petals, for older men - with darker ones. Connoisseurs of originality in everything can be surprised by the pretentiousness and unusual shape, and adherents of tradition - by the stylishness of the flower arrangement.
Flowers in pots - can you give or not?
It is better to choose such a gift if you are sure that the recipient has nothing against plants in the house. Preference should be given to plants that do not require special care.
When choosing flowers in a pot, you need to follow the same rules as when choosing a bouquet for men:
- neutral and unobtrusive aroma;
- laconic and strict form (best linear);
- large leaves, flowers, stems.
It’s worth thinking in advance about where the pot will be located in the future. You can give a man flowers for:
- office - a monstera is suitable, which is capable of absorbing negative energy, which will allow you to be calm throughout the working day (it is not recommended to keep this plant in an apartment);
- bedrooms - it is better to choose dracaena (if the man is married), since it patronizes married couples, strengthening their relationship;
- kitchens - you can place any climbing plants in it;
- living room - lilies will look good here.
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Which bouquet to choose
For the composition, plants with a long stem are usually chosen - roses, callas, carnations, gladioli. Gerberas, irises and orchids will look great in a men's bouquet. Plumerias, anthuriums, and heliconias will add originality to it. Different colors are used for different occasions and situations, but it is better to choose darker and more saturated shades - burgundy, red, blue, purple. However, it is important to feel the edge and not overdo it with gloom. It is advisable to use flowers of the same color in one bouquet. The form of a composition is often the determining factor. Graceful severity and elegance, elongated clear lines, the absence of excessive pomp - all this makes the bouquet solemn and at the same time very stylish. The packaging should not only match the color scheme, but also add completeness to the entire composition.
And most importantly, you must give flowers sincerely, from the heart. A well-chosen bouquet will be the best addition to your emotions and look.
And is it customary to do this? However, everyone knows about carnations for veterans, flower baskets for artists or luxurious bouquets for Olympic champions in combination with medals. This means that the main question remains only about the appropriateness of the gift. Other men also have many reasons and merits in life that fully justify such an offering. And women have desires to please them. However, some etiquette rules in this regard still exist, and they are worth talking about in more detail.
For what reason?
If for women the best bouquet is an unexpected bouquet, then with men everything is much stricter. There must be at least some reason. The generally accepted events at which flowers are given to a man according to all the rules of etiquette are anniversaries, completion of major projects, successful performances (especially premieres) and other moments of life marked by major dates and special successes. In a more private setting, a representative of the stronger sex can receive a bouquet on Valentine's Day and family fidelity, the anniversary of marriage, and those directly involved in the defense of the country - on February 23.
And, of course, each couple has their own small and large dates and occasions, for which there are no rules.
What flowers do men get for their birthday?
Bouquets are usually presented to men for their anniversaries, and on a significant date, for example, 50 and 60 years - the half-century mark and retirement. It is usually not customary to congratulate young representatives of the stronger sex with flowers, even in connection with round dates. Exceptions are cases when the hero of the day rents an expensive restaurant and celebrates the event with special pomp: in this case, bouquets are appropriate. In this case, you should follow the rule: the younger the hero of the occasion, the brighter and more contrasting the bouquet.
It is not customary to give flowers on a 40th anniversary!
The flower list in this case looks something like this: carnations, gerberas, irises, chrysanthemums, roses, dark plain orchids, plumerias, heliconias, daisies, dahlias, bamboo. Sunflowers are quite appropriate in a masculine bouquet, but special attention should be paid to tall, arrow-shaped flowers - gladioli, delphiniums; calla lilies are often included in such compositions.
Brightness
The composition should be concise and strict. Flowers are selected in deep, richly bright colors without halftones: red, burgundy, orange, the entire blue-violet spectrum. It is better to give preference to darker colors, which are shaded by introducing elements of cold light tones - white, very light green (more like a greenish tint of white), and from warm shades - yellow. It is not customary to give pastel colors to men: this is a female option.
If, when mentioning dark shades and solid colors, you got the feeling that a man’s bouquet should be gloomy and dim, then this is absolutely not the case!
Determination
The shape of the bouquet deserves special attention. Lush compositions with a ball or an oval are not given to men. It should be a strict, geometrically vertical, linear design, excluding elements that make the bouquet fluffy. This form conveys the inner content of a man’s character: determination, clarity, desire for leadership, independence. Tall flowers that do not need support are the best option.
It is believed that a truly masculine bouquet should be composed of flowers of one type, but professional florists create impeccable compositions from several varieties of flowering and decorative foliage plants. But even in this case, different shades of buds of the same type are usually not used.
Package
Here the requirements for rigor and conciseness of forms become even more stringent. No decorations, bows, sparkles, butterflies, ladybugs or lace patterns! The best option is to tie the stems with a ribbon tied in a nice neat knot. You can give flowers in a basket to a hero of the day, an athlete, an artist, a business partner or a person celebrating great success in life. But you can trust the preparation of such a composition only to a competent professional florist. One small misplaced detail can ruin everything! This is one of those situations where “under” is better than “over”.
A bottle of expensive whiskey or other elite men's alcohol would look quite appropriate and manly in such a basket - but not wine! However, there are exceptions here: wine “from the same year” with the hero of the day is an excellent gift! You can decorate the composition with details that highlight the man’s occasion or hobby. For example, decorate with golf balls if the hero of the occasion has such a hobby. You can also put a gift in the basket if they are comparable in size.
Presentation
Presenting a bouquet is also important. There are small but immutable rules in this regard.
- If the spouse is standing next to the person to whom the congratulation is addressed, after the obligatory congratulatory speech addressed to the man, flowers should be given to her.
- When presented, a bouquet or flower arrangement in a basket is held in the left hand, especially if the giver is also a man or a woman who is a business partner. In both cases, the right hand is left free for a handshake.
- If the person to whom the flowers are given sees that the woman’s right hand is free, but she herself is not included in the circle of business communication that allows handshakes with ladies, he should kiss this hand as a sign of gratitude. However, you should not touch the back of your hand with your lips.
- If flowers are delivered by courier, a greeting card or business card must be included in the bouquet.
Which flowers should you choose?
Let's figure out what flowers can be given to a man, and which ones are better not to give? When choosing flowers, consider the personality of the bouquet recipient. Do not ignore his age, temperament, profession and hobbies. Such a bouquet will emphasize the individuality of a man and will certainly be received by him with special gratitude.
What do florists say about flowers for men? The male flower is a bright and catchy flower. Therefore, avoid flowers of delicate colors (with the exception of white). Blue, burgundy, purple, red, orange flowers are suitable for men. When choosing flowers of a certain color, also focus on the individual characteristics of the man. Bouquets of red or burgundy flowers are suitable for expressive and energetic representatives of the stronger sex. For the reserved and sensible - calmer colors: blue, dark pink, dark orange.
The male flower should be a symbol of strength, confidence, resilience and power. Male flowers are considered to be callas, gladioli, roses, tulips, carnations, dahlias, chrysanthemums, gerberas, orchids, anthuriums, and lilies. However, there are some peculiarities here too.
Young men are not given conservative flowers such as roses and carnations. These flowers are more suitable for respectable and mature men. They will also be able to appreciate bouquets of gladioli, chrysanthemums and dahlias. For young people, it is worth choosing tulips, irises, and gerberas.
For a gift to your boss, colleague or business partner, it is advisable to choose exotic flowers: anthuriums, strelitzias, leucodendrons, banksias. You can also focus on the color of the bouquet. The symbol of activity is red and crimson. Gold symbolizes prosperity, and yellow symbolizes cheerfulness.
You should not give men small flowers on short stems - lilies of the valley, violets, hyacinths. Such a gift will make a man feel like a muslin young lady, which is unlikely to cause him much delight.
If you are going to give one flower as a gift, opt for a flower with a long stem. A large chrysanthemum or rose, gladiolus or kala will look good in a single composition. If you want to give a bouquet, then remember that the shape of a flower bouquet for a man is also chosen according to certain rules.
