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STDs during anal sex

Sexually transmitted infections are widespread nowadays. The number of unprotected sexual contacts and the popularity of open relationships are growing. Unfortunately, modern people forget about barrier contraception, despite health education work and advertising of contraceptives. As a result, sexually transmitted infections, including especially dangerous ones, spread.

In addition to the traditional genital route of infection, many infections are transmitted through oral-genital and genital-anal sexual contact. In this material we will tell you what diseases are transmitted through unprotected anal sex.

It should be said that many people mistakenly believe that anal sex is safe. This is not true: the rectum is rich in blood vessels, which makes contracting sexually transmitted infections easier than with other types of sexual intercourse. In addition, due to the fact that the rectum is not intended for sexual intercourse, it is susceptible to injury; its mucous membrane is very thin and is easily damaged during sexual intercourse. This creates additional conditions for the rapid penetration of the infectious agent into the blood.

Also, the danger of STDs transmitted through genital-anal sexual contact is that the symptoms of the disease go unnoticed for a long time.

Infections transmitted during anal sex are:

• syphilis,
• gonorrhea,
• trichomoniasis,
• chlamydia,
• mycoplasmosis,
• cytomegalovirus,
• HIV,
• hepatitis B, C, D.

What are the manifestations of STDs that develop on the rectal mucosa?

1. Malaise and a rise in body temperature in the acute period during primary infection are possible.
2. There are unpleasant sensations in the anus, itching, and pain in the rectum.
3. Scarlet blood can be detected both after bowel movements and outside of it. More often, this symptom is mistaken for an anal fissure or the initial stage of hemorrhoids.
4. Mucus is secreted from the rectum, there may be a mucous discharge with a greenish tint; with gonorrhea, the discharge is yellowish.
5. Enlargement of superficial lymph nodes is possible, this is especially typical for cytomegalovirus infection and syphilis.

Dangerous diseases such as HIV infection and hepatitis remain asymptomatic for a long time. Often they are detected only during a preventive examination.

Most sexually transmitted infections become chronic or atypical, as they remain undiagnosed.

To diagnose STDs that have an anogenital transmission mechanism, the same laboratory diagnostic methods are used as usual, but a scraping of material for research is taken from the mucous membrane of the rectum. These are PCR, smear microscopy, bacteriological culture on nutrient media. Serological tests are used: blood tests for antibodies to infectious agents.

In order to prevent STDs, it is recommended to use barrier contraceptives in combination with lubricants to minimize injuries and reduce the risk of infection transmission.

Why do you like it?i

Anal sex attracts men for several reasons:

• It can add variety to your sex life.
• On a subconscious level, this is an attempt to subjugate a woman.
• Experience new sensations, since the anus is narrower, grips the penis more tightly, stimulating it more strongly.
• Men are very curious by nature. They love to conquer unexplored places even on the female body.

Why women like it:

• Around the anus there are many nerve endings, when stimulated, a woman experiences pleasure.
• The colon during anal sex allows you to stimulate the G-spot.
• If a girl's uterus is pushed back a little, the penis will stimulate the uterus, and it is possible to get a uterine orgasm.
• This is an opportunity to get slightly painful and at the same time very pleasant sensations.

Anal sex and sexually transmitted infections

Anal sex is now in fashion: it is written about in glossy magazines, discussed on Internet forums and, naturally, practiced in the bedrooms, both by women in heterosexual relationships and by men in homosexual couples. In the end, this is an additional thrill, and for women it is also a guarantee against unwanted pregnancy.

Therefore, when having anal sex, remember:

• Be sure to use a condom and lubricant.
• Avoid anal sex if it causes you severe pain, let alone bleeding.
• Like any penetrative sex, this method of intimate relationships poses a certain danger for both partners. It's all about infections.

Like vaginal sex, anal sex should be protected. Strong condoms and water-based lubricants should be used.

If you have had a new sexual relationship and found out that your sexual partner had an STD, felt characteristic symptoms (discharge from the genitals, discomfort when urinating, itching in the genital area) or simply doubt that you do not have an STD, you must undergo a special medical examination. Never attempt to self-medicate or take advice from a non-specialist. This can lead to chronicity of the inflammatory process and the development of complications.

Modern methods for diagnosing STDs: polymerase chain reaction (PCR), immunofluorescence method (IMF), enzyme-linked immunosorbent assay (ELISA), isolation of pathogens in cell cultures, etc. are extremely reliable (70 - 95%).

Chlamydia, mycoplasma and ureaplasma, as well as trichomonas and the inflammatory diseases caused by them are always subject to mandatory treatment in both partners, even if these infections are detected in only one of them. The need for treatment of these infections in pregnant women is determined individually in each specific case. According to international standards for the treatment of STDs adopted by the World Health Organization, gardnerella and gardnerella infection in men are treated only if it manifests itself in the form of obvious inflammation of the glans penis and foreskin (balanoposthitis). In all other cases, treatment of gardnerellosis in men is not indicated, because Numerous studies have proven that treatment of a male sexual partner has no effect on the frequency of relapses of bacterial vaginosis (the main cause of this infection is gardnerella) in women. And the fact of transmission of gardnerella from a man to a woman, if gardnerellosis in a man does not manifest as balanoposthitis, has also not been proven.

The most common complication of chlamydia in men is epididymitis (inflammation of the epididymis). In women, these are some diseases of the cervix, salpingitis (inflammation of the appendages) and tubal infertility. Chlamydia can cause serious pathology in the fetus and newborn, and can cause pelvioperitonitis and perihepatitis in women. Chlamydia also leads to Reiter's disease, severe damage to the joints and eyes. STDs can lead to the development of narrowings (strictures) of the urethra and problems with urination, and cause male infertility.

Monitoring the cure of chlamydia and other hidden STIs is carried out no earlier than 3 weeks after finishing taking the antibiotic. The patient should be aware that some symptoms of the disease may remain for several weeks and even months after successful treatment.

You can resume sexual activity without a condom with a regular sexual partner (partner) only after a follow-up examination that shows the absence of infections and inflammation.

A laboratory examination for genital infections should be carried out when any rashes appear or the first signs of discomfort in the genitals. And it is better to be examined immediately for all infections diagnosed today, since given the current epidemiological situation, the probability that it will be one infection does not exceed 25-30%.

Do not take any medications before the test. Even one antibiotic tablet can completely change the clinical manifestations of the infection, reduce the likelihood of identifying the pathogen and, therefore, complicate the diagnosis and prescription of adequate treatment.

Such patients need to undergo a provocation on the eve of the test, which contributes to the exacerbation of the chronic process, the release of the pathogen from old foci of infection and increases the likelihood of a correct diagnosis.

There are provocations:

• food: drinking alcohol (beer, vodka) with spicy food - usually used in men;
• biological: menstruation is a provocation for many infections that are prone to chronicity. It is recommended to collect the material 4-5 days after the onset of bleeding;
• medicinal: patients are administered gonovaccine or a small dose of pyrogenal (a drug that increases body temperature) on the eve of sampling.

If complaints arise and an infection is detected in one sexual partner, it is necessary to involve all persons who have had sexual contact with him for examination and treatment. To properly conduct a laboratory examination, it is necessary to maintain a number of conditions (timing of material collection, rules of storage, transportation, etc.). Only in this case can one count on the adequacy of the laboratory diagnosis.

Vaginal, clitoral and anal orgasm. Which is actually better?

The very first question I asked the teacher when I came to take the sexology course:

— What kind of orgasms are there??

To understand how much more I need to put in my piggy bank so that I know my life was not lived in vain.

I tried to find information on the Internet before, but you can find so much sexual nonsense in it that you can drive yourself below the plinth, thinking how imperfect you are.

Just look at the “knee orgasm”. Can you imagine a girl standing in a subway car during rush hour? And everyone passing by tries to touch the most sensitive area with their bag. She probably doesn’t have the strength to get out of the car from such powerful and repeated experiences.

But seriously, the most common types discussed are: clitoral, vaginal, anal. Let's figure it out, is it really so, or is it just a marketing ploy to create more trainings?

What's behind the G zone?

When the vaginal wall is stimulated, the organs located behind it are filled with blood and secretions: the bladder, paraurethral glands, urethra, cavernous (clitoral legs) and cavernous.

So, we know, I wrote about this, that the female organ of pleasure is the clitoris. It is large, branched, goes deep inside, and only a small pea-shaped part is visible on the surface. The legs of the clitoris come close to all possible places of pleasure, namely the vagina and anus.

A very interesting study was demonstrated by sexologist Giannini, conducted jointly with gynecologist Odile Busson at an ultrasound center in the French city of Saint-Germain-en-Laye.

Scientists divided women into 2 groups who had to:

Stimulate the anterior vaginal wall using a lubricated tampon.

Stimulate the outer parts of the clitoris with your fingers.

Researchers used ultrasound to observe what was happening under the skin.

During vaginal penetration, the internal parts of the clitoris and tissue around the urethra began to move and swell, and during masturbation with fingers, the effect was carried out only on its outer part.

It is impossible to exclude any organ from the process. Vibration is transmitted everywhere. We conclude:

All orgasms that a woman can experience begin from “where the legs grow” of the clitoris. If you approach the organ of pleasure from the front - clitoral, from behind - anal, inside the vagina - vaginal.

That is, these names are just a designation of which side the friction comes from.

The larger the area involved, the more sensitive it is, the deeper and stronger the orgasm.

What would you prefer? The icing on the cake or a couple of good pieces? The difference is obvious.

If a woman achieves orgasm during masturbation, this means that she can receive release in another way, for example, during friction. What all women and men want. Another question is that female erogenous zones are not fully developed; they are often “dormant”.

The most interesting thing to think about is: why did nature arrange it so that, without receiving orgasmic release, many women do not complain about it at all? They don't feel uncomfortable about it. They can live like this for years, successfully imitating and depriving themselves of such enormous potential. They only sometimes remember when they hear stories from friends or watch love films. Ask parents, especially grandmothers, and you will find out that most have not thought about this issue at all.

Are these not tricks and tricks of our brain in the struggle for leadership? After all, an orgasm is a change in consciousness; in the process, things inexplicable by the mind happen; what secret does it hide from us?

Prevention of STDs

It is generally accepted that the best preventive measure for preventing sexually transmitted infections is a condom. It should be put on and taken off correctly and used for all types of sex, including oral sex, as it is no less dangerous in terms of infection than anal or vaginal sex. For example, syphilis in the mouth can be extremely contagious. Through the mouth you can get gonococci, chlamydia, herpes and many other infections.

You should also pay attention to the fact that self-medication often leads to impotence, infertility, damage to joints, bones, nervous system and many other negative results.

In order to protect your body as much as possible, you must undergo examination at least twice a year in a qualified clinic!

Immediate assistance from a certified specialist will help avoid the negative consequences of the disease.

The health of your body is in your hands!

Remember:

• most sexually transmitted infections may not have obvious external manifestations;
• when changing sexual partners, it is necessary to use barrier contraceptives (condoms);
• after questionable unprotected sexual intercourse or if a condom breaks, it is better to carry out drug prevention of STDs (there are highly effective regimens);
• after each new sexual intercourse without a condom, it is necessary to conduct a full examination to exclude all sexually transmitted infections;
• if any symptoms of damage to the urogenital tract or skin of the genital organs appear, you should immediately consult a doctor and under no circumstances self-medicate, as this will only complicate a correct and timely diagnosis;
• if during sexual intercourse, immediately or shortly after, discomfort occurs (for example, redness or swelling of the glans penis, cracks in the foreskin, pain or cutting in the urethra, pain in the scrotum, discharge of various types from the genital tract, soreness, itching, redness, burning of the vaginal mucosa, pain in the lower abdomen during sexual intercourse, dryness and cracks at the entrance to the vagina), this may be due to the presence of any disease. Therefore, it is better to immediately consult a doctor for examination.

With STDs, self-healing does not occur, and the disappearance of some symptoms is explained by the transition of the disease to a latent form! Therefore, the sooner the diagnosis is made and treatment is started, the greater the chance of recovery and not getting complications, such as infertility in both men and women, acute conditions requiring surgical intervention, the possibility of intrauterine infection of the fetus in the womb, pregnancy disorders and childbirth, the birth of a non-viable or sick child, or even the death of an infected person (for example, from AIDS or hepatitis).

Story No. 393108

How not to shit yourself during sex! This story happened to a friend of mine with my direct participation. We were born in the same village, grew up, studied together and moved to Moscow together, although he managed to start a family by the time he was 30, and I remained a bachelor. In general, we meet him somehow in a pub and he tells his story. They have a girl in their company - pretty, long-legged, smiling and talkative. My friend, without thinking twice, rolled his balls towards her on the subject of mutual passion, but alas... the girl is married, has a child and, in principle, does not particularly strive to cheat on her husband. in general, things don’t go well beyond talking... Well, as my best friend, I advise him - arrange a date for the four of her: She and her child and you and her child... and take her somewhere like a water park... there and snuggle and hug without a twinge of conscience maybe... Well, he shook his head... and that’s where we parted... Actually, some time passes... maybe three or four months we meet again... and he tells me the following story: The idea about the water park turned out to be extremely successful: I persuaded her to go there with four of us, so what did she and I easily agreed. In general, after riding a little on small slides with the children, my friend decided to take action. And he dragged her onto the big steamy slides. It should be noted that my friend made an extremely big mistake... before visiting the water park, he ate heavily. In general, he took her up the hill... they sat down and drove off... She squeals and clings to him... he wastes no time feeling her tits, belly, legs, getting closer to the coveted pussy... but then she presses forcefully on his stomach, plus the speed on the slide increases greatly…. in general, my friend's panties were filled with shit... not so much... but quite significant... in short, the day was a great success... after visiting the water park, the girl very quickly made contact, but... After some time, he managed to stay alone with her in a fairly intimate situation... generally shura-mura... he undressed her... and had banal sex with her. Having tried a lot of positions, he put her in what is called doggy style... He grabbed her ass harder, closed his eyes, blew it and... shit himself... literally feeling the shit flowing down his leg... Well, there was nowhere to go... he quickly finished his job and, under some pretext, disappeared into bath After some time, having already forgotten about this incident, he again met with his theft... and again he shit himself... In general, from my friend’s story it followed that every time he met this girl, he was struck by incontinence :-) Moreover, over time, his body began to react to her in any position. At the same time, there was complete order with the other girls... and only to this one his sphincter reacted strangely. Moral: don't go to water parks - you'll waste all the sex