All women want to feel loved and receive enough attention from their beloved man. What is attention?
For men, everything is quite simple - they just need to regularly see delicious food and ironed shirts. But a woman’s heart needs a more subtle approach, the main part of which is gifts.
These can be various pleasant little things, like flowers and sweets, or expensive gifts like jewelry, fashionable gadgets, and even cars. However, some do not even receive those “nice little things” from their chosen ones, not to mention cars.
Due to a lack of understanding of the situation, mutual irritation arises, which has a detrimental effect on the relationship - women try to “cheat” greedy men for gifts, and they, in turn, consider them mercantile bitches.
Meanwhile, you just need to understand the reasons for such mutual misunderstanding and remember a few simple rules!
A good girl's long journey
This option for achieving what you want cannot be called a “divorce,” but some women still use it. This technique consists in the fact that a representative of the fair sex finds a good guy, marries him and then together they achieve all earthly blessings.
However, as noted above, this situation is very rare in the modern world. Dear men, if you come across such a woman, appreciate her, because there are other types of representatives of the fair sex who want everything at once, which is why they simply begin to exploit their “male”, demanding earthly and unearthly benefits from him. Let's talk about them further.
Why men are in no hurry to give gifts
The main reason that a man is in no hurry to fork out for an expensive gift is confidence in the materialistic desires of his woman. And he thinks something like this: they say, today I’ll give you a ring, tomorrow boots, and then she’ll get used to it and will demand from me a car, an apartment, a voucher almost every day! And he can think this way even if during your time together (or just meetings) you have never even hinted at something more material than flowers and a Christmas card. Men are deathly afraid that they will be bullied, that they will end up being a laughing stock among their friends and relatives (they probably have examples of similar situations among their friends).
Sometimes a man’s mother is to blame for her reluctance to give something valuable to her other half. As soon as her beloved child began dating representatives of the opposite sex, she instilled in him day and night the “golden” thought: don’t follow her lead, don’t let yourself be twisted into ropes! So he doesn’t allow it: he treats every request to buy something with suspicion, and a real expensive present for the woman he loves is completely taboo (he’s not some kind of henpecked guy, thank God, mom explained everything!). It’s not at all easy to promote such a man, because his mother’s opinion is much more important to him than your arguments.
But it often happens that men do not give gifts for more prosaic reasons. Sometimes they simply don’t realize that we need something other than hugs and declarations of eternal love. Many people are so sure that life with them is the height of happiness for any woman, and all sorts of presents are completely useless. In any case, it is much easier to come to an agreement with such men and make it clear that that evening dress is so necessary for the next holiday!
And besides, the male mentality is quite different from the female one. The fact that he didn't give you anything again may not be a sign that he doesn't love or appreciate you. It's just that guys are often not able to delve into various subtleties and nuances, noticing what you love and what you need. They didn’t say directly, like, honey, I urgently need a fur coat - they were left without a gift. And, as a rule, they don’t really like to go shopping. Unlike us women, they go there with the clear goal of acquiring a specific item. So they go there three or four times a year. And where else can you come up with a wonderful idea to give your wife a gift, if not in a store?
That is why we, women, have to take the initiative into our own hands in order to accustom a man to give worthwhile gifts. Call it what you want: promote, persuade, demand, seduce. The main thing is that he himself does not notice how he fulfilled your wish and gave you what you have dreamed of for so long!
Girl looking for daddy
Beautiful and young girls often prefer the easiest path to achieving what they want - they find themselves a daddy. As a rule, this is a quite wealthy man who can afford to support a spectacular, albeit very demanding girl. Most likely, he is even married and has no intention of divorcing his wife, but who cares? This young lady does not pretend to be a wife - she is only interested in the material component of the relationship.
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The only thing that I don’t understand in this situation is where are the men looking, who perfectly understand where everything is going? Or maybe they are not particularly bothered by the furs, gold and other valuables they bought? After all, if a man is wealthy, then what difference does it make: he spent more or less if next to him is a young, fresh and, most importantly, affordable creature?
Fraudsters-XXI: innovations and the Internet
Author Nadezhda Alekseeva
Updated: 10/23/2019 12:12 Published: 10/25/2013 10:30
Society » Practice
Fraud is as old as the hills, but it keeps up with the times and innovations: what kind of clever schemes do criminals come up with to defraud gullible people of money! Old, well-known schemes are being replaced by new ones, and attackers are constantly improving their methods. We have reviewed the most common fraudulent schemes and actions.
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No matter how often the media writes about different types of fraud, the flow of victims from deceivers does not dry out. Fraudsters are coming up with new schemes that gullible citizens fall into.
Pravda.Ru considers it its duty to once again warn readers about the danger. We will tell you about some of the ways that criminals use to scam people.
Real estate fraud
A favorite area of activity for scammers is fraud related to the rental or sale of housing.
For example, you want to rent an apartment. Go to the relevant thematic resources and see a very tempting offer: they offer to rent an apartment in the very center of the city with European-quality renovation for mere pennies. This is motivated by the fact that the owners are going abroad for a long time and want to let someone into their apartment to “look after” them. Actually, this looks strange from the very beginning - well, who needs a complete stranger in their apartment, what kind of supervision are we even talking about? However, many people fall for this proposal. Further, the situation develops as follows: having called the specified phone number, a person is faced with a “realtor” who offers to conclude a preliminary agreement for the provision of real estate services. Of course, you should pay for them immediately on the spot. And then they will show you the apartment. After paying, you must go to the meeting point indicated by the realtor - another agent should meet you there, who will take you to the apartment. But you shouldn’t wait for him - no one will come, and you won’t see any apartment.
"Divorce" in clubs
This type of girl is familiar to many guys who like to hang out in clubs. The essence of the “divorce” is that a lonely girl sits and is bored, because she has absolutely no money for fun. Of course, such a nymph will certainly be noticed by some guy, who will immediately think: “Here she is, the one!” At such moments, the young man wants to spend the night with her (and maybe more than one) and, it would seem, is ready to do anything, even become a sponsor of her today's fun evening with cocktails, the most expensive snacks and entertainment.
How to cheat a girl out of money
Men who dream of being the ward of a rich lady have it a little more difficult: there is an established canon that a man must show his qualities and pay himself. Blessed emancipation violates this canon. Nowadays there are a lot of independent rich ladies who are not averse to demonstrating their independence and patronage to the male sex. Therefore, the fishing rod needs to be cast into this lake with rich ladies.
It is practically useless to cheat a young, rich and smart girl out of money - such a girl will instantly see through the gigolo and send him to seek his fortune in other lands. Another thing is that women are spectacular, wealthy, but, as they say, “not the first freshness.” This one will gladly take you under her wing and become your guardian. The rules for divorce of such ladies are the same as for girls.
Have fun hunting, just be careful not to fall for someone else’s bait.
"Multi-move"
This type of “divorce” is considered the longest and most difficult. It consists in the fact that a guy meets a pretty person he likes, as a result of which a romantic relationship develops between them. The guy even introduces her to her mother, who also likes her. Then a wedding follows, but then everything changes - a real fiend of hell awakens in her!
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As a result of such family life, the guy begins to understand that he does not want to come home, he is even sometimes afraid of her and tries not to say anything unnecessary, so as not to anger his beloved. As a result of all this, the young man regularly thinks about divorce, and his newly-made wife lives for her own pleasure.
Dear men, you have one life - don’t turn it upside down and know how to leave those who are poisoning it for you in time. By the way, this also applies to women, because in reality the situation can turn out completely differently when, after the wedding, it is the man who becomes the “demon” in the family.
How to accept gifts correctly
Yes, yes, this is also an important aspect. Many women, receiving a long-awaited gift, show absolutely no reaction, which forever discourages them from giving anything.
Others, on the contrary, begin to be modest and are horrified by the high cost of the gift, which convinces their partner once and for all that all they need to be happy is tights from a subway crossing.
The reaction to a pleasant surprise should be adequate - joy on the face and reserved gratitude. Learn to react correctly to gifts and then you will never have to think about how to cheat your lover with a gift!
Be able to say a firm “no”
As practice shows, it is extremely rare to identify and bring such fraudsters to justice.
They are encrypted, use different IP addresses and insure themselves in every possible way. At the same time, they have millions of ways to defraud you of money. Anyone can find themselves in such a situation. Even the prosecutor. Oleg Khlyshchenko recalls how he received a call on his mobile phone after he posted an advertisement for the sale of a car. Scammers often use the information we post about ourselves on the Internet for their own purposes. In this case, the caller was not a potential buyer. He was interested in the money that the seller could get from selling the car. “I was offered to play on the electronic exchange. But when I immediately answered that I was not interested, psychological treatment began. They promised a 100% win, but because of their intractability they accused me of poor upbringing. But I believe that you need to stop all conversations with such people.” Fraud gains momentum when the victim begins communicating with the criminal. By entering into virtual contact, a person falls under the influence of a well-thought-out line of behavior, the purpose of which is one - to gain access to your resources. However, the methods can be completely different. Someone puts pressure on pity, appealing for help to supposedly sick children, someone promises millions in winnings, someone guarantees success in love relationships and careers, and someone offers to mine diamonds in Africa for your money, which in reality is not intending to do none of this. The world of cyber threats never stops evolving—while you are reading these lines, attackers are planning new attacks and developing a new generation of malware. The only way to protect yourself is not to enter into confidential contact with strangers.
